Craigslist for Gay Sex!

Perfect Gay Sex With Craiglist

All of the best how-tos and don’t-dos are included in this article series. I include some of the lingo, posts to stay away from and how to get through the best responses in Craigslist personals section during your search for anonymous gay anal sex. First, you need to understand that Craigslist is perfect for gay people.  Straight people have it way easier than gay people in most aspects. They can get legally get married, they aren’t hated by many religious groups and each of their days seems to pass smoothly. However, when it comes to getting anonymous online sexual hook ups, gay men have it much easier than straight men. Most women just don’t go looking for anonymous casual sex like men do, most likely because they can get it fairly easily if they’re looking for a man. So while there are sections for straight people, even for a casual encounter they will be likely expecting dinner and appearance before sex.

The reason so many straight men indulge their bi-curiosity on Craigslist is that they simply get fed up looking for women only to get scammed over and over again. Most posts by men under ‘men are looking for women’ section go ignored or are only answered by hookers and webcam girls. Most women actually looking for sex on Craigslist really aren’t the type to socialize beyond a certain point or even know to look past a certain aesthetic level. It is not impossible to meet an attractive woman on craigslist, but it is 99% difficult. Don’t expect success on your first try, your second or your third. In the meantime, there are plenty of gay guys on

‘men are looking for men

section who might be happy to take care of your needs. And you don’t even have to make them the dinner.

Secondly, it is important to know the craigslist terminology. We live in an age of abbreviated words and phrases, mostly due to the internet, which is still something new for many of us. There are several craigslist shorthand terms, but I’d say these are some of the essentials. For example, NSA means No Strings Attached. DDF means drug and disease free while M4M encounters mean men for men encounters. HWP is Height/Weight Proportionate and ISO mean is In Search Of. After you learn the lingo everything is easy. It’s really just about making a post, including a picture and waiting for men to send you a message. Having a picture on there is really important, as a lot of people ignore submissions that don’t have photos.

By the way, if there is one Craigslist abbreviation that you want to avoid, it would be PNP. PNP, in Craigslist terminology, stands for

“party ‘n play”

which stands for sex while high on drugs. If you’re a bottom, one of the problems hooking up with drunk or gay men under drug influence is that they last long and drugs prevent them from finishing quickly. So they can fuck you, turn it over and then fuck you even harder until the condom literally breaks and then you’ve just had unprotected intercourse with a junkie. A thing to keep in mind is that anyone using a random capital letter T in an ad is looking to get high. For example: LeT’s have sex tonighT mean let’s get high and fuck all night

Looking For Generous Men Means Prostitutes

Another third and important thing on craigslist is that people who are looking mostly for generous men are prostitutes. Whenever you see an ad on craigslist advertising someone looking for “generous men” or just “gen,” it can only mean that the person is a prostitute, and “generous” is just a code for “give me money.

Age is important buy if there is one place where it can be ok to lie about age, its craigslist. If you’re 25 and look 25, then post your real age in your ad. But general Craigslist rule is that you post as the age you think you look like, not the age you actually are. It’s not like you want to show to strangers your ID anyway. The one time that is not okay to lie about your age is when you’re underage and posing as an adult. You can ruin someone’s life that way or get in trouble.

Lying about your race also is ok sometimes. For example if you’re a Latino but you look more like a European guy for example, just say white in your ad. Aesthetics are about visuals not about facts. This isn’t a survey so post what you look like, not necessarily what you really are. Sadly, when using craigslist one must expect that a lot of people won’t show up to their dates or be all that reliable. Lots of people get off on the thrill of setting up an anonymous sexual encounter, but while they get turned on by the thrill of this search they often have zero intention of actually meeting. Or maybe they freak out at the last minute. Whatever the reason, it happens a lot. Most of the times these people never have the courtesy to even email you or text you with a simple sorry.

Craigslist is a game. For every sexy gay man you might meet you may get a fun time or equal numbers of people not showing up. Just know this fact when writing an ad on craigslist. It never stops being annoying, but it helps you to get ready for the real arrangements that can offer you sweet time. If you’re really looking to give this a try, assume that everyone is just as nervous as you are. Craigslist is a great place for gay men to find other men for anonymous gay sex.

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