2023 Best Gay Sex Positions

Are you ready to find out the best gay sex positions you can replicate with your partner to have a very good and intense sexual experience together.

Best Gay Sex Positions

These are some of the best 2023 positions.

Daddy and Daddy

Gay version of the straight “dad and mom”, the two men face each other and whoever is penetrated gets their legs around their partner. With this position, the two can exchange many kisses, caresses and look each other in the eye, which makes the moment much more special.

Pile driver

This is certainly one of the most pleasant positions! Similar to “Daddy and Daddy”, the passive stands with his legs raised while the active penetrates him from above. The penetration gets even deeper and the angle stimulates the passive prostate.

If you want delicious anal penetration, face-to-face contact and the opportunity to kiss your partner during sex, this position is ideal, as it allows all this type of contact, making sex much more pleasurable for you. both, given the level of intimacy.

Shells

It is perfect for couples who like to snuggle up right after sex. They lie together on the bed, facing the same side, and the asset penetrates from behind. Penetration is easier because the muscles of the pelvic region are relaxed. The active boy, while penetrating, can masturbate his partner, guaranteeing maximum pleasure. A sexual position that both will enjoy.

Spider man

Ideal for the situation where the asset has an upward curved penis. The liability is suspended by pressing one wall with the back and the other with the feet. The asset is in front of you, penetrating from the bottom up.

69

There would be no way to leave the classic 69 off that list. The idea is to encourage the partner in every way possible while he strives to give back. Lying down, each one has their face in the other’s groin, having oral sex.

Bite and Blow

One man lies with his hips on the edge of the bed, while the partner comes in front of him and penetrates him. To make things even better, whoever is penetrating can bend over to have oral sex on their partner.

Perfect soulmates

Also known as “Perfect Fit”, this position is super romantic and allows many kisses and caresses. One sits while the other sits facing him, on top, and surrounds him with his arms and legs.

Electric drill

The penetration is much deeper in this position! The passive stands with his leg raised while the active penetrates him from the front. In this way, the asset is very free to control the movements.

Bulldog

Another classic position that could not be left out of the list! In it, the active is behind, penetrating and embracing the companion, guaranteeing a lot of pleasure for both.

Big tiger

Penetration is very simple, and the two partners are close together. The liability lies on its stomach and the asset comes over the top and penetrates it.

This is a classic and infallible position in anal sex, a kind of puppy, but lying down. To perform it, the active boy must have strong arms to be able to move during penetration, while the passive must raise his chair slightly. To ensure the comfort of those who are penetrated, it is best to place a pillow at the level of the abdomen, so it is not necessary to force the cervical, obtaining a much more intense pleasure.

Leg wrench

A variation of the “Piledriver” , in this pleasurable position, the passive wraps the legs around the partner as he penetrates him. The two are very close and the passive manages to control the intensity of the movements.

Legs in the air

It can be done on a chair. While the active is seated, the partner goes over the top with legs raised. The penetration is very deep and the two can look each other in the eye and exchange affection during the relationship.

Best Gay Sex Positions 2023

We hope that this article has proven very useful and that it has given you and your gay partner.  Hopefully, there are a lot of new ideas to spice up your sex life in a very fun and safe way.

The Gay Sex Talk Everyone Needs To Hear

I know a bit about sex these days, but that’s primarily because I work within the sex industry. I do talks with queer youth, I’ve worked in adult stores, and a lot of my academic research and writings centred on gender studies, sex and sexuality and the social sciences.  All this was done before I continued on with my teaching degree.

One thing that keeps popping up though is the sex talk. The sex talk is something that a lot of people take for granted – at some stage, many parents sit down with their kids and they fumble their way through the birds and the bees’ story.

Let’s strip that back for a moment – how on earth does a heterosexual parent have the sex talk with their LGBTQ+ kids?

A mother would have no clue what sex is like for men, let alone gay men, so how would a parent communicate this idea of sex with their queer children? Consider this – a queer child might already feel isolated and alone as a result of their hetero-normative family unit and peers.

So where are they going to turn to for the information that they so desperately need?

Queer children, when it comes to sexual education, are often left to fend for themselves, instead turning to LGBT friendly pornography, peers, and youth support networks for their information. That’s assuming that they have access to these networks, and can access these networks without fear of being persecuted or outed.

The Mechanics Of Gay Sex

We know that the mechanics of sex are completely different for LGBTQ people in so many ways, same sex intimate encounters aren’t for the purpose of reproduction. It’s about the experience and enjoyment of pleasure, not to mention the release of all that sexual frustration.

With this in mind, queer youth are so unprepared for their first sexual encounter. I remember my own first sexual encounter with another man, and it was and still is one of the most awkward encounters of my life. I barely knew what I was doing. It made me so damn nervous that it was an absolute struggle keeping it up. I merely repeated exactly what he did to me, and what I’d seen in porn.

Going up to my mother and asking how I give a blowjob was completely and utterly out of the question. Asking my mother about how to have anal sex was a thought so incomprehensible that I don’t think that it ever crossed my mind.

Luckily I Received The Sex Education I Needed

Thankfully, I’d received enough of a sexual education that I knew condoms were vital, and I vaguely knew how STIs could be contracted.  But how to deal with the pain of having a cock shoved up my ass.  Or how to make sure that my partner was feeling good as I thrusted back and forth like a rabbit concerned only with the feelings that it was giving me?

Not a fucking clue!

We can’t deny that our heterosexual counterparts receive some of their sexual education from their families. We’ve all heard that story of that friend who received sex tips from their grandmother on how to make sure that their man is happy.

Sure, this kind of stuff is often outdated, and focuses on how to keep him interested (as if your personality and charisma just aren’t enough) but there are some families that talk about sex, and sex tips. Afterall, sex education is very important.

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The queer sex talk is just as important as the sex talk with your kids

It’s not just about ensuring that they have the information, but from a parent’s perspective, it’s about ensuring that your child doesn’t feel alone.  That they’re getting supportive information.

So, before you take a proactive and sex positive approach and go running off to your child to talk about all the different kinds of sex in the world that there is, take a step back and breathe. You don’t need to know tips on how to give a blow job, or cunnlingus pointers.  You need to know how to keep your child safe, and that’s separate from the idea that they may not even have come out yet.

They may or may not be even gay/lesbian/queer.  Don’t overthink what’s considered being the ‘early signs’ of a child’s development.

So, your son likes to walk around in heels and your daughter wants to be a truck driver?

Not only are these incredibly stereotypical, but we need to let kids be kids and for that.  A parent needs to wait until the child is comfortable enough to bring it up on their own terms. Make sure that your language is inclusive, and that  queer relationships do exist, there are different kinds of families,.

Your child needs to work through their feelings.  Begin to understand them before they can start talking about them.  That’s where supportive words about LGBTQ people and causes can go a long way towards inclusivity.  Ensuring that they’re brought up in a supportive environment. Regardless of whether they’re queer or not.  It’s a great habit to be in.

So what do you do if your child does come out as queer?

Support them, let them know that they’re still amazing people. That they’re loved. Get them help and resources, reaching out for support if needed for your child or yourself.

These two steps are important, especially when there are many challenges when people come out as queer.

As for the mechanics? Just don’t do it.

All you’ll need to do is to take out the baby making process for your sex talk, discuss safer sex and protection in a gender inclusive way and point them in the right direction.

Author: Stephen is a consultant from Adult Lifestyle Centres