These Cuffs Will Make You #Cross Over!

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Have you ever wondered what CrossOver Bondage Cuffs are? Or even tried to use them? If not, you are really missing out. Last month, my husband and I wanted to try a new thing to make our sex life more exciting and better. We reached out to some of our friends and there was this one friend who had a very exciting idea; cross over bondage cuffs. We decided to try on that because we had never heard of that. She advised us where she got them and  we found out that they are device like handcuffs that are wrapped around one’s wrist or several arm positions during sex in order to put your partner to a position you desire.

We found cross over cuffs very exciting because you get to keep your partner’s body parts, mind, loyalty and actions where you want them to be. They are simple and clever and the person who you are putting into bondage cannot free themselves without the key. You may think why bondage? But this is what I think; It is fun to play master and mistress. The master gets to control the mistress and the mistress submits.The Cross Over Bondage Cuffs are useful to keep your partner from getting away or changing positions you do not want.  It is sexy when one is the master and the other submits

With the CrossOver Bondage Cuffs you can get sexually creative. Use them and you will straight away get out of your mundane normal routines and day to day life. The CrossOver Bondage Cuffs challenging; to play while you are tied up.  You get to connect with your partner emotionally because they are giving you complete control over their body, trusting you with their physical and mental health. If you take your time to experience their bondage hobby with them, by giving your partner what they want, they will appreciate and lust over your completely. Cross over bondage cuffs are very easy to use you just cross your hands, put the cuffs and they will automatically close themselves. They are also very comfortable to use in that you can put them in any arm position you want.Cross Over Surgical SteelI also learned that they can come in different material whichever you desire. They normally come in body safe, medical grade, stainless steel. They also come in titanium, gold, and leather materials.  I love the fact the the CrossOver Bondage Cuffs material can be changed based upon the type of material you choose. They can be more like a jewelry piece making bondage that much more fashionable and enticing. As much as we love fun and misery we all know that sex safety comes first where both parties who are experience sex together remain safe.

Some of the safety measures we should take are; First, you should know about the circulatory system of your partner, as tying one up may course impaired or cut off circulatory system.  You should know how to operate the cuffs before using it.  Check the material used on the cuffs before use if you have any allergies or skin reaction to metals.  You should know your partner’s health like high blood pressure, Asthma, Physical injuries, or physical limitations etc. Check in on how tight the cuffs are.  If your partner wants out you let him or her loose  before any injuries occur.  And most of all discuss with your partner on how you are going to play, if there is any rule you can apply to make it more fun and to reduce tiredness.

For me using the cross over bondage cuff has improved my relationship with my husband and our sex life. I find it more exciting. We also communicate well during the time we are using.so it has improved our communication.it is very comfortable to use.it is very sexy to see your partner tied up and you are in command. Am so much in love with it.

These CrossOver Bondage Cuffs, have started us on a journey and we have booked tickets to go to the gathering in Sydney this long weekend to explore what other avenues there are for us to further our BDSM Relationship.

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Use The Cock Crimper As A Male Chastity Device!

Pain Or Pleasure

Me and my wife had the perfect first time experience using the Cock Crimper Male Chastity Device.  Sex can be as daring or exciting as you and your partners are willing to make it. It may be an interesting fetish to delve into but it will be an experience you will never forget. Using the Cock Crimper Chastity device will make both you and your partner rekindle by sexual experimenting. By simply delving into a different type of sex toy that is made simply, you can experience a whole new world of pleasure. For some couples, mostly the old married type, just loving each other and doing the deed the basic old way enough, but for others, like myself, a little added bedroom dynamic, variety, and some dirty play are the only way to get going. That’s why the Cock Crimper Chastity device is my secret bedroom weapon, to get the best orgasm even it the most boring of occasions.

To any old married couples out there, we are no prudes around here, and we certainly know our way around sex toys. We know about all types of vibrators, anal plugs and my personal favorite, cock rings. If you choose to ignore the wonders of these chastity devices, let me tell you something: kudos to you if you can be satisfied the good old fashioned missionary way. Sometimes there is not much fun in the way of foreplay to build up the excitement, but you and your partner are simply missing out by not trying out different types of sex toys.

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Cock Crimper Double Ring Male Chastity

 

 

Here’s the thing: I used to be wary of ‘all that bondage’ stuff before I found this baby, thinking it was all crazy and scary. I mean, who can judge, no one talked about it. But I was certainly missing out with the straight up vanilla sex, because let’s be honest, just the body and sweet words can only get you so far, and after seeing the same clothes, memorising my partner’s body from being in a long term relationship and hearing as well as saying the same words, you become closer, but the routine can become a chore to not only me but for her to. Using the Cock Crimper Chastity Device was my way to make our sex life more exciting.

That’s why my ears perked up and my eyes bulged as I came across chastity devices like the Cock Crimper online. Not going to lie to you, we may have been a little skeptical about it at first, what if it cut blood supply and all that. But we were also curious, and ready to try something new and reignite our relationship, especially in the bedroom.It was awkward at first, getting into character, pulling the thing on. We both had a bit of a laugh together as our personal character’s were fumbling our way into the BDSM, bondage and kink play world, a world we had never been in before.

But as soon as it was on, it was just on, and man was it arousing to see her excited face at the sight of my cock trying to get in and trust me, it was trying hard to not get excited but managed otherwise would not be able to do it. I could tell she was having fun, interrogating me, accusing me of all sorts of things while she got down to her panties. We didn’t go far that first time, as she was worried my cock couldn’t take it and I needed more training, but believe it or not, seeing her getting out of character and setting my gun free was just as exciting as holding everything back, and the sweet relief was the best I’d had in a while, if ever. I have became an instant fan, and so did she.

The Cock Crimper Chastity Device ring will never be put down for long again, and it will be the first of many other chastity toys just have a look on pinterest. The good news is , as we can play different games using different scenarios, it will remain one of our favorites. And if you’re afraid to surrender control, take my word on it, women are as hot, if not more, when they wear the sexually dominant pants.

Author: Theodore from Pine Creek

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The MediEvil Massager

Painful Massager

I was always the shy girl afraid to explore any worldly possibility. I had always lived a quiet life that began at sunrise and ended at sunset. My friend Ellen is the first person who had told me about BDSM. She first experienced it with a one night stand that she picked up at a random bar. Ellen had no idea what to during sex bondage so she just went with the flow and she loved it. She is now somebody else’s dominant. The Medievil Massager was the first gadget Ellen bought for me to try out

on my BDSM journey.

When I propose to you that you ought to begin with small I truly mean it! This Medieval Massager device is amazingly small and is easily controllable. I had always imagined such devices to be big and exaggerated since the whole concept of sex bondage seemed too painful to fathom. When you place it in your hand you will notice it is surprisingly light in weight. it is bought 5cm; long. It looks like an incomplete triangle. Instead of the tip of its triangle forming an apex, it is round. It is kind of where one can attach a hook, rope or tough string whatever you prefer) The base of the triangle has a ball which has 7 spikes on it. I have to say this was the most intriguing part of this device.

Once you both have settled into a comfortable positionand you are both relaxed it is time to let the prodding start! For the rest of the examination, I will allude to the individual who is secured as the submissive and the individual who is doing the prodding as the dominant. The magnificence of having the submissive in place when your using the Medievil Massager is that they will always have to be accommodating to how you choose to use the device within their safety range! It is a capable and suggestive position for the Dominant to be in. It will be an equivalent delight for both positions, however my heart lies with the accommodating position.

Steel Massager

The massager is made of stainless steel. Steel is durable and easy to clean so you have got to love this about the device.This handy tool feels surprisingly sensational on my body. I had a bittersweet feeling the first time. Since I was new to BDSM I was a bit wary of whatever pain, however minor, I would experience. It would be best if you would advise your partner to use it mildly if you are a first timer. Scratching may feel slightly painful the first time but once you get used to it like me you start practically begging for it.

I usually tell my partner to scratch my buttocks and my thigh area using it. I find these regions to be the most erotic on my body. You may consider experimenting this massager on various areas of your body before knowing what’s best for you. if you choose to use it on areas you expose such as your face or arms it may leave some scratches so be wary of those. However, the thrill the scratches give you is undoubtedly exhilarating. In spite of what a few people think,

BDSM is not about damaging somebody

amid immobilization. To add to all this pleasure the “workmanship” of fun loving servitude includes prodding and tickling, licking and sucking, conveying your sweetheart to without a doubt the most elevated enthusiasm conceivable.

To this day I thank Ellen for introducing me to this lifestyle. All I can say is on wards and upwards. I would advise couples to begin with this on their BDSM journey. It will make them become incessant buyers and lovers of this lifestyle. I now figure that it is good to live on the edge at times. I stepped out of my comfort zone and I am glad to say I am never going back. The MediEvil Massager literally changed my life and made me more open to sexual possibilities out there. You may consider surprising your partner and getting one today for your next sexual escapade. He or she might just end up thanking you for it.

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My Male Chastity Story

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I want to explain how I use my male chastity device and I want to inform you guys about the pleasures you will enjoy with your manhood being under lock and key and it won’t damage your marriage or relationship. When talking about the intricacies of Male Chastity strategies most guys out there claiming to be experts are really online liars. The fact there are many guys who like to have a cock and balls locked up indefinitely by their wives, girlfriends or male partner is astounding. The numbers of these kinky guys I believe are very small, and this article will explain what I have learned about male chastity devices.

My First Experience Wearing a Chastity Device

A few days before I was to get married I purchased a CB3000 which seemed to be the most popular of chastity devices on the market. This I presented as a joke to my wife as a surprise present before our wedding as she had expressed to me doubt that I could remain faithful to her after marriage. I actually wanted to find how seriously she took this as she had been cheated on earlier by previous boyfriends and always seemed to carry that distrust towards me.  She actually started experimenting with it and although the first time she insisted we try it and put the device on me it came as a bit of a shock – although silently and subconsciously I was pleased. We experimented and found out ways that the use of the device actually enhanced our pleasure. She started liking it so much – and I guess the thought of being in control – that after some time she would keep me bonded in my device for weeks at a stretch which gradually increased to months at a time.

 

Male Chastity Ring

 

The trouble was that I could not masturbate and I started missing this activity. I had to beg her to release me and let me enjoy my freedom for the bare minimum, just a couple of days but she begin to take great pleasure in punishing me and keeping me deprived from sensory pleasures without her permission. She is no longer afraid that I will fool around with other girls or guys. I have become more caring towards her as I shower her with more love and attention when my cock is locked up. I have actually caught her recommending a male chastity devices to her closest friend whose husband had been found to be cheating on her. She told her friend that she should to keep him locked up in one of these when you are not around and he will never cheat on you again. And if he refuses to wear it he is obviously going to cheat on you again.

The erotic denial a males chastity device gives is obvious. I first started with complaining profusely. But now I realise that I have actually started enjoying the situation and am now I am a chastity fetish fan. Having my cock locked up in a male chastity device actually has the effect of turning me on and I find it more exciting when my wife dominates me and I have to ask her to release me.

I wanted to know more about my kinky obsession and went to consult an urologist and know whether there would or could be any adverse impact on my health if I used these male chastity devices. He let me know that there is not even a single resource or place for doctors which gives information on this condition or in all the medical and urological writings.So I went and did a bit of research on my own and got my male chastity device customized so that there would be a reduction of the amount of compression on my organ when I had an erection. As I am not a newbie now in the game and I did not use it for short periods of time I wanted to make sure all would be well and my health would be taken care of.

I searched a lot of sites and finally found a male chastity device that was perfect for me. The chastity devices here have great names also! The names serve as a turn on. Some of the product names include Torture Puzzle, Tigers Cage, Hell’s Dungeon, Grinder or Exoskeleton just to name a few which I looked up. These are all sold by quality vendors and not only are much more safe but the cock cage also cannot be removed without the help of a key. I finally purchased a silicone cock cage which is made of flexible material and partly adjustable and can be worn for prolonged periods of time.

With my wife’s permission and after consulting with my doctor I selected an expensive chastity device which had no rings and did not have the cock rings which are the cause of tissue compression. The Doctor told me that erection was a natural process and night time erections may help the flow of blood and also exercise the erectile and vascular tissues to keep them healthy and ensure that the cock does not waste away, atrophy due to non-usage. The cock is just like any other muscle and if not used for protracted periods of time it is bound to wither away. So I am very alert as I hope to have many more healthy erections to live for.

But the fact remains that doctor’s advice, however frightening and scary like causing cancer and impotence does not stop the addict from smoking or stopping or my wife from locking my cock a male chastity restraint for protracted periods. I was scared about the Doctors warnings so I went and took some second opinion.

Male Chastity Devices are a Type of BDSM Foreplay

What I found out was that like all other sex toys the chastity device which I purchased was a much sought after bondage item which is not controlled nor certified as safe by the FDA or other regulatory bodies. Obviously there are little or no known complaints of guys becoming impotent due to their squeezed up cock and balls due to wearing chastity restraints, because nobody is unhappy when wearing them and everyone is enjoying the tightness and restrictive pleasure of wearing them. My Doctor also helped me by consulting with his friend who was a specialist on urological trauma and told me that the fact is that are not too many reports of people being injured by wearing or because of over use of male chastity restraints.

I was able to get hold of a blogger Metal who Incidentally told me that he was also a renowned consultant for cocks which had been locked up for years together. Bondage and Discipline coupled with Sadism and Masochistic leanings were Metal’s area of expertise. He reassured me that he had a lot of clients with locked up cocks who had no difficulty in getting an erection when their devices were removed. The pain of the erection in the beginning always turns into pleasure.

Metal advised me that play with my custom chastity device is a kind of foreplay, which is really, really long and prolongs the pleasure to give a kind of tantric euphoria which passes on to transcendence. But there are rules that are good and need to be followed. Maybe you must strictly not allow yourself to be unhooked before being chained to the bed posts. A second useful rule suggestion by Metal and endorsed by my wife is that if I am allowed to cum then immediately afterwards my cock would get a sound spanking for being naughty and would get locked up in my chastity device for long stretches to which I happily agreed.

I have finally come to the conclusion that wearing a male chastity device enhances my marriage and would recommend to my friends that this is how I use my male chastity device and if they want to live a less kinky sex life they could always do so too.

Chastity Device Rules

First we should get this straight a cuckold’s role in any relationship is that of a support person. His wife of better half needs come before all his own needs. So at the earliest time after the roles are determined and you choose to live a cuckold lifestyle he should be introduced to a male chastity device. The obvious reason for this is there is no place for him to waste time stroking off his own penis as it will deter him from the more important task of keeping his wife happy and serviced. It is my opinion that the chastity device be used even before marriage, whilst dating even so that the boundaries can be set early in the piece and the cuckolded man, if you wish to call him that does not take advantage of any situation especially when it comes to masturbation or sex.

As the key holder in my relationship I will not allow my cuckolded man to ejaculate at any time without my permission and this includes when I choose to take the chastity device off too. There is nothing more empowering to have his penis enclosed for a long period and then after release still deny him his release. It will only make the moment you do allow him to to be all the more exciting and rewarding. My husband begs me for sex that I permit him to have about once a month. To see how excited he gets when the time approached is in some way pathetic but in other a real turn on. Knowing that whenever I want it his cock will be erect and ready to service me empowers me and in most cases denies him. Chastity can be an important part of teasing and denial play. Teasing and denial is a form of Discipline where the wife takes pleasure in purposely teasing her cuckold both physically, verbally and even mentally. I love a cuckolded lifestyle and my husband does too!

Early on, before we got married, I let him know that I would be permitted to have affairs outside out marriage but that I would never cheat behind his back. In fact all the affairs I have had I have explained to my lovers the situation and I have brought them home for him to watch. For him to know his hot wife is desired by other men but that I choose to stay with him, as he is convenient for me. My husband kept pestering me to put him in chastity. He had one of the plastic belts from before we were married, which I didn’t like the look or design of so I went all out and got him a steel cock cage. I put him in under one condition: That he stays is going to stay in it for six weeks at a time, only being allowed out when I choose to allow him. He agreed although the first time he was only in one for a month. He constantly begs me to let him out and let him cum, but I won’t break our agreement now and I’m going to see to it that he doesn’t and keep my man in chastity.

I love the look of it on him, the way steel chastity cock cage contains & looks on my man’s big dick and he has mentioned to me that he loves the feeling of the cold steel around his cock and balls. I don’t get why men like to have that part locked up, but I certainly love it when he wants me with his whole being. It is great to be the key holder and in charge and certainly he is more receptive and kind to me. I also make his hands cuffed to our bed and legs shackled to the bed once or twice a week while I tease and shave his dick hair. This way there is no chance of escape of the chastity and I further enforce my dominance.

He only gets to have 10 sexual encounters with me per year. He is usually let out for 1 day for each encounter. Last night because he was really good I had him serve dinner to me and my 3 girlfriends who were in sexy short skirts and high heel sandals and he was stripped naked with only the cage on and out of his g-string that he always wears for me. We all grabbed his cage and his butt while he served us dinner. After we were done and he cleaned up we decided to only shackle his legs, free his dick out of the cage and he had to have sex with each one of us. He pleased each of us and to keep him horny we pleased each other too. He got drained good and when we were done he got locked back up in the cage for the next fun encounter.

My man loves being locked up in his male chastity device and it is great to know that if or when he is to see someone else it is at my command and will.  I love keeping my man in chastity and he loves it too.

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