14 Surefire Ways Lingerie Will Make You Irresistible

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It is not secret that both men and women love wearing lingerie! Using quality lingerie that fits your body type can make all the difference in your day. Here are 14 reasons why people absolutely love lingerie!

Sometimes It’s Not About Who Sees It

Many people have the expectation that people wear lingerie to impress their lover or for another’s pleasure. But did you know that for most people who wear lingerie often wear it just for themselves. Lingerie helps people feel sexy, attractive and desirable. Feeling this way is important for self-confidence and self-esteem so that people are able to have a positive view of their own body image. Looking and feeling great is a major part of people’s lives and can have a big impact on how a person’s day goes.

I like to call this “Lingerie Confidence”. Have you been the airport recently? Did you know that there is a Victoria’s Secret in both the Domestic and International Sydney Airports? This trend is continued in Melbourne, Perth, Brisbane, Gatwick (London), Heathrow, JFK Airport, Dubai, Paris, Auckland, Rome. . . it is thus clear how important a place lingerie can be in our lives

Wearing Lingerie Can Be Kept As A Secret

Some people are exceptionally timid and feel uncomfortable showing off lingerie to a lover as they may feel it is out of their comfort zone. Since lingerie is worn under a person’s clothing, it can be used whether you are at home, at work or at an important social function. No one else will know you are wearing it. This means you are wearing something incredibly sexy and it is your little secret.

Lingerie Can Be Worn To Impress A Lover

Wearing lingerie can be visually stimulating and sexually arousing for a lover to see.

Lingerie Can Help Improve Relationships

Subsequently, I feel that lingerie in a relationship is important and I’m not alone in this thought. Charles J.Orlando suggests that lingerie is excellent to spice up the bedroom for couples. It provides a sense of empowerment and confidence and it makes a delightful gift.

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Lingerie Can Be Worn Everyday

Gone are the days of having to wear lingerie like boned corsets that make it hard to move or even breathe! Most lingerie is designed to be worn comfortably every day, you don’t just have to use it for a romantic date night.  So you can feel beautiful, gorgeous and sexy any day your please.

Suzie, self-described as a love strategist, writes in her article ‘Why Lingerie is important in a relationship’ that wearing lingerie shouldn’t be a special occasion thing. It should be an everyday thing. She writes that when she saved lingerie for special occasions in her marriage, due to the various issues that they’d have that special moment, wouldn’t materialize. After her marriage, she decided to wear the lingerie everyday as she had drawers full of unused pieces. She writes that she discovered new parts about herself, that she felt more confident, became more flirtatious and subsequently she began to project a new image and personality into the world.

Lingerie Can Purchased At Affordable Prices

People can find high quality and designer lingerie at affordable prices so you will be able to find something which suits your personal budget.

Lingerie Can Naturally Enhance A Person’s Body Figure

Lingerie can be worn to emphasize a person’s best assets. By highlighting their best assets you are bringing enormous confidence to the table. You’re saying, I love my ass, let’s show it off. For men, if he has the best ass, go for a jock strap. If he has a great cock, go for something sheer/netted in the front or get something, like Andrew Christian which favourably lifts and pushes. For women, if she has amazing breasts go for something plunging with an under wire. If she has long luscious legs go for high cut underwear or a low cut piece.

Lingerie Can Be Used To Hide A Person’s Flaws

In the same token, if a person is sensitive about a particular body part then they are able to buy something that accommodates for that. People need to be mindful as to how you will feel when you wear the product. For men, if he doesn’t like his dick, then something sheer isn’t going to give him confidence. For women, if she has scarring from a caesarean or feels that she has a big ass, then a two piece set with a thong isn’t going to work. For tummy scarring go a sheer loose fitting chemise, garter belt or a lace body stocking, if it’s only the scarring that they are concerned about and not tummy size.

Lingerie Can Be Worn To Express Your Personality

The design of the lingerie can be chosen based upon how a person’s wishes to see themselves. For example, if he or she wears something incredibly erotic, they may feel sexually empowered. If the person wears something cute they may feel playful. It can be used to fuel how you wish others to perceive you or it can be used as inspiration to change the way you choose to act.

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Lingerie Is Available In Different Sizes

When you are shopping you can choose a size that fits your body. It is best practice to know the size you’re buying for before you even go shopping. Write down your measurements on a piece of paper so that you can remember them. If you are unable to measure your body, look through your clothing and read the sizing labels of items that properly fit you. For men, look at the jeans and underwear sizes. For women, look at the bra sizes and underwear sizes.

When you go shopping, you can compare the measurements with the product’s sizing guides or speak to a consultant to find out the appropriate size. If you need further help you can ask the consultant if you are able to open up the package to try on the lingerie or to compare it to your body.

You can even give your lover your measurements in case they ever wish to buy you lingerie as a gift, this is helpful so they don’t have to guess your size. The problem with a lover picking out the incorrect size is that if you go too small and you’ll make them think they’re fat, if you go to large, it may make it look like you think they’re fat. Sometimes people who are unaware of their sizes even resort to picking other people in the store and comparing their body sizes!

Plain and simple, get the right size.

Lingerie Can Be Purchased In Different Colours

When buying lingerie, you can take into consideration a person’s favourite colour and what colour will looks best. If they’re pale and white, yellow is probably not the best option.

You Can Buy Different Lingerie Options For Different Levels Of Confidence

Take note of what is currently in your wardrobe and what you are comfortable with. If you’re considering something a little risqué and out there, consider your confidence levels and whether you are going to trust what you’ve picked. When in doubt, get two; the out there option and the safe option.

Lingerie Can Be Bought To Make You Feel Better

My partner always knows when I’m not feeling well or life is getting me down, I go on a shopping spree and I buy new underwear. I buy everyday underwear, sexy underwear such as jock straps and cock socks to show off what I have. Some people buy jewellery or shoes, some people buy clothes, others buy food or new games or something to make us feel better.

Lingerie Can Be Bought As A Special Gift

Make your lover feel important and special by buying them some sexy clothing that they can wear. You don’t have to buy it for a special occasion you can buy it simply because you can. When your lover slips into a sexy piece of lingerie which makes them feel great they will be reminded of you!

Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!

You Are What You Underwear!

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Boxers/Granny Panties

If you’re the type of person who chose to put this atrocious piece of fabric over your most intimate bits, you my friend are asking for cuddles from your pillow. Your choice of undergarment is a clear indication of how you’ve given up on yourself as a sexual being. You don’t see yourself as sexy, nor do you want to be seen as sexy by anyone else. Please think of the paramedic or hospital staff that have to cut your pants away if you are (Heaven Forbid) in an accident of some kind. They deserve some eye candy on their 12- 14-hour shift. Forget the skinny jeans, no chance of squishing all that fabric into them. If you are wearing boxers or granny panties it is a good idea to read up on how body image and self esteem impacts mental health.

Briefs/Thong

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To be blunt, you’re a bad ass with clear intentions. You’ve put on this pair of underwear that so perfectly draws attention to your smooth curve line body. You want eyes on you as you undress. You’re not ready to meet someone’s parents, but you are ready to let someone get to know you, for a brief period! If this is your everyday underwear, you’re most likely the leader of your group, confident and sure, always ready for a good time.

(Men’s Thongs- DONT DO IT! It’s just wrong unless you’re modelling for a fitness competition.)

Boxer Briefs

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You are a true blue loyal kind of person. The one all your friends turn to for help or advice. You never let anyone down. You live a carefree yet very responsible life. Forget the little things, you’re in control. Forget dating games and the “Chase” you want meaning and depth. None of this 3 am booty call or the back room of some dive bar for you. Always a lover, not a fighter. But just because your choice of underwear is relaxed doesn’t mean the sex will be. Watch out, when this relaxed underwear comes off the wild tamed beast is unleashed!

Trunks/Bikini

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You sit between style and comfort. Most likely you work a solid 9-5 every day and want to be comfortable but ready for after work drinks that just might lead elsewhere. Your job is not your dream, you’re always dreaming of being elsewhere. It’s not that you’re a lazy person, it’s that you have bigger aspirations than the mundane life you are accustomed to. You’ll probably never quite your 9-5 job and move to that tropical dreamland, you’re just too comfortable. Change is unsettling, but you won’t stop dreaming or bigger and better things.

Tighty Whities/Boy Shorts

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​Taking it back to a simpler time, when very few people saw your undergarments. You’re still living in your childhood. You’ve never left that high school gym class. You’re afraid to step outside of your shell and be the person you want to be. You think because a very very small group of people think this underwear is sexy that it’s perfect for you. You think it says you’re above caring what others might think of you, but it just screams of a child trapped in an adults body to afraid to develop a sense of self.

Jockstrap/G-String

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Image: Coolflex Arrow Jock And Fence Galoon Thong

​Wearing these it’s very clear you enjoy the company of men. They can also help to raise your body image and self-esteem.

You have moved past the wanting to look sexy for others. Everything in your life is hyper sexual and it’s empowering. You know how sexy you are and want to dress for you. You enjoy the sexy feeling in your skimpiest underwear. This is not just your “special occasion” underwear. You’re more than proud wearing this to the grocery store. You exude confidence and are the life of every event. You’ll try anything twice and never back down from a dare. Not because you have something to prove, but because why not?

Commando

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If you regularly go commando, you’re the person who thinks because you read in Cosmo or Maxim magazine in the 00’s that it’s healthy for your bits to get some air. You’ve thrown hygiene out the window. If we went into your house I’d bet the smell of last Friday night still lingers. Your fridge has a potentially out dated milk and a few condiment bottles. Your supplement and vitamin game are probably strong because you think that’s the key to a healthy life.

I can only hope you’re doing this because your house caught fire? Maybe going to or from the gym? Even then, no! Unless your intention is to show off that VPL (If you have a P)? If so please show away!

Whatever your underwear choice is, wear it with pride. You’ll never be judged for your choice with us.

Check out the amazing collections we carry at an Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres nearest to you or at a trusted online sex toy store. We have all your favourite brands in all styles, we might even have something you’ve never tried so give it a chance!

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Introducing Demoniq Lingerie!

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Demoniq lingerie is a cutting edge front runner in designer lingerie with a wicked twist.  Founded in March 2013 by Mariusz Senger who brought together a group of creative designers to deliver an erotic fashion brand. Each item from every collection is created by hand in the company’s factory in Łódź Poland making them an exquisite piece of wearable art.

Adultsmart Blog is proud to have been offered pieces of the amazing collections for review by Mariusz Senger.  But before we start publishing the reviews we wanted to firstly summarize the collections and then ask some questions from the creator himself.

Shibari Collection

Anyone that knows a thing about bondage or restraints knows that Shibari stands for the Japanese art of Rope Bondage. For those into Shibari as an art-form they know how dedicated you must be to perform it.  Demoniq lingerie have created the Shibari range that is original, authentic and compliment practitioners of the art form. It is also a unique and gentle way to introduce people to Shibari.

A Shibari master who is known as Gunraptor was consulted during the design process. He also made an instructional series explaining Shibari which features the entire Demoniq Shibari lingerie range.  Shibari ropes are included in every lingerie box.

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Mistress Collection

The Mistress Collection has been made with the view that every woman likes to break barriers sometimes with something a little taboo, it also highlights the individuals erotic tastes.  The collection is inspirational, stimulating to the senses, is uncompromising in beauty, takes courage to wear, are a little on the dark side but always sensual when worn. It was made with particular focus was used to accentuate the beautiful lines of the female form and explores eroticism daring the wearer to cross the boundaries of their erotic imagination.

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Dark Desire Collection

For those that like to explore the darker side of eroticism the Dark Desire Collection confronts sexual taboo. Its inspiration come from classic erotic literature like Leopold von Sacher-Masoch, Marquis de Sade, as well as modern works like the graphic oeuvre of Guido Crepax and the Christian Grey trilogy by E.L. James. Practicing something that is deemed to be forbidden creates sexual excitement, it’s daring and never gets boring.  With black flexible fabrics designed to mirror the wearer’s sensual form and emphasizes the wearer’s femininity at its rawest moments.  Wearing any piece from this predatory lingerie collection will explicitly express their personal sexual desires.

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Elegant Angels Collection

The Elegant Angels Collection was created to focus on the excitement of intimate moments. Elegance displayed in both visual and active fields create a sophisticated form that increases desire. The Elegant Angles Collection uses black lace, embroidery and mesh to allow a perfect fit to the sensual shape of the female body. The collection may surprise you with its stunning look and aura of mystery that will take you on a journey through your intimate emotions, bringing your desire to a whole new level.

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With Love Collection

When women want comfort whilst feeling and looking beautiful, Demoniq’s With Love Collection delivers. The lingerie wraps around the most delicate parts of the female form, creating feelings of elegance and sensuality. The sweet and seemingly innocent bras, garters, briefs and g-strings will hide any imperfections. Wearing these flattering pieces will make you believe that your wildest dreams can come true. The collection is made from a variety of vivid color options to create the feminine allure.  Transparent materials silhouette the female form accentuating its beauty and provoking imagination.  This is a best-selling line from Denomiq.

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Black Rose Collection

For those that appreciate deep dark black materials with silver accessories the Black Rose Collection underlines sex appeal on the dark side.  With wet-loom materials that are flawlessly designed to add energy, luster and sparkle to the wearers look and their bedroom games.  Play sophisticated erotic games with this fusion of flexible fabrics of modern design that simply look amazing.

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Andrew is right into the Fet Lifestyle and enjoys BDSM. He has written about these subjects in many arena’s and is an expert at Shibari. He shares his knowledge by working with Adultsmart a sex toy store. Enjoy the descriptive and educational articles he has written.

VIP Interview with Andrew Christian

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Andrew Christian creates designer men’s underwear that are all made in America from environmentally friendly material. Andrew started designing clothes from the young age of fifteen. When he was nineteen, he moved to Los Angeles, California to follow his dreams and attend fashion school. In 1997, he created his own men’s underwear range named “Andrew Christian” that is now available to purchase worldwide. This is a VIP Interview with Andrew Christian and sexpert from The Adultsmart Health and Sexuality Blog, which will look into who he is, what inspires him, what he is most proud of and much more!

Tell me about yourself

I have been designing ever since I can remember. I created a lot of my own designs in high school for myself and my friends. At the age of fifteen I knew that design was my passion and what I wanted to do for a living.

What are the most memorable quotes that inspire you?

There are so many quotes in Sex=Power=Freedom that I find inspiring. One of my favorites is

“Total sexual power is complete control over yourself and the freedom to make your own choices.”

Another one of my favorites from my book is

“Love is the only way to invoke positive change.”

I think about both of these a lot when I’m creating new designs.

Who is your role model?

I have been a huge fan of Madonna since I was a small child growing up in Fresno, California. Growing up in a small town where I didn’t quite fit in, Madonna was my connection to the outside world. I knew that there was something bigger and better for me if I pursued my artistic vision for design. Madonna is an inspiration because of her constant drive to innovate, create, and never give up. When I was starting my company it was really difficult at times — there were many times I wanted to give up, but I thought to myself:

“What Would Madonna Do?”

This gave me the courage to continue and achieve the success I have today.

What are your favourite accomplishments?

The Sex=Power=Freedom book is a passion project of mine. It’s something that I’ve wanted to undertake for several years, and I am extremely proud of how it turned out. I knew that now was the right time to publish my book because of the political climate that America is in right now. Sex=Power=Freedom gives voice to the beliefs that I hold dear in my heart. I’m glad that my book can also lift people up and that I can be a voice for them.

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What is the company story behind the inspiration, creation and development of Andrew Christian products?

I find inspiration from many places, including my own wants and needs in a pair of underwear. I also like to take into consideration my customers’ lifestyle and needs and how my products can be most useful to them. My models are also a big part of my inspiration. They give me feedback on how the items fit their bodies and their lifestyles. I spend a lot of time with them professionally and personally — I guess you could consider them my muses.

What does your company value the most?

My goal is to make people feel sexy and confident about themselves. It is always so gratifying to meet people who proudly wear Andrew Christian underwear because they like the way they look in them. The fact that I can bring happiness to people in that way is really gratifying to me.

How does your company define and measure success?

We at Andrew Christian want people to like our underwear. It is always my hope that each new collection will do better than the last. We’re one of the top underwear companies in the business right now, and I am always grateful for that. I measure my success based on how people feel about my collections.

 

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How many pieces of underwear have you sold? What locations around the world do you sell them?

I’ve sold countless pairs of underwear since I started designing in 1997. I sell my brand in hundreds of stores all around the world. Besides our own boutiques, I also sell in luxury department stores like Nordstrom, Selfridges, and Kadewe.

What do you love most about your brand compared to other companies?

Andrew Christian has a little bit of everything. We have so many different collections that cater to so many different people – gay or straight. I’m constantly going outside of my comfort zone when I’m designing new styles, and it’s something that I think makes us stand out among other underwear designers out there.

What are the most memorable quotes that you have heard about the Andrew Christian underwear range?

One of the most memorable quotes I ever heard was from a fan/customer I met in Seattle a few years ago. He said:

“Andrew Christian Underwear changed my life”.

He then further explained that he used to weigh 300 lbs, and he had lost 120lbs just so he could fit into Andrew Christian Underwear. It’s a true honor that I could have a positive impact on someone’s life and health through my designs.

If you could pick just two pieces of underwear from your product range, what would you choose and why?

My favorite pair of underwear is the Almost Naked brief. I have them in so many colors in my closet. You would be amazed to see my underwear drawer at home. Other than that, I would have to choose the new FUKR slick brief. They’re so different than the Almost Naked. They’re so different than anything that I have made before. They stand out on their own.

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Sexpert is our resident full time sex blogger. Having successfully owned and managed a number of blogs relating to women’s lifestyle, she easily blended into her role as chief blogger of the Adultsmart Blog. She is in a long term relationship with her boyfriend. She also runs Good Girl Guide, a sexual lifestyle blog.

Corset Types Explained

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I was exceptionally happy to find out that our sex toy shop Adult Smart also sells lingerie, in particularly they high quality corsets at affordable prices ranging from as low as $25. I found this out when I was looking at the Adult Smart 50% off sale for Leg Avenue’s lingerie, costumes and corsets.

I have found that there are a multitude of Corset Types which include:

  • Structured Corsets
  • Under Bust Corset
  • Corsets with Tails and Skirts
  • Synthetic Leather Corsets
  • Bustiers
  • BDSM, Restraints & Fetish Corsets

A structured corset is made with boning to create a perfect figure for the wearer. The Burlesque Bustier With Lace Trim by Ella Bidoe is an absolutely classically styled corset. Featuring blue and gold flourish detailing. It has black trimming with lace ribbon. It is being sold at half price at only $38.50.

There is a Corset Type that is called an “Under Bust”. The Under Bust Corset leaves the breasts exposed, for added allure you can sexily cover your nipples with shimmering nipple pasties which will send anyone who looks at you into erotic shockwaves. My favourite Under Bust Corset is the “Satin Underwire Cupless Corset”. The Satin Underwire Cupless Corset features a halter neck top made of silky purple ribbon. The under bust is made structured to shape and hold your breasts. It has a tassel fringe of black which is pulled together between the breasts with black ribbon. The corset itself shapes you into a figure 8 due to its silhouette boning. The corset leads into a layered tail at the back detailed with purple and black stripes and lace trim. The bottom of the corset has a garter that you can use to attach thigh high garter stockings. It is being sold at half price at only $55.

I am equally excited to learn about the Corset’s with tails or skirts. The corsets that have tails or skirts are sensual, provocative and charming. You not only get to see the striking structure of a corset but you also acquire the benefit of additional elegance which completes the design. A charming corset that has a skirt and tail is the “Lola Corset with Support Boning” by Leg Avenue. The corset is a classic style with silky black ribbon straps that tie up into bows on the tops of your shoulders. The corset is designed with silky pink material and black ribbon that outlines the body contours. The bottom features a ruffled black skirt with a pink tail. It is being sold at half price at only $40.

I love the Gabrielle Corset that features the support boning with a garter to attach thigh high stockings. It has a long tail that is made from sheer black material. The material is coloured a silver and black colour. To give that additional touch of sexiness there are silky black bows on the bottom. It is being sold at half price at only $45.

 

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Photo: Leg Avenue Satin Underwire Cupless Corset

 

If you are a fetish fanatic we have synthetic leather corsets that are skin tight. Whether you are a submissive or a dominant these corsets are so erotically charged you will either be a really good girl or a really bad girl. My favourite corset is called “Elvire Black” that comes from the brand Demoniq. The Elvire Black is a V-neck singlet style corset that runs down to connect to thigh high stockings. The tightness of the synthetic leather will push your breasts up into the perfect rounded shape. It features fishnet patterning. What I love most about this corset is the modern styled, trapeze cut out at the back. This corset is one of the higher priced ones priced at $94.95.

One of the most common Corset Type is the Bustier. A bustier has less structure than a corset but provides the same appeal. My favourite bustier is the “Fence mesh bustier Purple” by Seven ‘Til Midnight. This bustier is made from a sheer style of material with balconette cups that are underwired. There are adjustable straps for maximum comfort. The rest of the bustier is made from see through fishnet stylised with two triangle cut out. The triangle cut outs have pull together bows. There is a garter to connect thigh high stockings. It comes with a matching G-string. This corset is priced at an affordable $29.90.

If you lover corsets but wish they were functional to use with BDSM activities. There is a sex product called the “Sex & Mischief Elastabind Corset Restraint Kit” by Sportsheets. This corset is made from stretchable as it is made from PVC fabric and is elastic. The corset has a section for your lower waist with added arm restraints on either side. It features a lace up backing that adjusts the waist size. Use the Sex & Mischief Elastabind Corset Restraint Kit to gain complete control over your submissive lover.

I recommend having a look at the brand Leg Avenue. Leg Avenue is a lingerie, costume and stocking company which has been in operation for 19 years. They sell their adult lifestyle products worldwide. Their products are known for their affordable prices, high quality and high fashion. Leg Avenue make long lasting product’s that continue to enthuse, tease and fulfill your fantasy. Turn your fantasy into a reality. Corsets are an instant way to make you feel super sexy. Adult Smart is having a 50% off sale for all Leg Avenue lingerie, costumes and corsets.

 

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Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!

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