Here’s How You Can Spice up Your Sex Life with the Right Bedroom Practices

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We all need a bit of fun and playfulness in the bedroom, and the less uncomfortable we feel about discussing it, the more stimulating and pleasurable it can get. Of course, communication is key, being able to tell your partner what you want to try out and what your kinks are is in fact quite liberating and can lead to a great and fulfilled sex life. Sex toys and roleplaying are a great part of this conversation as they can help you explore your own sexuality as well as that of our partner. With that in mind, let’s browse through this article together and see what you might find interesting.

Choosing the perfect bedroom aids

If you lack experience when it comes to choosing the right toys for your bedroom activities, you can always do a bit more research as to which one does what. There is a wind range of offers from those suitable for her or his pleasure only to those that can stimulate both partners at the same time. On the other hand, if you are quite clear regarding your preferences, it will be much easier to make a choice. And in case you don’t have a willing partner to participate in this exploration, you can always find someone with a similar proclivity by browsing through strapon personals or similar niched options so as to fulfill your specific bedroom needs. The most important thing is that you feel comfortable regarding the use of certain aids and that you can relax and just enjoy the ride.

Introducing some drama into your bedroom

No no, not the negative connotation of this phrase. More like some actual theatre.  Roleplaying can be a powerful aid when it comes to unleashing your innermost desires. This is mostly because we feel freer doing certain things as someone else. So, by opting for some quality role-playing, we get to explore both our own sexuality and that of our partner guilt-free, and more importantly, shame-free. Feeling shame over some things that we want to try in the bedroom is not a good sign. It means that we are suppressing our true desires, and with role-playing, we can get over that feeling and simply make our character do or say exactly what we need at that particular moment. Now, you can always go a step further and introduce fun and interesting costumes to help you and your partner get into character even more.

Change the location

Yes, it can be as simple as that. Breaking the routine of always making love in the bedroom can do wonders for your sex life. For starters, explore different locations within your home, just make sure you are all alone, and no guests are expected. Shower or bathtub can always be a fun alternative, and the water can be quite stimulative. Another option is the kitchen and various surfaces there, this can also lead to some interesting position changes that you both might enjoy. The next step is completely leaving your home and finding an alternative spot, a hotel room, perhaps. This option can be great if a bit of roleplaying is added. You can also explore the great outdoors if you feel comfortable with it. Remember, feeling relaxed and comfortable is essential for this change of pace to work.

Enrich your movie selection

This can be an interesting option, not only as a way to spice up your sex life but also as a window into your partner’s specific interests. Yet again, you need to feel assured that your partner won’t judge your particular interest when it comes to pornography, and you shouldn’t judge theirs either. Instead, discover what it is that has that stimulating effect on you when it comes to a selected genre of movies. This way you might discover more about each other’s needs and by doing so enrich your sex life. So, start by discussing what your interests are when it comes to pornography and then select movies that can combine some or all of your listed preferences. Then, just relax and enjoy the rest of the intimate evening in each other’s company.

 

This guide should give you something to consider when it comes to spicing up your sex life. The options are limitless, all you need to do is feel comfortable, first with your own desires and wishes and then with those of your partner. That way you can explore everything together, trying out different things and simply enjoying each other to the fullest. Remember, the truth will set you free in this case, so be open as honest as you possibly can and you will reap the benefits of such a relationship, both in bed and in life.

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There’s Something about Women and VR Porn

Virtual Reality Porn

The porn industry is rapidly adopting virtual reality technology. It’s a no-brainer. The videos are good but seeing action that is almost up close and personal is even better. It’s a boon for all consumers of pornography, females and lesbians included.

 

Something worth trying is the concept of VR sex. It’s an evolution of phone sex that involves more than just a video. It includes a simulation of the actual act that enhances the experience of long-distance sexual partners. VR porn for women takes female sexual gratification to new levels.

 

More women consume porn

 

Based on 2017 figures from xHamster and Pornhub, the number of women watching porn is on the rise. Also, the use of the search phrase “porn for women” increased by an astounding 359%. This phrase emerged as the top search term on Pornhub in 2017. The number of people using this phrase rose by 1,400% in 2017 (from 2016).

 

More women now admit that they turn to pornography. Nobody should doubt that women also watch porn. What’s more exciting for them is that they have not seen everything there is to see. With virtual reality technology, they can experience the thrill and stimulation of lovemaking that is more immersive than ever. There’s more to explore after the 1080p, 4K videos, and “3D” porn videos. Beyond video clarity, there’s the option to be absorbed in the illusion of being in the actual scene, virtually interfacing with porn stars, or seeing scenes as if they are just right in front of you.

What women want

 

Women generally prefer more evocation than wild sexual action. They gravitate more towards sensuality than all-out sexual indulgence. In other words, they value the feeling more than the visual treat. Porn at present, including virtual reality pornography, may be largely visual-based, but women want higher quality content instead of simply seeing couples thrusting into each other wildly. They are not aroused easily by the usual moaning and the sigh of rapid pelvic movements. For women, it’s the passion that arouses them more than the mere sight of fornication.

 

Virtual reality is a game changer in pornography, especially for women. It allows a more gripping way to enjoy porn. With VR, women can see more of the passion instead of the action. Being able to witness the action up close and seeing perspiring naked bodies in greater detail creates a more arousing experience. Viewing porn with a VR set enables porn viewers to see the emotions, the gratifying pain, and the ecstasy of orgasm in ways that are more riveting and fulfilling.

 

If you have not tried VR porn yet, you are missing an opportunity to explore sexual excitation that is unlike anything you have tried in the past. It wouldn’t be unlikely for you to realise how tremendously more arousing it is than anything you have seen in the past. It will change the way you perceive porn as you realise how technological advancements open vast possibilities for sexual

 

The adult lifestyle centers have all types of VR Porn, why not visit a store now?

Eva II By Dame – Sex Toy Review!

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The “EVA II” is a unique hands-free couple’s vibrator. What makes “EVA II” stand out against other couples toys, is the shape of the toy as well as how you position it. The shape, in my opinion, is very similar to that of a beetle, a robust figure with two small “wings” coming out from either side. As mentioned what sets this vibrator apart from other couples toys is how it sits, most couples toys will have a U shape which will sit on the inside of the vagina providing stimulation to the G-Spot while the other side sits against the clitoris. The “Eva II” however isn’t inserted, the small flexible wings tuck under the labia which holds the toy in place with the body sitting against the clitoris providing a constant vibration stimulation. One can also use “Eva II” as a hands-free vibrator for solo masturbation!!

 

 

UNBOXING EVA II

Upon unboxing the “Eva II” you will be greeted with either a lovely and sleek Pink (Quartz) or Green (Fir) box depending on which of the two beautiful colours you have selected. Once you slide off the lid, the little Pink or Green “beetle” will be sitting next to the charging case, underneath these items is the instruction booklet, USB charging cord and a little discreet silk bag for you to keep your new friend in.

 

HOW TO USE EVA II

One of my favourite aspects of the “Eva II” is how easy it is to use!! Whether with a partner or by yourself, place the “Eva II” by gently pulling the labia majora over the wings one lip at a time. Adjust the placement of the toy according to what feels most comfortable for you, everyone is different as are their bodies, so keep that in mind when fitting the “Eva II”. You can also place the “Eva II” in different positions such as upside down, higher or lower or even sit the toy in the labia minora if this feels more comfortable for you! Once set in place you’re ready to go!! Press the small button on the top end of the toy to turn on, press again to cycle through the different vibration settings. The “Eva II” has three different vibration speeds to choose from, each time you press the little button the vibrations will intensify. Hold the button down in order to turn your toy off.

 

CHARGING

The “Eva 11” comes with a discreet charging case. When the toy is on low battery the light will flash red to give you a heads up that it will need to be charged shortly. Plug the USB charging cable into the back of the charging case, simply place the “Eva II” wings down into the charging case and your toy will begin to charge. While charging, the “Eva II” will blink green and will stop blinking and stay green once the toy is fully charged. Once charging you can pop the charging cases’ lid on and go about your day without a worry! “Eva II” lasts for 5 hours straight on the lowest vibration setting and 1 hour on the highest vibration setting.

 

TRAVEL MODE

Another cool feature of the “Eva II” is that it has a “travel mode” setting. This prevents the toy from turning on and vibrating away in any bag or draw you might have placed it in. To activate this feature hold the button for 10 seconds, the “Eva II” will blink once for each second and then turn off. To turn this function off simply place your toy in the charging base.

 

FEATURES

Medical Grade Silicone (phthalate free), Water Proof (shower or bath), Hands-Free, Partner Use Optional, Travel Mode, 3 Speeds, Whisper quiet, Charging Case.

CARE

  • Do NOT overextend wings on “Eva II”
  • Clean regularly with Anti-Bacterial Toy Cleaner
  • Do NOT submerge charging case/base
  • Do NOT leave in extreme heat or cold

 

All in all, the “Eve II” is a great couple’s toy as well as a solo play toy. I’m very glad I was given the opportunity to test it out, the strong vibrations as well as the hands-free aspect make this toy a staple for any partner or solo play!!

Good Luck and Enjoy!!

 

Eva II by Dame is available through the Lifestyle Center Adult Shops.  Visit the nearest one near you!

Spice Up Your Sex Life!

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The idea of spicing up ones sex life can be a tad daunting for some, as one person’s spice may be mild for the other, or might in fact be too hot! But that’s the point!!  Take-away or add as much spice as you need in order to make your sex life tasty. Here’s a few ideas (that aren’t toys) that will sizzle in the bedroom without burning your tongue.

 

DELAY SPRAYS!!

A delay sprays main purpose is to pro-long sex by enhancing ejaculation control, this is often done by desensitisation. Desensitisation does not mean lack of sensation!! A slight desensitisation of the male sex organ gives more control to the user, avoiding pre-mature ejaculation and allowing longer, stronger erections. A top product in the delay spray range at our stores is the “Adam & Eve: Marathon Prolonger”. “Marathon Prolonger” is specifically designed as an erection aid, is water-based so it’s latex safe and contains “Benzocaine” to gently numb sensitive tissues without completely taking sensation away! After applying don’t forget to wait 5-10 minutes before starting as you don’t want to desensitise your partner!!

 

AROUSAL GELS!!

Arousal gels are as the name suggests, gels (or oils) that are used to enhance arousal. The most popular arousal gels we carry in store would be the “ON” range. The “ON” range comes in both oils and gels, both products have the same effect with the main difference being consistency. The gels are water-based and have different options such as flavoured gels like coffee cake or “ICE” which creates a cold buzzing sensation as opposed to a warm sensation like the natural gel or the arousal oil. The purpose of this product is to cause quicker orgasms (as in when they happen not how long they last), longer-lasting orgasms and more frequent orgasms as well as enhancing overall arousal.

Both the gels and oils creates a warm buzzing sensation, this creates a stronger blood flow to the now very sensitive area causing an instant arousal and moistening effect.

 

 

MOOD MISTS!!

Mood mists are designed to fill a room with a decadent scent that enlightens ones soul spiritually and sexually. The main purpose of mood mists are to elevate the mood of the person or people smelling it. “Wildfire” has a very popular range of mood mists that include: “Feels like Love” which combines sandalwood &rose geranium to create a strong passionate fragrance to put you in the mood. Depending on the fragrance mood mists can often help in regards to lack of sleep, relaxation and much more. These mists can be used to fragrance a room, or spray on clothes or linen to create a passionate aroma wherever you may be.

 

 

BOARD GAMES!!

Board games are a very fun way to spice up your sex life, and I’m not talking about monopoly. The board games I am referring to are played to keep you from being bored in the bedroom, most sex related board games will have challenges or tasks that pertain to the world of sex. Depending on your style of pleasure these board games can be BDSM related such as “Domin8” which sees the players use the same type of game play as dominos, but with the element of fantasy and control, oh and winning is much more satisfying. OR you could try “The Game of Perfect Partners” which follows a different route and is designed to see how well you know your significant other. The game does so by having question cards that ask three sets of questions under the categories of: Revelation, Quandary and Intimate. Try and guess what your partners answer will be to gain points, the more open and honest you are the more points you will get, a great way to open up and perhaps discover some things you might not have known about your partner, in a good way!! Whatever game you choose it will be sure to spice up your sex life.

 

Abbey is a consultant at the Adult Lifestyle Centers the best adult stores in Sydney.  Pop into one of their convenient locations to view these products and many more.

Kiroo Interactive Sex Toys!

Kiiroo is a European based tech company, with all of their products being produced in Amsterdam. They specialize in interactive sex toys, their focus being on innovation and satisfaction. Kiiroo creates a range of products for; women, men and couples of any sexual orientation(any 2 toys can connect to each other no matter what gender they are made for).  All of their products come equipped with either touch sensitivity, or thrusting technology, depending on what genitals the toy has been designed for, this allows for the toy to sense how the user is moving, and if coupled with another toy, then recreate the sensation on the partnered toy. OR, if you are watching an interactive video, the toy will actually replicate what is happening on screen/VR set.

Kiroo is available for sale in Australia at the Adult Lifestyle Center, Kogarah.

The FeelConnect App and how it works:

The app allows for a range of different toy play.
1. Watching Interactive Videos
2. Connecting to Your Partner from a Distance
3. Connecting 2 OR MORE toys within the same proximity
4. Interactive VR content

First things first, how do you connect your toy to the app (or the website for that matter)?
It’s incredibly simple, Kiiroo has made their tech extremely user friendly so you don’t need to be a tech genius to be able to use it.
To connect your toy to the app, all you need to do is;

  1. Turn on your device; it will automatically be in Bluetooth mode
    2. Open the menu bar of the app and tap ‘connect a device’
    3. Select the product you would like to connect, then tap ‘add selected devices’
    4. Slide the slider right, the “test” option shows, click it to ensure your device is working properly
  2. Watching Interactive Videos

To watch an interactive video using your Kiiroo, you first have to connect your toy to the app (using the directions as seen above), then you must connect it to the website, this process is only done the first time you use the toy with online content so don’t worry about having to repeat this.
Interactive content can be accessed through multiple websites, such as FeelMe, which connects users to a plethora of different brands’ interactive videos, and Pornhub, which has its own interactive platform.

  1. Connecting to Your Partner from a Distance

Connecting your device to that of a partners, is as simple as just setting up your own, after you’ve both connected your own devices to your individual apps, you have to share a code provided by the app. That’s it. This sends your partner an invitation to connect your toys, and once they accept your toys will respond to each other, meaning you’ll both be able to feel what the other is doing (thanks to that touch-sense, and thrusting technology), no matter how far from each other you are. Plus youll be able to see each other, thanks to FeelConnect having a video chat option.

  1. Connecting 2 or more toys within the same proximity

Who said interactive toys couldn’t be a group activity?
To connect 2+ devices to the same app for simultaneous interactivity, it’s the exact same process as connecting just 1, except you tap on multiple device listings when asked to ‘add selected devices’. Alternatively, you can choose to ‘local connect’, where it will automatically connect all of the devices within range to your app, allowing everyone to connect to each other on a very intimate level.

  1. Interactive VR Content

Okay… the set up for this ever so slightly more complicated, you have to first go through the process of connecting your toy to the app… and then the website. You then must go into the ‘VR’ categorised videos, select either ‘StreamVR’ or ‘DownloadVR’, this will then open the video in your FeelConnect app, once the video starts you can easily select to view it in VR mode.
As above with the interactive videos, what is done on screen will be replicated for you to feel through your toy.

The Sex Toys
All Kiiroo toys are rechargeable, use body safe materials and come with a 1 year warranty.

For Women

Pearl 2

The Pearl 2 is Kiiroo’s g-spot vibe, as the name suggests it is the second generation for this toy, although if you do own the first gen there’s no need to worry about whether or not your toy will eventually become unusable, because Kiiroo guarantees that all of its products will be compatible with future tech and other toys.The toy comes in both black and purple, is waterproof, rechargeable and comes with a 1 year warranty.
A body safe silicone is used as the external soft shell of the Pearl 2, these covers the touch-sensitive haptic rings, which allow for any motion to be duplicated and transmitted to a partnered device, as well as imitate any on screen action, and any partner movement for your own enjoyment.

KIIROO® PEARL2™ G-SPOT VIBRATOR

Cliona

The interactive CLIT STIM, how?
Cliona works in the same way any Kiiroo toy does, the only exception being that it is just for clitoral use, therefore all the power goes directly to clitoral targeted vibrations, the small toy holds an impressive amount of power, and is COMPLETELY SUBMERGIBLE in water.
Cliona is still compatible with any other toy for partner play, as well as interactive videos and VR, and the vibrations will mimic the on screen act.
The device has a body safe silicone skin, and the controls are well placed for easy use at multiple angles. Cliona is shaped to curve with your hand and body so it feels natural to hold and play with.

CLIONA™ BY KIIROO® CLIT STIM VIBRATOR

OhMiBod toys Powered by Kiiroo

The toy brand OhMiBod has come out with their own range of Kiiroo powered toys, meaning that although OhMiBod have been to designers, the toys still have all the interactive abilities of any Kiiroo toy, and will partner with any Kiiroo toy.

Fuse

Fuse is the first dual stimulation vibe with interactive capabilities, meaningthat it comes equipped with touch-sensitive vibrations on both the clitoral and internal parts of the toy.Therefore it will pleasure both internal and external areas simultaneously, and use sensation from both areas to pleasure your partner. A fun bonus of the toy is that the handle has reactive LEDs that provide you with visual feedback.
The only downside to Fuse is that it ISNT waterproof or shower proof, so you can’t use the toy in any water, and when cleaning you must keep the handle completely dry.

OHMIBOD® FUSE™ POWERED BY KIIROO®

Esca 2

An egg, with all the fun Kiiroo brand interactive abilities, and OhMiBod’s little mark on their Kiiroo powered toys, an LED indicator (don’t worry you can opt to have no lights on, so public play is still an option).
As Esca 2 is an OhMiBod creation  you are free to use the OhMiBod remote app as a control for solo non-interactive play, but the Kiiroo FeelConnect app is essential for any interactive use (solo or not).
Esca is covered in a body safe silicone outer skin and again has the touch-sense technology underneath to please both you and your partner.

OHMIBOD® ESCA2™ POWERED BY KIIROO®

For Men

Onyx 2

The Onyx 2 is advertised as Kiiroo’s flagship model, meaning it’s something the brand will continue to work on for the foreseeable future, taking in new tech and customer asks. The toy is equipped with 10 contracting rings, touch sensitive pads and a Fleshlight superskin sleeve (made of body safe silicone).
Thrusting technology allows for the toy to sense your movement within it, to send to your partner, and to better your experience with the toy itself.
The aforementioned ‘contracting rings’ work together to simulate your desired action i.e. vaginal sex, anal sex, oral sex etc. Or to replicate the sensations applied to a partnered toy. The toy can reach up to 140 strokes per minute, and is incredibly quiet.
A bonus is that it’s surprisingly easy to clean, all you need to do is remove the Fleshlight superskin sleeve (as shown below), and then rinse out the sleeve, spray with toy cleaner, and finish with a refresh powder.

KIIROO® ONYX2™ INTERACTIVE MALE MASTURBATOR

Titan

The interactive vibrating stroker. Outfitted with 9 vibrating motors, the Titan is made for men who enjoy intense vibrations added to their masturbatory routine.
This toy is fully interactive, and controllable by your partner, but is also an experience to be had on its own. You are able to control the vibrations with the external touchpads, so adjusting the vibrations to your own desire is simple and the machine itself responds instantaneously.
Titan also comes with a selection of preinstalled modes; Auto, Blow, Pulse, Endurance.
Each of these modes work in a different way, regulating vibration intensities and patterns to simulate different sexual acts.

TITAN BY KIIROO™ INTERACTIVE VIBRATING MASTURBATOR FOR MEN

Fleshlight Toys Powered by Kiiroo

Fleshlight is a well-known male masturbator brand, they produce high quality products and are arguably the most popular masturbators on the market. Fleshlight has brought out their own Kiiroo powered toy, which is compatible with any of their standard masturbators.

The Launch

If you thought the Onyx 2’s 140 strokes per minute was impressive, then prepare to be wowed by the Launch’s 180 strokes per minute. You can use the Launch in 2 modes; manual or interactive, both modes utilise the Fleshlight or Fleshjack you mount into the toy. The Launch works like any other Kiiroo toy, connecting your device to interactive content, VR, and your partner no matter where in the world they are.
A great point for this toy is that all you need to do to clean it is remove the Fleshlight/Fleshjack and wash out that sleeve.

FLESHLIGHT LAUNCH™ INTERACTIVE STROKER POWERED BY KIIROO®

For Couples

Yes, Kiiroo does produce a range of couple’s sets. So both you and your partner can purchase your toys, not just at the same time, but the sets are also more price effective than buying the toys individually. Or if you just want to have multiple interactive toys all for yourself.

 

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