Power of A Female Gaze!

One of the most striking details of a woman’s appearance, according to men – is the eyes.

Eyes can convey the whole range of feelings inherent in a person where love, disappointment, sadness and joy, delight and pain are neighbors. The look of a woman excites, intrigues, attracts men.

Therefore, eyes in self-presentation, which should radiate happiness and confidence, languor and bliss, are so important. It is with your eyes that you can show your sympathy or express your anger.

The person’s eyes reflect his or her spiritual beauty, as they say:

“The eyes are the mirror of the soul!”

And the living expressive eyes with sparks are the true decoration of the woman’s face. The view has many varieties: changing, languid, secretive, studying, glancing a man from top to bottom, intimate and prolonged directly in the eyes.

Your gaze should be open to communication, and not the coldly alienated view of the Snow Queen, which is then approached terribly.  Men do not tolerate arrogance, they have a protest in their blood to submission. The size, color, shape of an eye, framed by flirtatious eyelashes – favorably emphasize the female individuality.

A narrow strip of hair above your eyes gives a variety of looks. After all, eyebrows strengthen this game, as if shading and beautifying the eyes, give mobility to facial expressions. The fact is that a raised eyebrow makes the eye large and meaningful, giving an intrigue and expressiveness.

The same eyebrows give the person a unique charm, create an expression on a face and on them depends the impression that women produce on men. For example, breaking the eyebrows at the bridge of the nose, gives the look of mystery, and of a woman’s unpredictability in deeds.

Not expressive, lifeless eyebrows extinguish sparks in the eyes, reducing their depth.  Therefore, lovely women remember that when you play with a form of eyebrows, you not only update your image, but also attach spontaneity and unpredictability to your image, which fuels the hunting instincts in a man. Face is important, yet if you are one of those busty bikini models, you may have a different set of skills. When you “draw” your face in front of a mirror in the morning, play with your eyebrows, feel them.

However, unobtrusive movements of the nose in the context of the general facial expression mask the signals of your mood. Wrinkles of the nose, can express bitterness and rejection, no matter how you smile, and your eyes do not spark the brightest colors of love, these wrinkles will ruin the whole picture.

The general impression is already greased, the conversation is not glued together. You think that you have said the wrong word, you start to be embarrassed, but it’s all in the nose. Inflating the wings of the nose, intense inhalation can express both rage or excitement. In a certain context of conversation, it can be perceived as a sexual signal.

The visual contact serves as a hint of your openness for acquaintance and further meetings with a man. When your eyes meet for a moment with a man’s gaze, the “spark of emotional empathy of a man and a woman” flares up.

You both signal to each other about your readiness to establish a romantic relationship. The duration of the “conversation with the eyes” is extremely important, the specialists determined that it takes several seconds for the birth of a stable visual contact. If you take your eyes off before the spark breaks out, you will show that you are not ready to continue your acquaintance, and all the more so to establish any kind of relationship.

Otherwise, both you and the man lower your eyes only after

soulful eyes

“the spark pierces your soul.”

Rick is the owner of the Adultsmart, an online sex toy shop that stocks over 13,000 products. He has been involved in the adult lifestyle industry for more than 25 years. Rick is an active sex blogger who provides a wealth of information and experience. He is an advocate of equality for gender and sexuality.

What’s Love Got To Do With It?

When was the last time you laid eyes on a person who made the butterflies in your stomach throw an impromptu party by jumping up and down like their lives depended on it? If you can’t remember, and yet you’re not single and consider yourself to be happily married or in a long-term relationship, the answer is probably – the last century. It was so long ago that even if you found yourself single and ready to mingle, you wouldn’t even know where to begin because back in the day no one in their right mind tried to find love online!

Sustaining a marriage or any sort of committed relationship takes plenty of patience, excellent communication skills, and an incredible amount of understanding.  So, what’s love got to do with it? Well, it’s a foundation, and it better be a solid one otherwise all the other ‘stories’ you build on it will come crashing down sooner or later. Today, we’re not here to discuss the foundation but would like to take a look at what it takes to maintain a relationship in this day and age when even the people have become disposable.

#1: The Art of Patience

Every relationship has its ups and downs, and it’s easy to enjoy the good times knowing a difficult period is behind you. But what do you do when you find yourself in the midst of challenging times where the future of your marriage is uncertain, and you definitely can’t predict what tomorrow will bring? Couples who stay together for decades have a common goal – to stay together for as long as they both shall live. This common goal is one of the key factors that helps each partner get through a tough period that threatens to break them up. This is anything but easy, and in most cases, time is the biggest ally because it heels wounds and eventually opens new doors, and it is patience that each partner must have for time to do its job, and bring their relationship back to normal.

#2:  Communication is Key

Getting your message across so that your partner can understand your point exactly is crucial for maintaining any kind of relationship, even long-term friendships. At the same time, listening intently and paying attention to your partner’s body language even when he or she is not talking goes a long way, especially if you take the opportunity to show them you’ve been paying attention when they least expect it. When you run into problems, talk to your partner when the emotions settle down instead of poking each other’s eyes out when you’re each at your wit’s end. Being prepared to compromise on your wishes and desires to include some of your partner’s as well ultimately leads to a happy and healthy life together.

#3: Putting Yourself in Someone Else’s Shoes

Having sympathy for someone is nice, but it won’t get you far. Having empathy and understanding someone else’s point of view means that two people are mature enough to be with each other. Children have extremely narrow points of view and aren’t capable of seeing the world through anyone else’s eyes but their own. As we grow older, we begin to understand that we don’t live on a remote island, are social creatures, and as such must take another person’s feelings, desires and beliefs into serious consideration. Otherwise, a very lonely existence awaits. Couples who are happy in their relationships for years and even decades have no problem putting their partner’s needs ahead of their own, and their partners are more than willing to reciprocate.

This article is written by –

Stefan Guest Post

Adultsmart welcomes Guest Bloggers to submit 800 word articles with original content about topics relating to sexual lifestyle, health and wellness. If you would like to participate, send an email to rick.xsales@gmail.com with your ideas or an article that you wish to submit. If you publish multiple articles on Adultsmart’s Blog you will become an Adultsmart Expert.

10 Tips To Be a Modern Day Romeo!

If you’re a single guy then you probably know that impressing women on dates is anything but easy and simple. It doesn’t matter if you’re into young ladies or mature women of the cougar dating scene, you have to possess a certain set of skills in order to dazzle them and seal the deal.

Over the years, the list of mentioned skills changed along with the trends and laws of the dating world. Back in the day, impressing a woman was a bit easier than it is today. So, if you’re a single guy who wants to become an irresistible modern day Romeo, here are the 10 tips that will help you achieve that goal.

You Have to Be Willing to Adapt

One of the best ways to become a master of seduction is to be willing to adapt to the current dating market. When it comes to matchmaking, things are always changing, so you have to be flexible. Of course, you don’t have the change who you are, just make sure you’re in sync with the latest trends.

A Romeo Must Be Confident and Calm All the Time

Being too nervous and jumpy is not something most women find attractive. Girls are usually into guys who are composed and confident, so make sure you come across as a fully self-assured gentleman.

Be a Good Listener

Believe it or not, the most important thing when it comes to seduction is listening. Most guys out there are too busy talking about themselves that they don’t know how to sit and listen to the girl. Therefore, if you really want to impress her, work on your listening skills.

Ask Her What She Thinks about a Certain Topic

Even though we live in a modern society, a lot of women still feel like their voice isn’t heard. The majority of men consider them to be inferior, so to stand out from the crowd, make sure to ask your date to share her opinion on the topic you’re discussing.

Show them a Good Time

These days, romantic dates are very predictable. Women expect men to take them out to a fancy dinner and drinks and that’s it. So, to make a really good first impression, you need to show her a good time. Get creative and plan an exciting first date.

Be Spontaneous

Planning your date is important, but women love guys who can be spontaneous and unpredictable during the date. Therefore, break the pattern once in a while and surprise her.

Make Her Laugh

A lot of guys think that ripped bodies, huge biceps, and expensive cars are the things that will seal the deal. However, these things are useless if you don’t know how to make women laugh.

Tell Her a Captivating Story

Most ladies are attracted to great storytellers. They simply love a man who has his way with words. So, feel free to tell your date a captivating story and she’ll be swept off her feet.

Show Genuine Interest in Her Life

Yes, good storytelling abilities are important, but you also need to know how to ask the right questions and listen to the answers. Don’t make it all about you. Instead, show genuine interest in her life. She’ll appreciate it.

Don’t Look too Desperate

It doesn’t matter how lonely, sexually frustrated, or desperate for love you are, you must never show that to your date. Being too eager is a major turn off, so try your best to stay composed and patient throughout the entire evening. If you manage that, she will want to see you again.

This article is written by –

Stefan Guest Post

Adultsmart welcomes Guest Bloggers to submit 800 word articles with original content about topics relating to sexual lifestyle, health and wellness. If you would like to participate, send an email to rick.xsales@gmail.com with your ideas or an article that you wish to submit. If you publish multiple articles on Adultsmart’s Blog you will become an Adultsmart Expert.

7Best Tinder Alternatives!

When it comes to going online in search of a partner, rarely anything works as well as dating apps. And when we mention smartphone apps that you can use to find love online, the first thing that comes to your mind is Tinder, right?

But what if we told you that Tinder isn’t the only dating app out there that works? There are in fact more than a few applications out there that work similarly or just as well as the most popular one does, so in that name, here are the 4 best alternatives to Tinder.


OkCupid has been on the very top of the online dating industry for quite some time now, so the existence of their dating app comes as no surprise.

Unlike Tinder, this app focuses on refined results based on people’s interests and dislikes rather than making choices based mostly on someone’s photo. However, there are some flaws to this app, seeing as most of OkCupid’s app features are closed behind a paywall.


If we had to choose a dating app that takes the most direct approach to matching people up, it would definitely be Happn. Not only does it have an interesting and unique premise upon which it was built, but it actually delivers romantic happiness ever since it first appeared.

Happn takes into account not only your preferences but also people that are in close proximity to you. It reads your location to provide you with potential match ups with individuals who are nearby, therefore allowing you to act quickly on first impressions, which is usually a good thing when it comes to online dating.


Although some people may find this app a bit discriminatory, Bumble has actually proved to have a pretty decent system that produces results. The app is pretty similar to Tinder itself, with one crucial difference – only women can initiate contact on this app.

How does this exactly work if men are unable to start a conversation? Well, for starters, women get to avoid any possible pickup lines that can come their way and, if they do initiate contact with a man, it implies that they’re already interested in him which leaves him with only one job: not to ruin it.


Skout is a fairly fresh addition to the online dating app industry with more than online matchmaking in its scope. Much like Tinder, this app allows users to either ‘like’ or ‘dislike’ others, in the addition of letting them connect with individuals from foreign countries with whom they can become friends.

In all honesty, it’s very rare for a dating app to feature something other than helping people find potential partners for a romantic relationship. Most apps nowadays focus strictly on the romantic aspect, so having a unique one such as Skout around provides online daters with a breath of fresh air.

Coffee Meets Bagel

Although a number of new dating apps have been released recently, only some of them brought something new to the table, and Coffee Meets Bagel is one of them.

This app focuses mostly on giving women greater choices, and it does that by filtering out their potential matches according to whether a guy has shown an interest in them or not. Basically, the app first sends 21 suggestions to men each day at noon and lets them pass or like women’s profiles. Then, according to those results, Coffee Meets Bagel sends suggestions to women and allows them to initiate contact.


When talking about Tinder alternatives, it’s only natural to assume that the list will be populated by apps that work similarly to the most popular dating service. However, there is one alternative option that comprehends online dating in a completely different way.

While Tinder does its best to match you up with complete strangers, Hinge tells us that the best way to find a partner is by searching among the friends of your friends. It’s all based on psychology, which states that your friends will most likely have other friends who have the personality that is same or similar to yours. This model of matching up has shown amazing results so far.


All of us have different criteria when it comes to picking a person for a romantic relationship. But while all other apps on this list consider only general factors, there is one Tinder alternative that mostly focuses on education and professional status – EliteSingles.

Those of you who want to find a well-educated partner that has a great professional and academic background will love this app, given that over 90% of the members are 30 or older and more than 80% of them have a university degree.

It promotes matching people up based on their qualifications rather than their love of books or dogs, which can be a pretty good thing for those who dedicate most of their time to education and work.

This article is written by –

Stefan Guest Post

Adultsmart welcomes Guest Bloggers to submit 800 word articles with original content about topics relating to sexual lifestyle, health and wellness. If you would like to participate, send an email to rick.xsales@gmail.com with your ideas or an article that you wish to submit. If you publish multiple articles on Adultsmart’s Blog you will become an Adultsmart Expert.

How To Host A Swinger’s Party!

What is swinging?

Swinging is a form of open relationship where committed couples engage in non-monogamous sexual behaviour. This isn’t just limited to couples but also to singles who enjoy engaging in open sex and orgy-like scenarios. Swinging became more mainstream during the 60’s with the sexual revolution and as time goes on we see more and more people becoming involved in the swinging lifestyle.

Timing is everything

You’ll want to pick a date in advance to give yourself enough time to plan the party and give people enough notice. Ideally, you’d want to pick a weekend give yourself about 4-6 weeks to plan and prepare. Try to avoid long weekends or holidays as people may have other commitments and therefore fewer guests at your party!

Location, location, location

You could hire an external space like a hotel room (or a few) or even a hall. However, these options can be costly to hire and food options will also be an added cost. If you’re comfortable to do so you could host the party from your own home, just make sure you remove any breakables or things that you don’t want body fluid on! Once your date and venue are locked in you can begin the festivities.

Guest list and rules

You should allocate a set number of guest, many swingers clubs limit the number of single men but often encourage single women to attend by offering free entry. You will want to keep a similar approach in your party planning as more often than not you’ll find women are more incline to swing with other couples or seek a woman to join them. If you have a high number of straight men there is a decrease in swinging activities.

Snacks to spreads

No party is complete without food, and your swinger’s party should be no different. I am not suggesting that you need to serve a 7 course sit down meal. You could consider having a platter spread or bowls of snack food, this is a good chance to make people comfortable as a guest if they are hungry. This is also an excellent ice-breaker for people to meet over the snacks or platters, an easy option for people to suss out their next potential playmate.

Comfort is key

You should have designated sex areas such as: couches, beds, bean bags and thing cosy and where people can get their swing on. Should you not want guest getting it on in your kitchen – assign no sex areas in the house and be very clear if anyone breaks this rule they will no longer be welcome at your party. Like I previously mentioned make sure you remove anything you don’t want damaged during a sex romp or stained with the body fluids that COME with sex parties. (See what I did there?)

Plan your party with your planning style in mind

Make sure your guests have elected their playmate and that everyone is comfortable in their space before you all get busy; it’s easier to manage a party beforehand, otherwise you’ll be very upset if you don’t get an orgasm before you’re interrupted with something party related. If you’re like me, I find it easier to manage a party or event if I am not involved in the activities at all. There is nothing wrong with micromanaging if it’s your style, there is also nothing wrong with completely winging it and going with the flow, it’s your party, host it however you see fit.

To let sleepovers happen or not

You should decide before the party if you want guest to sleep over or not. Personally, as a party planner it is easier to manage if all your guests leave after the swinging is over. That way you don’t have to worry about guests needing to feed in the morning or having a guest potentially steal from you or other guests. Having an estimated end time to the party should prompt guests to leave and as host you can do a once over of the house before you go to bed to ensure everyone has left the property.

Hosting Swingers

The clean up

The worst part of hosting is the clean-up and I am sure you will have lots and lots to clean. You should try tackling a whole room of the house before you move on to the next room and having those sex free spaces will come in handy for the clean-up. Remember to wash all bedding, sheets, pillowcases etc. you will need to vacuum and mop and clear the dishes and left over food. Once you’ve cleaned your house, light a candle, sit down and relax – you did it, you threw a swingers party! If you enjoyed it you can start planning your next swinger’s party maybe you could post an ad in your locate OhZone centre and invite other local swingers!

Adultsmart welcomes Guest Bloggers to submit 800 word articles with original content about topics relating to sexual lifestyle, health and wellness. If you would like to participate, send an email to rick.xsales@gmail.com with your ideas or an article that you wish to submit. If you publish multiple articles on Adultsmart’s Blog you will become an Adultsmart Expert.