How Sex Furniture Increases Sexual Pleasure in Relationships

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With the rise of modern technologies and various other incredible achievements throughout the world, all aspects of our lives have significantly changed for the better. Some people might say these new inventions have changed their love life as well – and they’re right!

Since manufacturers all around the world implement new technologies in all kinds of products, designing new sex toys and other arousing items is the next step of technological advancement. The evolution of these gadgets through history see here.

Some of these items may seem kinky and strange but take note that humans are known as incredibly sensual and passionate creatures. Therefore, people have always been looking for new ways to improve their fantasies and making their experiences much better.

Today, you can find many available options on how to improve and spice up your lovemaking experiences. The sex industry is on the rise, as many people use these products. It’s not a taboo yet one handy, satisfying way to work on your relationship.

Importance of Building up Your Relationship

 

After some time, every relationship gets stuck in a routine. Once in a while, you have to do something to keep it on the right path. Without being consistently inventive, your love life may suffer. That’s the reason why people tend to spice up their bed adventures with new ideas and creativity.

The reason why people like to use toys and other items while make love is that they may help them get a profound experience and pleasure. As the market grows, everything else does as well. The sex toy industry and the use of its products are booming in recent years.

Unlike traditional gadgets, there are plenty of other, unusual options for people with more selective tastes and desires. If you’re eager to work on your love life, you shouldn’t miss out on some of the incredible things like sex furniture.

The Variations of Sex Furniture

 

Furniture for making love is not a new thing, but it’s becoming a hype. At first glance, as seen on https://www.anastasiasextoys.com/best-sex-furniture/, these pieces look like any ordinary modern furniture. But if you look better, all those curves and backrests have their purposes.

This equipment will allow you to achieve new experiences. It’ll help you get out of your comfort zone and enjoy sex on a whole new level. All this will undoubtedly help you and your partner get the most out of your current relationship.

Some of these things exist for a long time, but they weren’t in mass production like they are today. Unique beds designed for BDSM are one of the examples. They exist for many years, but you couldn’t find them at your local furniture store.

Lovemaking Equipment at Disposal

 

By popular demand, people can find various sex furniture pieces available in sex shops these days. Since mass production became a thing in recent years, you can buy all types of furniture in stores. Also, online sale is available for those who still think of making love as a taboo.

Besides bondage beds, there are many other incredible furniture options like benches, sofa, or chairs. You can buy ready-made furniture that can find a permanent place in your house. Or you can opt for inflatable models, which are easy to move.

Also, various accessories, like pillows of all shapes and extra support (ramps, swings), are available in the market as well. Support cushions are handy when you have to find the best angle during intercourse. They will make performing of some intense and demanding poses more comfortable, without getting hurt or tired.

 

 

The Details to Know

 

Some of sex furniture items are considered to be incredibly useful and a powerful tool to help people find their inner selves and connect on a whole new level. However, there is another group of people that don’t approve of the use of these products.

Some believe that they don’t need new things to help them keep their sex life in check. But those who are willing to experiment will eagerly use this equipment to help them break conventional boundaries in their love lives.

Check what you have to do to bring the fire back to your relationship or marriage with these sex tips. If you still don’t know if these items may be the best fit for you and your partner, you may want to perform thorough research and discover all the options. Implementing this kind of gadgets into your love life requires long talk and agreement of both partners.

 

Sure, all kinds of furniture can serve when you’re in the mood, but the one marked with ‘sex’ is not only intended to enrich your living space but also your love life. These accessories may allow you and your partner to enjoy your special time in somewhat different conditions than usual.

Everything you need to know about Sex machines

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Sex machines are generally larger than traditional sex toys and designed for sexual penetration as well as other sexual activities. Sometimes you will achieve orgasm on your own or with the help of some toys, a sex machine can do better by stimulating and massaging different body parts to bring you more pleasurable orgasm. Most of the people use and recommend this most versatile sex machine to their friends.

At present, many online sex toy stores are providing different categories of top brands of sex machine at a reasonable price. As a beginner to the sex machine, you have to be conscious about how to purchase, how they work and how to properly use one of the most suitable sex machine.

Things to do before using the Sex machine

Almost every adult likes to have the powerful orgasms during sex. You must be aware of the best and realistic techniques and suggestions on masturbating with the sex machine. Once you have geared up for using the sex machine, you have to set the mood at first. Some couples spend enough time and put maximum efforts to set the mood for sex with their partner. For example, they close the blinds, lit a few candles and turn down the lights before sex.

You must follow the same when you use the sex machine or sex toys and masturbate or have sex with your partner for double penetration. This is worthwhile to put on sexy music, light a candle, dim the lights and lock the door and windows before exploring the adult fun with the sex machine.

Experts in the sex these days reveal the main mistakes ruining the sex life as well as relationship of many people. They suggest the easy-to-follow guidelines for satisfying sex life. You can follow such guidelines and give your sex partner back-arching, screaming orgasms and keep her sexually obsessed with you.

Playing with the right sex machine in the best possible ways is the first step to get the enhancement in the sex life. You can explore the suggestions about how to use the sex machine and improve your proficiency about how to take pleasure in the adult sex massager. You can lay down a comfortable towel before get started.

This is worthwhile to pick up any favourite erotica book and kick things off. If you get yourself in the mood, then you can use every chance and realize all your wishes about the enjoyable sex life.

Prefer the suitable fuck machine

Everyone must spend enough time to enhance their expertise in the sex/fuck machine before buying one of these sex toys. A vast array of sizes, shapes and genres of dildos is available in our time. Choosing the right sex machine is one of the most important things to spice up the sex play further. This is because the suitable dildo is useful a lot to fulfil your sexual desires and needs on the whole.

Many people make use of the wooden, steel or a hard glass dildo which makes sense as they expect. Some people prefer and use the vibrating dildo for extra sensation. An sex machine is a good option for those who like extra sensation and feeling of being stretched.

Warm-up is vital

All experienced users of the sex machine are aware of the role of the warm-up before start playing with the dildo. You can get the manual stimulation by using one of the best and most convenient masturbation techniques along with an orgasm or two. This is advisable to use your finger and get deeply satisfying yourself.

You may be one among women who do not product enough lubrication in the natural way. You can use some lube and get a good improvement in the sexual desire, arousal and pleasure as expected. For both men and women, using lots of lubricant to keep your body in a slippery state is the best way to have an awesome experience with the sex machine!

Deep thrusting  

Deep thrusting is one of the most popular and suggested techniques for all sex toys users. You can use the first-class dildo installed on the sex machine and thrust it along the overall length of the vagina to get the intense stimulation. You will get loads of favourable things when you use a textured dildo and sex machine in a proper way.

A dildo with the core that is strong enough not to bend is recommended for the deep thrusting. Most sex machines allow for the replacement of different accessories and various types of dildos. If you are a male, I would suggest that you can utilize different sizes and types of male dildos. This is worthwhile to avoid using the soft dildo and heavily textured dildo for such sex play. You can use the curved or smooth dildo to be comfortable all through the deep thrusting.

Short and shallow

The first 1/3 of the vagina includes the most of the sensitive nerve endings.   As a woman with an interest to use the dildo for the vaginal based penetration and pleasure, you can use the short and shallow thrust in the masturbation session hereafter with a dildo. You can get an array of favourable things when you use the dildo for short and rapid strokes.

Though you can insert up to 7-inch of a dildo into your vagina, you do not have to do it every time. You can use the additional shaft length in the dildo and get a better grasp on it. You will enjoy the sex machine penetration in the short and shallow vaginal penetration.

Rock it out

The dildo is the most important part of the sex machine, you should pick the best suitable size for you. For many beginners, try to start with the small size, and never “challenge” a large dildo, as the vibration and penetration mechanisms of the sex machine can be very powerful!

You may think about how to use the dildo when you lie down on the back. You have to use the dildo to point down toward the bed and start pushes it in your vagina. You will get the clitoral stimulation and also additional sexual stimulation around the vaginal opening.

Keep on turning

Many pornstars reveal the twisting dildo masturbation and impress their viewers. Dildos known as juicers come with cranks. Users of such special dildos have to turn them around after they have inserted into their vagina. Almost every dildo works with this motion when there is no sharp angle as it results in uncomfortable feel to its users. You can use the suitable dildo and get the improved adult fun as expected.

Milk the G spot

Many women these days fall in love with the best dildos. Sex machine controls the dildo and milk their G-spot. They drag the dildo’s top part across their sensitive G-spot when they pull it outward. They feel the maximum pleasure when they push their dildo against the vagina’s top part known as the anterior wall while sliding the dildo back inside. They use and recommend the rigid dildo made of metal, wood or hard glass with a curve for the highest possible pleasure in the form of the G spot stimulation.

Filling feeling

Beginners to the dildo these days misunderstand that motion is vital to enjoy the best use of the dildo. However, they can simply insert the dildo into their vagina and keep it there while stimulating their clit to orgasm. They get a good improvement in their sexual orgasm as the role of the ideal dildo which remains in the same place. They feel 100% satisfaction from this filling feeling during the masturbation with the dildo.

Temperature play

Users of the steel and glass dildos these days get pleasure from the temperature play. The human body gets into shock feel when it felt so chilly upon insertion of the dildo into the vagina. You can make things comfortable and satisfying when you engage in the temperature play based on the dildo.

Many women drag the cold dildo across their nipples and get relaxed and satisfaction at the same time. They can also warm their dildo and enhance the masturbation in different aspects. You can place the waterproof dildo in the bowl of cold or warm water. You can also place this dildo in the stream of water from the faucet to make it ready for the temperature play.

Keep in mind that ceramic, steel and glass dildos are responsive to the temperature changes. Do not use the wooden and silicone dildos for the temperature play.  You must check the dildo’s temperature with your hand before inserting in into your vagina.

Anal play

For men using sex machines, pay attention to the size of your penis and pick smaller insertable attachments that fit the anus. Anal sex enthusiasts make use of the best dildos and enjoy the anal masturbation.  They are aware of the effective approaches for using the dildo for anal penetration in the pleasurable ways. They use enough lube and use the dildo specially designed and mostly suggested for the anal penetration. They thoroughly clean the dildo after they have used for anal penetration and before they use the same dildo for vaginal penetration.

Take your time to learn more about Sex machine

Once you decide to purchase a sex machine, make sure it’s stable enough not to get knocked over in the middle of the playtime, I guess you don’t want to be interrupted by such an accident when you’re close to orgasm. Find a suitable place to set up or use your sex machine as it can take up a lot of space compared to the ordinary adult toys. Most floors used are hard, so using a soft mat or blanket can reduce discomfort. And most importantly, be sure to clean the insertable part of the machine after each use to prevent the growth of bacteria.

Words from The Chaste Cyclist!

I’d like to thank you for going through these questions and letting us in to your world of chastity. You started a blog in 2015 called thechastecyclist. We’ve read through your ups and downs, your kink lifestyle, the events of your family and kids, your sex life and various goings on in your life over the previous three years. We’d like to thank you for the chance to ask you a series of questions.

Thank you for reading. I truly appreciate everyone who takes time out of their day to read my ramblings.

Chaste Cyclist Blog

In your first post in 2015 – you say that you started this blog as your exploration into the world of chastity. Why a blog, and not a diary? What drove you to putting this online for others to read?

I was talking to another person who writes a blog, The Drew Duality about his life and it included chastity. I also had read through Denying Thumper, another guy talking about and living a life of chastity. Both of their blogs were of such an interest and coupled with my love to write, I decided to give it a go. I honestly didn’t care if anyone ever read a single post. I considered this blog my personal diary.

You had had an interest in male chastity for many years – what was so interesting about it for you and when did you start taking note of it?

Honestly, it started in the late 1980’s. I have always been interested in BDSM and Female Domination. As a college sophomore I started reading those Penthouse “stories” magazines. One edition had a story about two women seducing a man at a bar, taking him home, then tying him up and doing what they wanted to him all night. I chased BDSM and FemDom ever since. It spoke to me. Fast forward to the early 2000’s. One day while cruising the web I stumbled across the Men in Pain website and saw my first photo/video of a guy with metal locked on his cock. I was hooked from there. The entire idea of someone taking control of my cock and controlling my orgasms quickly became a passion…dare I say…an addiction.

You mentioned that you didn’t always take chastity seriously, and you likened it to a game. What made you change your outlook towards chastity and start to take it seriously?

Initially, it was a game. The first time I convinced my Wife to try it and ordered our first cheap device it truly was a game that neither one of us enjoyed playing. The device was ill fitted. It pinched and grabbed at every movement. Truth be told, I didn’t last more than 18 hours before throwing in the towel. My Wife could not have been more pleased. She just wasn’t kinky at all and didn’t understand. After that initial experience, and I have written about this extensively, I started drifting mentally away from my Wife. I resorted to masturbation for my true sexual pleasure and that feeling took over my side of the relationship. After our 25th anniversary, I realized I was missing something and started searching for an answer. Chastity was that answer.

I have to ask this question as when we’re talking about kinks – not everyone is receptive. You say that it was difficult in getting your wife (MrsL) to take chastity as a serious kind of activity. What do you think changed, have you spoken about that and what was her initial hesitation in chastity?

MrsL was raised a devout Catholic and truly believed I was having an affair…well I was…only with myself and online porn. To this day, she still has a hard time with kink but it isn’t as bad as it once was. Her initial reaction to chastity, before I confessed my masturbation issue, was one of truly not understanding. However, after our anniversary trip I took the time to find some “non kinky” e-books for her to read and once she read them we discussed the concept of chastity more seriously.

What advice do you have for people looking to introduce chastity or kink into their lives?

Do your research. Determine if it is just a kink you want to explore or if you want it to be a regular part of your life. There is an adjustment.

What’s your go to comfort food?

Nice, I like how you throw this in here to bring some levity. My go to comfort food has to be…vanilla ice cream! Imagine that, I am a kinky being but my comfort food is vanilla ice cream!

In one of your posts in early October – you talk about whether or not to keep the blog going. What effort and determination is required when running a blog, and what does it take out of you – for those looking to start their own blog?

Even though I initially didn’t care if anyone read my blog, I quickly realized I had regular readers. With regular readers comes an expectation of new/fresh content. In October, I realized I wasn’t holding up my end of the bargain with new/fresh content. I was feeling guilty. I quickly got over that feeling. If your starting a blog, make sure you know why you are starting a blog. Decide if you are writing for you or for your readers. If the answer is the latter, then take steps to keep your blog updated daily. If it is the former, write when, where, and what you want to write.

You and MrsL use a journal to talk about things; kink lifestyle, what’s going on – This seems like a fantastic idea as it let’s couples work through things at their own pace. Where did this idea come from and how have you both found it useful?

It came from another blog I read with the only difference is this couple uses their blog to talk about “stuff”. We only use it for our kinky stuff.

Orgasm Denial

You’ve spoken recently about changing the type of chastity that you and Mrs L engage in, and i’d love to explore that. What does the difference between enforced chastity and devotional chastity mean to you – and what was the decision making process in that?

Enforced chastity is exactly what it says…enforced. When MrsL finally told me that she was in charge of when and how long I wore her Steelheart, I realized I truly had gotten what I had been wishing for all those years. Alas, I travel on airplanes and the plastic Bon4 device and the “custom” EvotionWearables device (3D printed surgical nylon) device caused issues…all chronicled on the blog. One of the many websites I visited and introduced to MrsL was Devotional Sex. We both read through it, individually, had a journal, and face to face conversation about the entire concept. Absent spending the money needed, and we are still planning on doing this someday, on a custom TITANIUM device that is airplane travel safe we agreed that we would live the Devotional Sex lifestyle in between stints in the Steelheart. For me, it personifies my renewed commitment to MrsL.

She is still 100% in charge of IF, WHEN, and HOW I receive an orgasm. In exchange, I still focus all of my sexual energy on her! I will admit that the feeling isn’t the same. There is something about the absolutely instant POSITIVE feedback received when locked in chastity that is electric. When you cock wants to get hard and that desire is blocked by some type of device that energy is looped back through your body. With Devotional Sex, the feedback loop is more subtle but it does build with time. For example, within an hour or two of being locked in the Steelheart, the slightest touch from MrsL sends chills coursing through my body. However, when we are practicing Devotional Sex it sometimes takes days. When I am on a known extended travel break for work the Steelheart is more present. Other times, like now, Devotional Sex is more prevalent. Of course, either way has its advantages and disadvantages for MrsL. She is very coy about which way she prefers but I think it is having unfettered access to tease me.

Safely Sounding!

We care about you and what you to feel at mind when buying our products and what you can expect when you use them. We also respect what you’re into so I’ve created this how to sound safely guide! This is merely a guide put together from information we’ve sourced from online sources. Please keep in mind that we are not medical doctors, always seek medical advice prior to sounding.

What is sounding you may ask?

Well, I am really glad you did! Sounding is the use of smooth rods, made metal or silicone. The rods are then pushed into the urethra for the purpose of pleasure, this is a pretty advance sexual kink play and falls under the medical play umbrella. This can be both men and women, but in my experience has been more common among the male clientele at Ohzone! Vagina sounding uses different equipment as vaginas are obviously shaped differently and have smaller urethras!  For the purpose of this article, I’ll be looking at sounding for men this time. I know this sounds (see what I did there) excruciatingly painful but done right it can be lots of fun for the recipient.  Some sounders calling the feeling intense and pleasurable, particularly as it hits their prostate.

However, sounding can be dangerous if you’re not careful. The urethra walls are very thin and can be easily damaged – this can lead to internal scarring. I don’t need to spell this out for you; this can cause ongoing medical issues so I am warning you…

BE VERY CAREFUL WHEN SOUNDING.

Okay, the first thing you’ll need to do is buy a sounding set, you can find single sounding bars or sounding sets in your local Oh zone! I would recommend buying the set, you’ll save money in the long run by buying the set and they will last you practically forever. At this point your we are going to recommend that you also purchase surgical lube. Surgical lube is best for sound as it’s sterile, water lube is also suitable for sounding. We advise, like for most toys, against using silicone lube. Also, your saliva isn’t lube… it’s an awful idea, don’t even consider it.

Bear in mind that cleanliness matters and you have an increased chance of getting an infection from the germs from the outside world getting into your penis. Make sure you clean your bars with toy cleaner beforehand, just to be sure. Perhaps you should also have a shower before you start sounding. Please ensure you clean your sounding bars after use as well as before.  Cleanliness is next to godliness, right?

Now that you’re all clean, your toys are clean, you have a sounding set and sterile or water based lube it’s time to pick a bar. As a beginner you may be tempted to use the smallest bar, don’t. Smaller thin toys can slip in easy but can also cut you as they are difficult to control and cause damage to your urethra. This doesn’t mean you should use the biggest bar either, for obvious reasons. Your bladder is located inside this region of the body you can cause serious damage to your bladder if you are not careful. According to a quick google search you should be aiming for a bar that is a similar size to that of your urethra, with lube the bar should feel snug inside your penis. Beginners should aim to go slow, control the bar, acknowledge the feeling and do not push past the bend in your sounding bar. Keep the bend or the curve in your sounding bar facing your face.

Particularly for beginners it is suggested that you steer away from dual sexual activities during your sounding session. That means no sex with your sounding bar in, no butt plugs, no masturbators, NOTHING. Your focus should be on sounding and sounding only.

Overall, sounding can be an intense rush, but it has risks and only after a bit of research you should start sounding. Make sure you have all the information at hand, including what to do if something goes wrong. Like I said earlier, we are not medical staff and I would recommend speaking to your local doctor about it before commencing sounding. If you’re comfortable I would also suggest having your: wife, girlfriend, fuck buddy, friend (pending on how close you are) in the room with you, particularly on your first sounding session. This is one of those occasions where liquid courage definitely will not help you, avoid alcohol as it will thin your blood and if you do have a bleed it will be much worse.

Unsafe penis play

So, I hope I haven’t frightened you away, done correctly I am sure everyone will love sounding. Be safe and look after one another!

Bondage Hoods and Masks

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Many of the BDSM hoods and masks come with really convenient attachments and accessories. Making them highly effective in bondage play,  There are no limits to the different types of BDSM hoods and masks. From a simple cloth hood that can be made at home to elaborate leather and PVC ones that you can buy from the market. Like everything else in BDSM, individualism is the key. Innovate by yourself to make your play and lifestyle more enjoyable.

 

If you wish to purchase from your local BDSM store Australia, you will generally find BDSM hoods and masks made of three different kinds of materials.

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Hoods with Eye and Mouth Holes: Of all the BDSM hoods and masks, this is one of the most popular. They can completely remove a sub’s identity in a matter of seconds. Turn a human being into an object. To be cherished or to be used.

Ponytail Hood: This is usually a hood with eye and mouth holes. However it also has a hole on the top from where the hair of your sub can be pulled out to make a really beautiful ponytail.

Hoods with no Holes: This is highly popular because it completely deprives the submissive of his or her sense of sight. The sub will not know what is in store for him or her. Another added plus – this also completely gags your sub (quite a relief with some really talkative ones). So there is no chance that she will even be able to protest when you establish control over her. A simple word of caution – not all subs are quite ready for this. When choosing from the range of BDSM hoods and masks available, make sure you choose wisely. One that is right for you and your sub.

Padded Hoods: (Also known as Isolation Hoods): This too is a hood with no holes. And does exactly what a hood with no holes does. But in this case, a padded hood goes one step further. It completely deprives the submissive of sound as well. Which means that she will not be able to either speak or hear what you are doing. It is complete isolation inside her own head. Of course as any Dominant can well imagine what this can do to a sub’s other senses. The significance of even a simple touch becomes so much more.

Straitjacket Hoodie: Essentially this is a straitjacket with a hood attached. Many dominants like to leave face of the submissive open while using this. However if one wishes the hood can easily be pulled down to cover the face and act as a blindfold.

Gimp Mask: Remember Pulp Fiction? Well, who doesn’t? This mask immediately skyrocketed in popularity after this movie was released. The term too came into popular usage because of the movie. Gas Mask: Gas masks were originally used – yes you got it right – in chemical warfare. But somehow along the way they became popular in the BDSM lifestyle. However the gas masks used in BDSM are often modified to suit the needs of the lifestyle and can be used in breathplay, enclosure etc.

Female Mask: The Female Mask completely hides the identity of the wearer and can be used to give a female appearance to the submissive. In recent years great improvements have been made on their design and some of them look quite realistic.

Head Harness: Though technically not a mask or a hood, the head harness can be used as one. Head harnesses often use different kinds of gags – ball gags are popularly used. They not only help objectify the sub but can also perform many practical functions like providing attachment points and gagging.

Strap Mask: A strap mask is somewhere between a harness and a mask. There are many straps to this harness which covers most of the face making it look more like a mask.

 

So when shopping for BDSM Australia hoods and masks, choose judiciously. Remember your personality and tastes and that of your submissive as well. And choose one that is practical and also sets your heart racing.  We trust this information from BDSM Australia helps you in your bondage choices and lifestyle,