Gaga Over A Steel Dildo!

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I was going to be seeing my first live burlesque performance on one of my days off and talk about that but events conspired against me so I’ve had to switch topics and save that one for another week. Instead I want to talk about g-spot toys again, which seems to be an ongoing theme for me lately. It is kind of funny because not so long ago I thought I was one of those women just not that interested in g-spot action, therefore I am a little late to the party but enthusiastically catching up to the rest of the revelers.
So recently it has come to my attention that sex toy reviewers in the States are all totally gaga about steel dildos. I have never heard of these steel dildos! The steel dildos are called the Pure Wand and I don’t think they actually sell it here in Australia but it turns out one of our local suppliers do actually make the same style of toy and I have been wondering just what all the hype is about so I had to take a look for myself. I mean, this style of toy is apparently one that sexperts would include if they could only pick a couple of toys to use for the rest of their lives. I know, just thinking of the horror that we can only pick out a couple of sex toys for the rest of our lives! Let’s hope that even if we get stranded on a desert island, we can carve new toys from coconuts or something but i digress if I ever have to carve my own sex toys out of coconuts I guarantee there will be a whole separate article devoted to it.

So I figured there’s got to be something exciting about this toy. In particular I  had not really expected a steel toy to be that popular so I figured I must have been missing something. I guess I was falling prey to the idea that steel was only for steel fetishists and vibrating toys were where it’s at for the rest of the masturbating, sex having population. But as I read more about it and to be honest, thought about the improvised dildos I had used before I got my first vibrator, I realised I’d been selling them way short and they’re actually really suitable for most people. To own a steel dildo you don’t have to be even remotely hardcore or even have a love for steel sex toy. You could say the exact same thing for glass toys, which I love almost equally as much. Glass toys have similar quality’s to the steel sex toys which is another review in itself.

Steel Double Ended DildoAnd so without further ado, this is Hell’s Couture’s Chrome Crescent double ended, curved, steel dildo designed to be great for both anal and g-spot play. Like the famed Pure Wand it is a very curved toy, heavy steel, solid, and double ended. It’s about 200mm in length and the widest end is 37mm. The smaller end is a much more modest 25mm so there is no need to worry if the larger end seems too much for you at first glance. The first thing you notice when you pick up this toy is the weight. You could definitely do some bicep curls with this one that’s for sure though it isn’t so heavy that it’s uncomfortable to hold. Looking at a heavy steel toy you might actually think that it could be difficult to insert but the funny thing is it’s probably easier than a lot of the lighter, silicone toys you might be used to. I had noticed when using Ben-wa balls that heavier ones were actually very easy to insert, that the weight actually works with gravity and helps them slide right into place without practically any pushing and the smooth material of a steel toy will only help in that department as well. A tiny bit of lube goes a long way on these toys because they are non-porous so insertion is not a challenge and as I said, there is a smaller side that you can start with if you are still feeling intimidated at all.

Also on the subject of material, steel is fabulous for temperature play and the smooth texture makes it very sensual. It’s also extremely easy to clean and keep hygienic, which as you know is a major plus in a sex toy. If you would like to experiment with a bit of temperature play it is also great for that. The easiest way to change the temperature of you toy is to wet it with cold or warm water. Because it is completely waterproof you can do this without the slightest worry and you can absolutely use it in the bath, shower or spa if that floats your boat. You aren’t restricted with the type of lubes you use with this toy either.
Now the u curve shape of this dildo makes it very easy to hold when masturbating and from what i read and what I’ve found with other curved toys a sort of rocking motion works well for most people, the weight and shape of the rounded ends do the rest of the work. If you have never had a g-spot orgasm, this is reportedly one of the most reliable ways to achieve it. Many women who have used it have also reported their first experience with squirting, so if this is something you’d like to try get to it! Don’t forget to put some towels down if you are playing on the bed, as it can be a surprising amount of liquid that is expelled during female ejaculation. Who wants to worry about cleaning up bedding or mattresses when they’re post orgasmic? Not me, that’s for sure.
If you are playing with a partner you may prefer more of an elongated s shaped g-spot wand and Hell’s Couture do one that fit the bill in that department too. Thanks, Hell’s Couture, you steel sex toys are so thoughtful! The difference when it comes to partner play is that the u shape of the Chrome Crescent is super convenient for self pleasuring but slightly awkward for a partner to use on you, so the s shaped curve gives people a much better grip to hand-hold and the curve on the insert-able side which is the knobby part, is ideal for pleasuring you. It also leaves the clitoris free from obstruction so you can very easily use a clitoris toy or manual stimulation at the same time. The great thing about using separate toys for simultaneous g-spot and clitoris action is you have a lot more flexibility in terms of where you focus and move the stimulation than you would with a rabbit, for example.
I love that these toys are so long lasting and beautiful as well. Whenever you fork out for a vibrating toy there is the knowledge that eventually you will need to replace it. This happened to me recently when I left the battier in a vibrator when I moved house. With steel toys you can be sure that with proper care they can last you a lifetime so you just don’t have to worry about ongoing expense. Or saying goodbye to a toy you’ve become attached to! Both of these toys are also wonderful for anal play as well and you’ve got to love a toy you can get multiple pleasures from.
So why should you buy a steel g spot toy?
  • Durability
  • Effectiveness
  • Hygeinic
  • Easy to use
  • Use any lubrication like Superslyde
  • No charging or battery expense
  • Recommended by sexperts
  • Beautiful
  • Be a little different from the crowd

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Andrew is right into the Fet Lifestyle and enjoys BDSM. He has written about these subjects in many arena’s and is an expert at Shibari. He shares his knowledge by working with Adultsmart a sex toy store. Enjoy the descriptive and educational articles he has written.

Review: Jennings Mouth Wire Gag

Jennings Mouth Gag BDSM Equipment

The Jennings Mouth Wire Gag is also know as an open mouth gag is used to open someones mouth without the use of hands. When someone wears the Jennings Mouth Wire Gag they are unable to close their mouths. The Jennings Mouth Wire Gag was originally designed to be used as a medical surgical tool. It was used to hold a patients mouth open during oral surgery. It was used to force a mouth open that will not open naturally due to jaw dislocation. It is commonly used by dentists and has even been used as an airway management device, you could probably even find the gag at a medical school. Today the Jennings Mouth Wire Gag is used in much more sexually sinister way that is devious and fun.

The first time I put my Jennings Mouth Wire Gag in my mouth, it scared the crap out of me. I felt like my mouth was going to break open and the top half of my head was going to flip off, like that add that was out years ago about a toothbrush and the flip top head. You may be thinking that I am shitting you or exaggerating what I am saying but I kid you not, that’s exactly how it felt like. To be honest, looking at the gag prior to putting it in, I never imagined that this was how it was going to make me feel. I had used other gags in the past like spider gags and ball gags. I found them fun and easy to use. This one however blew me away as I had to wear around the house when no-one was home to get used to it before I would ever consider using it in any sexual play situation. I can see you all imagining how funny that would be if anyone would have seen me using this and I have had several laughs over that myself. But when it comes to selling one of these, I thoroughly recommend all customers train themselves into using the Jennings Mouth Wire Gag prior to going into any type of play situation. I think, if I had not trained myself I would have completely freaked out the first time I used it and it would have probably been the last time I used it. Especially when you consider the way they are used. As I said above, in most cases when a mouth gag of this type is in use in a play situation the wearer is generally restrained.

Jennings Gag
Sex Toy: Jennings Mouth Wire Gag

 

How the Jennings Mouth Wire Gag works is there is a hinge with a ratcheting feature to hold it securely in place leaving you mouth wide open for your partner to place what ever they like in there. The shape is designed to fit around the mouth with the locking and unlocking ratchet on one side of the gag, whilst in the middle of both the top and bottom surgical steel guides that go around the mouth there is a curved inset that sits under your top teeth and above you bottom teeth and this is the part that is actually inside your mouth keeping it open. As this gag is made from surgical steel, you can bite down as hard as you like, but it is not going anywhere. The Jennings Mouth Wire Gag is strong, you will break your teeth before you break this gag, which is another little scary feature. I say scary because that was and still is one of my biggest fears. Whilst my Jennings Mouth Wire Gag is in my mouth and I constantly find myself trying to open up that little bit more to avoid this happening, but as they say the fear is part of the fun.

The more I wore my Jennings Mouth Wire Gag and got used to it, the more comfortable I became with having my mouth fully stretched open. Now to be completely honest it is one of my favorite toys and definitely my favorite gag. You really have to try this gag to appreciate the joy of the fear. If you enjoy medical play, BDSM play or any type of bondage, the rewards the Jennings Mouth Wire Gag will bring you and your playmate are endless.

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Andrew is right into the Fet Lifestyle and enjoys BDSM. He has written about these subjects in many arena’s and is an expert at Shibari. He shares his knowledge by working with Adultsmart a sex toy store. Enjoy the descriptive and educational articles he has written.

Review: Penned In Male Chastity Device

Penned In Male Chastity Cuckold

Chastity to a man seems next to impossible, that is until I tried out the BDStyle Penned In Male Chastity Device. The device is custom made with a special key that is best kept by one’s partner. Having ceded control of how and when to have a pleasurable sexual experience to my girl, I am more aware of my impulses for sex more than ever. I guess many toys out there are designed for women but this is a wonderful exception. My sexual drive is especially strong after long periods of waiting to get to my girl with the hope that she’ll be in the mood for some action. This used to be direct and forthcoming but time it evolved to an intense level of teasing that I cannot put in words. There are times a tinge of jealousy and anticipation especially after donning the cage at the insistence of my mistress. She especially likes the fact that all my sexual privileges can be contained at an instant. Letting her be boss for a change is a completely new experience that I would recommend for any man that wants to have some real fun.

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Sex Toy: BDStyle Penned In Male Chastity Device

At first impression the Penned In Male Chastity Device looks like exciting baggage that contains your entire manhood. Once you try it on, the ample space is comfortable with ample circulation to get things going.   Men are easily enticed into sex which makes us want to jump into any opportunity that presents itself. Feeling supercharged and horny all the time is OK. This is where this device comes in handy. It lets you be you as nature requires, but takes away that choice. With time, one learns how incredulous and easy it is to tame sexual appetite. A trusted companion makes all the difference especially when she decides when and where to free you from temporary bondage. Sex after that is explosive with some of that reserved stamina coming into play at the crucial moment.   Our relationship has definitely moved a few notches up especially in the fun department. My needs are always kept at bay and this makes me focus on that special time when the shiny device will come off for some unlimited pleasure. I am so used to the cage that it feels like a long lost sexual booster pack that was created for the likes of pleasure seeking men.

Many of my erections are at the most unlikely places. As soon as my mind starts drifting towards pleasure world there is no holding back the intense throbbing concealed underneath clothing. To avoid such embarrassing moments that ensue once you are seen, the cage offers a homely retreat where the beast is kept in its best behavior. The key holder is definitely somewhere doing her thing and cannot wait for us to hook up. The toy has now become part of my daily routine such that I am the one now who insists on putting it on and gracefully handing over control to my girl. This act always bewilders her as she cannot believe how much of a true addict I am to this toy. We always share secret jokes about our new found habit.

The width and other dimensions are favorable and also inconspicuous enough to put on. If I unexpectedly meet my girl, I give her this longing stare that lets her know exactly what I have in mind. Couples should seriously consider getting this cage. $70 is a small sacrifice for a modern treat that is in line with having a good time. Being at the mercy of someone who understands your desires and wild wishes is something else.   The secret is in getting the correct fit and accepting the fact that any pleasurable act is locked down for certain and will remain that way for a time period you do not have any say over. This may be a strange experience for guys but very worth the experience. Our bodies are sensitive to touch and it is this very aspect that the creators have found a way around. I live the idea that all manhood can be contained in a fancy design that carries both a sinister and playful motive at the same time.  Chastity can actually be achieved for men with their partner contributing a major role when it comes to making this decision. The rush that comes with each potential steamy moment that can also be denied completely is a roller coaster ride every man should at some point try out.

Instructions are easy to follow and once you get the hang of it, it will take a few seconds to put it on or be free of it. Total surrender to the joys once enjoyed before is not that bad at all. As with many sensational toys, this one actually helps me explore an entirely new and exciting phase. To begin with there is always something devious to make our sex lives more fulfilling and this may at time revolve around enticing merchandise that is hot in the market. Narrowing down options made especially for men leaves a few decent picks. After a long search for just the right sex toy to be used as a treat, the cock cage made top of the list. It is the craze right now and missing out is not an option. I can attest to many inherent benefits that can be enjoyed by both partners. Be among the first to get the real deal.  Orders from a trusted store like adultsmart.com.au are a sure bargain that is safe to use. After making my order, I was concerned about the delivery. To my satisfaction, the package was on time and came in unlabeled packaging such that there was no way of knowing its contents. Any search for an impressive chastity device best ends with this fair priced creation. My Penned In Male Chastity Device is by far the best sex toy that I have ever had. The experience is simply so mind boggling that you have to try it to get fantastic liberties.

 

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Andrew is right into the Fet Lifestyle and enjoys BDSM. He has written about these subjects in many arena’s and is an expert at Shibari. He shares his knowledge by working with Adultsmart a sex toy store. Enjoy the descriptive and educational articles he has written.

Review: Wartenberg Wheel

Wartenberg PinWheels Surgical Steel

The Wartenberg Wheel is one of my favourite sex toys. This small little steel device doesn’t do much by itself, but when bought with other sex products this little obscure thing becomes a sensual toy of wonder!  There are a lot of people that prefer sex in the dark and they don’t necessarily understand the reason why. Now, it’s not because they don’t like the look of their playmate. When our eye sight is taken away, our bodies are trying to to make sense of our surroundings. As such, their sense of touch, hearing, smell, and taste is increased. Specifically here, we are focusing on the sense of touch. When the Wartenberg Wheel is applied during sensory deprivation it becomes an awesome tool to use during foreplay. As such it works exceptionally well, when combined with restraints, blindfolds, gags and massage oils.

 

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Sex Toy: Wartenberg PinWheels

 

A lot of people are intimidated by the spikes on the wheel, and one of my favourite things to do is to pull it out and run it down my own arm first to show them that it doesn’t hurt. They then give me their own arm as people are surprisingly trusting around here. I run it gently from their wrist to their elbow. Most people are surprised by the sensation, it feels as if nails are being gently dragged across the skin which for a lot of people is a major turn on. To start off with the sensation kind of stimulates the body very lightly, almost as if it were a gentle massage. Pressure can be applied to induce a small amount of pain, as much as the skin will bear without breaking it, and a lot of people like this as well. Some people experience pleasure from pain as our bodies natural send through endorphin’s and produce a natural form of pain killers to cope with the sensations.

It’s important to remember that during a heightened state of sexual arousal, the pain receptors diminish and people can tolerate a lot more pain. It’s kind of like a primal defense mechanism against the ‘roughness’ of sex. For some people, it’s necessary to activate the pain receptors in order to achieve the ultimate orgasm, and from there it becomes a game. Finding, and then ultimately pushing, the bodies pain boundaries in the quest for bigger and better sexual pleasure. This is all for to gain the ultimate intense orgasmic relief. The Wartenberg Wheel is fantastic used all over the body, but incredible when used on the body’s erogenous zones. This includes nipples, neck, around the joints including the elbows, wrists and very gently behind the knees. You can use it anywhere where the skin is soft, delicate and thin. If you use it in places that people don’t normally touch or use, your skin is very sensitive there. You can try the inner thighs, buttocks, the spinal groove and anywhere else you’d like. I do not recommend putting the Wartenberg Wheel around the balls, clitoris, or labia because the skin here is far too thin and a wriggle in the wrong direction can be disastrous especially when first venturing out.

Because of the evenly spaced spikes, it is actually very difficult to break the skin with the Wartenberg Wheel, unless you slam it down on the skin. This practice is not recommended unless you are experienced and have the consent of your sexual partner. Blood sports is a very different kind of sexual play and requires its own research and understanding of the risks involved before engaging in this form of play. Every different type of sexual play should be researched thoroughly before participating in.

Some playful tips which explore not only the mentality behind some BDSM play, but also explores the use and benefits of steel, leather etc. Steel products are cold when they aren’t being held. So, for a moment imagine an individual restrained on a table or bed with a blindfold, and steel products gently placed on their chest before use. The cold sensation can sometimes excite them as their mind plays and imagines what is about to happen – a form of playful ‘torture’ if you will. The wartenberg wheel can patiently sit there until it’s ready to be used.

 

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Andrew is right into the Fet Lifestyle and enjoys BDSM. He has written about these subjects in many arena’s and is an expert at Shibari. He shares his knowledge by working with Adultsmart a sex toy store. Enjoy the descriptive and educational articles he has written.

Review: Locked-In Pee Thru Chastity Cage

Locked-in Pee Chastity Device

Locked-in Pee Thru Male Chastity Cage has been designed with a lot of creativity to perfect what an all rounder chastity device should be. Compared to other Chastity Cages the quality is outstanding and is more efficient than what you’d expect from a sex toy product. It is an exceptionally restrictive chastity device, and you need to be careful on the size that you choose for your penises. When you wear it and become erect, it may cause some pain. It is important to measure your penis and the dimensions of these sex toy to make sure you are compatable with it.

Important Locked In Pee Chastity Cage Measurements

  • Cage length: 50mm
  • Cage width: internal of 25-38mm, external of 30-34mm
  • Lock ring: 38 mm 41mm 44 mm 47mm 50mm
  • Plug insertable length: 75mm
  • Plug width: 8mm
Locked In Pee Male Chastity
Sex Toy: BDStyle Locked-In Pee Thru Chastity Cage

When you use this sex toy, it will tightly enclose and encompass my small penis. You know you will be locked up and completely reserved in chastity. Once I’m locked up nice and tight in the Locked-in Pee Thru Male Chastity Cage, my key holder becomes in total control of my chastity. She or he becomes my cuckoldress, my mistress or my master. When my cuckoldress tell me that I am able to take it off to masturbate or efficiently clean myself I feel great surge of relief followed by a huge need to relieve my sexual desires.

The urethral tube can be safely inserted so that you can pee without taking of the device. This chastity device has also done away with a butt strap. Having no butt strap is a quality that makes it extremely easy for me to take a leak without having to go through problems of taking the device off. The fact that you can go to the bathroom whenever you want also helps in keeping this device on for long periods of time.

The Locked-in Pee Thru Chastity Cage is made from stainless steel, this device not only serves its purpose flawlessly but also has a high level of aesthetical values that makes it attractive on me. It looks amazing, shiny, beautiful, and fully functional that has been created for long term wear. You can also easily wear it under clothes without other people noticing.  The surgical stainless steel and its shiny in nature. The steel makes cleaning this device extra easy for me. When it comes to the use of male chastity, high levels of hygiene and cleanliness is is crucial to avoid possible infections. That is why this device has been designed to make cleaning extra easy for you. The stainless steel also maximises the level of comfort that you have with this chastity cage on. With stainless steel, the effects of rusting has been fully eliminated and you don’t have to worry.

Besides being extra easy to clean, Locked-in Pee Thru Male Chastity Cage is also easy to use. You can easily wear it in your shower and will still dry off so easily and quickly. It will dry off at the same time as the rest of your body. You can also gently pat around it, to dry it off. This is so because this piece has a design that exposes it well to the air, and all the steel bars are welded together. You will probably love the smoothness of this male chastity device. You can be sure that it won’t cut or scratch you in any way. If you are finding this chastity device uncomfortable, you can apply a little lubricant under your balls sack to make long term wearing a little easier for you.

This Locked-In Pee Thru Chastity Cage is a perfect all rounder sex toy that is a great find for anyone looking to wear a chastity device over a long term period. With this chastity device you are able to pee through it without taking it off, it is highly comfortable, you can hygienically have a shower without taking it off, the surgical steel does not rust, you are able to measure the size of the chastity device compared to your penis before you think about purchasing it. I’ve always loved this device and I know you will love it too.

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Andrew is right into the Fet Lifestyle and enjoys BDSM. He has written about these subjects in many arena’s and is an expert at Shibari. He shares his knowledge by working with Adultsmart a sex toy store. Enjoy the descriptive and educational articles he has written.

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