Adult Games – Why They are Good for You

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We have heard all about how sex is a valuable part of our lives and our relationships. There are so many studies proving that a healthy sex life leads to a healthy life in general. Further on, we understand how important it is for our romantic relationships. It’s 2020, and I’m pretty sure that nobody has any doubts anymore about the significance of sexual intercourse. Here’s some additional info on that.

What Happens You Are Alone?

Okay, we get it already – we need to have a partner and we need to fulfill our sexual desires. But, what happens when you can’t? What happens when you don’t have anyone to get freaky with? Does that mean that you should just let all the tension build up and then relieve yourself only and only when you find someone who’s DTF?

Well, that would be a bummer, wouldn’t it? Imagine yourself walking around with a boner, while everyone is looking at you and making calculations about how long it’s been since you last got laid. And, ladies, you’re not safe either. I’ve got some news for you. Every time you get horny and think that nobody can notice it, the truth is – everybody can notice it.

Thank God for masturbation, am I right? It could save you a lot of embarrassment. With a myriad of adult content out there, it’s even easier for you to get down to business when you are alone. And, hey, some people like to watch porn with their partner and pick up new skills together. Even though that’s not what we’re talking about today, that’s certainly one way to go.

Here’s why that might be a good idea: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/5-reasons-why-watching-po_b_2766968

Why Adult Games Are Good For You?

As I have mentioned above, we’re not going to talk about watching porn with your significant other. Or, others… it’s a free world. In fact, we’re not even going to talk about watching porn. Today, our topic is adult games and their role in your life. If you haven’t tried these out by now, I suggest you do, IMMEDIATELY. Wait, no, you should read this first. So, keep it in your pants for a while longer.

There’s an obvious reason why adult games are good for us. Is it really necessary for me to explain this? Let me put it simply. You’re horny – you need something to help you please yourself. So, you find an adult sex game, build your character and fulfill all your desires – even the hidden ones – through that character. While “on-screen you” is getting greasy, the “real-life you” is getting down to business as well.

But, this reason above is more an answer to the question of “how adult games can help you”, then to the question of “why they are good for you”. So, let me give you a couple of simple, straightforward and truthful reasons for engaging in these games. Here we go.

Say Goodbye To Stress

Sexual tension is not the only thing that needs to be relieved. Are you getting stressed out with something day after day? Well, this might sound silly to you, but I suggest you find a private space, visit Sex Games HQ and find the game that will help you blow your load and blow some steam off. You’ll start releasing serotonin and your stress will be washed away.

Say Hello To New Skills

If you have been trying to up your game, there’s no better way to do it than by playing adult sex games and experimenting with your character. You can try a few things out and get some great tips and tricks. Both men and women want to be great in bed, and that’s impossible if you do all the same things every single time. And can you think of a more fun way to improve than by playing sex games?

Being Single Is No Longer That Lonely

As I have already mentioned, when you are single, you need to find a way to please yourself without anyone’s help. And that’s exactly what these games offer you. However, that’s not all. When you start playing them, you can join some communities and get in touch with like-minded adults who have similar preferences. Hey, who knows what might happen.

101 Menstrual Sex For Men!

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From puberty until menopause, the menstrual cycle is a fact of life for every woman. However, the monthly visit from Aunt Flo needn’t put a dampener on your sex life. In a nutshell, all aspects of a fantastic sexual encounter can be enjoyed all month long.

 

Education

Men typically don’t really understand menstruation, and while their high school sexual education probably had a lot to do with that, there’s also a huge stigma surrounding the menstrual cycle. However this is slowly changing, as the male dominated world begins to listen to others (we’re looking at you Scotland, ready to offer free tampons and pads to women of all ages, we salute you!)

Talk to your partner about having sex while on your period. Let them know that you don’t think it needs to interrupt your sex life, and that while bleeding once a month may seem completely odd to a man, it is in fact a natural, and essential, part of life. Demystify it for them. In saying that, if either one of you are uneasy with sexual encounters during that time, the usual rules of consent apply, and no pressure should be applied.

 

Preparation

As with any sexual activity, menstrual sex should be clean and hygienic. Take a shower first, both of you, and really, you could even start things off together in the shower. If showering together, maybe give her a minute or so before or after you join to look after her intimates.

Lay a towel down on your bed. It’s far easier to clean than having to change the sheets. Strongly suggest against white towels here.

 

Intimacy

Above any of the below options the easiest, and possibly nicest, is simply to be intimate together. Kisses, cuddling, hand grips of wanton lust, even dry humping through clothes, are all amazing choices to kick things off with, or even be the all and everything. Sex doesn’t necessitate penetration, nor should it be the end all and be all of sexual activity.

 

Handiwork

Hands can touch, tickle and stroke every inch of a body. Gentle strokes along a back, a heavy hand gripping hips, not to forget breasts and their wondrous punctuation, nipples. And of course, the clitoris. Educate yourself by checking out the biology of a woman’s sexual organs, and you’ll find that the clitoris (the external part) is miles from her vaginal opening. Keep your focus here, she’ll probably prefer it anyway.

 

Oral Sex

Cunnilingus is always on the table. Even at ‘that time of the month’. As mentioned above, the clitoris is a perfectly safe distance from any possible flow. You could even relish her labia majora, her outer lips, or should you both feel comfortable enough, even her inner lips, the labia minora.

Listen to her directions, if you can hear through her thighs pressed against your ears. Devour her, savour her, let her know you’re man enough to handle a little potential blood. Worship all that a woman is and let her know how amazing and gorgeous she is to you, with nothing but your tongue.

 

Penetrative Sex

A period most definitely doesn’t mean that penetrative sex is off the table. It just takes a little preparation. Both of you shower beforehand, lay down a towel, and enjoy the extra lubrication nature has provided this week.

If the bleeding really is a concern for either of you, there are heaps of ways around this. The most common one is to keep sex within the constrains of a shower. Shower sex is great as the clean up is far easier, regardless of the time of month, and that rushing water is such an aphrodesiac.

However if having sex in the shower, make sure you use silicone based lube, as it’s far more resistant to washing away. Look to fantastic brands like Super Slyde or Pjur Original.  Somehow, despite all that water, shower sex can really dry a vagina out, so lube is always a great idea.

To avoid being one of the nearly quarter million Americans admitted to emergency every year from falling in the shower, maybe invest in some Sex In The Shower suction cup handles and footrests. Nothing will kill the mood quicker than a concussion. Trust me.

If you much prefer to lay down in your bed for sex, as mentioned above, a non white towel will be your best friend. On top of this, you could look at wearing a sponge. Working women live by them so they can work all month long, and given the texture of a sponge, most people would never suspect that one is being worn.

Condoms should always be used to prevent the spread of STIs, especially since a menstruating woman is more susceptible to STIs, but if the man is wearing one simply to not get blood on his penis, it offers no protection from the blood that absolutely will gather on his scrotum.

It should also be noted that period sex should not be used as contraception. Sperm can live for up to five days inside of the uterus, and should you have light periods or have intercourse towards the end of your cycle, it is still possible to fall pregnant.

 

Solo Play

As mentioned above, the clitoris and labia are all fair game during menstruation. Using an insertable sex toy also follows along previous guides. If looking for self love in the shower, look no further than a completely waterproof and submersible toy like the Fun Factory Stronic G. Although if you’re going to use a good quality silicone lube, look towards a 100% silicone toy by Evolved or Adam & Eve, as their toys are silicone lube friendly.

In the bedroom, you can always roll a condom over your favourite insertable toy to ease cleaning. Although using an antibacterial toy cleaner will do the trick just as well, something you should be using before and after every toy use regardless of the timing.

 

Menstruation need not be the killer of a sex life. Be safe, be hygenic, and with a little preparation, you can enjoy a healthy sex life all month long.

I Won the Grand Slam!

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These days it seems like the only time I truly get to be alone is in the bath. No one to bother me, be it in person, on socials or heaven forbid, by actually calling on a phone. Beyond bath time giving me the chance to collect my thoughts and release my stresses of the day, that also makes it the perfect time to get myself off.

When the guy in the sex shop was showing me some new Evolved toys, the Grand Slam easily stood out from the rest. This very aptly named toy really does the lot. The shaft of this deep blue toy not only thrusts, but it also twirls, and just to put the icing on the cake, has rotating beads along it. For external pleasure, it has two bulbous rabbit ears, each with its own motor, and is designed to give a rumbly vibration deep down to the areas of your clitoris many may not even know exists. Those ‘legs’ that spread down thoughout your vaginal area, and not just the little ‘bean’ everyone thinks is the clit.

While I was holding the demo and feeling its intense vibes, the shop guy was muttering on about its features, ‘rechargeable’, ‘5 year warranty’ etc, but when he said ‘waterproof and submersible’, I couldn’t get the boxed toy onto the counter quick enough!

Of course, when you have big plans for alone time, something always seems to pop up and delay it for as long as possible and so it wasn’t until well after ten that night until I finally slipped into that steaming hot bath. With a few sips of my white wine, I could already begin to feel the days troubles float away. Until I put my glass down and saw that big blue bad boy staring right back at me.

No, not yet.

But my mind wouldn’t escape it, even as I sank and immersed myself to the top of my neck, my nipples poking through the water like they were gasping for air, I could still remember how it trembled in my hand back in the shop. How when I held its shaft, it kept trying to drive itself into me, beckoning to me, just as I could feel it doing now from the bath side stand.

Look into my eyes, I am your captain now,’ it was saying, just as all rabbit vibes do these days.

But really, why should I withold pleasure for myself. It’s not like I was waiting for him to buy me a drink or anything. I snatched up his slender, sleek body and turned on the shaft. He immediately whirred into action, thrusting and twisting, beads spinning.

I couldn’t remember the last time I felt so damn eager!

The water churned as I submerged the toy. No lube required tonight. He crept inside me, and for a moment, I felt my body struggling against it. This was one intense fucking toy. The Grand Slam was already getting me hotter than the bath water, and we’d barely even started.

I clicked the rabbit ears on as they rocked up along each side of my clit. Jesus! Those motors sure rumbled into action, sending pulses deep down through the body and bulbs of my clitoris. Uncontrollably, my foot sent water splashing over the edge of the bath.

From here, the Grand Slam and I began to work organically, in unison. I have no recollection which buttons or settings I was using, just completely lost to the sensations. Every time the shaft rotated, its beads would sweep past my g-spot and I’m glad that nobody could see the reaction on my face that this motion drew from me.

Barely a minute into play, and this bad boy grabbed a hold of me and dragged me kicking and screaming, literally, to a ravaging climax. I used to think I knew what the words orgasmic, ecstatic and explosive meant, until I met the Grand Slam.

Still lost in the thrall of this blue beauty, I couldn’t even manage to withdraw the toy. And so it took me again, cresendoing in seconds, forcing both the bath water and myself to gush everywhere.

And then once again.

And again, until completely spent, my body ejected this majestic beast into the bath, where I could hear it still swimming around over my panting breath. I couldn’t even move, besides my twitching legs and heaving chest.

Eventually I managed to turn my new favourite toy off, but it was still a long time until I could sip my now warm wine or empty out the nearly cold bath water. When I finally did, even the light satin of my slip continued to send shudders through my body. Needless to say, I had an amazing sleep that night.

 

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A Big Girl’s Guide to Casual Sex

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Dating as a plus size girl has its challenges whether it’s online or off. Though women are supportive of each other, let’s be honest, plus size women have a completely different experience with dating than non-plus size women. Whether they’re looking for love or casual sex, there’s always one thing that’s the main focus: your body. Though having a bbw sex hookup is easy to have as a big girl, it’s important to find someone who’s not going to fetishize you, making you feel like an object rather than a person. And no one wants to feel like that when having sex. If you’re looking for casual sex, good thing you came to this guide.

 

Decide if this is really what you want

It doesn’t matter if you’re a plus size woman or not when it comes to this. Before engaging in casual sex, you really need to think whether or not this is something you want to try out. What are you really wanting? If you think casual sex will lead to love, you need to lower your expectations. Most people who are looking for casual sex are only interested in that. They’re not looking for love or a deep connection; they want to have sex.

 

Now, this doesn’t mean it’s bad. Casual sex can be a lot of fun, and a great way to experiment and explore your sexuality. You just need to make sure you’re on the same page as potential partners. If not, you’ll get your hopes up, and ultimately be disappointed in the end.

 

Don’t settle for just anyone

As a plus size woman, body image and self-acceptance is a struggle. Many BBW grew up being overweight for most of their lives, affecting their self-esteem and confidence. Fat acceptance and body positivity wasn’t encouraged growing up. On top of that, if you were overweight in high school, guys usually weren’t interested, leaving you to think, “I’m lucky if anyone will date me.” But that doesn’t mean you should settle for just anyone.

 

You’re a beautiful woman, and at the end of the day, you hold power in your hands. You make the decisions with your body, and who you want to have sex with. Don’t choose a guy just because he’s the first one or because you think he’ll be the only one. Make sure the man you want to have casual sex with shares a connection with you, and respects you. When it comes to standards, you need to create them for yourself. If you don’t, you won’t have good sex. And then what’s the point of having sex if you’re not enjoying it?

 

There’s being desired and being fetishized

You need to know the differences between being desired and being fetishized. Though it’s a fine line, you need to be able to point it out. If a man is encouraging weight gain, always referring to you as a BBW, and only talking about the size of your body, that’s fetishization. You don’t want to have sex with someone because they’re obsessed with the “fatness” of your body. Unless, of course, that’s your thing.

If you want to have great casual sex, they need to be interested in you. If they want to have sex with a big girl, well, they can do it with anyone. The fetishization of your body disconnects you from the actual sex itself. Instead of sharing an experience with someone, you’re used as a sex toy. The best partner for casual sex is someone who drives you crazy and vice versa.

 

Don’t put up with crap

Listen, just because it’s casual sex, doesn’t mean they can treat you with disrespect. If he’s giving you backhanded compliments, comments about your weight or any other fatphobia acts, you should not tolerate that. Remember, you’re the one who decides who you have sex with. If you’re not feeling good when you’re around him, ditch him. Your body isn’t going to be used as a punching bag. Nor are you going to let someone emotional abuse you. Create boundaries for yourself and stick to them. If he goes over your boundaries, well, as Ariana Grande said, thank you, next.

 

Work through any insecurities

Many big girls are insecure about their sexual experiences which is entirely understandable. Body positivity and fat acceptance are new movements. And when it comes to insecurities, these things don’t change overnight. But you can use casual sex as a way to work through these insecurities. For example, many big girls are worried about the men they sleep with being disappointed or disgusted by their bodies. This isn’t about them; this is about you and how you see yourself. When having casual sex, accept your flaws, and let them go. You’re deserving of sex and self-pleasure regardless of size.

 

Casual sex can be a fantastic experience as a way to explore your body, experiment sexually, and discover the things you enjoy. If you use these tips, they’ll help you better sex. And who doesn’t want to have great sex?  If you want an adult shop that specializes in big girl lingerie come to the Adult LIfestyle Center at Kogarah.

Financial Domination For Beginners

By definition Financial Domination is a sexual fetish, in particular a practice of dominance and submission, where in which a submissive will give gifts and money to a financial dominant.

 

What is it?

Financial domination is a sexual fetish in which the submissive involved feels sexual arousal in relation to finance being dominated, this can come in many forms.

In the financial domination world, a submissive may be referred to as: pay-pigs, slaves, cash-pigs etc. The submissive feels sexual arousal from the dominant, often referred to as Findommes, Mistress’, Goddess’, demanding gifts or money, controlling finance accounts, using a submissves credit card for purchases etc. It isn’t an exchange, it is a tribute to the dominant, a gift with no expectations.

 

But Why?

Many people are confused by the idea that sexual arousal can come from giving money away. If you think about it, countless people base their self-worth on their income, control that income and you can control a person’s self-worth. The arousal doesn’t just come from the act of giving a dominant money, it is the need to fulfill a dominants order or pay for a dominants dinner in order to keep her happy and interested. To have someone control or use what some people value more than anything is true loss of power. The power comes from the exchange, to make a person enter a zone in which you control their thoughts as well as their finances, leaving them emotionally, physically and financially powerless.

 

It’s not as easy as you think:

As financial domination is mostly done online without ever really needing to meet each other in real life, lots of time wasters and fakes are the main problem within the community. Anyone is able to make a twitter account, pop up some photos and start demanding money. Financial domination goes much deeper than this and it is hard to weed through fake subs and domes alike. A Findomme must know a lot about their subs: how much they make, how much a subs bills equate to, how much a sub can gift, sexual fantasies etc. Taking a position of power over someone and potentially their finances is a big responsibility and one must make sure they are equipped to deal with this emotionally and physically as their actions can directly effect a person’s life. You have to verify yourself to show you aren’t fake with a video or photo in most cases, so If you aren’t keen on your face being seen this might not be for you.

 

 

 

How to get started:

The best place to start in financial domination is online. I find the best sites are Twitter and Reddit. There are specifically designed websites such as Fetlife or Findoms which are like social media for fetishes and financial domination. Once on these sites you will quickly pick up the rhetoric of fake subs and dommes, make yourself stand out from the crowd. You aren’t there to beg or do something in exchange for money. Just giving your time to a sub is worth payment. Learn about the person you are talking to, likes/dislikes, wants/needs, all this information will be used later to help dominate. Remember, the better you are in your position the more rewards you’ll receive. As mentioned you’ll have to weed through time wasters, who will of course waste your time but don’t worry as it happens to the best of us, I like to think of every time waster I’ve had as a training session on how to avoid them in the future.

 

Receiving Payments/Tributes:

Financial Domination is typically done online through various platforms, so how does one receive tributes or money? It is never safe to give out your bank details to a stranger online, easy payment services making transactions quick and easy for both subs and domes.

Paypal: A commonly used and easy payment service, but beware, if Paypal becomes aware that you are receiving money for what they perceive as sex work they will freeze your account and any money in it and ban you.

Venmo: Probably the easiest and safest payment service to use, sign up online or via app on your phone. As far as I am aware they don’t discriminate sex work like Paypal does.

Cashapp: Another easy to use payment service, online or via app.

Choose a service that suits your needs, whilst many are similar if the subs you have don’t have a particular one you might lose out. These are three popular and common services within the community so take advantage.

 

Key Words:

Pay Pig: Is (usually male) a submissive who tributes to his mistress and/or buys gifts for her. Pay pigs get sexual arousal from the act of giving money/gifts.

Tribute: Is money or gifts given to a findomme. Tributes can mean different things to different people, but it is generally considered to be giving items/money to ones domme on a regular basis for nothing in return. A regular tribute to appease ones mistress, to show ones servitude.

Findomme:  A professional (generally a woman) financial dominatrix

 

 

Happy Financial Dominating!! Good Luck!!