Freak In The Sheets, A Lady In The Streets

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Men want the type of girl that is marriage worthy, the kind that they can take home to their parents and their parents will instantly love. They want a kind of girl who is sexy just for them, a freak in bed but not someone who advertises it to the whole world. They want a bit of mystery associated to their woman, they don’t want the rest of the world to know how hard you like it in the bedroom or the kinks you’re into how wild you like it or even how frequent! Men are jealous greedy souls and they want this all for themselves, but can you blame them?

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Some might say this is unfair, and you know what it probably is but that’s your choice of how you want to hold yourself, flaunt if you want to but personally I prefer the more mysterious side. Think about it…. Your man might love to brag about you to his mates, your man might want to boast while the rest complain about their woman, but what he does want is for you to be sexy but not so sexy that his friends ogle you and there is nothing left to the imagination, he wants others to appreciate your beauty and find you desirable but know that is only the surface of your sex appeal.

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Of course, he secretly likes the fact his mates think you are sexy, but he doesn’t want to hear every detail of what they are thinking, and he doesn’t want to advertise it so much that his friends feel the need to comment about it all the time or in front of you. We as women love when other women find our man attractive, but there is a significant difference between smouldering appearance and flopping it out.

Those kinky mysteries are what your man wants, but he wants them to remain mysteries to everyone except him. He wants a freak in the streets and a lady on the street. A woman who knows when to cover up and when to show it off.

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Tips for how to be the mysterious and desirable lady who gets freaky only for their man. A women who oozes sex appeal and makes other men look twice when they pass you but for all the right reasons.

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Show just enough skin to show you are proud of your body but not too much where there is nothing left to the imagination.

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A lady who knows when to amp up the dirty talk and can tell you exactly what she wants in the bedroom but knows how to curve her tongue when talking in public. Be careful what you wish for.

She giggles but be careful with what comes next

A lady who can giggle, covers her mouth and blushes like an innocent school girl, but out of nowhere can make the dirtiest comment or joke. She’s got two sides a devil and an angel.

She knows how to take a compliment but never lets a guy take it too far

She can politely brush off an abrupt guy in the street or a wolf whistle, she doesn’t use that as an excuse to tell the guy to “f**K Off”. She knows the difference between a harmless comment and straight up harassment. But when a guy does disrespect her she has no problem with telling him where to go.

She’s the type of women other guys will lust over, but her eyes are just for her man

Being with a woman like this means you need to have trust and confidence in your women, you have to understand that guys will check her out, but she won’t notice because her eyes are all on you.

Cute and sexy she will have the perfect combination of both

Divine powers like these are only bestowed upon women like this, ones who know when to be sexy and when to be cute. She has those innocent eyes but when you take a second look you’re instantly turned on.

Her wardrobe is high class sexy and classy but with all the innocents… underneath though is high sass and no one but you will ever know

Time is always taken to make sure she maintains a certain look about her, attention to makeup hair and her outfit always flawlessly match, but underneath all that is colour matching lingerie, lace and sexiness are oozing out waiting for her man to take off the surface layer. She’s definitely got a knack for kink, think less vanilla and more chocolate swirl with popping candy you’ll never know what’s coming next. Wearing the right lingerie can make you irresistible.

She likes tradition, but she is also unconventional

She is a sucker for all things traditional, nothing makes her happier than her friends and family. The feeling of togetherness is very important to her, but this doesn’t mean she is boring, she is free thinking and independent, speaks her mind even if it’s against popular opinion.

She takes care of your needs in life she is attentive and caring, but she gives you all your wants in the bedroom

Day to day she looks after what’s best for you, she will take care of you when you’re sick, and always thinks of both of you when it comes to choices in life. But when it comes to the bedroom your wants become your needs.

But all this is a two-way street, you can’t have a lady in the streets when your man isn’t the same way

A lady always know that this is a give and take world, she is patient loving and kind and always gives things a chance. Don’t get me wrong it will take a lot to push a woman like this away but when you do you will never ever see her again not on the streets or anywhere else.

No one wants a lady 24/7, that’s way too dull and boring, a woman who can seamlessly switch between the lady and the freak in such a fluid motion is a desirable attribute. This kind of life is a balance and in so many ways it sucks that women are expected to act a certain way and be a certain way, which is why the only way this works is if this is what you want to be. Two parts lady and two parts sexual dynamite, we walk a thin line that showcases your respect and love for your body, but with that hint of sexiness enough to not show neediness or thirst but enough the give an impeding allure about you.

No matter what anyone tells you men want a freak in the sheets and a lady on the streets.

Morgan x

Author: Morgan is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

Secretly Exposing My Masculinity With Maskulo

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A big thanks to our dear friends at Maskulo for sending us some products for review.

Maskulo was founded by Artem Smyslov and Bulat Barntaev in 2014 at Oktyabrskaya st, 52, Novosibirsk, 630099 Russia in Siberia – the coldest of places.  The brand name simply means “masculinity exposed’ and they are leaders in male fetish wears.  Two openly gay men in a country where homosexuality is technically illegal producing high quality products using the best materials with attention to the finer details for all you kinksters out there.  A selection of jocksraps, briefs, tank tops, boxers and many accessories that will hit the right sensual spots. They especially have a wide selection of different types of designer underwear!

‘Fun’ and ‘hot’ are words that can be used to describe these intimate clothes that will look sensational on you making concerted efforts to deliver clothes that will increase your sex appeal when worn.  All the crew at Maskulo are creative and courageous people that work for a basic human right for lifestyle and sexuality choices.

Maskulo is now shipped to many countries around the world and the brand is slowly becoming one of the most sought after by the LGBTQIA+ community with much press for Bulat Barntaev who became the first openly gay man to run for Russian Parliament in the nation’s history.  Bulat has openly criticized Putin’s regime, which of course is a great risk to his personal safety.

The first product we have reviewed is the jockstrap JS30 which is an attractive fetish jockstrap for men.  It has a neon codpiece which is held in place by black metal snaps and glows under black light.  The codpiece is removable that can be used to expose your erection for some quick sex-play or just if you want to show off a bit.  The straps make this extremely comfortable to wear and really look great on someone who is muscular or athletic.

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The Maskulo brand is generous in sizing and the sizing chart is shown below.

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The jockstrap JS30 is made from 90% polyester and 10% elastane. The color options are neon orange, pink, green and white. The non-neon strap part of each jockstrap is in black.  The materials felt sexy and the elastic straps contour perfectly to the body.  The codpiece is held in place by 3 snaps configured in a triangular shape that are easy to click on and off.  The codpiece is made of a foam filled material.

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Putting on some music I had a bit of a dance and then wore them for a few hours after. The jockstrap stayed in place and was extremely comfortable on.  The foam allowed my privates to breathe and thereby not get to sweaty or clammy.

A word of warning – hand wash the codpieces with a mild soap – do not get deodorant or any other alcoholic or thinner based liquids on it as they will cause color change and possibly make them non-neon under a blacklight.

Searching online the average price is around the $50 USD mark so it is very reasonable when compared with some of the other brands out there and with the great work these guys do for the LGBTQIA+ community, especially in Russia, I would prefer to support them than other companies just out for pure profiteering.

7 Easy Seduction Techniques Used With Costumes

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A person can receive many benefits from wearing lingerie and costumes, so why not take advantage of them! Here are some fun and exciting ways to spice up your love life through sexual attraction. Start today and use these ideas to create the fantasies that you have always dreamed of!

Use The Science Of Symmetrical Attraction

Researchers had found that people with symmetrical features are more attractive than people with unsymmetrical features. A person who has symmetrical features also subconsciously alerts people that they have good genes which may make other people naturally attracted to them. Even though people love symmetry, most people aren’t perfectly symmetrical.

If you would like to make your body appear more symmetrical, you can buy structured lingerie. Structured lingerie can be made with slightly thicker material, underwire and boning to provide more support to the body and breasts. It won’t cling to your body and make you feel uncomfortable. Clothes that are made like this tend to last longer too!

Peacock Your Way To Success

Peacocking is a verb that means “to draw attention”. An example of this is in the animal kingdom when a male peacock utilises his beautiful, long, blue and green feather display to sexually attract a mate. People can also participate in the act of peacocking by wearing interesting and eye-catching lingerie or costumes. You can be adventurous and have some fun with it by using a mixture of your favourite colours, materials and textures.

Wear Something Red

The red dress effect theory works on the idea that people’s brains are subconsciously hard-wired to find red clothing sexually appealing whilst other coloured clothing is less appealing. Different colours in lingerie and costumes can bring out different moods in the bedroom.

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Take The Word “Self-Conscious” Off Your Worry List

If you feel self-conscious about what you wear, you may also find intimate moments with someone scary or frightening! Wearing lingerie and costumes can make you feel more attractive and comfortable which will help to take the word “self-conscious” off your worry list.

Make It A Special Occasion

Regardless of whether you have recently started seeing someone or you’re in an established relationship, if you are planning on dressing up why not do it for a special occasion like on a anniversary or on Valentine’s day. These events are supposed to bring people closer together through celebration. For those who have been in a relationship for quite a long time they may not feel quite as sexy as it used to be.

Nevertheless, buying costumes or lingerie as a gift will indicate to your lover that you still find them attractive and would like them to carry on dressing up. It can definitely score you some brownie points especially when your lover sees it in their underwear drawer, it will remind her that you are a caring and conscientious partner.

Change Your Character By Roleplaying

As William Shakespeare once said:

“All the world’s a stage and all the men and women, merely players”

When people dress up in different costumes it can psychologically help them to feel more confident and change their mind frame to behave in a way that suits what they wear rather than how they would normally behave in day to day life. With this in mind, you can choose a type of costume which would reflect a type of character you would like to become when you are roleplaying in bed with your lover.

To begin you should ask yourself some questions like:

  • What would you feel comfortable wearing?
  • Who would you like to envision yourself as?
  • What type of fantasy would your love like to be fulfilled?
  • How would the costume, character and roleplaying scene make your lover feel?
  • Will it make your lover feel special?

When you first begin roleplaying you may feel embarrassed or silly but this feeling will soon wear off. You should both begin enjoying the scene. In no time you will be indulging living out your wildest dreams and fantasies.

Here are some costumes ideas:

  • Naughty Nurse: Explore medical play by taking care of any sexual frustrations your lover may experience that makes them feel unwell.
  • Police Officer: Dominate the roleplaying experience with a submissive lover. You can use restraints to make things extra fun.

If you feel too embarrassed to wear a full costume, you can try on one piece of the costume alongside your regular clothes or underwear. For example, if you wear to dress up as a naughty nurse, you can try wearing the nurse’s hat with your regular underwear. Whether you use just one piece or all the pieces of the costume, your lover will highly appreciate you going that extra mile for them.

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Dress Up In Costumes Together

You don’t have to do it all alone! If you are worried about getting dressed up by yourself, why not ask your lover to join in with you? Buy a costume for your lover and yourself, then dress up together.

Plan The Roleplaying Scene

You can plan out the roleplaying scene around the costume so that you can actually live out your fantasy. You may want to give your lover a little hint that you have something special planned or you may surprise her or him with the entire setup.

Set up a room in the manner you have always dreamed. If you have always imagined a particular set up or a certain sequence of events then now is the best time to set the stage. If you would like to use certain products like massage oils, music, BDSM gear or candles ensure that you have placed everything in a convenient location.

14 Surefire Ways Lingerie Will Make You Irresistible

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It is not secret that both men and women love wearing lingerie! Using quality lingerie that fits your body type can make all the difference in your day. Here are 14 reasons why people absolutely love lingerie!

Sometimes It’s Not About Who Sees It

Many people have the expectation that people wear lingerie to impress their lover or for another’s pleasure. But did you know that for most people who wear lingerie often wear it just for themselves. Lingerie helps people feel sexy, attractive and desirable. Feeling this way is important for self-confidence and self-esteem so that people are able to have a positive view of their own body image. Looking and feeling great is a major part of people’s lives and can have a big impact on how a person’s day goes.

I like to call this “Lingerie Confidence”. Have you been the airport recently? Did you know that there is a Victoria’s Secret in both the Domestic and International Sydney Airports? This trend is continued in Melbourne, Perth, Brisbane, Gatwick (London), Heathrow, JFK Airport, Dubai, Paris, Auckland, Rome. . . it is thus clear how important a place lingerie can be in our lives

Wearing Lingerie Can Be Kept As A Secret

Some people are exceptionally timid and feel uncomfortable showing off lingerie to a lover as they may feel it is out of their comfort zone. Since lingerie is worn under a person’s clothing, it can be used whether you are at home, at work or at an important social function. No one else will know you are wearing it. This means you are wearing something incredibly sexy and it is your little secret.

Lingerie Can Be Worn To Impress A Lover

Wearing lingerie can be visually stimulating and sexually arousing for a lover to see.

Lingerie Can Help Improve Relationships

Subsequently, I feel that lingerie in a relationship is important and I’m not alone in this thought. Charles J.Orlando suggests that lingerie is excellent to spice up the bedroom for couples. It provides a sense of empowerment and confidence and it makes a delightful gift.

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Lingerie Can Be Worn Everyday

Gone are the days of having to wear lingerie like boned corsets that make it hard to move or even breathe! Most lingerie is designed to be worn comfortably every day, you don’t just have to use it for a romantic date night.  So you can feel beautiful, gorgeous and sexy any day your please.

Suzie, self-described as a love strategist, writes in her article ‘Why Lingerie is important in a relationship’ that wearing lingerie shouldn’t be a special occasion thing. It should be an everyday thing. She writes that when she saved lingerie for special occasions in her marriage, due to the various issues that they’d have that special moment, wouldn’t materialize. After her marriage, she decided to wear the lingerie everyday as she had drawers full of unused pieces. She writes that she discovered new parts about herself, that she felt more confident, became more flirtatious and subsequently she began to project a new image and personality into the world.

Lingerie Can Purchased At Affordable Prices

People can find high quality and designer lingerie at affordable prices so you will be able to find something which suits your personal budget.

Lingerie Can Naturally Enhance A Person’s Body Figure

Lingerie can be worn to emphasize a person’s best assets. By highlighting their best assets you are bringing enormous confidence to the table. You’re saying, I love my ass, let’s show it off. For men, if he has the best ass, go for a jock strap. If he has a great cock, go for something sheer/netted in the front or get something, like Andrew Christian which favourably lifts and pushes. For women, if she has amazing breasts go for something plunging with an under wire. If she has long luscious legs go for high cut underwear or a low cut piece.

Lingerie Can Be Used To Hide A Person’s Flaws

In the same token, if a person is sensitive about a particular body part then they are able to buy something that accommodates for that. People need to be mindful as to how you will feel when you wear the product. For men, if he doesn’t like his dick, then something sheer isn’t going to give him confidence. For women, if she has scarring from a caesarean or feels that she has a big ass, then a two piece set with a thong isn’t going to work. For tummy scarring go a sheer loose fitting chemise, garter belt or a lace body stocking, if it’s only the scarring that they are concerned about and not tummy size.

Lingerie Can Be Worn To Express Your Personality

The design of the lingerie can be chosen based upon how a person’s wishes to see themselves. For example, if he or she wears something incredibly erotic, they may feel sexually empowered. If the person wears something cute they may feel playful. It can be used to fuel how you wish others to perceive you or it can be used as inspiration to change the way you choose to act.

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Lingerie Is Available In Different Sizes

When you are shopping you can choose a size that fits your body. It is best practice to know the size you’re buying for before you even go shopping. Write down your measurements on a piece of paper so that you can remember them. If you are unable to measure your body, look through your clothing and read the sizing labels of items that properly fit you. For men, look at the jeans and underwear sizes. For women, look at the bra sizes and underwear sizes.

When you go shopping, you can compare the measurements with the product’s sizing guides or speak to a consultant to find out the appropriate size. If you need further help you can ask the consultant if you are able to open up the package to try on the lingerie or to compare it to your body.

You can even give your lover your measurements in case they ever wish to buy you lingerie as a gift, this is helpful so they don’t have to guess your size. The problem with a lover picking out the incorrect size is that if you go too small and you’ll make them think they’re fat, if you go to large, it may make it look like you think they’re fat. Sometimes people who are unaware of their sizes even resort to picking other people in the store and comparing their body sizes!

Plain and simple, get the right size.

Lingerie Can Be Purchased In Different Colours

When buying lingerie, you can take into consideration a person’s favourite colour and what colour will looks best. If they’re pale and white, yellow is probably not the best option.

You Can Buy Different Lingerie Options For Different Levels Of Confidence

Take note of what is currently in your wardrobe and what you are comfortable with. If you’re considering something a little risqué and out there, consider your confidence levels and whether you are going to trust what you’ve picked. When in doubt, get two; the out there option and the safe option.

Lingerie Can Be Bought To Make You Feel Better

My partner always knows when I’m not feeling well or life is getting me down, I go on a shopping spree and I buy new underwear. I buy everyday underwear, sexy underwear such as jock straps and cock socks to show off what I have. Some people buy jewellery or shoes, some people buy clothes, others buy food or new games or something to make us feel better.

Lingerie Can Be Bought As A Special Gift

Make your lover feel important and special by buying them some sexy clothing that they can wear. You don’t have to buy it for a special occasion you can buy it simply because you can. When your lover slips into a sexy piece of lingerie which makes them feel great they will be reminded of you!

Become A Hardcore Leather Jock Today!

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I would love to thank the leather manufacturer Kailash G. Exports for providing a Leather Jock Strap for this review. I’ve spoken about my love of underwear before and how much that I enjoy wearing it, as well as the confidence that they provide. What I haven’t done, is speak about types of underwear and how it can affect the aesthetic in the bedroom with the simplicity of flipping a switch. One of my favorite styles of underwear is without a doubt, the jock strap. Despite its simplicity, there’s just something about it which gets my blood pumping and my cock twitching –  it doesn’t matter if I’m the one wearing it, or my sexual partner, if there’s a jock strap involved there’s definitely going to be a very positive reaction. So when I was given a new leather jock strap to review you can only imagine the joy in my reaction.

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So What Is A Jock Strap?

A jock strap is actually a lot older than what I thought it was. The word has been in use since the late 1800’s and it’s defined as underwear which supports male genitals during athletic sports. It usually has a waistband, with a pouch for the cock and balls and leaving everything else free and bare. Its most commonly used and worn in American sports, and it’s probably because of this that it has slowly become a fashionable icon for men to wear. It shows off the body, especially the ass, and highlights the male genitals. I can tell you now that I’ve had several fantasies involving sports teams and jock straps, and it’s just one of those things that really look good on a man.

The jock strap that I received was a soft leather design, with a front zipper and a bare ass. There is a red stripe on the front which go on either side of the zipper and this is accentuated by red piping on the edge of the pouch, which helps the jock stand out in the crowd. When it comes to bondage gear and toys, most people have a particular colour that they like. For example, the majority of my leather gear is red or blue, whilst my partner is generally green or yellow. The colours don’t really mean much in normal situations – though there are sometimes colour coded parties which people can attend and the colour will show off your fetish. Whilst the colours for my partner and I, aren’t fetish related, it means that we can separate our gear and colour coordinate ourselves for events, scenes, or when having other people over, or if we are switching. Red is my dominant colour and blue is my more submissive colour – though I do have other colours that I like to use depending on the type of fetish play that we are doing that day. Whilst it does mean that I then need more gear, it also means that my gear is then specifically tailored towards a particular fetish. Useful in the event that something happens during a scene, and especially useful for getting my head in the right space.

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I Love The Zipper

I loved the addition of the zipper in this jock strap. The zipper is great because it meant that I could pull my cock out without having to take off the jock strap. Meaning, that I could easily sex, jerk off, or be stimulated without complete removal of the jock. Sure, I’m usually nervous as hell when doing the zipper back up, and I certainly wouldn’t want to be caught having to do it up in a hurry – but I like not having to take it off.  What I really like about this jock strap, is not only is the inside of the jock – super soft and supple, but there’s actually a small flap of leather that sits OVER the fly from the inside. What this does, is prevent any unfortunate accidents involving your dick and a fly – a surprisingly handy feature that I think should have been added to all jock straps before this point. The smell of leather whilst sucking cock, or having sex can be just as much of a turn on as the sex itself. Personally, there’s few things that I find to be hotter than having sex with a guy whilst he’s still wearing his jock strap – they’re super easy to either pull to the side, or unzip allowing easy access to all the important bits. I did find the thickness of the straps on this jock strap to be a little thicker than what I usually get and they’re not exactly my usual style- but when wearing them they did seem pretty comfortable.

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That’s the thing with leather, bondage, kink and fetish gear. It’s not just about the gear, but it’s about the look of the gear. Bondage toys heavily lean towards providing a certain aesthetic. I mentioned earlier that I have different colours depending on the role, and the fetish that I am engaging with that day. It helps get into the ‘head space’ necessary to fully engage with fetish and bondage play. For example, if I’m wearing red which is usually the colour that I use for ‘domming’ then it would be harder for me to switch into ‘sub mode’ when wearing red. I feel more confident and in control wearing red – and as such I use the colours to help my head space. Colours and materials are therefore very important when it comes to fetish gear. So when I put on this leather jock strap with its red line, and had my cock hanging out – you knew exactly who was in charge and control of the situation. Not to mention the way that it hugged my cheeks and highlighted my ass. Sure, I could wear a similar jock strap made of white mesh fabric, but it’s not going to convey the same kind of message that a leather jock strap will. All in all, I enjoyed this jock strap – though it wasn’t the perfect fit. I’m not a small dude, but I did need a cock ring to achieve the ‘full’ look, without which – it wasn’t entirely flattering. But then I do acknowledge that it is difficult to get a perfect shaped pouch for a jock strap that fits snug and lifts in all the right ways (especially in leather) – and wearing a cock ring underneath these days is pretty expected for most scenes. So it wasn’t a big deal – but if you’re not used to wearing cock rings under your jock straps then you might have a little more of an issue with it.

Author: Stephen Smith – BA Of Social Sciences, M.Ed

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