6 Steamy Sex Positions: Thrilling Threesomes

If regular sex isn’t as bright as it was, the easiest way out is to invite one more partner to it. Despite their jealousy, most girls don’t mind sharing the bed with two lovers at the same time. According to statistics, half of them perceive other ladies to be used as sexual objects like a sex toy.  That’s why it’s not that hard to persuade your girlfriend to spice up your sex life by having a threesome.  In no time you’ll have 6 steamy sex positions for threesome success.

Looking For A Third Partner

Usually, it’s the guys who come up with the idea to expand the number of sex partners in the bed.

So the responsibility for finding the third party lies on them.  And then the question arises – where to look for this partner?  Easiest (and the dumbest) option is to ask one of your friends.  This idea is dumb because friendship will most likely end with this experiment.

Someone you barely know fits best in this case.

This person will simply disappear from your life in the morning.  But there will be a new problem.  You and your partner will experience the psychological consequences of experiencing a threesome.  If the idea of having a threesome comes to your mind, it’s necessary to discuss it with your soul mate in detail.

Of course, the third partner should suit both of you.

And in no case should you try to solve relationships problems with the help of a threesome.

How To Make A Threesome Work

When it comes to a threesome, you need to keep a few basic rules in mind, and the first is foreplay. It should ease the tension between all partners.  So the first stage is kissing and touching each other.  It should last until there’s no shyness between you.

• If sex is spontaneous, then you can skip this stage.

If it’s FMF sex (two females and a male), you should pay attention to both partners equally.  Otherwise, one of the girls may become jealous.  If there are two men for one woman, a competition in skills will take you nowhere. You need to please the partner equally, too.

• Second rule is protection.

In the case of FMF threesome, you’re going to need a lot of protection and pratice safe sex. When switching between partners, you must always change the condom.

If the ladies are ready to experiment not only with you but with each other, everything gets simpler.  While the girls make love to each other, you admire them and take part in action from time to time. But it’s unlikely that two girls in your bed will suddenly go bisexual.

• So you’ll have to work twice as hard.

Starting a threesome, get ready for at least two acts, twenty minutes each. Here’s one more thing.

• Oral sex is an obligatory attribute of a threesome.

Don’t be afraid to overdo it – the more you give, the more you get.

6 Steamy Sex Positions for Threesomes

Here are the best threesome positions for those, who have never tried sex with two partners before.

• Classic Sex + 1

One of the simplest and most common positions for an FMF threesome is classic missionary sex with one girl lying next to the other. With your free hand, you caress the second partner. Kiss her breasts and neck. You must keep all your weight on your knees and supporting forearm.

• One Is On Top And One Is Behind

Sit between the legs of a half-sitting girl A, and place the girl B on top of you in the traditional rider’s position. For such an exercise, you need to have strong thigh muscles and a healthy low back because controlling the movements of the partner B will be a bit difficult.

• Oral Sex In A Rider’s Position

Perhaps, this position can be called “a camel”. Combining oral sex and classic sex is possible. Both girls sit on top of you. With your hands and hips, you try to control the amplitude of the second partner’s movements. Meanwhile, the first girl enjoys oral sex in your performance.

• Doggy Style + 1

Girl A lies on her stomach and you’re behind. The second partner lies next to her so that you can reach her with your hand. Stimulation of the clitoris is the best choice in this case; the second partner may reach orgasm even faster than the first, as a clitoral orgasm is much easier to achieve.

• Doggy Style And Two Partners

If you love the sight of a woman’s back, then a double doggy style is for you. Moving from girl to girl who are kneeling side by side, don’t forget to keep stimulating the one who is waiting for her turn. Caressing her buttocks, running your fingers along the intimate areas, you’ll keep her “interested” in the process. It’s better not to have sex with one partner for more than five or six minutes.

• Petting And A Threesome

This position is the best if you need a pause to catch your breath. It also allows all three partners to get a bit closer. You, too, can relax a little, not forgetting to stimulate both girls with your fingers at the same time. There’s also a chance that your partners (or at least one of them) will suddenly come up with the idea of having oral sex with you.

Although, if none of them wants, don’t ask them to do it: the girls may just be embarrassed to do this in front of each other.

Remember, what you do isn’t a perversion.  According to surveys, 90% of men would gladly be in your place now.

Threesomes And More!

A scary word threesomes.  If brought up within a relationship the other partner can just instantly be put off with only saying the word.

This day and age I have found a lot more singles and couples are more open to exploring their fetish/fantasies and threesomes is starting to become not as intimating as they use to be.

Not all of them need to start with just a couple and adding an extra into them. Some can just be three single people wanting to adventure out and have a bit of fun.  Some are just drunken nights that things got a little heated and ended with two different people lying beside you the next morning.

Try Something Once and Then See

Whatever your story is then I always say try something once and if its not your thing then at least you got out your comfort zone and experiment a new experience.

For the couples that are totally against having another person come anywhere near there partners.  Then there is a fun cool way to create a threesome feel without another person being added in.

Don’t Want to Add a Person? – Try this Instead

Go to your local adult store and grab a masturbator and some lube.

There is so many amazing designs of masturbators to choice from.  Whether its plain or vibrating figure out the one that suits your partner the most.

For lesbian couples, go and grab a vibe or even a rabbit.  With using these sex toys on your partners they will have the feel like a real life human.  And with you using it on them then they can relax and get into the mood without the hassle of having to do it themselves.

Some couples just do not know were to even begin to search for another person to join in. We are lucky that now a days we have social media and the internet to help this process. This can help open so many doors to finding someone suitable.

Finding a Threesome

• Apps

A main one that i can recommend is an app called Fetlife. Its an app that is open to every sort of sex fantasies and fetishes out there. You can make a profile up and anyone interest can get in contact with you. The is great for being able to see pictures of them and have little conversation to maybe take the nerves away if you have any.

I have seen on just some of the basic dating websites, couples that have made a profile to invite a third person into there relationship for the night.

• Advert boards in an adult store

Not all of them do this but some do and its an easy way to leave an advert about exactly what you are looking for and just leave your phone number.  I was in one the other day and noticed they had one hanging near the main door full of adverts.

• Hiring an escort or prostitute

This way you will have someone professional and experience in this department. This is a great help for beginners starting this way and they can take control and guide you through it. Most of them will make you feel relaxed and comfortable in case the nerves take over a bit.

• Swingers Clubs

There are some good few to pick from if you don’t mind traveling into the sydney city way.

Before you go you and your partner need to talk and discuss between each other to find out what each others limits and boundaries are going to be so there is no confusion or arguments when you are there. At these swingers clubs they are so respectful and lovely people to experiment with that will make you feel excited and relaxed at the same time.

Everyone there has been a newbie at some point so there so welcoming and friendly with you and help ease you into trying something new. There is strike rules so your do not ever feel under pressure to do anything your not wanting to.

With the swingers clubs its not only about swapping partners, some couples go there to just have threesomes, so pretty much everything goes as long as the other people are up for it.

• Friends

You might not even realize that someone very close to use would be up for adding themselves into your sex life for the night. Yes this one is probably going to be your riskiest one but it could also be a very comfortable one also.

Risky side is that they regret it after and then it can become a little awkward between use all. Another is some feelings may happen to get involve. The more comfortable fact is there is no strings attached.

But you know this person and feel very relaxed around them.  Also will know there back story and whats going on in there life to add them into the threesome triangle.

I always recommend safe sex before trying any new adventures. 

There are many dos and donts of group sex and threesomes, so make sure you’re well informed. Make sure you are using condoms or even dental dams for females.

We can all get a bit caught up in the moment and maybe forget so please wrap up and do not be silly. But have fun, experiment and get out that comfort zone we all tend to be to scared to leave.

Its 2023  and judgment is on it’s way out.