A person can receive many benefits from wearing lingerie and costumes, so why not take advantage of them! Here are some fun and exciting ways to spice up your love life through sexual attraction. Start today and use these ideas to create the fantasies that you have always dreamed of!
Use The Science Of Symmetrical Attraction
Researchers had found that people with symmetrical features are more attractive than people with unsymmetrical features. A person who has symmetrical features also subconsciously alerts people that they have good genes which may make other people naturally attracted to them. Even though people love symmetry, most people aren’t perfectly symmetrical.
If you would like to make your body appear more symmetrical, you can buy structured lingerie. Structured lingerie can be made with slightly thicker material, underwire and boning to provide more support to the body and breasts. It won’t cling to your body and make you feel uncomfortable. Clothes that are made like this tend to last longer too!
Peacock Your Way To Success
Peacocking is a verb that means “to draw attention”. An example of this is in the animal kingdom when a male peacock utilises his beautiful, long, blue and green feather display to sexually attract a mate. People can also participate in the act of peacocking by wearing interesting and eye-catching lingerie or costumes. You can be adventurous and have some fun with it by using a mixture of your favourite colours, materials and textures.
Wear Something Red
The red dress effect theory works on the idea that people’s brains are subconsciously hard-wired to find red clothing sexually appealing whilst other coloured clothing is less appealing. Different colours in lingerie and costumes can bring out different moods in the bedroom.
Take The Word “Self-Conscious” Off Your Worry List
If you feel self-conscious about what you wear, you may also find intimate moments with someone scary or frightening! Wearing lingerie and costumes can make you feel more attractive and comfortable which will help to take the word “self-conscious” off your worry list.
Make It A Special Occasion
Regardless of whether you have recently started seeing someone or you’re in an established relationship, if you are planning on dressing up why not do it for a special occasion like on a anniversary or on Valentine’s day. These events are supposed to bring people closer together through celebration. For those who have been in a relationship for quite a long time they may not feel quite as sexy as it used to be.
Nevertheless, buying costumes or lingerie as a gift will indicate to your lover that you still find them attractive and would like them to carry on dressing up. It can definitely score you some brownie points especially when your lover sees it in their underwear drawer, it will remind her that you are a caring and conscientious partner.
Change Your Character By Roleplaying
As William Shakespeare once said:
“All the world’s a stage and all the men and women, merely players”
When people dress up in different costumes it can psychologically help them to feel more confident and change their mind frame to behave in a way that suits what they wear rather than how they would normally behave in day to day life. With this in mind, you can choose a type of costume which would reflect a type of character you would like to become when you are roleplaying in bed with your lover.
To begin you should ask yourself some questions like:
- What would you feel comfortable wearing?
- Who would you like to envision yourself as?
- What type of fantasy would your love like to be fulfilled?
- How would the costume, character and roleplaying scene make your lover feel?
- Will it make your lover feel special?
When you first begin roleplaying you may feel embarrassed or silly but this feeling will soon wear off. You should both begin enjoying the scene. In no time you will be indulging living out your wildest dreams and fantasies.
Here are some costumes ideas:
- Naughty Nurse: Explore medical play by taking care of any sexual frustrations your lover may experience that makes them feel unwell.
- Police Officer: Dominate the roleplaying experience with a submissive lover. You can use restraints to make things extra fun.
If you feel too embarrassed to wear a full costume, you can try on one piece of the costume alongside your regular clothes or underwear. For example, if you wear to dress up as a naughty nurse, you can try wearing the nurse’s hat with your regular underwear. Whether you use just one piece or all the pieces of the costume, your lover will highly appreciate you going that extra mile for them.
Dress Up In Costumes Together
You don’t have to do it all alone! If you are worried about getting dressed up by yourself, why not ask your lover to join in with you? Buy a costume for your lover and yourself, then dress up together.
Plan The Roleplaying Scene
You can plan out the roleplaying scene around the costume so that you can actually live out your fantasy. You may want to give your lover a little hint that you have something special planned or you may surprise her or him with the entire setup.
Set up a room in the manner you have always dreamed. If you have always imagined a particular set up or a certain sequence of events then now is the best time to set the stage. If you would like to use certain products like massage oils, music, BDSM gear or candles ensure that you have placed everything in a convenient location.
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