5 Best Sex Positions to Try with Your partner

Missionary Position

Sex is not only about experiencing pleasure with your partner, it’s about getting healthier together. Yes, sex can improve your health when both of you are climaxing with heavenly orgasms.

According to studies, people who have sex more than twice a week are less likely to have heart problems. Your body boosts up several antibodies while you are enjoying it with your partner.

Sex improves bladder control in women and hormonal activities lower the blood pressure. Sex is not just something you do on your bed; it’s an art capable of racing your heart. If you do it right with different sex positions, you and your partner will experience a blissful pleasure.

Missionary is the most common sex position. But don’t you want to try other adventurous sex positions?

Don’t miss on fun and try these best sex positions homepage with your partner.

Here are a few Sex Positions to Try for good health – 

Sex positions were invented when humans on earth were trying new things to live a life. Reaching the climax with your partner is an amazing form of love.

Cowgirl

Let her ride you like a cowgirl rides a bull. Lie down on the bed and allow her to mount on you. A woman experiences a better orgasm when she is on top. This position is about giving her control while you can lie down and lose your mind.

Men enjoy this position with a woman riding, playing with herself giving a better view of her body. Men can support her by arms and stroke her for immense pleasure.

Doggy Style

This position is sort of like men going wild on her. Ask her to bend down at the edge of the bed and slide into her from the rear side. Men love this position as they control the pace by stroking her body back and forth into them.

If you do it right, you might hit her G-spot blowing her mind. She would go breathless as you reach the climax.

Butterfly

The more she rises her hips up, the higher both of you will fly. In this position, the woman lies on her back wrapping her legs around the man’s waist or his neck lifting her hips. A man can get a view of her curves while penetrating and stroking her. She can play with her breasts and let you reach her G-Spot.

To achieve comfort, rest her back or hips on a pillow while you get on knees on a softer mattress.

Spooning

Be her big spoon and let her settle in your arms like a little spoon. Cuddling and sliding inside her while you both face in the same direction could rock both of your worlds. Kiss her neck gently while stroking her. She has the freedom to play with her clitoris to maximize orgasmic pleasure.

Both the partners can feel each other’s warmth in this romantic form of lovemaking. Gently play with her breasts, body curves to make her feel valued in your arms.

The Lotus

Bloom your pleasure by feeling the closeness of her body. Let her sit on you and ride you. Face each other while you stroke her. Wrap your arms around her as she wraps her legs around your waist.

This sex position is a form of affectionate lovemaking. Her eye contact and heavier breathing will blossom your mind.

How To Have Satisfying Sex

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For many people out there, there’s probably no activity more satisfying than to have sexual intercourse with their significant others or even someone they just met a while ago. In fact, we enjoy sex because our brains had been pre-programmed that way and even produce chemicals that encourage us to have lots of sexual activities, which leads to a more intense desire for carnal pleasures once you get your first taste of it. However, just like with any other activities, there will come a time when sex can no longer give you that initial amount of pleasure that it once gave you. At that point, you might even think that sex is not giving you enough satisfaction anymore, leading you to do it lesser than usual. Hence, in this article, we will be exploring why satisfying sex becomes rarer as well as some of the ways you can do to improve you and your partner’s sex drive.

Why do we tire of sex?

First of all, it is completely normal for your sex drive to tone down and wane as you grow older, which is also true for any biological functions within our body. Aging sucks and could even affect your performance as a male in the form of erectile dysfunction. Women, on the other hand, according to a national survey conducted on Britain, are more prone to losing interest with sex more than twice as likely as their male counterparts. However, there is no clear evidence that it is due to menopause and actually leans more towards emotional reasons.

It is also possible that you are not tired of sex as a whole but bored with your sexual partner instead due to their inability to realise your desires and fantasies which could be attributed to your porn-watching habits, making you display a behavior that is known as the Coolidge Effect. You might have also suffered a traumatic experience that had to do with sexual activities, leading to the activation of a defense mechanism preventing you from feeling the pleasure of having sex. Either which, you need to find the root cause or get help from a professional in order to know what your next actions should be.

How to have satisfying sex?

We have listed general tips that may help in your quest to have a satisfying sex life. However, these are just general ideas and should not be treated as a substitute for professional advice.

1. Aim for equity

As stated in the Equity Theory, relational partners should aim to have a fair distribution of resources. This not only applies to the workplace but to your sex life as well. If your partner starts to feel that you are the only one enjoying your sexual activities, inequity starts to happen and the more your partner feels the said inequity, the more they will lose interest in having sex with you or having sex as a whole. Hence, it is very important to be sensitive to you and your partner’s sexual needs. Once the both of you figure this one out and finally reached compromise, equity will be re-established and sex will become rewarding instead of demanding.

2. Strengthen your relationship

If your relationship with your partner is already shaky, to begin with, it is only natural that both of your desire for sex would be minimized a lot. That’s why both of you need to sit down and have a serious talk about whether you still want your relationship to continue or not. Talk about your grievances with each other and discuss what the two of you need to do in order to overcome them. Once you solidifying your shaky foundations, intimacy in the form of sexual activities will obviously follow.

3. Stop having unrealistic expectations

The fulfillment of expectations greatly correlates with your satisfaction but once it gets out of hand, you’ll end up no longer enjoying the things you used to enjoy, which brings us again to sex. Pornography is quite notorious in unconsciously altering your expectations, making the line between fantasy and reality blurry to a certain extent which often puts a heavy burden to your partner mentally since they might feel inadequate once they could not perform those acts you see in movies and pornographic material. Pornography could also distort your image of yourself when you compare your body parts to those of porn actors, leading to a lesser sex drive. If this is the case, it might be better to call a professional therapist to help you as compared to dealing with it yourself.

4. Just say what you both want

Unfortunately, we have yet to discover a way to directly communicate our thoughts to one another using telepathy. Hence, a direct approach in communication is oftentimes the most effective and that is to just ask your partner, in a way that will not offend them as well as stating what you want without sounding demanding. Once you and your partner reach an understanding of your wants and desires, you could make it into your goal once you start doing the deed. This will lead to an increase in the production of pleasure hormones in your brain since it will feel like it was rewarded, and the more you do what both of you like, the more you will have much more satisfying sex.

Becoming an OnlyFans Creator

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If you had of asked me two years ago if I’d be running an account where people pay $10 a month to see my body I would’ve laughed you into the next week. It’s not something I intended to go into being the young insecure and anxious girl that I was. But at this point I don’t think I’d be as empowered and confident as I am without it.

I started it after making a dumb decision to spend big money on lingerie and realising I needed to recoup some of the costs somehow… Well using the lingerie to make it back seemed as good a plan as any other. So I got to work and set up my onlyfans account, I had friends interested and word of mouth did a lot for my first month.

The good:

What I love most is the interaction between me and my fans, they’re the best hype team you could ask for, any ideas I put forward they’re always so fast to say “Hell yes!”, “I can’t wait to see what you do with this!” or my favourite recent “You’ve made my month with this!!”. It’s cool to have that little cheer squad even if you don’t love the content they usually will.   They’re also happy to just banter with you on your off days, I love it when my fans just pop in for a chat and ask how my days going or when they interact with my posts that are just a bit of fun for me.

Obviously the extra money does feel good to have whenever you decided to pull from your funds, the USD exchange rate just sweetens the deal that bit more. I really did not think I’d be making much money when I first started, I thought there was no possible way that people would pay money to see me but I was shocked when I made back the $700 lingerie purchase and then some within 2 weeks. It’s crazy to think, as someone who grew up with technology, that I had been doing this for free for the men out there this whole time when I could’ve been turning a pretty profit!

Being able to buy toys for yourself with no guilt because you know you’ll not only be able to use them for your own pleasure but you’ll definitely make the money back buy showing your fans the fun you have with the toys is amazing! I spent over $1k with no worries because I knew I could market all items towards each of my fans.

My favourite buys:

We-vibe Ditto: this vibrating plug isn’t just good for my enjoyment but being able to give my fans the control over the toy gives them extra incentive to spend big as they really are a part of the content I make tailored to them, as much as they want to see me having a good time they want to feel involved and have this whole thing personalised to them, which is why they choose to pay rather than just get free porn on the internet.

We-vibe Jive: this toy gives the same feeling of being involved as they can control this and really decide how the video goes!

Lingerie: there is nothing better than just a plain old sexy photo sometimes, as much as full nudity is amazing sometimes leaving a bit to the imagination for the boys really is what tips them over the edge into tipping to see you take it off.

Bondage equipment: the scandal line has some really solid pieces that are absolutely stunning to look at, their Breathable Ball Gag with Cuffs has this intricate red design on the outside with luxurious feeling soft material on the inside. They are also completely adjustable in all ways!

Maia Dongs: these suction based dildos are awesome for looking and feeling like the real thing (given that you don’t buy a bright purple one haha!), the ability to suction them anywhere and everywhere really does give you so many options on how to use them and how to market the content to your fans.

The bad:

I’d be lying if I said there were absolutely no downsides to working in this type of environment, it’s a great side hustle but can be downright exhausting.

There are days where I just don’t feel like my body is something to be posted or lusted over, I just don’t look in the mirror (or camera lens) and like what I see. But regardless of that you have fans that have paid to see you post, getting out of that funk and being able to still deliver can be extremely hard.

Not wanting to let people down on those days/weeks/months that your not feeling it is such a pressure to add on while you’re already feeling off and it does suck. At the end of the day you decide whether you feel like posting or not and fans will decide if it’s worth sticking it out to see you come back and start posting regularly like they love, it’s just part of the game.

Having to get over the idea of people you know finding you. As                 I said a lot of my original fanbase was people that I knew and that did make me nervous as some of these people had never seen me in that light before, but at the end of the day they wanted to pay and I wanted to make money, so I just put it to the back of my mind and saw them purely as customers and nothing more.

Dating, this is still super hard to get through. The amount of people who you will get along with as a person and enjoy the company of, that will completely abandon all romantic interest as soon as they find out you’re an online sex worker is crazy to me, but I totally understand because everyone has their own boundaries whether you agree with them or not. This is why I’m always very upfront and tend to bring it up quite early, just to give them the option of continuing things or not on their terms.

Tips:

If you’re considering going down this path think about if you can handle the bad, the possibility of content being leaked, of family or friends finding out, anything you could think of that could go wrong, because it may. I personally was never that fussed, if people find out and don’t accept how I make my money then that’s on them. But no everyone is like that, and you need to decide if you’re ready for that fall out.

Find your niche! With so many creators on OnlyFans now you really need to think of how you’re going to stand out, why should someone subscribe to you and not the next person? What makes you worth their $10+ per month? Would YOU subscribe to yourself?

Interact with your fans, that’s the main reason they’re on your account and not PornHub or some other site, they get to feel like they know you and have a connection. Help them with that fantasy!

Just be you, if you’re a giant goofball it’s so much easier to have fun with your content and enjoy making it if you’re allowing your personality to show through.   You’ll have the time of your life making your content and getting to know your subs, it can be such a fun job if you make it work for you!

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Pregnancy and Sex!

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Before falling pregnant I heard a lot of things like “wait till your pregnant you will want SEX 24/7”. And “omg it’s so much better when you are pregnant”. Now let me tell you this was not the case for me at all pregnancy at the most of times is hard balancing work and studies in-between you almost forget the time your meant to make for yourself. My sex life went from a 20/10 to a 1/10 if that.

There became a time at month 3 that I decided to give up on sex completely as I wasn’t feeling it, it became a chore more then something that I wanted or craved. It’s funny how much the brain plays a part of sex, smells, touch, heat/cold your brain decides all of that. So something that may have felt tingly and amazing before now feels over sensitive or uncomfortable.

It’s a really hard thing to come to terms with because you don’t realize how much good sex makes you happy until you stop it and no I don’t just mean orgasming its so much more than that when you form that connection with someone should I say that constant lust for attention and touch a simple kiss on the neck can be the most amazing feeling you feel every hair on your body stand up. A hot shower running down your back and having your partner wrapped around you pressed against you …… these are all the things that stop when sex stops because there is so much tension on you both that’s the last thing you want to do.

The funniest part for me is how hard it is to change that, something that came so natural before is now so strange and foreign. That’s until ……..

I found the mighty sex wand and yes I’m talking about that thing everyone says “omg that looks like a microphone”. Now let me tell you that microphone in a space of 40 seconds if that brought on a frenzy of emotion and feelings back to my life and I don’t know how I haven’t brought this into my life earlier I will discuss this later in my blog. The sensation this toy gives you solo or with a partner in my case this was the saviour of my relationship 2 months on from the “end of my relationship if you want to call it that” this toy has simply fixed so much it has filled that gap of feeling unwanted and loved I now get to have the sex life I had and even more. I couldn’t recommend this enough to pregnant or not pregnant women that just are not “feeling it” in the bed room. And for women that are thinking they cant enjoy it and they haven’t I can only tell you my personal experience and this is it.

It’s a great way to allow you to take control of your body and not relying on him to try and do something that isn’t humanly possible we put so much pressure on males from things we have watched from porn and say that they cannot do there “job right” which leads to no communication and then your relationship forms around the thought of him doing his job wrong. But ladies its your job to make you feel good as well and to aid him with the information that feels good for you every female body is different. sometimes we forget that and we accept that we do not need pleasure and that as long as he’s happy that’s all that matters I believed this for 8 years with my ex until I had enough and took control. Yes that’s 8 years without an orgasm with a partner. So the current partner I have I just simply took control and figured out what I wanted and liked and once I figured that out I seen sex in such a different light.

The mighty wand has been the highlight of my sex toy experience I have owned many many toys and this for me just made my brain scramble when I used it its funny I bought it thinking “oh it’s a vibrator cool” pffftttt was I wrong the first experience I had with this amazing toy was a midnight just finished work and really just wanted a hot shower I wasn’t expecting much from this toy at all oh boy did it prove me wrong.

I started using it in the shower solo until my partner realized what I had gotten up to and decided to join me he stepped into the shower and kissed my neck from behind this is the first time I had butterflies since being pregnant I had Goosebumps all over my body a sensation I can’t explain he entered me from behind and my god my body started going crazy with the combination of this powerful wand and the thrusts of his penis deep inside me sent me over the edge with in 40 seconds making me unable to stand, he continued to thrust while holding me up pushing me against the cold glass making my nipples hard and sensitive he continued to fuck me while pulling my hair until I started gushing which lead to him Cumming instantly. It was the most sensitive and eye rolling orgasm I have had in 8 months. And I thank the wand for this and now when I talk about pregnant sex or sex in general with anyone this toy definitely gets a mention and comes under my must buy list. Doggy is a must with this toy hits all the spots perfectly and its also waterproof which makes it fun for those cold nights when you want a hot bath or shower and also want to have fun. It also doubles as an awesome massager so I don’t know what else you could ask for!!!!!!!!

 

Tiarni is a consultant at the Oh Zone Adult Shops……

Pegging – A Male Perspective

Male Being Pegged

2020 should be your year for getting pegged if you’re a straight guy. With all the time available, it wouldn’t hurt to get a bit deeper into your sex life and try something new and exciting.

If your girl or wife hasn’t pegged you yet, man you don’t know what you’re missing. Getting down on your hands and knees for that session of excitement is one of the most exciting things you’ll ever do.

Perhaps you’ve got no clue what pegging is. Well, simply put, it’s when a woman drives a dildo into your ass. Of course, she just doesn’t tell you to bend over then she pushes the thing into you. Hell no! There’s a procedure to be followed. We’ll look into that later.

For now, if you’re a guy who loves pegging, you probably think you’re a freak.

IT’S OKAY TO DESIRE PEGGING

Every guy has an organ that rarely experiences its full potential. No, not the dick- your prostate. Think of it as the male clit.

Let’s slip back into Biology class for a bit: Unlike the clit that’s found at the front of a woman’s body, the prostate is located between the bladder and cock. It’s actually right at the front of the rectum.

There’s a spectacular feeling that comes with having it touched or hit gently. That’s where the interest in getting a good old pegging comes in. Most people think that you’re bi or gay if you enjoy anal play. It just shows that you have a healthy desire to explore your options.

IS PEGGING DIFFERENT FROM “TRADITIONAL” SEX?

Nope. The only difference is the switch in roles that many people have a hard time accepting. Apart from that, it can be domineering and rough like ordinary sex, yet sensual and loving.

The technique and angle of penetration play a massive role in determining the satisfaction level of a pegging exercise to a guy.

WHY MOST GUYS LOVE PEGGING

The first and most obvious reason is it promotes better orgasms. As the dildo gets into the anus and hits the right spot, there’s a sweet and uncontrollable sensation that results and before you know it, you’re care-freely moaning your way to a smooth orgasm.

Second, it’s sexy to have women pegging men. Having a woman tower over you and assume that dominant role really does it for many men. It gets better when she thrusts while holding your ass and squeezes it.

Third, it’s an eye (or butt) opener for straight guys who practice anal sex on their partners. They now have a firm plastic dildo going right into them, and therefore know what back door love feels like and can do it better if not well.

Lastly, it’s a perfect boredom kicker. If you’ve been in a relationship for months or years and have been having traditional sex, the same style can kill the thrill. Throw in a dildo and strap-on and see the magical turn your sex life will take!

HOW TO PREPARE FOR A PEGGING SESSION

Okay, you get the pegging gist and are itching to try it out. So, where do you start? First off, have a chat with your partner and see if she’s interested. Many women are a little turned off by pegging men. If yours is one of them, let her know how important it is to you and she just might give in.

You should consider putting a butt plug into your anus to make it easier to penetrate. Don’t forget some lube as well!

Next, empty your bowels. The last thing you’d want is poop popping out of your butt hole after you orgasm and she takes the dildo out. Please poop at least three hours before your pegging session. Better yet, empty your bowels in the morning and get pegged at night.

Also, give your ass a good clean. Soap it up and rinse thoroughly with water. This will save you the embarrassment of having remains of excrement on the dildo when the exercise is over.

Finally, shave your anal hair if you have any. It can be real painful if the hairs get caught by the dildo as your partner thrusts it forcefully inside you.

GO FOR IT

You’re now ready to go on the sexual trip of a lifetime. Put all your fears to rest and experience some shattering anal orgasms for once. You deserve it.  Now get some pegging sex toys online and fulfill your fantasy.