How To Tell If Your Husband is Gay!

Coming Out Gay

The difference between a straight man and a gay man is that a gay man feels interested in other men sexually but often will accept a woman whilst the straight man feels interested in women only. But sometimes it is seen that the man who claims to be a straight man is actually closeting his true sexuality and  may turn to other men some day. This has happened mainly because of homophobia, companies, friends or family not accepting the gay lifestyle. Due to the past discrimination people have felt that they could progress in companies by having a conservative family with two kids, a dog or cat and a loving wife and husband as it showed “commitment”. Gay people have also protected themselves from being assaulted, abused or looked down on due to their lifestyle choices but this has led to gay people getting married to women. Although sometimes, gay people don’t realise they are gay, until it is to late to change their wedding vows. Thankfully, we now have an open society that is built upon respect of society and cultural understanding of other people’s sexual lifestyle choices.

Inexplicably, they become true to themselves and come out that they are in fact gay and do not feel any interest in women any more having led a life’s lie. This often occurs with middle aged men who are married and then leave their wives and kids. They do not have a happy sexual life with their wife and are unfulfilled. They fail to fulfill the sexual want of their wives or themselves. It is actually a huge problem for the woman if her husband suddenly comes out gay man as for many years she has been misled and participated in an untrue life. The men do not mean to hurt their wives, they have just realised rather late what their sexual orientation is.

 

Coming Out of Closet Gay Rainbow

A gay man often has little sexual interest in the body of a woman but they can think like and also like the mind of woman. But married life needs the combination of mind as well as sex. So in any case when a supposed straight man comes out as a gay man, the wife of that man will feel the ultimate betrayal and deception.

If you are a married woman or a young girl and if feel that your husband or your boyfriend suddenly is acting strangely or making excuses to be apart from you then try to understand him and talk to him. Do not force him to love you as this is not the answer and will never work. It will make him feel trapped and disappointed and he may leave you sooner without giving it a chance. Never give him that chance if you want to get him back. Try to motivate him to open up to you slowly giving him the memories of your most lovely moments together. Give him enough time to understand that there is no turning back and slowly try to see that the life of a gay man can never be the same as with you. You can also try to bring the romance back into your relationship by going out for a romantic walk or both of you can watch romantic movies together.

If he is truly gay he will leave anyway and you are better off without him than living with someone and being with someone who is always fantasizing about someone of the opposite sex. Even so if a gay man and a straight woman sleep in  the same room the whole night, there is no guarantee that nothing will happen between them. So there cannot be any kinds of sexual relationship between a gay man and a woman and only accept the relationship being of the friendship. But if your own loving person suddenly comes out gay because of hormonal imbalance or any other reason then you must take the necessary steps to either try to salvage the relationship quickly or end it permanently. The faster you can take that necessary step, the chances of his and your recovery will be increased. So do not delay if you notice any kind of gay characteristics or different interest in your male partner!

 

Guide to a Gay Orgy Party

Safety at Gay Orgy Events

Most of us find out about sex parties or orgies by speaking to someone who has already been to one. Though luckily, we have written you a Guide to a Gay Orgy Party to take away some of your anxious thoughts. When you think gay orgy party, you think of all the hot men from your wildest dreams. You might be personally invited or added to an email list. Some online sex sites have sections devoted to helping organize sex parties. Parties can be located in someone’s house or apartment, hotel rooms or a bathhouse. Events that take place in a private residence might include dinner and conversation to start the evening, or maybe even some lounging around the pool. Private orgy parties, truly need to have large amounts of arranging and planning. There might be introductions, ice breakers to get people comfortable, and a discussion of ground rules. Depending on the size of the event, there might be multiple rooms, each differently themed. There may also be non-sexual areas if you want to take a break.

If your new to orgy parties, the sheer amount of individuals in the room can be excessive if people are trying to gain access to the same individual, though it is extremely fun. Logistics makes the event unusual. It will be a cluster of scattered couples blended in with a periodic trio or foursome. Anything greater than that has a tendency to wind up a clutter of “Alright, is it okay on the off chance that I put my foot here? Who am I inclining toward? I can’t see what I’m doing…”  You need to consider for space, pads and covers, you need to watch your toys and things to ensure everything’s perfect and don’t discover their way into the couple alongside you. It’s by and large best to let everybody bring their own sex-toys, they can even bring their own bondage equipment. If your nervous, try to focus to incline toward littler, more close parties. In the event that you have one accomplice, you can concentrate on them and have a fantastic time. Remember to clean your own equipment if you are using it on a new sexual partner.

Some events are ‘safer sex only’ parties. Where normally the host of the party asks all people who are going to the party to bring a recent medical certificate that confirms they do not have underlying transmittable medical condition or std. Others events may leave it up to you to decide. There are bareback parties where guys engage in unprotected anal sex which is also known as raw anal sex. Check with the host in advance to know what type of party you’re going to and what you should bring with you to make the experience more comfortable and fun. You can even think about wearing your own type of lingerie so people know who you are.

 

Safety Tips for Gay Orgy
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Sometimes, you can find yourself at a party with bareback sex. Bareback sex is sexual engagement, with sexual infiltration, without the utilization of a condom. A slang term, bareback sex originates from the equestrian term bareback, which alludes to the act of riding a steed without a seat. It in this way has the implication of being adventurous, risky, and fun. Bare-backing generally alludes to the choice and planned decision to not wear condoms during sex. If you arrive at a bareback party but weren’t expecting it to be one, don’t feel pressured to participate. If you’re going to a bareback party, check it out  for more information and be sure that your health checks are up to date, and do not feel pressured to have unprotected sex with anyone that you do not wish to. At the end of the day, it would be far better to get kicked out of a party than to risk your health and well-being.

Some of us like to have one-on-one sex, some of us like to have orgy group sex, and some of us like to have sex in front of other people. You can choose to keep your self safer if you choose to only participate with individuals you know. Sometimes there is also a lack of somebody you scarcely know; especially if it is your first time.

Sex parties can be a lot of fun but can also present particular risks. It can be difficult to keep track of what is going on when there’s a group of guys having sex around you. If you’re a top, make sure to change the condom with each different person that you fuck. If you’re the bottom, please be aware that you should ensure that the person you are engaging with sexual relations with also has changed their condom to a new one when they are with you as some people are not aware that they need to. Periodically check, with your hand, to make sure that guys are using condoms. When you are ejaculating it may be a good idea to pull out to lower the risk of spillage. After pulling out when your ejaculating, it is important to put on another new condom. Additionally, if the condom cracks or tears or breaks, change your condom straight away to a new one. If you’re having oral sex (sucking cock) with a lot of guys, avoid deep throating as this increases your risk of getting certain STD’s – like gonorrhea and chlamydia. Alternatively, feel free to bring along some flavoured condoms so you can give head safely.

 

 

 

 

How To Gay Cruise

Friendship Group

How gay men approach online dating ranges from a past time to a eight-hour-a-day obsession. Manhunt and Gaydar chatroom’s have replaced Perez Hilton, bigdickdaddy.com even  Kylie Club sites in queer bookmarks on web browsers.  Time spent online could be better utilized  in the real world. Gay men are losing their natural instincts to cruise. Living through our avatars – wellhung9, thickpound4U and other alphanumeric gems – we have lost touch with the ability to pull a man out of the frozen peas aisle of Cole’s and into our beds. Here are some hints on How To Gay Cruise the real world:

The Man Scan

Put your eyes to work by scanning for trade within your line of sight. While looking ahead set your gaydar to stun and see what possible trade is around. Keep it subtle and use that peripheral vision. You don’t want to scare away the trade.

The Crossover

The moment when a man who has set your gay scanner off and meets your eye. That fleeting exchange of eye contact is crucial so keep it brief, sexy and confident. The wrong look may suggest you are a whore looking for a fast fuck.

The Look Back

The look back should be carried out while you’re still in motion. Discreetly turn around to see if you made an impact. When the look back is there slow down until you come to a halt and slowly ease against the nearest pole, wall or other fixed object.  Continue the eye contact.

The Southern Cross

While looking and leaning, move your hand slowly and casually towards your pockets and sensually re-adjust your package. If you’re a hit, this move says it all. If your gaydar was wrong, then you can get out of an embarrassing situation with the ‘I’m hanging a little to the left and need a slight adjustment’ defence that all straight men understand. If you’re on target and the Southern Cross has been well received, proceed to the next phase.

The Kill

It’s make-or-break time so prepare to move in. While you may have been sporting a poker face up until now, it’s important to initiate some positive facial expression as you begin your descent. A slight smile reinforces your interest and confirms you’re not crippled by Botox. Smile fleetingly, not longingly; you’re not completely out of Mormon territory yet. At five metres from target give a small nod; at three metres draw attention to your mouth by wetting your lips; and at zero metres say, “Hey, what’s up?” If the response is “One guess” then it’s fair to assume you will be having sex within the next 15 minutes. If the response moves to the weather, re-align the conversation by repeating the Southern Cross move at this close distance until you have re positioned your target to your bedroom.

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The internet has changed how young and mature gay men date. Hooking up in gay chat rooms, posting ads on gay websites, watching VOD for free, or being part of interactive free live webcam shows. Has made it easy for Gay Cruising Online. Phone clubs are available to join where you can listen to messages, leave messages, and talk live with other men. The anonymity of both the internet and phone lines often allows all of us to explore freely sexual fantasies without fear of being seen or found out. Sexual exploration (not exploitation) is healthy and fun; however, sexual exploration without proper knowledge can be challenging. For example, some guys might advertise that they’re into PnP (P&P or party and play). If you’re exploring other types of sex play, make sure you know what you’re getting yourself into and what potential risks there might be before you engage in these
activities.

Here are some tips to keep in mind when cruising on-line or on the phone lines to make your gay cruising online more enjoyable and safe:

  • Keep a record of where you are going when going over to someone’s place.
  • Avoid giving out your phone number and address too freely to strangers.
  • If you’re inviting someone home and you live in an apartment, meet them at the entrance lobby. This way you avoid giving out your entry code and apartment number. It’s also easier to turn someone down if they’re not already in your apartment.
  • Don’t assume the person you’re hooking up with knows how to protect themselves from HIV transmission. Sometimes cruising from the comfort of your home might give you a false sense of safety. Just because you’re inviting people back to your place, or going over to other people’s homes, doesn’t mean you’re at lesser risk for HIV transmission.
  • The internet and the phone lines can sometimes de-humanize the cruising situation. Remember, you’re interacting with another person. Don’t be rude. Be aware of the language you use when responding.
  • It’s easier for other people to lie about themselves when you aren’t actually meeting them for the first time face-to-face. You can’t control this. Think in advance about what you would do if someone you cruised is not what he made himself out to be.
  • It can be easy to isolate yourself from the real world when you cruise online or over the phone. Look out for the following signs: you aren’t going out as much, or no longer hanging out with your usual friends. Make sure to keep your social interactions with others – be it friends, family or co-workers.

Why not try some of these online gay dating sites:

Hope you enjoyed this step by step guide on how to gay cruise.

Author: Ben is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

Top 10 Gay Destinations Worldwide

Cape Town Gay Destination

What are the top gay destinations in the world and why?  Most LGTBQIA+ people love to travel and when traveling like a mix of partying and sightseeing.  Here are some of the top 10 gay destinations worldwide.

San Francisco USA

Pride Week is capped by the often-outrageous ‘Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Pride Parade’ – where half a million people party in the street on the last Sunday in June. Also in June is the long-running queer film festival.

Sydney, Australia

Hey, in Sydney gay is the new straight. Sydney has an amazing gay community and lesbian culture that are a vocal, vital, well-organized and colorful part of Sydney’s social fabric. Host of the 2002 Gay Games, Sydney also plays host to Australia’s biggest annual tourist event – the Mardi Gras. The joy-filled hedonism-meets-political-protest parade is attended by more than half a million people. Beach life also reigns here, so boys should buff up before hitting the sand. There is even a large selection of LGBTQIA+ nightclubbing venues and dating apps to choose from!

Brighton, England

Perhaps it’s Brighton’s long-time association with the theatre, but for more than 100 years the city has been a gay haven. The vibrant queer community is made-up of 40,000 residents – almost a quarter of the total population. Kemptown (aka Camptown) is where it’s all at, with a rank of gay-owned bars, hotels, cafés, bookshops and saunas. There’s even a ‘Gay’s the Word’ walking tour.

Amsterdam, The Netherlands

Touted as the gay and lesbian capital of Europe, partisan estimates put the proportion of gay and lesbian people in Amsterdam at 20% to 30%. Though the figures are probably exaggerated, there’s no underestimating the number of venues for gays and lesbians. There are more than 100 bars and nightclubs, gay hotels, bookshops, sport clubs, choirs and support services. Amsterdam hosts the only water-borne gay-pride parade in the world, held on the canals on the first Saturday in August.

Berlin, Germany

Berlin’s legendary liberalism has spawned one of the world’s biggest gay and lesbian scenes. Openly gay mayor Klaus Wowereit outed himself with the now-popular words: ‘I’m gay, and that’s a good thing’. As befits Berlin’s decentralised nature, the city has no dedicated gay ghetto although it contains a number of established scenes. Huge crowds turn out in early June for Schwul-Lesbisches Strassenfest (Gay-Lesbian Street Fair), which is basically a warm-up for Christopher Street Day later that month.

Cape Town, South Africa

Regarded as one of the most beautiful cities in the world:- ‘heaven at the tip of Africa’ and voted as one of the top Gay travel destinations, Cape Town is a cosmopolitan city with beautiful people, breathtaking scenery and far too much to see and do in just one visit.

The world famous picture postcard Table Mountain, fine gay accommodation, white sandy beaches, lush countryside, arid plains, game reserves and just about anything else you could imagine discovering in paradise. Including an exciting gay scene. No wonder most visitors return year after year!

Capetonians’ easy-going attitude, together with the new liberal South African Constitution which safeguards gay rights, make Cape Town an extremely gay-friendly city. Today Cape Town has a huge per capita gay population and boasts possibly the most developed gay community on the African continent. Over and above its stunning natural scenery and superb beaches, Cape Town has over 100 gay venues, which includes clubs, bars, businesses and organizations, making it South Africa’s undisputed queer capital.

New York City, USA

New York’s Chelsea and Greenwich Village are synonymous with gay life, possessing a thriving out-there scene. A number of quieter clubs and bars continue to flourish further uptown in Chelsea as well. Every scene, from art to fashion, is hot in New York – and the gay scene is no exception, with great galleries, bars and clubs. June sees the obligatory Gay Pride parade attracting revelers from around the world.

Rio de Janeiro, Brazil

During Car naval (February or March), thousands of expatriate Brazilian and gringo gays fly in to take part in the fun, with transvestites stealing the show at most balls. Outside Carnival the gay scene is active, though less visible than in cities such as San Francisco and Sydney. The gay capital of Latin America is a mostly integrated scene, with the Entertainment sections of local newspapers and magazines branding establishments ‘GLS’: Gays, Lesbians and Sympathizers.

Prague, Czech Republic

The beguiling bohemian city of Prague inspired Kafka to warn visitors: ‘this little mother has claws’. Its maze of medieval lanes keeps a bevy of bars catering to all fancies: from leather through to rent boy. The cradle of Czech culture, Prague also stages a gay and lesbian film festival annually in November. Despite the city’s wholesale acceptance of same-sex partnerships, there’s a segregated gay scene, and public displays of affection are generally ill advised.

Bangkok, Thailand

There’s no ‘gay movement’ as such in Bangkok, as there’s no anti gay establishment to move against. Thai culture is generally accepting of male and female homosexuality; however, public displays of affection per se are mostly frowned upon. The fairly prominent scene centers on the proliferation of bars, often enlivened by high camp cabaret.

So do you agree that these are the top 10 gay destinations?  Do you have another list?  We would love to hear from you and your comments.

Author: Ben is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

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Best Place to Find Gay Relationships

Today, people of the same sex are falling in love and getting into intimate gay relationships. Gay and lesbian marriages are increasing in number and especially in western countries. There are people who are opposed to this trend claiming that it is not cultural but still many others are pro-gay men and related kinds of relationships

Today if you were looking for free porn on the internet, you would come across numerous sites that offer such information, images and videos. Most of the videos that are found in these sites are related to gay massage and gay men in general. This is just one element that proves that same-sex relationships are now an in-thing in our modern society today. We, therefore, need to embrace such kinds of relationships because they are part of us instead of keeping blaming.

Most religious leaders across the world do not support the element of a gay or lesbian relationship. However, this opposition seems to be slowly being overtaken by the passage of time. Most of these relationships are tied to moral decadence in our communities. In any case, every human being on this planet has got something that they definitely believe in. There are some who think that same-sex relations are bad while others think otherwise.

If at all you are searching for information about same-sex relationships and especially gay men, the internet is definitely the best resource for you to use. There are plenty of websites on the internet which offer information that is tied to these kinds of relationships. If you search for free porn sites on the internet today, most of them would provide you with info and clips on gay men and gay bud. Probably such multimedia elements can help you to better appreciate the whole essence of same-sex relationships.

The other resource centre that you can use to search for such kinds of information in magazines. There are plenty of relationship-related magazine issues being released to the streets each other day. You can pick up or buy some of these magazines so as to learn about various kinds of relationships and especially regarding gay marriages.

If you can do your search well using online search engines, you can be sure that you will get plenty of information about these same-sex relationships which apparently seem to be increasing in popularity with every passage of the day.