The world of sex toys is truly one of the most fascinating things out there. And, if you think that sex toys are only an option for females, you’d be completely wrong. The male sex toy industry is also booming, and today we’re going to discuss something called a Prostate Massager. So, let’s get into everything a newbie would want to know about Prostate Massagers.
What is the Prostate?
The prostate is a walnut-shaped organ located inside the male anus. That’s right, it’s not a typo, it’s located in the male anus. It’s located almost three inches inside, between the bladder and the penis. The sperm that men ejaculate passes through the prostate. But, the real information you need to know is that massaging the prostate can give you an orgasm more intense than what you’d get by stimulating the penis. That’s the big draw card of prostate play, better orgasams! The prostate is also called the male P-Spot and if you’re a kinky fella that’s into anal play, prostate massagers are just what you’re looking for.
Is Using a Toy Necessary?
You might be wondering why you’ve never heard of massaging the prostate as a general activity. This is because many straight men have issues with sticking things up their butt. Also, even though the finger can get the job done, using a prostate massager is much more comfortable and pleasurable. So, instead of dipping your finger in lube and reaching down there, the better option is a prostate massager.
Other than that, the second reason why Prostate Massagers are necessary is because they are specifically shaped to touch the prostate in the right way. That’s what sets these massagers apart from butt plugs. They look weird if you’ve never seen one before, but they know how to hit the right spots. If you tried to stimulate the prostate with a standard dildo or butt plug, it just doesn’t work as well.
How Can You Use a Prostate Massager?
The first step is to lubricate the massager. The type of lube mostly depends on the material of your massager. Most people prefer an anal-based water lubricant since it works well with silicone (common material used to make prostate massagers) and keeps your toy in a durable condition for a longer period of time.
The best position to use a prostate massager would be to lie down on your back and prop up your feet vertically. Another position is to lay on the side and tuck your feet into your stomach. These are just some positions that most men like. You can of course experiment on your own to see what feels most comfortable for you.
The next step is inserting the toy. If you’re new to anal play, we suggest going as slow as possible and buying a thin prostate massager. The toy might feel a bit overwhelming if you pop it right in, so just insert it gently. Once the toy is in there, start massaging it in a rubbing motion. Try to remember which areas feel nice and how much pressure you need to get going. This stuff is purely up to your liking, so there’s not much we can tell you to do here. If you need somewhere to start, just gently use the massager without putting too much external pressure onto it. You could also slowly increase the pressure as you get closer to climax.
There’s another way of using a prostate massager, but it requires way more expertise in the field. It’s sort of a hands on approach and once you master the technique, you could get an orgasm purely from clenching and releasing the muscles and move around to stimulate the prostate.
What I strongly recommend!
My recommendation is to purchase a vibrating prostate massager. They’re specifically designed to hit the right spot for you without you having to do a great deal. They’re absolutely the best option for beginners and even guys with lots of experience. They’re more expensive but over the lifetime of the product the extra cost is tiny in comparison to the pleasure you’ll get. You can check out my favorite prostate massagers here.

Safety Precautions
Using a prostate massager might seem easy but it does have its fare share of risks as well. Here’s a few safety precautions you should know about using prostate massagers.
- The toy should always have a handle or a base that prevents it from going completely inside. Prostate Massagers are small and losing them in your anus might seem funny, but it possible; and extremely dangerous.
- Remember, Lube is your best friend. You need to use plenty of lube to ensure that there is no pain or discomfort after the anal session.
- Prostate orgasms are a marathon, not a sprint; don’t rush too much.
- If you have some sort of anal condition, then you should never use a prostate massager. You could be putting yourself at a risk of a serious medical problem.

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