Introduction Wearing Bondage Gear

Bondage was considered taboo a few years ago by mainstream society and was considered an act only for a limited number of bondage enthusiasts. Fetish on the other hand was something that was visible for many years in special events such as the Halloween and gay pride parades or fetish night clubs. There are thousands of people every day out there who like to use leather gear, wear clothing made of latex and use rubber clothing (rubberists). This can be considered a fashion but also an alternative lifestyle. What attracts them to bondage gear or fetish wear it is still not clear. Is the smell of the leather or the touch of latex? Could it be something that restraints a part of their body or is it something only in their mind?

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Personally I believe it’s a combination of the above and more. Many people think leather is a symbol of dominance while others prefer fetish wear as a symbol their unique style.  So what do most people choose to wear? Dominants seem to prefer fetish wear such as latex body suits or tight black corsets. Most of the times dominants will not expose themselves too much with their fetish wear. They let the submissive imagination play its role. Dominants also like to use a lot of bondage gear such as restraints, hand cuffs, rope and other things. Usually they like to wear boots made of latex especially in sessions where the submissive get a turn on by the look of the shoes. Red and Black seem to be the ultimate colors in bondage play.

Another fetish wear that is favored by dominants is the corset. It seems that the look of a dominant wearing a corset with exposed breast and nipples is a huge turn one. There is something alluring to their waste that looks like a tall appealing glass. Fetish wear like rubber outfits when combined with bondage gear such as harnesses, play a key role on the feeling of being bound. A submissive encased in rubber will feel as restricted as it feels when he is tied up in a rope. This visual effect is also appealing to the dominant.

The only thing for sure is that bondage gear and fetish wear stimulates all the senses and make intimate sex a lot more appealing and erotic for the people who take part in it. Gay men especially choose harnesses as a favourite form of dress especially in those bear and leather bars. This bondage gear lets the submissive to be more open and sexy in a ‘dressed’ kind of way leaving most of the visual effect to imagination. The favorite harnesses are made out of rope or leather. They are wrapped and tone the curves of the submissive partner’s body. The smell of the leather restraints will turn on both of them and drive them crazy. The dominant will control the submissive partner and they will travel in fantasies of sexual eroticism and ultimate orgasm that only they know.

So now that you’re prepared to investigate a touch of S&M and subjugation in the bedroom, you have to stack up on fun and unusual toys. In case you’re unfamiliar to every one of this, begin with whips, vaginal balls, textured binds or rope, a blindfold and a tickler. Starting with lighter, fun loving toys empowers you and your lover to familiarize yourselves to them in the room and afterward proceed onward to more genuine bondage devices for you to choose. Simply explore different avenues regarding tying each other up and discovering your individual solace levels. Make sure you like being tied up or doing so could be overwhelming. What’s more, make sure to convey all that you are feeling and considering.

Not many people would surmise that punishing or restraining your sexual partner would reinforce your relationship, but yet it truly can. Ladies particularly are anxious about the possibility that that permitting their partner to tie them up and rule them will let go of whatever is left of their relationship, yet this is not valid by any stretch of the imagination. If S&M is done right, S&M and servitude will build the trust and confidence you have in each other and open areas in your sexual lifestyle you never thought existed.

The most imperative thing to talk about before you welcome S&M and subjugation into the room is limits. You both should be in agreement with regards to how far you’re willing to investigate the darker side of sex. If you need to tie your accomplice up however he or she just needs to explore different avenues regarding a tickler, it’s not going to work. As we said some S&M is about communication. It’s completely vital for both of you to trust and regard each other’s limits. Before you get it on, take a seat and have a genuine dialog about what you need out of S&M and how far you both need to run with it. You should both also decide on a safe word that when said, guarantees if things get excessively hot and overwhelming for one of you to handle, you can say the safe word and cool off.

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