Will You Be My Sex Doll?

About Adult Dolls

The Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres surely have some interesting products for sale. From vibrators that twirl, rotate & double penetrate to penis plugs in all shapes, colours & sizes, there’s something in here for everyone. I love to see customers coming in and discovering toys they may never have been exposed to before. Out of all the gadgets & toys in the store, sex dolls would have to be the products that cause the most reaction from customers. Sometimes they cause laughter & disbelief, other times there’s a genuine curiosity & fascination;

“Do people actually buy these?!”

The answer is: Hell yes!! I get customers buying sex dolls for a gag gift at birthday parties & I also sell them to men who are interested in a lifelike masturbating device. The technology with sex dolls is becoming even more advanced, with so many options available to suit all people & all budgets.

 

The history of commercially manufactured sex dolls dates back to 1908, where a Sexologist called Iwan Bloch wrote about dolls available for purchase in Paris that secreted oil to replicate vaginal lubrication. They took 3 months to build and cost a small fortune. I’m not sure what they were made from but I can’t imagine it felt as pleasant as the lifelike materials that are available today. The creation of softer plastics and higher quality materials have led to sex dolls that are eerily similar to an actual human being. Sex dolls have come so far over the last 100 years, with so many options to build your own “dream doll” available online. You can choose the body type, breast size & shape, skin, hair & eye colour, hair design (pubic & head), piercings and tattoos on your custom doll and have it delivered to your door.   

 

There can sometimes be harsh judgements associated with certain sex toys, with products for men, such as sex dolls, probably the most stigmatised. In an article published in The Journal of Positive Sexuality

“Sex dolls-Creepy or Healthy”

(Knox & Huff, 2017), it is noted that many people stigmatize those that buy sex dolls & see the men who use them as unable to attract a sexual partner. I find the male sex toy stigma to be such a double standard as women do not get judged for having a plethora of sex toys tucked away in their bedside table the way men do. I like to point this out to men & women who express judgement for those who have male sex toys as it quickly gets them to question their opinions (and more often than not they usually end up buying one for themselves or their partners shortly after!!). Sex dolls can be a great masturbating toy for those seeking a life like experience so no need to be ashamed.

 

I have had multiple discussions with people & read valid concerns from those who work in the field of human sexuality about the effects sex dolls have on human relationships. There exists a reasonable fear that the use of sex dolls will ultimately shut men off from real human connections, especially those who are shy or have difficulties with interpersonal relationships to begin with. There are also concerns of further objectification & exploitation of women through the availability and use of sex dolls. It is no wonder the line between reality and fantasy is becoming blurry as there are so many products that are unbelievably lifelike. The birth rates in Japan are the lowest they have been since the 1970’s, with the use of sex dolls and love robots said to be one of the biggest causes for this decline.

 

I think that it is important for those using sex dolls to understand that a sex doll is a masturbating device & not a substitute for human connection. With such a widespread addiction to technology, I can see how the use of sex dolls can cause alienation & isolation for certain people so feel they need to be used with awareness. I am not saying that men who use a sex doll must also be having sex with an actual human being or must be limiting the use of their sex doll. I just feel it is important for men using them to not get so far into fantasy that they forget to have connections with others. Because at the end of the day, regardless of how advanced sex doll technology becomes, nothing could ever replace the love & compassion that a human being can offer. 

 

Human Like Doll
Robotic Sex Doll

Sex dolls can be a fun and pleasurable masturbation device that gives a more life-like experience compared to other masturbators.   Before you buy why not check out the sex doll buyers guide.

Meet the newest member to our team of experts. Stephanie Curtis is a sexologist with a huge capacity to care. Involved in spirituality and tantra her articles are professional, articulate and interesting. Enjoy Steph’s writings at the adultsmart sexual wellness and health blog.

What Are You Doing With Le Wand!

Le Wand Sex Toys

Today I will be reviewing one of the newer products that have just landed in our Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres, the Le Wand Petite. If you have been in our stores or on our website before then this product may already look familiar to you. Last year Le Wand released their first wand which was a bigger version of the petite and won the Xbiz Award for the luxury brand of the year. With their luxurious packaging and gorgeous designed wand, there is no doubt as to why they are now one of the best selling wands on the market.

Le Wand Petite 

I honestly like the Petite much more than the original. I personally prefer a vibrator that isn’t a massive effort to keep a hold of, I find the bigger wands always need two hands for better control and I am not about that life. The petite fits nicely in one hand and you can still press all the buttons with that same hand. There is a plus, minus, and function button. To turn on your the Le Wand press the plus button once and to turn off hold down the minus button. By pressing the middle button you will go into function mode where you will find 6 different patterns to choose from and you can also increase and decrease the vibration patterns by playing around with your plus and minus buttons. There are 10 different speed options. Le Wand also offers a travel lock option which you can activate and deactivate by holding down your plus and minus button at the same time for 3 seconds.

Le Wand has a flexible high-grade silicone head for easy control and a nice soft touch. To clean, Le Wand recommends spaying the head with toy cleaner and either wiping it off after with a cloth or simply washing it off with some warm water. This toy is shower proof for your shower time fun but they do not say anything about it being fully submersible so I would not try using it in a bath tub unfortunately.

Wands can be used for solo or couples play. Make sure to give it a try when giving your partner a full body massage as they are great for knotted backs!

Petite has 2 color options, a metallic purple, and a beautiful rose gold.

le wand sex toy
Le wande massager

Unboxing  The LeWand

Let me just start with the actual box itself before getting to what is inside of it. When a company puts a lot of effort into their packaging like this one does you have to acknowledge it! All of the basics that you need to know about the toy is written for you on the sides of the box. When looking at our wand wall their products stand out from the rest and that is because they have put in those extra miles to make their products unique.

Inside your box, you will find your Le Wand and its charging cord. Le Wand does not supply a wall dock but you should make sure to always use one when charging rather than using a computer. You will also find a beginners guide and a manual for your toy, which I always recommend having a read of while you’re waiting for it to charge up for the first time. It is a good thing to know all about your toys so that you get the best experience with it and know everything it has to offer. Last but not least the company also supplies a nice little carry pouch for you to store your wand in when not in use.

Charging 

Yes, this is not a corded wand like most others on the market. Unfortunately, this does mean that the toy will need a break between charges as it will not work whilst being plugged in but I think this can be a good thing because toys do need a wresting time so that you don’t end up blowing the internal motors. There aren’t any cords getting in the way during play though, so I think this is a massive positive!

Your Le Wand needs approximately 2 hours of charging for a full charge and can last up to 1 hour in play depending on the settings that you are using. When charging the lights with flash and when complete the lights will go to a still. If you are using your wand and the lights start rapidly flashing this means your toy is telling you that it needs to be charged.

Warranty 

Le Wand offers a one-year manufacturing warranty.

Extra Info

Le Wand also has attachment options that we also stock that are sold separately. They have 3 different texture sleeves that you can put over the top of the head of the wand for a different feel. There are also 2 different internal, silicone attachments for either g-spot or anal play.

Have fun and be safe ❤

Elliana

Consultant at the Oh Zone Stores

Elliana has been working in the Oh Zone stores for the past 2 and a half years now. During this time she has discovered a lot about herself through the different adult products that she has experimented with. Elliana likes to write reviews on the good quality products that she has either purchased for herself or has her eyes on in the stores and she isn’t afraid to tell you if she thinks a toy or a companies ethics are rubbish. She also openly came out as a lesbian at the age of 14 and loves to talk about all the great LGBTQIA events that she has been to in Sydney.

What REALLY Happens At Sexpo!

Sexpo sydney backstage

I worked at Sexpo over the weekend supporting Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Boutique Centres. I was quite excited to attend, and it was amazing fun working with colleagues and getting out there. I absolutely love events and festivals like this as it gives us an opportunity to promote a sex positive vibe to a lot of people that wouldn’t necessarily feel comfortable walking into an adult store. These festivals and events are also important in making people comfortable with sex and sexuality, and opening the way for people to think about their bedrooms and relationships.

However, one of the things that I repeatedly noticed about the event, was simply the lack of information on sex, sex toys and alternative lifestyles that many people had. Our stand focused on steel and kink toys and to be fair, kink and fetish adult toys are often misunderstood – but there were some things that were said that were so far off the mark that it was a wonder that they made it through the door! So if you came to visit us, or if you passed by the stand at Sexpo and were a little confused, I have written an article that kind of summarises some of the things that repeatedly came up over the weekend.

Chastity is not about trust

One of Oh Zone’s exclusive fetish brands is Hell’s Couture, and they have a large amount of chastity and chastity play gear. Having only recently becoming involved in chastity myself, I’m not only very excited to talk about chastity (that damn honeymoon stage), but I’m also quick to point out corrections that need to be made. Sure, we might joke that chastity is about trust, and that’s perfectly okay, and for some there are elements of trust involved. Chastity however, at its core, is about power and control. By locking up the very thing that makes a male a man, his dick, and then preventing him from using that when he wants you are essentially controlling his masculinity, agency and him. Think about it, ever since he discovered that he could tug himself off and achieve orgasm with relative ease, he’s been doing that. Now, you lock him up and tell him that he can’t, add to that the idea that he has to please you and he might get released… and you’ll quickly find it’s a fun power play. We have numerous articles on chastity throughout this website, including how to measure up for a cock ring correctly. correctly. So if you popped on by over the weekend and aren’t sure how to measure up, check out that article.

Don’t yuck someone’s yum

Hell’s Couture has about a thousand different items within the range, at Sexpo we couldn’t take the entire range so we took an assortment of interesting things designed to not only spark up a conversation, but also to educate. Several times over the course of the weekend, people would come on over to our stand, pick something up and be like ‘What the &^%$ is this?” After telling them, they’d drop it like a hot potato and run for the hills screaming bloody murder. I get it, there’s many things in this world that I have hard limits on, but I don’t begrudge other people their kinks. As I was telling a lovely couple over the weekend just starting to explore their fetish and kink desires – you do you. For example, bondage and restraints can mean so many different things to different people. That’s why there are so many different bondage roleplaying ideas. For the couple over in the corner – they might feel that silk restraints, and a lace blindfold is heavy bondage for them. For another couple, silk and lace is just way too soft for them, and they require leather pieces, a ball gag, and some heavy duty rope. They’re still doing the same activity, bondage and restraints, but they’re just engaging it in different ways and that’s perfectly okay – you do you.

Don’t yuck someone’s yum #2

In addition to this we took a variety of medical fetish toys including sounding gear and speculums. Sounding toys aren’t for everyone, for many men the idea of sliding a steel rod down their cock hole is just way too much for them. I’ve tried it. I didn’t find pleasure in it, but would I do it to someone else if they enjoyed it? Absolutely.

Many things in fetish and kink, and indeed the Hell’s Couture range is primarily mind over matter. Steel is aesthetically hard core. It instantly creates a specific mindset, and a particular state of being that is essential to getting into the right scene. Consider the idea of a woman walking into a room in wearing black and red latex gear carrying a whip. That image instantly creates a particular feeling and scene. Now, if she were to come in wearing a pink plaid skirt and a white school shirt, carrying school books then the scene is completely different. In one, she’s clearly being more dominant, and in the other the idea of the school girl as being less dominant.

Sounding is not about pain. Out of the three tables of stock, we only took one item that primarily centred on pain – that being Kali’s Teeth. Sounding toys and gear is about stimulating an area of the body that’s not normally stimulated. It’s described as a reverse ejaculation, that feeling you get as the fluid rushes through the urethra, and that’s pretty much it. You insert the rod, you slide it down, and you either have sex or jerk off with it. It’s not about control, it’s not about trust, and it’s certainly not about pain.

Nothing replaces the human touch

One of our pride and joys that we took to the Sexpo show was one of our sex machines. We had this thrusting away the entire weekend and it not only received many compliments, but it received a lot of photographs and comments. One of the comments that struck out often enough though was the one that simply said ‘Well, you wouldn’t need me then, would you?”. A seemingly innocuous comment but one that certainly needs to be addressed, as myself and colleagues have heard this many times when working in the stores as well. Many people view sex toys as replacements to a sexual partner. They’re not. Sex toys are (mostly) used with the idea to supplement a couple’s pleasure, and to ensure that everyone is having fun. The exception being sex robots which are a completely new category and which we’ll discuss elsewhere. Sex toys work with partners, not against partners. It’s simply about providing a different sense of stimulation. You are still in control of the sex toy, and it’s merely an extension of you and not a replacement.

Respect and inclusivity

One of the most amazing things I saw over the weekend was just how inclusive the event was. There were people in diverse relationships, and numerous people with physical disabilities. What was amazing was this visibility and the idea that everyone can have sex and pleasure. Many times we neglect these groups because we don’t understand them, or we dismiss them as being non-sexual as is the case of what many people do with people with disabilities. Everyone has a need for sex, pleasure and intimacy and it was a truly amazing experience seeing this reflected in the crowd.

Research

Education takes time – it’s really difficult to describe certain scenes, and BDSM toys in the space of 30 seconds, and that’s one of the most disappointing things about shows and festivals like this. You want to intimately describe some of the toys and items, but there’s simply not enough time. For this reason, it’s important, when it comes to kink and fetish, that you do your research. It’s also important to remember that no matter how much research that you do that it’s never going to be the equivalent of doing it. Like we mentioned earlier in this article, you do you and there are times when you may not even use a toy as it was intended, you might use it for completely different reasons which brings us to point 7. . .

Sex toy teamwork

Many of the toys that you may have seen on the kink and fetish table are not stand alone toys. Let’s take for example restraints. Cuffing someone to the bed can be hot. You can have your own way with them, they’re vulnerable and they’re helpless – which is part of the appeal. Now let’s add a blindfold to that. A blindfold is not as effective by itself, but when you team this up with the cuffs, all of a sudden you up the tempo. Not only are they cuffed, but they also can’t see either. Now let’s up the tempo even further with a pair of nipple clamps. Blindfolded, cuffed whilst the nipple are stimulated. You can even up the tempo even further with something like the Wartenberg wheel for some truly sensory fun! When it comes to kink and fetish toys – they work as a team rather than stand-alone items.

It’s clear that more education on sex, kink and fetish is needed. It’s a slow process. We’ve spent the past few decades learning that sex feels good and that we should be talking about not only our own pleasure, but our sexual partner’s pleasure as well. We are unpacking our learning of the idea that sex is for reproduction – and it’s a slow process. By putting sex and the idea of pleasure into the open, we are changing the way that people think and view sex and sexuality, one person at a time. If you had any questions about Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres being at Sexpo, or had any further questions about the products that we had on display – please don’t hesitate to drop into one of stores at Penrith, Caringbah or Kogarah (Kogarah is wheelchair accessible), or drop us a line on our online store. We had a great time at Sexpo and we really hope that you learnt something, as well as had a blast!

Author: Stephen is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

Stephen is a cis-gendered gay male who spends far too much time with his two cats and eating tim tams. A self-identified sex-positive advocate he cares deeply about gender equality, disabilities, sexual education and social issues. Opinionated and bold he isn’t afraid to speak his mind and say what others won’t. With a yearning for knowledge and experience in all things relating to sex, he is a prolific writer that has developed the content for a myriad of informative Sexual Health and Wellness websites.

Stephen’s articles and writings tends to focus on social issues, sexual education, queer issues and all things fetish and absurd. He comes qualified with the completion of a double Bachelor degree in Social Sciences and literature, and a Masters in Education.

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Coco de Mer special gift offer

If you would love to indulge your body in luxury, look no further than the Coco de Mer Pleasure Collection which is now exclusively available in Australia at Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres. Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres have also partnered up with Coco de Mer to bring to you a special promotional offer!

Purchase any Coco de Mer adult toy from the collection and receive a free gift!

Mention this special promotional offer when you go to an Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centre. This offer excludes purchases of Coco de Mer’s lubricants, candles, massage oils and balm. The staff at Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres will take their time to find products from the Coco de Mer collection that will suit your needs. Whether it is your first time stepping your feet into an adult store or trying adult toys, in a new relationship or looking to spice things up in the bedroom the staff at Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres will help you find what you are looking for with complete discretion. The experience will be stress free, judgement free, sex-positive and fun!  Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres are female and male friendly. They are also designed with the customer’s comfort in mind. Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres have been in operation for well over 11 years and are at the forefront of the adult industry with one of the most extensive and up to date product ranges available.

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Coco de Mer have also partnered up with Fifty Shades Darkers to develop an exclusive lingerie collection and Pamela Anderson who is a famous model and actress to develop her very own line of lingerie named “Pamela Loves Coco de Mer”.

About the Coco de Mer Pleasure Collection

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The Coco de Mer Pleasure Collection is made up 6 luxury adult toys. Each adult toy is named after a famous woman in history who has had a profound impact on the world that we live in today.

  • Catherine Pleasure Ball Set is a selection of geisha balls.
  • Nell Pleasure Seed Vibrator that can be bought in silicone or 18 carat gold plating.
  • Georgiana G-spot Vibrator that works as an internal vibrator.
Coco de Mer adult toys
Image: Coco de Mer Catherine, Nell and Georgiana
  • Emmeline Pleasure Wand which is an internal vibrator wand.
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Image: Coco de Mer Emmeline Pleasure Wand Display
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Image: Coco de Mer George

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Carnal Queen review on the Coco de Mer Emmeline Pleasure Wand

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Emmeline Peaches, Coco de Mer Georgiana G-spot Vibrator

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Sexpert is our resident full time sex blogger. Having successfully owned and managed a number of blogs relating to women’s lifestyle, she easily blended into her role as chief blogger of the Adultsmart Blog. She is in a long term relationship with her boyfriend. She also runs Good Girl Guide, a sexual lifestyle blog.

Trending Sex Toy Facts Of Australia!

Australian Sex Toy

Australian’s are an oversexed bunch.

And when it comes to toys of any description they like to spend.  In recent research conducted by Purposit (A Child Gifting App For Parents) it revealed that parents of the nuclear family (2 parents – 2.4 children) on average spend $1000 a month on non-necessary items – mainly being children’s toys.  So it brings to question how much and what do those same parents spend on sex toys for themselves.

So some extensive analysis from the data bases of one of Australia’s largest online sex toy retailer adultsmart reveal a few facts and figures indicating what the most popular sex toys being purchased were, where they were purchased and the biggest spends.  So on a per capita basis (per 1000) state by state for the year of 2017 the *#biggest consumers of sex toys in Australia believe it or not is

WINNER IS – TASMANIA with 4.1 persons (per 1000) purchasing sex toys.

Thereafter in order were Queensland, New South Wales, Australian Capital Territory, Victoria, Adelaide, South Australia, Northern Territory* and Western Australia*.

These are interesting stats but when broken up further statistics as to the best-selling sex toy online it comes down to the humble cock ring.  Across all states this was the most sought after item used to enhance the residents downunder intimate lives.  State by state these were the top three adult products purchased online –

Australian Adult Toys
Adult Toys Australia

NEW SOUTH WALES

  1. Cock Rings
  2. Lubricants
  3. Dildo

QUEENSLAND

  1. Cock Rings
  2. Strap On
  3. Lubricants

TASMANIA

  1. Cock Rings
  2. Vibrators
  3. Dildo

VICTORIA

  1. Cock Rings
  2. Lubricants
  3. Anal Toys

SOUTH AUSTRALIA

  1. Cock Rings
  2. Lingerie
  3. Lubricants

WESTERN AUSTRALIA

  1. Cock Rings
  2. Strap On
  3. Dildo

NORTHERN TERRITORIES

  1. Cock Rings
  2. Masturbators
  3. Vibrators

AUSTRALIAN CAPITAL TERRITORY

  1. Cock Rings
  2. Vibrators
  3. Masturbators
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sex toy holidays

Breaking up the most popular days of the year to purchase sex toys were –

  1. Australia Day
  2. Valentine’s Day
  3. Father’s Day

These facts give an insight into the sex lives of the patriotic Ozzie’s and what sex aids they wish to include in their bedroom fun.  However it does not answer the question of how much do people spend?  *#Bearing in mind that these statistics are only gathered from one online sex toy store and they only reflect a small portion of the adult toy sales made online here are the average spend per customer per sale for sex toys state by state –

  1. NEW SOUTH WALES    –          $87.18
  2. TASMANIA                         –           $86.91
  3. QUEENSLAND                  –           $84.56
  4. NORTHERN TERRITORIES –    $78.14
  5. WESTERN AUSTRALIA –           $77.85
  6. SOUTH AUSTRALIA –                  $74.23
  7. ACT      –                                                $69.86

Adultsmart has over 30% return customer rate.

These days there is no stigma attached to buying, owning or using pleasure objects is accepted in most walks of life.  According to a study conducted by Arizona University more than 90% of men have used a sex toy on themselves or their partner and over 80% of women own a vibrator.  A recent survey on women’s vibrator use found –

  • 17% were under 20 years of age when they initially attempted a vibrator, or sexual toy
  • 50% were in their 20s
  • 22% to 27% were in their 30s
  • 11% were 40 and more

 

*Adultsmart ships from Sydney and items are generally received within one to three business days and this may have had some impact on purchases from Northern Territories and Western Australia where postal service take four –ten business days.

Rick is the owner of the Adultsmart, an online sex toy shop that stocks over 13,000 products. He has been involved in the adult lifestyle industry for more than 25 years. Rick is an active sex blogger who provides a wealth of information and experience. He is an advocate of equality for gender and sexuality.