Christmas Sex Toys on Santa’s Sexy List

With Christmas just around the corner, you may be looking for some presents for your partner.  Whilst jewellery or the latest games console are good fall back presents, what if you want something to help with your intimacy and sex life?  Sex toys are a sure fire way to bring a bit more fun or to spice up your sex life.  So, then Christmas sex toys are the way to go!!

As a generation, we are much more open to talking about sex than every before.  Sex shops are no longer called ‘private shops’.  They are well known brands with store fronts on most high streets. Sex toys remain something that many people are embarrassed about.

Let’s go through some tips on buying the right Christmas sex toy for you and your partner.

Talk To Your Partner

Best thing you can do when thinking about adding sex toys into your life, is to have an open conversation with your partner about what you both like.  And what you’d be open to. This doesn’t have to be an in-depth, therapist type conversation.  But it should be as open as you can be, with some discussion about what you both would like.

Sure, it can feel a little embarrassing.  But the more you talk about it, the less embarrassed you will be.  You will find yourself enjoying sex even more – if that’s possible!

Solo Sex Toys For Women

You may want to start looking at some solo sex toys to give to your partner. For the times that they are alone, and want to have some fun. There are so many different types of toys out there that it can be a little confusing.

• Rabbit Vibrators

Some of the more well known toys are the rabbit vibrators, which are penetration devices.  With different vibration speeds and those well known rabbit ears for clitoral stimulation. These sex toys are the classic ones. They were probably the first sex toy to become fashionable and start people having more honest conversations about sex.

• Massager wands

This type is another classic, beloved by many women around the world. This toy however, is not suited to everyone.  As it can be a bit more on the forceful side. So choose the model with care.

• Oral Sex Stimulators

There are so many newer types on the market now, including some which even claim to imitate oral sex.  Lelo Ora 3 is one of them.

• Clitoral stimulators

Work in different ways, such as the bullet vibrators some of which come in waterproof varieties.

Solo Sex Toys For Men

If you are looking for a solo toy to give to that special man in your life, there are many options too for them.

• Masturbation Sleeves

Most well known solo male toy is probably the fleshlight. These toys have played their part in  making male sex toys less taboo. But they are falling out of fashion now. In their place are the far more discreet and just as pleasurable newer designs of masturbation sleeves.

• Cock rings 

These can be used solo, to provide extra vibration, or when with a partner, as they are bound to enjoy the vibrations too!

• Prostate massagers

Very popular these days, and many prostate massagers come with a remote control to allow you to fully enjoy a solo experience.

• Butt plugs are another classic

Much safer than inserting a non-sex toy into this are. Always use a flared base! Butt plugs have also expanded their varieties. The bog standard ones are still available of course – everyone loves a classic.  Newer vibrating designs are available, some with a remote control to make everything a lot easier.

Sex Toys For Couples

Many of the toys we have already gone through can also be used with your chosen partner, or partners.  But there are some toys that are specifically geared towards couples.

We have already discussed vibrating cock rings, that give pleasure to both parties. There are also some toys that can be used whilst giving or reciveing a oral sex.  Such as the BlowYo which is a silicone ring that covers the bottom portion of the penis, that makes oral sex feel much more, well, orgasmic.

• WeVibe, and it’s imitators, is a toy beloved by couples.

One end rests against the clitoris, whilst the other inserts into the vagina providing G-spot stimulation. As well as vibrating against the penis shaft. If you are away from your partner, there are even toys that can be controlled via an app, so that you can come together even when you’re apart.

Whichever sex toy you decide to go for, remember to be safe and enjoy yourself, and always discuss consent.

Give the Gift of Sex this Xmas – Christmas Sex Toys Guide

In previous articles we have discussed the benefits of sex and  masturbation benefits.  We can all agree that whether it is together, or alone sex is pretty wonderful and it has many wonderful advantages.

But lets recap.

Sex, masturbation and orgasms can provide us with the following.

• Lower blood pressure
• Rush of endorphins and other neurochemicals
• Increase in self esteem
• Increased libido
• Natural pain relief
• Benefits to immune system
• Increase in oxytocin (love neurochemical)
• Decrease in stress hormones
• Better sleep
• Strengthen pelvic muscles
• Pleasure

Sex Toys as Gifts

Recent trends have started showing that it is becoming more normal to gift, not only our lovers, partners, wives, husbands and significant others sex toys, lingerie and other delectable goodies.  But now  friends and family members are beginning to also get involved in the movement.  To break the stigma and talk openly about sex, its benefits and in wishing a good and healthy sex life for all.

So this Christmas, instead of jewelry, or another Westfield’s gift card, socks or the ever faithful fall back of a carton of beer or a bottle of the favoured spirit/wine.

Why not give the gift of sex this year?

Check out our Ideas below for every price range

Under $50 great for stocking fillers or secret santa presents.

• Jo Gelato Lube – Water based lubricant that tastes better than ice cream topping.
• On Arousal Clitoral Oil – designed to react to moisture, draw blood to to the clitoras and increase sensitivity
• Ox Balls Cock Ring –  draw blood to the penis for harder longer lasting erections
• Ultra Soft Dude 7.5” Dong – incredibly soft lifelike phallic shaped dong with suction.
• Tenga Vacuum Cup Masturbator – disposable masturbator with inbuilt vacuum capabilities.
• Hemp Seed Massage Candle  –  Sensual and smooth oil with the warmth of a candle.
• Maia Jessi Bullet  compact and powerful, full rechargeable.

Under $100

• Tease Lace & Satin Bustier – Stunning lace and satin matching set.
• NSN Colours 5” THICK Dong – Realistic silicone phallic shaped dong with suction.
• Monogamy Board Game – fun filled board game for an intimate night together.
• Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage –  compact and reusable textured masturbator.
• Nu Sensuelle Double Action Bullet Ring – Waterproof and rechargeable, offering double vibrations to stimulate the perineum and your partner.
• Nu Sensuelle Point Bullet – intensely powerful, waterproof and rechargeable bullet.
• Evolved The Queen Bullet – flexible rechargeable bullet.

Under $200

• Fun Factory Tiger – Ribbed for pleasure, rumbling vibrations, medical grade silicone and super flexible.
• Adam & Eve Eve’s Big Love Rabbit  – Thick rabbit offering intense vibrations for both internal and clitoral stimulation
• Femme Fun Femme Wand  – Rumbling vibrations, turbo boost, vibration free handle, enclosed design, flexible head.
• Tenga Flip Zero Black  – incredible texture, tight pressure, easy to clean, reusable masturbator.
• Hot Octopus Pulse Solo  – vibrating sleeve with frenulum pulse plate. Waterproof and rechargeable.
• Lelo Mona Wave 2  – beckoning G spot internal rechargeable vibrator.
• Calextics Her Highness Royal Duchess Harness – Adjustable rings and harness with gold trimming.

Remote Control Fun

• Wevibe Chorus Phone and squeeze remote controlled couples vibrator.
• Wevibe Moxie Phone controlled pantie vibrator guaranteed to stay in place.
• Wevibe Pivot Phone controlled cock ring with intense vibrations.
• Nu Wireless Bullet A wearable bullet with a remote that also vibrates.
• Le Joue Nuo  – A phone controlled anal/prostate plug also operated by the “pen” thats included.
• B-Vibe Triplet – A funand intense remote controlled anal bead experience with two intense motors.

BDSM

• Tantus Hurricane – A silicone cane guaranteed to take your breath away
• Single Tail Stockman’s Whip  – Long and graceful, the crack of this whip is sure to turn heads and cheeks.
• Ouch Shibari Rope – made from beautiful hemp with 10 metres, 3 braids and 8mm thickness.
• Secret Kisses Golden Bliss Flogger Necklace – The perfect accessory for BDSM on the go.
• Master Series Fire Sticks  – perfect high temperature paraffin wax play candles.

Best Sellers

• Nexus Revo Slim Prostate Massage – The ultimate prostate and perineum massager with intense rumbling vibrations and 360 degree prostate massager.
• Wevibe Chorus The Ultimate couples gift. Phone and squeeze remote controlled couples vibrator.
• Womaniser Premium – Dual motors puff and blow air onto the body to create intense stimulation like no other.
• Bathmate Hydromax 7  – A pump like no other, using water instead of air safely manages pressure for sustained long term gain.
• Funfactory Stronic G – The only electromagnetic motor proels this self thrusting vibrator instead of vibrating. No hands necessary.
• Le Wand Petite – Small but powerful with attachment. Rumbling vibrations that fill your body to climax, sheek and elegant.

For Him Ultimate

• Svakom – Alex

A powerful and elegant masturbator that grips and holds the penis for a truly unique experience. The soft feel of the sleeve gently caresses as you have total control of the speed and feel of your ultimate experience.

For Her Ultimate

• Womaniser – Duo

Dual motors puff and blow air onto the body to create intense stimulation like no other. To make it even better, the vibrations of the insetable course up the gentle curve to stimulate the G spot combining pleasure like never before.