What Lingerie to Wear on the First Date

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The first date is always an exciting moment because you don’t know what your partner will be in real life. Photos on dating websites may not always correspond to reality. But what if the guy you met on Snapsext or another website is really handsome, and you want to be 100% sure of your attractiveness? Then you should put on beautiful underwear to feel protected and ready for any situation. Let’s figure out what lingerie to wear on the first date.

Spend At Least 10 Mins Picking Out Sexy Lingerie

Many girls can spend several hours looking for the perfect lingerie and end up choosing the bras and panties they see in their wardrobe for the first time. This is fundamentally the wrong approach. As a rule, 10 minutes is enough to choose underwear if the wardrobe is clearly structured. You should pick up a certain number of bras and panties sets before getting ready for your date. This will reduce the selection time to 10 minutes, and you can quickly dress up to surprise your future partner.

Don’t Wear A Boring Bra

Even if you are not going to undress on the first date, you need to wear exactly the lingerie that matches your image and emphasizes your sexuality. It will give you confidence and a sense of desire. Forget about those lingerie sets that you wear in everyday situations. It is unacceptable. You will be much more psychologically comfortable if you wear lace lingerie or other sexual elements to make you irresistible. Even if he does not see it in the evening, he will definitely distinguish the outlines of the lace bra.

Avoid Panty Lines Under Tight Dresses

Undoubtedly the subtle silhouette of the lingerie adds sexuality to your image. But your future partner is unlikely to appreciate the panties that clearly stand out against the background of tight leggings or jeans. If in the early nineties it was considered sexy, now it is inappropriate and even a little vulgar. Even if you are a very frank girl and love and wear some tight thongs or lace panties that will only slightly stand out against the background of outerwear, then you will be really sexy, and your image will not be vulgar.

Express Your Love For Lace

If you cannot choose which lingerie to wear, you should pay attention to lace bras and panties. It is a safe bet that always fits perfectly and allows you to create a sexy look. You will be able to feel stunning and surprise your future partner. This is a great option for a first date because you will look really sexy.

Wear Colors That Pep Up Your Mood

The first thing you need to know is that your lingerie should not look contrasting against outerwear’s background. The rest of the color and style depends on your taste preferences. It is best if you choose those colors that emphasize your mood and make you happier. Then you will feel more confident in choosing an outfit for an evening date. This will be noticed by your Partner, who will pay you more signs of attention.

Do Not Compromise On Fit

Even the sexiest underwear can look out of place if you choose the wrong size. Tight panties or bras will be a real torture for you during a date. Imagine your partner’s surprise when he sees how constantly scratching and adjusting his panties. It will look at least strange and wild. You should spend some time and choose the lingerie that is really comfortable for you only then will you feel more confident and spend a few hours as comfortable as possible.

Don’t Be Afraid To Experiment With Lingerie

Experimentation lifts the mood of any girl. Even if you have chosen the perfect set of lingerie, this does not mean that you cannot combine it with other options. It will be best if you try to pick up panties and bras from different sets. Maybe you like some new elements or push-up effects. Then you can surprise and seduce your partner on the first date. All this will make you more self-confident and more comfortable.

Match Your Panty With Your Bra As Often As You Can

Even if you are not planning an intimate evening, you should always choose a set of women’s underwear or the most similar items to not feel uncomfortable if you still have to undress. You can choose a great set of panties and combine them with several options that you like the most. Then you will not have any discomfort.

These are general tips that will come in handy for any girl. No matter what, you can ignore them or listen to each point. Nevertheless, this is what really works and will make you look irresistible on the first date. Every girl wants to feel comfortable and sexy, which is easy to achieve with the right lingerie. Combine and experiment to produce a stunning effect on your partner.

6 Amazing Sex Positions for Big, Beautiful Bodies

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Most people will say that sex is the best thing a person can experience. However, it’s usually not as beautiful and perfect as we see it in the movies and TV shows. In fact, sex is often very clumsy and awkward, just ask any chubby person out there and they’ll confirm it. Men and women with big beautiful bodies always say that fat sex can be rather uncomfortable, especially if you don’t know what you’re doing. Therefore, if you’re a chubby person who has a plus size lover, you should probably try out these 6 amazing sex positions for big and beautiful people.

Doggy Style on a Couch Armrest

The famous doggy style is probably the most popular position in the world. However, it can be a bit uncomfortable for big and chubby people. As you know, there are a lot of variations of this great sex position, but most of them imply that man and woman are on their knees. If you have a few extra pounds, you definitely know how much of a strain it is to put all of your weight on your knees during sex. However, we have a painless solution that will allow you and your partner to enjoy this sweet position. All you have to do is pay a visit to your living room couch and use its sturdy armrest as support. The girl then has to bend over the armrest and the man will be able to enter her from a standing up position.

Modified Missionary Position

If the doggy style is the sexiest and most exciting position out there, then classic missionary is the most intimate one. As you know, during the regular missionary position, a man is in a push-up position, while the woman lays on her back. This can be a problem for chubby men simply because they can’t support all of their weight with just their arms. So, if you are a man who wants to enjoy this position with his lover, you have to bend your knees to support the lower half of your body and you have to bend your elbows to rest your upper body on your forearms. This way you’ll be close to each other and your bellies won’t get in the way.  You could find more hot girls on;  Garotas Lindas

Leg Glider

One of the biggest problems plus size couples have in the bedroom is, of course, finding a good angle of penetration. Leg glider is a wonderful position that provides the male with the perfect approach to the Promised Land. The woman has to lay on her back (turned slightly on the side) with her upper leg pointing to the ceiling. The man then straddles the lower leg and grasps the upper leg to help himself glide back and forth. This is the perfect position for big, beautiful, and passionate lovers.

Reverse Cowgirl with Pillows

The cowgirl position surely is one of the most popular ones out there, but it’s not that great for chubby couples. The girl simply can’t ride her man freely in this position because their bellies are getting in the way. The reverse cowgirl, on the other hand, is the perfect solution to that problem. In this position, the woman is looking at her lover’s feet, which allows her to lean forward as much as she likes. Also, the man will enjoy the view of her beautiful butt. A woman can also use pillows to reduce the strain on her knees.

Make Him Bend the Knee

No, we’re not talking about Daenerys Targaryen and Jon Snow roleplay here. We’re talking about the wonderful “thigh tide” position. This is basically just the reverse cowgirl position with the man’s leg bent at the knee. This allows the woman to hug the leg and rub her clit against the thigh as she rides her man.

Girl on the Edge of the Bed

When you’re a chubby person, almost every position can be painful for your knees. So, the best way to avoid injuries is to find a position in which a man can penetrate the woman while standing upright. The best way to achieve that is to put a woman on her back with her hips on the edge of the bed. This provides the man with a wonderful angle of penetration and he can grasp the woman’s legs to help himself with the thrusting. This is one of the most comfortable and sexiest positions two chubby lovers can enjoy on a daily basis. Big beautiful women claim that they are more likely to orgasm in this position.

 

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Tips For Erotic Dancing!

Starting a new journey is always daunting, especially an out of the ordinary journey such as venturing out into the world of exotic dancing! I wouldn’t call myself a veteran dancer but after being in the industry for a while I’ve picked up quite a few tips and tricks along the way that I want to share with anyone starting out!

CONFIDENCE:

As cliché as it sounds, confidence will be the best and biggest gun in your arsenal. Putting yourself out there is hard let’s face it. However a dancer’s main objective is to sell a fantasy, this means transforming the way you talk, act and think to suit the client you’re with. This is the best part, you get to be a completely different person!! Whatever character you choose should be confident, confidence can be sensed by everyone in the room, it’s in the way you walk, it’s behind the eyes, it is everything. Nervous about the way you look? Don’t be! Every single person has a type, so don’t let ‘no’ discourage or dishearten you. For every ten no’s there will be one yes, just keep going!! Say it with me: Confidence is KEY!!

 

NAME:

Your stage name is important as it becomes your fantasy identity whilst you work. Pick something short and sweet that isn’t too cliché and is easy to remember! No one ever believes the first name you tell them and will always press you for your “real name”, have at least 3 different back-ups for “real” names to give whenever that question is asked. Once you pick a name stick with it and create your character around the name. You may be shy or quiet but your new persona isn’t, she’s confident and mysterious. Remember it’s all an act and you’re playing a character.

 

DANCING:

You DO NOT have to be a professional dancer to become an exotic dancer. I’d never really danced much before I started but you pick up moves and tricks as you go along and as you start to get more comfortable. Everyone is different, twerking is a great move but if you don’t have a large rear it shouldn’t be your go-to show stopper. Work with what you have, the other dancers will always help a rookie out with some simple easy to do moves.

SLOW AND SEXY,

repeat it in your head anytime you’re dancing if you ever think you’re moving too fast, just slow it down. Pole dancing studios often offer free trial classes, this is a great way to learn simple moves on the pole as well as how to actually hold the pole with proper grip etc.

 

OUTFITS:

Another key to success in the erotic dancing industry is what you wear.  You don’t have to spend an arm and a leg in order to buy some nice lingerie. Pick an outfit that emphasises your assets, most clubs will have a dress code that you’ll have to follow, whereas some clubs will be quite lenient with what you can wear. One piece and three-piece sets are often the norm. Pick a colour that makes you stand out and suits your skin tone. For instance, if you’re very pale colours such as red and black will make your skin look very bright and vibrant, whereas blues and whites go well with darker or tan skin!! Pick an outfit that looks good, but makes you feel even better! Remember you’re selling a fantasy so wear something to drop jaws, but make sure it is also easy to get off when you’re on all fours.

 

WHAT TO BRING:

Probably one of the most important tips is what to bring in your bag:

  • More than one outfit: ALWAYS bring at least two outfits, dancing is a workout and you will sweat, bring more than one for that reason alone but it’s always good to stand out too, if the club is full of girls wearing black and you have a backup red costume, you’re going to stand out.
  • Makeup: You’re going to be sweating your makeup off throughout the night or losing your lipstick on straws/glasses so bring makeup to do touch-ups with.
  • Baby Wipes: In almost every dancer’s bag, also known as a strippers shower. Dancing is a workout and as you’re are putting your body near clients faces it’s always a good idea to stay fresh.
  • Shoes: Invest in a pair of Pleasers, easiest shoes to dance in and some of the most comfortable heels you will ever wear in your life. Normal heels slip on stage or aren’t used to the hard labour dancers put their shoes through, invest in a pair specifically designed for exotic dancers.
  • Dry Shampoo: Another stripper shower, just for your hair this time. Keep your hair dry and fresh as opposed to wet and sweaty, which will definitely happen after an 8-hour shift.
  • Padlock: Most clubs will have lockers for you to stash your bags in, some dancers keep their earnings or tips in their bags and like anywhere there isn’t always decent and honest people around, play it safe and lock everything up and don’t go flashing cash or expensive items.
  • A smile: A smile can be worth a million bucks, and in this industry that saying is true. The more you smile the more approachable you appear, the more money you make!!

 

These are just a few tips to take into consideration, everyone is different, and every club is different. Work out your vibe and find a club to match and groove away. Good Luck!!

Freak In The Sheets, A Lady In The Streets

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Men want the type of girl that is marriage worthy, the kind that they can take home to their parents and their parents will instantly love. They want a kind of girl who is sexy just for them, a freak in bed but not someone who advertises it to the whole world. They want a bit of mystery associated to their woman, they don’t want the rest of the world to know how hard you like it in the bedroom or the kinks you’re into how wild you like it or even how frequent! Men are jealous greedy souls and they want this all for themselves, but can you blame them?

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Some might say this is unfair, and you know what it probably is but that’s your choice of how you want to hold yourself, flaunt if you want to but personally I prefer the more mysterious side. Think about it…. Your man might love to brag about you to his mates, your man might want to boast while the rest complain about their woman, but what he does want is for you to be sexy but not so sexy that his friends ogle you and there is nothing left to the imagination, he wants others to appreciate your beauty and find you desirable but know that is only the surface of your sex appeal.

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Of course, he secretly likes the fact his mates think you are sexy, but he doesn’t want to hear every detail of what they are thinking, and he doesn’t want to advertise it so much that his friends feel the need to comment about it all the time or in front of you. We as women love when other women find our man attractive, but there is a significant difference between smouldering appearance and flopping it out.

Those kinky mysteries are what your man wants, but he wants them to remain mysteries to everyone except him. He wants a freak in the streets and a lady on the street. A woman who knows when to cover up and when to show it off.

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Tips for how to be the mysterious and desirable lady who gets freaky only for their man. A women who oozes sex appeal and makes other men look twice when they pass you but for all the right reasons.

Skin

Show just enough skin to show you are proud of your body but not too much where there is nothing left to the imagination.

Polite in the streets

A lady who knows when to amp up the dirty talk and can tell you exactly what she wants in the bedroom but knows how to curve her tongue when talking in public. Be careful what you wish for.

She giggles but be careful with what comes next

A lady who can giggle, covers her mouth and blushes like an innocent school girl, but out of nowhere can make the dirtiest comment or joke. She’s got two sides a devil and an angel.

She knows how to take a compliment but never lets a guy take it too far

She can politely brush off an abrupt guy in the street or a wolf whistle, she doesn’t use that as an excuse to tell the guy to “f**K Off”. She knows the difference between a harmless comment and straight up harassment. But when a guy does disrespect her she has no problem with telling him where to go.

She’s the type of women other guys will lust over, but her eyes are just for her man

Being with a woman like this means you need to have trust and confidence in your women, you have to understand that guys will check her out, but she won’t notice because her eyes are all on you.

Cute and sexy she will have the perfect combination of both

Divine powers like these are only bestowed upon women like this, ones who know when to be sexy and when to be cute. She has those innocent eyes but when you take a second look you’re instantly turned on.

Her wardrobe is high class sexy and classy but with all the innocents… underneath though is high sass and no one but you will ever know

Time is always taken to make sure she maintains a certain look about her, attention to makeup hair and her outfit always flawlessly match, but underneath all that is colour matching lingerie, lace and sexiness are oozing out waiting for her man to take off the surface layer. She’s definitely got a knack for kink, think less vanilla and more chocolate swirl with popping candy you’ll never know what’s coming next. Wearing the right lingerie can make you irresistible.

She likes tradition, but she is also unconventional

She is a sucker for all things traditional, nothing makes her happier than her friends and family. The feeling of togetherness is very important to her, but this doesn’t mean she is boring, she is free thinking and independent, speaks her mind even if it’s against popular opinion.

She takes care of your needs in life she is attentive and caring, but she gives you all your wants in the bedroom

Day to day she looks after what’s best for you, she will take care of you when you’re sick, and always thinks of both of you when it comes to choices in life. But when it comes to the bedroom your wants become your needs.

But all this is a two-way street, you can’t have a lady in the streets when your man isn’t the same way

A lady always know that this is a give and take world, she is patient loving and kind and always gives things a chance. Don’t get me wrong it will take a lot to push a woman like this away but when you do you will never ever see her again not on the streets or anywhere else.

No one wants a lady 24/7, that’s way too dull and boring, a woman who can seamlessly switch between the lady and the freak in such a fluid motion is a desirable attribute. This kind of life is a balance and in so many ways it sucks that women are expected to act a certain way and be a certain way, which is why the only way this works is if this is what you want to be. Two parts lady and two parts sexual dynamite, we walk a thin line that showcases your respect and love for your body, but with that hint of sexiness enough to not show neediness or thirst but enough the give an impeding allure about you.

No matter what anyone tells you men want a freak in the sheets and a lady on the streets.

Morgan x

Author: Morgan is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

7 Easy Seduction Techniques Used With Costumes

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A person can receive many benefits from wearing lingerie and costumes, so why not take advantage of them! Here are some fun and exciting ways to spice up your love life through sexual attraction. Start today and use these ideas to create the fantasies that you have always dreamed of!

Use The Science Of Symmetrical Attraction

Researchers had found that people with symmetrical features are more attractive than people with unsymmetrical features. A person who has symmetrical features also subconsciously alerts people that they have good genes which may make other people naturally attracted to them. Even though people love symmetry, most people aren’t perfectly symmetrical.

If you would like to make your body appear more symmetrical, you can buy structured lingerie. Structured lingerie can be made with slightly thicker material, underwire and boning to provide more support to the body and breasts. It won’t cling to your body and make you feel uncomfortable. Clothes that are made like this tend to last longer too!

Peacock Your Way To Success

Peacocking is a verb that means “to draw attention”. An example of this is in the animal kingdom when a male peacock utilises his beautiful, long, blue and green feather display to sexually attract a mate. People can also participate in the act of peacocking by wearing interesting and eye-catching lingerie or costumes. You can be adventurous and have some fun with it by using a mixture of your favourite colours, materials and textures.

Wear Something Red

The red dress effect theory works on the idea that people’s brains are subconsciously hard-wired to find red clothing sexually appealing whilst other coloured clothing is less appealing. Different colours in lingerie and costumes can bring out different moods in the bedroom.

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Take The Word “Self-Conscious” Off Your Worry List

If you feel self-conscious about what you wear, you may also find intimate moments with someone scary or frightening! Wearing lingerie and costumes can make you feel more attractive and comfortable which will help to take the word “self-conscious” off your worry list.

Make It A Special Occasion

Regardless of whether you have recently started seeing someone or you’re in an established relationship, if you are planning on dressing up why not do it for a special occasion like on a anniversary or on Valentine’s day. These events are supposed to bring people closer together through celebration. For those who have been in a relationship for quite a long time they may not feel quite as sexy as it used to be.

Nevertheless, buying costumes or lingerie as a gift will indicate to your lover that you still find them attractive and would like them to carry on dressing up. It can definitely score you some brownie points especially when your lover sees it in their underwear drawer, it will remind her that you are a caring and conscientious partner.

Change Your Character By Roleplaying

As William Shakespeare once said:

“All the world’s a stage and all the men and women, merely players”

When people dress up in different costumes it can psychologically help them to feel more confident and change their mind frame to behave in a way that suits what they wear rather than how they would normally behave in day to day life. With this in mind, you can choose a type of costume which would reflect a type of character you would like to become when you are roleplaying in bed with your lover.

To begin you should ask yourself some questions like:

  • What would you feel comfortable wearing?
  • Who would you like to envision yourself as?
  • What type of fantasy would your love like to be fulfilled?
  • How would the costume, character and roleplaying scene make your lover feel?
  • Will it make your lover feel special?

When you first begin roleplaying you may feel embarrassed or silly but this feeling will soon wear off. You should both begin enjoying the scene. In no time you will be indulging living out your wildest dreams and fantasies.

Here are some costumes ideas:

  • Naughty Nurse: Explore medical play by taking care of any sexual frustrations your lover may experience that makes them feel unwell.
  • Police Officer: Dominate the roleplaying experience with a submissive lover. You can use restraints to make things extra fun.

If you feel too embarrassed to wear a full costume, you can try on one piece of the costume alongside your regular clothes or underwear. For example, if you wear to dress up as a naughty nurse, you can try wearing the nurse’s hat with your regular underwear. Whether you use just one piece or all the pieces of the costume, your lover will highly appreciate you going that extra mile for them.

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Dress Up In Costumes Together

You don’t have to do it all alone! If you are worried about getting dressed up by yourself, why not ask your lover to join in with you? Buy a costume for your lover and yourself, then dress up together.

Plan The Roleplaying Scene

You can plan out the roleplaying scene around the costume so that you can actually live out your fantasy. You may want to give your lover a little hint that you have something special planned or you may surprise her or him with the entire setup.

Set up a room in the manner you have always dreamed. If you have always imagined a particular set up or a certain sequence of events then now is the best time to set the stage. If you would like to use certain products like massage oils, music, BDSM gear or candles ensure that you have placed everything in a convenient location.