Let’s face it there are certain urges and fantasies that have sneaked into your mind from time to time. Gay online dating offers the best way to explore these urges and fantasies. Why? Well, in gay online dating, anything goes. It does not really matter what your fantasy or fetish is. There is something for everyone. Imagine a stranger approaching you in a bar or somewhere else and asking, “Hey, I’m into restraints, want to play?” Kind of a weirdo, don’t you think? This is another big advantage of adult gay online dating over the other dating methods. The choice of alternative lifestyle. Alternative lifestyle can be described as a way of life, or certain aspects of it, in a way that does not fit cultural norms and values.
It is said, that it is more common that gay men are able to freely talk more openly about their sexual kinks when online dating because they have already taken the leap to discover their sexuality with themselves. If they have accepted who they are, they are more likely to let people know who they are which will in turn get them what they need sexually as they are able to let people know what they actually truly want in there sex lives.
Alternative lifestyle may include:
This encompasses bondage, domination, and sadomasochism.
When you think about gay fetishes, a lot of people enjoy oral sex and a lot of gay men enjoy cumming all over a mans beard. When you think about it, this is pretty common as a lot of people enjoy cumming on people’s faces since the beginning of pornography. All things considered, cumming on fellow’s whiskers is quite manageable contrasted with a few fixations with the wide ranges of fetishes available. From peeing in a man’s anus to coming in a man’s ear there is no fetish left to comprehend. Some people even enjoy motor boating other men’s behinds which can quite fun if you are into that type of thing!
Basically it may be defined as any object or non-genital part of the body that causes a habitual erotic response or fixation. Fetishes include things like foot worship, size of dress, and even racial heritag
This involves consenting adult couples meeting other couples for sexual activity.
- Open Relationships:
Even if two men are happy with the physical affection of one another and emotional relationship due to the fact that people can have wild sexual yearnings. Remembering this organic truth that two men together can have an overflow of testosterone, numerous gay couples open their bed for another to join in on the fun in a threesome of even in an open relationship where they let each other date other people.
Whether you have an alternative choice or a fetish, you just want to try something new, or want to explore a fantasy; you will find good company in gay online dating. This does not mean that this dating method is only for those weirdos. Those looking for the good old one night stand, discreet relationship, or other forms of sexual encounters will find a home here as well. Perhaps the biggest advantage of gay online dating is availability of consensual like-minded adults, thus eliminating guessing as well as people with holier-than-thou judgmental attitudes. This beats going out to bars and night clubs, in the hopes of bumping into someone with similar interests. An added advantage is anonymity and comfort. You can browse gay dating sites anonymously at any time of day or night. Not only that but, both parties can choose not to know any more about each other than what is needed for encounter or relationship to take place.
As with almost everything else, gay online dating has some disadvantages also. One is anonymity as it is sometimes a good thing but also a negative thing that tends to bring out the worst in people. Some people will do bad things online that they would not otherwise do in real life. Lies and misrepresentations are perhaps the greatest complaint in gay online dating. People will lie about their age, profession, social status and the like. Some prostitutes have discovered that it is safer to post an adult ad online than working the streets. Another thing to look out for is for scam dating sites. Some gay dating sites are temporary operations while others are fronts for pornographic sites. All things considered, gay online dating presents an exciting way to explore your fantasies, fetishes and alternatives.
PJ Weir was employed at the Gay Exchange for over a decade and was a regular contributor to the blog. He is a gay activist and an advocate for same sex marriage. PJ is proud of his aboriginal descent and has remained in a long term relationship with his partner Darren.
PJ left work in late 2014 as his mother fell ill. He has moved to Queensland where he has become her full time carer.
Unfortunately the iconic Gay Exchange, Sydney’s first all gay adult store closed down in June of 2017 as the building was taken over by the State Transit Authority to build the new rail.