Safely Sounding!

We care about you and what you to feel at mind when buying our products and what you can expect when you use them. We also respect what you’re into so I’ve created this how to sound safely guide! This is merely a guide put together from information we’ve sourced from online sources. Please keep in mind that we are not medical doctors, always seek medical advice prior to sounding.

What is sounding you may ask?

Well, I am really glad you did! Sounding is the use of smooth rods, made metal or silicone. The rods are then pushed into the urethra for the purpose of pleasure, this is a pretty advance sexual kink play and falls under the medical play umbrella. This can be both men and women, but in my experience has been more common among the male clientele at Ohzone! Vagina sounding uses different equipment as vaginas are obviously shaped differently and have smaller urethras!  For the purpose of this article, I’ll be looking at sounding for men this time. I know this sounds (see what I did there) excruciatingly painful but done right it can be lots of fun for the recipient.  Some sounders calling the feeling intense and pleasurable, particularly as it hits their prostate.

However, sounding can be dangerous if you’re not careful. The urethra walls are very thin and can be easily damaged – this can lead to internal scarring. I don’t need to spell this out for you; this can cause ongoing medical issues so I am warning you…

BE VERY CAREFUL WHEN SOUNDING.

Okay, the first thing you’ll need to do is buy a sounding set, you can find single sounding bars or sounding sets in your local Oh zone! I would recommend buying the set, you’ll save money in the long run by buying the set and they will last you practically forever. At this point your we are going to recommend that you also purchase surgical lube. Surgical lube is best for sound as it’s sterile, water lube is also suitable for sounding. We advise, like for most toys, against using silicone lube. Also, your saliva isn’t lube… it’s an awful idea, don’t even consider it.

Bear in mind that cleanliness matters and you have an increased chance of getting an infection from the germs from the outside world getting into your penis. Make sure you clean your bars with toy cleaner beforehand, just to be sure. Perhaps you should also have a shower before you start sounding. Please ensure you clean your sounding bars after use as well as before.  Cleanliness is next to godliness, right?

Now that you’re all clean, your toys are clean, you have a sounding set and sterile or water based lube it’s time to pick a bar. As a beginner you may be tempted to use the smallest bar, don’t. Smaller thin toys can slip in easy but can also cut you as they are difficult to control and cause damage to your urethra. This doesn’t mean you should use the biggest bar either, for obvious reasons. Your bladder is located inside this region of the body you can cause serious damage to your bladder if you are not careful. According to a quick google search you should be aiming for a bar that is a similar size to that of your urethra, with lube the bar should feel snug inside your penis. Beginners should aim to go slow, control the bar, acknowledge the feeling and do not push past the bend in your sounding bar. Keep the bend or the curve in your sounding bar facing your face.

Particularly for beginners it is suggested that you steer away from dual sexual activities during your sounding session. That means no sex with your sounding bar in, no butt plugs, no masturbators, NOTHING. Your focus should be on sounding and sounding only.

Overall, sounding can be an intense rush, but it has risks and only after a bit of research you should start sounding. Make sure you have all the information at hand, including what to do if something goes wrong. Like I said earlier, we are not medical staff and I would recommend speaking to your local doctor about it before commencing sounding. If you’re comfortable I would also suggest having your: wife, girlfriend, fuck buddy, friend (pending on how close you are) in the room with you, particularly on your first sounding session. This is one of those occasions where liquid courage definitely will not help you, avoid alcohol as it will thin your blood and if you do have a bleed it will be much worse.

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So, I hope I haven’t frightened you away, done correctly I am sure everyone will love sounding. Be safe and look after one another!

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The Secret of Steel Jewel Butt Plugs

Like many people, I love anything that is shiny, luxurious and sparkly. There’s nothing like putting on some gorgeous jewellery just because it makes you feel good. If you’re like me, I wonder if you’ve ever considered bringing your love of jewellery to the bedroom? For all you lovers of shiny and shimmering things, I have just the thing for you – A beautiful, dazzling anal butt plug!! Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres and Adultsmart have an incredible range of steel jewelled butt plugs with a variety of colours, shapes, and sizes to suit anyone from anal beginners to the most advanced bootie play fanatics. It is important to buy from reputable sources to ensure you are buying a 100% non-magnate, surgical steel butt plug.

Steel but plugs are my favourite anal sex toys to recommend to customers for many reasons. Surgical steel is a body safe material that with the right tender loving care it will last a lifetime. The texture is hard, smooth and glides easily which equates to amazing anal pleasure.

Let’s be completely frank, any anal play has the potential to be unclean. Even with the right preparation, it is vital to be safe with anal play to avoid contact with nasty germs. For this reason, the surgical steel plugs are incredible as they are non-porous and can be thoroughly cleaned and sterilised. I recommend avoiding any anal sex toys that aren’t made from surgical steel, glass or medical grade silicone in order to have a toy that is body safe and that will stand the test of time.  For more information, have a look at our article on anal play preparation.

As surgical steel is a heavy material, it does require a bit of extra strength in your butt to hold it comfortably in place. For this reason, it is important that you pick the most appropriate sized butt plug for your body and experience level. For newbies, I recommend the small sized Bedazzled Metal Butt Plug. Not only is it small and light enough for beginners, the tapered end and smooth design means it’s easy to insert and remove. With greater use of small sized steel butt plugs, stepping up to the bigger sizes is a welcome delight!

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Once you become more comfortable with using the tapered smooth butt plugs, mixing it up with a different size or texture can add variation to the sensations and pleasure experienced. A textured plug such as the Magic Mushie Anal Delight with Gem can feel amazing and is a great option to progress from a smooth butt plug.

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The Bang Butt Plug is a quirky, curved design that features more length than some of the other jewelled plugs available. This means there is more to work with, the plug will be able to reach areas where others can’t go. It also has a rounded, bulbous end which is perfect for more vigorous stimulation.

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When buying a steel jewelled butt plug, it is important to ensure that the plug is intact with no deep scratches, sharp ends or otherwise broken parts. This is why buying from a reputable source is vital! Using a good quality silicone lubricant such as Pjur Back Door Silicone Anal Glide or water-based lubricant such as Aneros Sessions is also really important to ensure greater comfort and pleasure. Anal play requires a great level of comfortability with your body and with any partner you may be playing with. If you feel any tension, uncertainty or unease about it, it can result in an uncomfortable and even painful experience. There should not be any pain with anal play and if someone is experiencing pain, it needs to be communicated with your partner to avoid injury. With that said, anal play is an extremely pleasurable experience for many people and should not be avoided or associated with shame. With the right mindset, sex toys and preparation, anal play will have you reaching blissful states of pleasure that compares with nothing else!!

If you have never experienced using a steel jewelled butt plug, I cannot stress enough how much you should get on the bandwagon! They not only look amazing and beautiful, they are also long lasting, body safe sex toys. If I haven’t convinced you yet, I would suggest coming into one of the Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres and checking them out for yourself. With 4 locations across Sydney, our friendly staff will be more than happy to show you our range. Before I finish, I need to share some products on my butt plug wish list because these shouldn’t go unseen. For those looking for a deluxe butt plug, you cannot go past Rosebud’s Luxe Hiboo & Rosebuds Luxe Daisy Clear as they are incredibly beautiful pieces of art!!

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Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!

Gaga Over A Steel Dildo!

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I was going to be seeing my first live burlesque performance on one of my days off and talk about that but events conspired against me so I’ve had to switch topics and save that one for another week. Instead I want to talk about g-spot toys again, which seems to be an ongoing theme for me lately. It is kind of funny because not so long ago I thought I was one of those women just not that interested in g-spot action, therefore I am a little late to the party but enthusiastically catching up to the rest of the revelers.
So recently it has come to my attention that sex toy reviewers in the States are all totally gaga about steel dildos. I have never heard of these steel dildos! The steel dildos are called the Pure Wand and I don’t think they actually sell it here in Australia but it turns out one of our local suppliers do actually make the same style of toy and I have been wondering just what all the hype is about so I had to take a look for myself. I mean, this style of toy is apparently one that sexperts would include if they could only pick a couple of toys to use for the rest of their lives. I know, just thinking of the horror that we can only pick out a couple of sex toys for the rest of our lives! Let’s hope that even if we get stranded on a desert island, we can carve new toys from coconuts or something but i digress if I ever have to carve my own sex toys out of coconuts I guarantee there will be a whole separate article devoted to it.

So I figured there’s got to be something exciting about this toy. In particular I  had not really expected a steel toy to be that popular so I figured I must have been missing something. I guess I was falling prey to the idea that steel was only for steel fetishists and vibrating toys were where it’s at for the rest of the masturbating, sex having population. But as I read more about it and to be honest, thought about the improvised dildos I had used before I got my first vibrator, I realised I’d been selling them way short and they’re actually really suitable for most people. To own a steel dildo you don’t have to be even remotely hardcore or even have a love for steel sex toy. You could say the exact same thing for glass toys, which I love almost equally as much. Glass toys have similar quality’s to the steel sex toys which is another review in itself.

Steel Double Ended DildoAnd so without further ado, this is Hell’s Couture’s Chrome Crescent double ended, curved, steel dildo designed to be great for both anal and g-spot play. Like the famed Pure Wand it is a very curved toy, heavy steel, solid, and double ended. It’s about 200mm in length and the widest end is 37mm. The smaller end is a much more modest 25mm so there is no need to worry if the larger end seems too much for you at first glance. The first thing you notice when you pick up this toy is the weight. You could definitely do some bicep curls with this one that’s for sure though it isn’t so heavy that it’s uncomfortable to hold. Looking at a heavy steel toy you might actually think that it could be difficult to insert but the funny thing is it’s probably easier than a lot of the lighter, silicone toys you might be used to. I had noticed when using Ben-wa balls that heavier ones were actually very easy to insert, that the weight actually works with gravity and helps them slide right into place without practically any pushing and the smooth material of a steel toy will only help in that department as well. A tiny bit of lube goes a long way on these toys because they are non-porous so insertion is not a challenge and as I said, there is a smaller side that you can start with if you are still feeling intimidated at all.

Also on the subject of material, steel is fabulous for temperature play and the smooth texture makes it very sensual. It’s also extremely easy to clean and keep hygienic, which as you know is a major plus in a sex toy. If you would like to experiment with a bit of temperature play it is also great for that. The easiest way to change the temperature of you toy is to wet it with cold or warm water. Because it is completely waterproof you can do this without the slightest worry and you can absolutely use it in the bath, shower or spa if that floats your boat. You aren’t restricted with the type of lubes you use with this toy either.
Now the u curve shape of this dildo makes it very easy to hold when masturbating and from what i read and what I’ve found with other curved toys a sort of rocking motion works well for most people, the weight and shape of the rounded ends do the rest of the work. If you have never had a g-spot orgasm, this is reportedly one of the most reliable ways to achieve it. Many women who have used it have also reported their first experience with squirting, so if this is something you’d like to try get to it! Don’t forget to put some towels down if you are playing on the bed, as it can be a surprising amount of liquid that is expelled during female ejaculation. Who wants to worry about cleaning up bedding or mattresses when they’re post orgasmic? Not me, that’s for sure.
If you are playing with a partner you may prefer more of an elongated s shaped g-spot wand and Hell’s Couture do one that fit the bill in that department too. Thanks, Hell’s Couture, you steel sex toys are so thoughtful! The difference when it comes to partner play is that the u shape of the Chrome Crescent is super convenient for self pleasuring but slightly awkward for a partner to use on you, so the s shaped curve gives people a much better grip to hand-hold and the curve on the insert-able side which is the knobby part, is ideal for pleasuring you. It also leaves the clitoris free from obstruction so you can very easily use a clitoris toy or manual stimulation at the same time. The great thing about using separate toys for simultaneous g-spot and clitoris action is you have a lot more flexibility in terms of where you focus and move the stimulation than you would with a rabbit, for example.
I love that these toys are so long lasting and beautiful as well. Whenever you fork out for a vibrating toy there is the knowledge that eventually you will need to replace it. This happened to me recently when I left the battier in a vibrator when I moved house. With steel toys you can be sure that with proper care they can last you a lifetime so you just don’t have to worry about ongoing expense. Or saying goodbye to a toy you’ve become attached to! Both of these toys are also wonderful for anal play as well and you’ve got to love a toy you can get multiple pleasures from.
So why should you buy a steel g spot toy?
  • Durability
  • Effectiveness
  • Hygeinic
  • Easy to use
  • Use any lubrication like Superslyde
  • No charging or battery expense
  • Recommended by sexperts
  • Beautiful
  • Be a little different from the crowd

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Andrew is right into the Fet Lifestyle and enjoys BDSM. He has written about these subjects in many arena’s and is an expert at Shibari. He shares his knowledge by working with Adultsmart a sex toy store. Enjoy the descriptive and educational articles he has written.

What Everyone Must Know About The Jennings Mouth Wire Gag

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The Jennings Mouth Wire Gag is also known as an open mouth gag is used to open someone’s mouth without the use of hands. When someone wears the Jennings Mouth Wire Gag they are unable to close their mouths. The Jennings Mouth Wire Gag was originally designed to be used as a medical surgical tool. It was used to hold a patients mouth open during oral surgery. It was used to force a mouth open that will not open naturally due to jaw dislocation. It is commonly used by dentists and has even been used as an airway management device, you could probably even find the gag at a medical school. Today the Jennings Mouth Wire Gag is used in a much more sexually sinister way that is devious and fun. When using any type of mouth gag with your lover be sure to follow risk-aware consensual kink for safe BDSM play.

The first time I put my Jennings Mouth Wire Gag in my mouth, it scared the crap out of me. I felt like my mouth was going to break open and the top half of my head was going to flip off, like that add that was out years ago about a toothbrush and the flip top head. You may be thinking that I am shitting you or exaggerating what I am saying but I kid you not, that’s exactly how it felt like. To be honest, looking at the gag prior to putting it in, I never imagined that this was how it was going to make me feel. I had used other gags in the past like spider gags and ball gags. I found them fun and easy to use. This one, however, blew me away as I had to wear around the house when no-one was home to get used to it before I would ever consider using it in any sexual play situation. I can see you all imagining how funny that would be if anyone would have seen me using this and I have had several laughs over that myself. But when it comes to selling one of these, I thoroughly recommend all customers train themselves into using the Jennings Mouth Wire Gag prior to going into any type of play situation. I think, if I had not trained myself I would have completely freaked out the first time I used it and it would have probably been the last time I used it. Especially when you consider the way they are used. As I said above, in most cases when a mouth gag of this type is in use in a play situation the wearer is generally restrained.

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How the Jennings Mouth Wire Gag works is there is a hinge with a ratcheting feature to hold it securely in place leaving your mouth wide open for your partner to place whatever they like in there. The shape is designed to fit around the mouth with the locking and unlocking ratchet on one side of the gag, whilst in the middle of both the top and bottom surgical steel guides that go around the mouth there is a curved inset that sits under your top teeth and above your bottom teeth and this is the part that is actually inside your mouth keeping it open. As this gag is made from surgical steel, you can bite down as hard as you like, but it is not going anywhere. The Jennings Mouth Wire Gag is strong, you will break your teeth before you break this gag, which is another little scary feature. I say scary because that was and still is one of my biggest fears. Whilst my Jennings Mouth Wire Gag is in my mouth and I constantly find myself trying to open up that little bit more to avoid this happening, but as they say, the fear is part of the fun.

The more I wore my Jennings Mouth Wire Gag and got used to it, the more comfortable I became with having my mouth fully stretched open. Now to be completely honest it is one of my favorite toys and definitely my favorite gag. You really have to try this gag to appreciate the joy of the fear. If you enjoy the medical play, BDSM play or any type of bondage, the rewards the Jennings Mouth Wire Gag will bring you and your playmate are endless. It makes for a great bondage role play idea for the bedroom.

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Andrew is right into the Fet Lifestyle and enjoys BDSM. He has written about these subjects in many arena’s and is an expert at Shibari. He shares his knowledge by working with Adultsmart a sex toy store. Enjoy the descriptive and educational articles he has written.

Surrender totally to your keyholders with The Penned In Male Chastity Device!!

Chastity to a man seems next to impossible, that is until I tried out the BDStyle Penned In Male Chastity Device. Let me tell you about my experience with this chastity device. The device is custom made with a special key that is best kept by one’s partner. Having ceded control of how and when to have a pleasurable sexual experience with my girl, I am more aware of my impulses for sex more than ever. I guess many toys out there are designed for women but this is a wonderful exception. My sexual drive is especially strong after long periods of waiting to get to my girl with the hope that she’ll be in the mood for some action. This used to be direct and forthcoming but over time it evolved to an intense level of teasing that I cannot put in words. There are times a tinge of jealousy and anticipation especially after donning the cage at the insistence of my mistress. She especially likes the fact that all my sexual privileges can be contained at an instant. Letting her be boss for a change is a completely new experience that I would recommend for any man that wants to have some real fun.

At first impression, the Penned In Male Chastity Device looks like exciting baggage that contains your entire manhood. Once you try it on, the ample space is comfortable with ample circulation to get things going.   Men are easily enticed into sex which makes us want to jump into any opportunity that presents itself. Feeling supercharged and horny all the time is OK. This is where this device comes in handy. It lets you be you as nature requires, but takes away that choice. With time, one learns how incredulous and easy it is to tame sexual appetite. A trusted companion makes all the difference especially when she decides when and where to free you from temporary bondage. Sex after that is explosive with some of that reserved stamina coming into play at the crucial moment.   Our relationship has definitely moved a few notches up especially in the fun department. My needs are always kept at bay and this makes me focus on that special time when the shiny device will come off for some unlimited pleasure. I am so used to the cage that it feels like a long-lost sexual booster pack that was created for the likes of pleasure-seeking men.

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Many of my erections are at the most unlikely places. As soon as my mind starts drifting towards pleasure world there is no holding back the intense throbbing concealed underneath clothing. To avoid such embarrassing moments that ensue once you are seen, the cage offers a homely retreat where the beast is kept in its best behavior. The key holder is definitely somewhere doing her thing and cannot wait for us to hook up. The toy has now become part of my daily routine such that I am the one now who insists on putting it on and gracefully handing over control to my girl. This act always bewilders her as she cannot believe how much of a true addict I am to this toy. We always share secret jokes about our new found habit.

The width and other dimensions are favorable and also inconspicuous enough to put on. If I unexpectedly meet my girl, I give her this longing stare that lets her know exactly what I have in mind. Couples should seriously consider getting this cage. $70 is a small sacrifice for a modern treat that is in line with having a good time. Being at the mercy of someone who understands your desires and wild wishes is something else. The secret is in getting the correct fit and accepting the fact that any pleasurable act is locked down for certain and will remain that way for a time period you do not have any say over. This may be a strange experience for guys but very worth the experience. Our bodies are sensitive to touch and it is this very aspect that the creators have found a way around. I love the idea that all manhood can be contained in a fancy design that carries both a sinister and playful motive at the same time.  Chastity can actually be achieved for men with their partner contributing a major role when it comes to making this decision. The rush that comes with each potential steamy moment that can also be denied completely is a roller coaster ride every man should at some point try out.

Instructions are easy to follow and once you get the hang of it, it will take a few seconds to put it on or be free of it. Total surrender to the joys once enjoyed before is not that bad at all. As with many sensational toys, this one actually helps me explore an entirely new and exciting phase. To begin with, there is always something devious to make our sex lives more fulfilling and this may at time revolve around enticing merchandise that is hot in the market. Narrowing down options made especially for men leaves a few decent picks. After a long search for just the right sex toy to be used as a treat, the cock cage made the top of the list. It is the craze right now and missing out is not an option. I can attest to the many inherent benefits that can be enjoyed by both partners. Be among the first to get the real deal.  Orders from a trusted store like adultsmart.com.au are a sure bargain that is safe to use. After making my order, I was concerned about the delivery. To my satisfaction, the package was on time and came in unlabeled packaging such that there was no way of knowing its contents. Any search for an impressive chastity device best ends with this fair priced creation. My Penned In Male Chastity Device is by far the best sex toy that I have ever had. The experience is simply so mind-boggling that you have to try it to get fantastic liberties. This chastity device can be used for long-term orgasm denial.

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Andrew is right into the Fet Lifestyle and enjoys BDSM. He has written about these subjects in many arena’s and is an expert at Shibari. He shares his knowledge by working with Adultsmart a sex toy store. Enjoy the descriptive and educational articles he has written.