Words from The Chaste Cyclist!

I’d like to thank you for going through these questions and letting us in to your world of chastity. You started a blog in 2015 called thechastecyclist. We’ve read through your ups and downs, your kink lifestyle, the events of your family and kids, your sex life and various goings on in your life over the previous three years. We’d like to thank you for the chance to ask you a series of questions.

Thank you for reading. I truly appreciate everyone who takes time out of their day to read my ramblings.

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In your first post in 2015 – you say that you started this blog as your exploration into the world of chastity. Why a blog, and not a diary? What drove you to putting this online for others to read?

I was talking to another person who writes a blog, The Drew Duality about his life and it included chastity. I also had read through Denying Thumper, another guy talking about and living a life of chastity. Both of their blogs were of such an interest and coupled with my love to write, I decided to give it a go. I honestly didn’t care if anyone ever read a single post. I considered this blog my personal diary.

You had had an interest in male chastity for many years – what was so interesting about it for you and when did you start taking note of it?

Honestly, it started in the late 1980’s. I have always been interested in BDSM and Female Domination. As a college sophomore I started reading those Penthouse “stories” magazines. One edition had a story about two women seducing a man at a bar, taking him home, then tying him up and doing what they wanted to him all night. I chased BDSM and FemDom ever since. It spoke to me. Fast forward to the early 2000’s. One day while cruising the web I stumbled across the Men in Pain website and saw my first photo/video of a guy with metal locked on his cock. I was hooked from there. The entire idea of someone taking control of my cock and controlling my orgasms quickly became a passion…dare I say…an addiction.

You mentioned that you didn’t always take chastity seriously, and you likened it to a game. What made you change your outlook towards chastity and start to take it seriously?

Initially, it was a game. The first time I convinced my Wife to try it and ordered our first cheap device it truly was a game that neither one of us enjoyed playing. The device was ill fitted. It pinched and grabbed at every movement. Truth be told, I didn’t last more than 18 hours before throwing in the towel. My Wife could not have been more pleased. She just wasn’t kinky at all and didn’t understand. After that initial experience, and I have written about this extensively, I started drifting mentally away from my Wife. I resorted to masturbation for my true sexual pleasure and that feeling took over my side of the relationship. After our 25th anniversary, I realized I was missing something and started searching for an answer. Chastity was that answer.

I have to ask this question as when we’re talking about kinks – not everyone is receptive. You say that it was difficult in getting your wife (MrsL) to take chastity as a serious kind of activity. What do you think changed, have you spoken about that and what was her initial hesitation in chastity?

MrsL was raised a devout Catholic and truly believed I was having an affair…well I was…only with myself and online porn. To this day, she still has a hard time with kink but it isn’t as bad as it once was. Her initial reaction to chastity, before I confessed my masturbation issue, was one of truly not understanding. However, after our anniversary trip I took the time to find some “non kinky” e-books for her to read and once she read them we discussed the concept of chastity more seriously.

What advice do you have for people looking to introduce chastity or kink into their lives?

Do your research. Determine if it is just a kink you want to explore or if you want it to be a regular part of your life. There is an adjustment.

What’s your go to comfort food?

Nice, I like how you throw this in here to bring some levity. My go to comfort food has to be…vanilla ice cream! Imagine that, I am a kinky being but my comfort food is vanilla ice cream!

In one of your posts in early October – you talk about whether or not to keep the blog going. What effort and determination is required when running a blog, and what does it take out of you – for those looking to start their own blog?

Even though I initially didn’t care if anyone read my blog, I quickly realized I had regular readers. With regular readers comes an expectation of new/fresh content. In October, I realized I wasn’t holding up my end of the bargain with new/fresh content. I was feeling guilty. I quickly got over that feeling. If your starting a blog, make sure you know why you are starting a blog. Decide if you are writing for you or for your readers. If the answer is the latter, then take steps to keep your blog updated daily. If it is the former, write when, where, and what you want to write.

You and MrsL use a journal to talk about things; kink lifestyle, what’s going on – This seems like a fantastic idea as it let’s couples work through things at their own pace. Where did this idea come from and how have you both found it useful?

It came from another blog I read with the only difference is this couple uses their blog to talk about “stuff”. We only use it for our kinky stuff.

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You’ve spoken recently about changing the type of chastity that you and Mrs L engage in, and i’d love to explore that. What does the difference between enforced chastity and devotional chastity mean to you – and what was the decision making process in that?

Enforced chastity is exactly what it says…enforced. When MrsL finally told me that she was in charge of when and how long I wore her Steelheart, I realized I truly had gotten what I had been wishing for all those years. Alas, I travel on airplanes and the plastic Bon4 device and the “custom” EvotionWearables device (3D printed surgical nylon) device caused issues…all chronicled on the blog. One of the many websites I visited and introduced to MrsL was Devotional Sex. We both read through it, individually, had a journal, and face to face conversation about the entire concept. Absent spending the money needed, and we are still planning on doing this someday, on a custom TITANIUM device that is airplane travel safe we agreed that we would live the Devotional Sex lifestyle in between stints in the Steelheart. For me, it personifies my renewed commitment to MrsL.

She is still 100% in charge of IF, WHEN, and HOW I receive an orgasm. In exchange, I still focus all of my sexual energy on her! I will admit that the feeling isn’t the same. There is something about the absolutely instant POSITIVE feedback received when locked in chastity that is electric. When you cock wants to get hard and that desire is blocked by some type of device that energy is looped back through your body. With Devotional Sex, the feedback loop is more subtle but it does build with time. For example, within an hour or two of being locked in the Steelheart, the slightest touch from MrsL sends chills coursing through my body. However, when we are practicing Devotional Sex it sometimes takes days. When I am on a known extended travel break for work the Steelheart is more present. Other times, like now, Devotional Sex is more prevalent. Of course, either way has its advantages and disadvantages for MrsL. She is very coy about which way she prefers but I think it is having unfettered access to tease me.

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Purpose of a chastity device

The application of a chastity device is an indication of the control/dominance of the key holder over the wearer’s sexual activities. By wearing a chastity belt or cage the submissive/slave accepts the surrender of control over their sexual desires to the other partner, who may grant permission to the wearer to engage in sexual activity by unlocking the chastity device. The dominant may decide when, where, how often, and even if, the submissive is allowed their sexual release. The key holder is generally considered to be the dominant one in such a situation, and is literally, holding the keys to not only the cage but also to the sexual release.

The wearer of the belt or cage is known as the sub/slave in a BDSM relationship. This is a part of the wider practice of tease and denial. Some people claim it increases submissiveness in their men, It has often been reported that when worn, the chastity belt frequently reminds the slave of the sexual frustration they could experience. Numerous reports and studies also indicate that when men are not focusing on sexual pleasure and release, that they are more intuitive and attentive to their partners.

Most belt or cage designs cannot prevent wearers from physically touching their genitals but they do usually prevent masturbation. Although devices may hold the penis firm, they can be loose and, even though sex is impossible, it is possible for manual stimulation even to orgasm however often resulting in a ruined orgasm. The most effective masturbation prevention requires design features that incorporate piercings or a completely enclosed chastity device. I’ve chosen to look at the Sado Chamber Male Chastity Device which is made of silicone. After doing some research, I had decided that for me, silicone is a great starting choice for a chastity device because it is pliable in comparison to a steel cage, and it is easy to wear and comfortable.

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The Master Series Sado Chamber Silicone Male Chastity Device set includes:

  • 1 silicone cage/tube
  • 3 graduated size silicone back rings
  • 2 plastic cinch straps
  • 5 individually numbered plastic seal locks
  • 1 padlock with 2 keys

The ring measurements are:

  • 2” diameter (52mm)
  • 1.75” diameter (47mm)
  • 1.5” diameter (41mm)

How to apply the device

Please ensure you set up your device correctly, a poorly set up chastity device could result in a serious injury.

At first look whilst the product was still in the box my thoughts were it was going to be an easy application with the device but once I took everything out of the box there were heaps of parts and I was a little confused on how to set it up. All you need is; your shaft tube  – ring – cinch strap with white clip – and padlock/numbered plastic lock.

Step 1

Apply a small amount of water based lubricant onto yourself or to the device whichever is preferred to create easy application. Due to the product being made completely with silicone I recommend a trim/shave to help lower the risk of pinching whilst using the device. Grab the ring with your preferred measurement around your genital area then take out the small white clip for the lock to seal onto.

Step 2

Grab 1 of the 2 cinch straps and push the white clip through one of the end holes. Begin to thread the cinch strap through 1 of the top slots of the chastity tube. Begin to wrap around the back ring whilst heading through the remaining 2 slots. After you have reached the full way around back to the other side attach the cinch strap to the white clip again.

Step 3

Get out the padlock or numbered plastic locks and lock it up! 😏

What I really think of the Master Series Sado Chamber Silicone Male Chastity Device by XR Brands

The Sado Chamber would have to be one of the most comfortable chastity devises I have worn. I have been able to sleep whilst wearing it with no metal spikes or pieces pinching me. It’s great for comfort whilst knowing you are still securely locked up.

With great sized ventilation holes it is perfect for cleaning without removal. This chamber is designed perfectly with a soft and silky silicone for movement and comfort. It is made in favour of the slave/sub with no pins or sharp edges for any unwanted pinching.

Author: Mitch is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

Surrender totally to your keyholders with The Penned In Male Chastity Device!!

Chastity to a man seems next to impossible, that is until I tried out the BDStyle Penned In Male Chastity Device. Let me tell you about my experience with this chastity device. The device is custom made with a special key that is best kept by one’s partner. Having ceded control of how and when to have a pleasurable sexual experience with my girl, I am more aware of my impulses for sex more than ever. I guess many toys out there are designed for women but this is a wonderful exception. My sexual drive is especially strong after long periods of waiting to get to my girl with the hope that she’ll be in the mood for some action. This used to be direct and forthcoming but over time it evolved to an intense level of teasing that I cannot put in words. There are times a tinge of jealousy and anticipation especially after donning the cage at the insistence of my mistress. She especially likes the fact that all my sexual privileges can be contained at an instant. Letting her be boss for a change is a completely new experience that I would recommend for any man that wants to have some real fun.

At first impression, the Penned In Male Chastity Device looks like exciting baggage that contains your entire manhood. Once you try it on, the ample space is comfortable with ample circulation to get things going.   Men are easily enticed into sex which makes us want to jump into any opportunity that presents itself. Feeling supercharged and horny all the time is OK. This is where this device comes in handy. It lets you be you as nature requires, but takes away that choice. With time, one learns how incredulous and easy it is to tame sexual appetite. A trusted companion makes all the difference especially when she decides when and where to free you from temporary bondage. Sex after that is explosive with some of that reserved stamina coming into play at the crucial moment.   Our relationship has definitely moved a few notches up especially in the fun department. My needs are always kept at bay and this makes me focus on that special time when the shiny device will come off for some unlimited pleasure. I am so used to the cage that it feels like a long-lost sexual booster pack that was created for the likes of pleasure-seeking men.

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Many of my erections are at the most unlikely places. As soon as my mind starts drifting towards pleasure world there is no holding back the intense throbbing concealed underneath clothing. To avoid such embarrassing moments that ensue once you are seen, the cage offers a homely retreat where the beast is kept in its best behavior. The key holder is definitely somewhere doing her thing and cannot wait for us to hook up. The toy has now become part of my daily routine such that I am the one now who insists on putting it on and gracefully handing over control to my girl. This act always bewilders her as she cannot believe how much of a true addict I am to this toy. We always share secret jokes about our new found habit.

The width and other dimensions are favorable and also inconspicuous enough to put on. If I unexpectedly meet my girl, I give her this longing stare that lets her know exactly what I have in mind. Couples should seriously consider getting this cage. $70 is a small sacrifice for a modern treat that is in line with having a good time. Being at the mercy of someone who understands your desires and wild wishes is something else. The secret is in getting the correct fit and accepting the fact that any pleasurable act is locked down for certain and will remain that way for a time period you do not have any say over. This may be a strange experience for guys but very worth the experience. Our bodies are sensitive to touch and it is this very aspect that the creators have found a way around. I love the idea that all manhood can be contained in a fancy design that carries both a sinister and playful motive at the same time.  Chastity can actually be achieved for men with their partner contributing a major role when it comes to making this decision. The rush that comes with each potential steamy moment that can also be denied completely is a roller coaster ride every man should at some point try out.

Instructions are easy to follow and once you get the hang of it, it will take a few seconds to put it on or be free of it. Total surrender to the joys once enjoyed before is not that bad at all. As with many sensational toys, this one actually helps me explore an entirely new and exciting phase. To begin with, there is always something devious to make our sex lives more fulfilling and this may at time revolve around enticing merchandise that is hot in the market. Narrowing down options made especially for men leaves a few decent picks. After a long search for just the right sex toy to be used as a treat, the cock cage made the top of the list. It is the craze right now and missing out is not an option. I can attest to the many inherent benefits that can be enjoyed by both partners. Be among the first to get the real deal.  Orders from a trusted store like adultsmart.com.au are a sure bargain that is safe to use. After making my order, I was concerned about the delivery. To my satisfaction, the package was on time and came in unlabeled packaging such that there was no way of knowing its contents. Any search for an impressive chastity device best ends with this fair priced creation. My Penned In Male Chastity Device is by far the best sex toy that I have ever had. The experience is simply so mind-boggling that you have to try it to get fantastic liberties. This chastity device can be used for long-term orgasm denial.

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Locked-In The Chastity Cage I Had To Pee-Thru!

Locked-in Pee Thru Male Chastity Cage has been designed with a lot of creativity to perfect what an all rounder chastity device should be. Compared to other chastity cages the quality is outstanding and is more efficient than what you’d expect from a sex toy product. It is an exceptionally restrictive chastity device, and you need to be careful on the size that you choose for your penises. When you wear it and become erect, it may cause some pain. It is important to measure your penis and the dimensions of these sex toy to make sure you are compatible with it.

Important Locked In Pee Chastity Cage Measurements

  • Cage length: 50mm
  • Cage width: internal of 25-38mm, external of 30-34mm
  • Lock ring: 38 mm 41mm 44 mm 47mm 50mm
  • Plug insertable length: 75mm
  • Plug width: 8mm

When you use this sex toy, it will tightly enclose and encompass my small penis. You know you will be locked up and completely reserved in chastity. Once I’m locked up nice and tight in the Locked-in Pee Thru Male Chastity Cage, my key holder becomes in total control of my chastity. She can become my cuckoldress and mistress. When my cuckoldress tell me that I am able to take it off to masturbate or efficiently clean myself I feel great surge of relief followed by a huge need to relieve my sexual desires.

The urethral tube can be safely inserted so that you can pee without taking of the device. This chastity device has also done away with a butt strap. Having no butt strap is a quality that makes it extremely easy for me to take a leak without having to go through problems of taking the device off. The fact that you can go to the bathroom whenever you want also helps in keeping this device on for long periods of time.

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The Locked-in Pee Thru Chastity Cage is made from stainless steel, this device not only serves its purpose flawlessly but also has a high level of aesthetical values that makes it attractive on me. It looks amazing, shiny, beautiful, and fully functional that has been created for long term wear. You can also easily wear it under clothes without other people noticing.  The surgical stainless steel and its shiny in nature. The steel makes cleaning this device extra easy for me. When it comes to the use of male chastity, high levels of hygiene and cleanliness is is crucial to avoid possible infections. That is why this device has been designed to make cleaning extra easy for you. The stainless steel also maximises the level of comfort that you have with this chastity cage on. With stainless steel, the effects of rusting has been fully eliminated and you don’t have to worry. For further information, read a guide on tips for cleaning a chastity device.

Besides being extra easy to clean, Locked-in Pee Thru Male Chastity Cage is also easy to use. You can easily wear it in your shower and will still dry off so easily and quickly. It will dry off at the same time as the rest of your body. You can also gently pat around it, to dry it off. This is so because this piece has a design that exposes it well to the air, and all the steel bars are welded together. You will probably love the smoothness of this male chastity device. You can be sure that it won’t cut or scratch you in any way. If you are finding this chastity device uncomfortable, you can apply a little lubricant under your balls sack to make long term wearing a little easier for you.

This Locked-In Pee Thru Chastity Cage is a perfect all rounder sex toy that is a great find for anyone looking to wear a chastity device over a long term period. With this chastity device you are able to pee through it without taking it off, it is highly comfortable, you can hygienically have a shower without taking it off, the surgical steel does not rust, you are able to measure the size of the chastity device compared to your penis before you think about purchasing it. I’ve always loved this device and I know you will love it too.

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Double Barreled Fun With The Silverado Cock Cage

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There are some natural feelings, which often are pleasant for a moment, but cause rather intense scenarios later on. The same is the case with erection of penis and various other activities associated with the penis. I also experienced the undue erection of penis in various scenarios, which not only embarrassed me in a public place, but also created uneasiness many a times. Many activities like Masturbation, erection, sex, etc., can just go beyond control for some people. I used to indulge a bit too frequently in these activities, which had an impact on my performance inside the bedroom with my wife.

Search for a product to control anxiety – I was desperately in search of a product, which could solve this very weird problem of mine. On researching over the internet, I found many such people who have similar problems. The intent of not betraying my partner for my sexual desire, which could pop up anytime anywhere made me research for some products that could help keep my feelings under control. After reading through a lot of articles and recommendations, I found out about Silverado Double Barrel Cock Cage which ultimately changed my life. It not only helped my sex life, but ultimately helped me with my premature ejaculation as well!

 

 
Not able to satisfy my wife and the uneasy public feeling just frustrated me a lot. I just decided to consider various recommendations and ordered this product, without informing anyone. I can tell you, it was one of the best decisions I had ever made. I was excited when I received this product and realized that it was a rigid cage that could prevent natural anxiety and restore it for 100% with my partner.
The Silverado Double Barrel Cock Cage is made of metal but is still very light. There are various sizes of Silverado Double Barrel Cock Cage, which can be selected based on the size of the penis. If you aren’t sure about the size, you can buy a medium size cock cage, which has a 5.5 cm outer ring and 4.5 cm inner ring. The external length of the curved portion is about 9.5 cm and the internal length of the curved portion is about 6 cm.  Honestly, I had never used such products before and had no idea about the sizes. But, I did purchase a medium size Silverado Double Barrel Cock Cage and it perfectly settled for my penis size.
 
The Experience
Initially, it took me a while to adjust, as it felt a little uncomfortable carrying a slightly heavier penis. But, later on in rather 2 or 3 days, I just got used to it. The Silverado Double Barrel Cock Cage is just so nice that it does not create a bulgy appearance, which many people like me are very particular of. Further, the light weight of Silverado Double Barrel Cock impressed me a lot, as in spite of having a metal construction, it became quite easy to handle after 2 or 3 days.
Various other experiences that deal with urinating or walking, playing, etc., were not affected by this so called anxiety shielding equipment. I was pretty satisfied with this aspect, as many such products as reviewed by many previous users created a lot of problem when indulging in normal day to day activities.
The Principle
The Silverado Double Barrel Cock Cage works on a principle of preventing erection. If the penis erects even slightly, the cage facility creates a pain sensation, which prevents further erection. Often due to excessive masturbation, erection, sex, etc., many people like me have to suffer various consequences. Slight pain during the erection process prevents all such problems, which follow up after a small moment of excitement. I am glad, I ordered it for myself as many women today are using this equipment to keep their men’s loyalty intact. But, after using this product for months, I was pretty satisfied and was able to give my wife utmost bedroom satisfaction, which was missing in my past life. I had no need or necessity to try another alternative for this Silverado Double Barrel Cock Cage. With so much happiness and satisfaction, this product just changed my life. I am in a better space today and there is far more love in our relationship.
I suggest people try out Silverado Double Cock Cage, as it is great and will help you get rid of some common problems you might face with your penis!

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