Vibrator Sex – How To Do It With Your Lover

Vibrator Sex – people often think sex toys are something you use alone. Obviously, sex toys are great for solo fun, but they can amp up the sexual intensity when you use them with your partner.

I’m going to outline some ideas for how to use one of your vibrators with your lover. If you have a male partner that is a little bit apprehensive about incorporating a sex toy, just do as my friend Joan Price says

“Tell him you’re ready for a threesome. You, him and BOB – the Battery Operated Boyfriend.”.

It seems to be a common assumption that men are potentially put off by their girlfriends using a vibrator. They may think that using a dildo or vibrator replaces a woman’s need to maintain a sexual relationship. This is certainly an incorrect assumption.

Plenty of women feel more comfortable buying a vibrator to learn more about what pleases her best which will ultimately help improve her sexual relationship. If your girlfriend does have a vibrator, incorporate it into your sexual play by using the sex toy on her.

This article is a guide on How To Use A Vibrator On Your Lover.

Perhaps the first time you use a vibrator with your lover leave the lights on.  Explore its functionality together.  Work out what it does and why.  Then slowly use it on not so intimate parts.  The hand, feet, face and finally move it externally to the breast, buttock and even stimulating the groin area.

Using A Vibrator On Women

The vibrator will give pleasure on its own, so you may like now to explore its physcial touch within the vagina.  Before inserting it ensure that it is sufficiently lubricated as you gently massage the labia and clitoris.  Perhaps try using slow soft circle movements – it will be sufficient to arouse your woman.

Continue to tease, find erogeonous zones on her body before attempting to insert it.  Find out what she enjoys the most by moving it over sensitive part at various speed and pressures.  When you think that you have found the setting that she enjoys the most, get a nod of approval as you delve to her pussy.

Vibrator Sex

Insert it slowly.  Moving it backward and forwards over the clitoris.  move it inwards at an angle to stimulate the G-Spot or A-Spot.  You will know by her reactions what she enjoys the most.  While it is inserted perhaps use your finger to massage the clitoris as well.  It will not be long before she is orgasming in front of you.

 

Now It Is Time For Some Solo Play

Now that she has orgasmed, give her a few minutes to recover before placing the vibrator in her hand.  Holding her hand guide it to her clitoris and slowly arouse her again.  As she get aroused let her masturbate, she will now know what are the most exquisite and most sensitive spots.

Through this you will both learn the pleasure spots.  Ask her to show you, watch her body movements, take note of the vibrator settings.  This information will assist you in the long run to be a better lover.

 

Learn About The Penetrative Experience

For a penetrative experience, it is recommended to use a vibrator that has a flared base so the vibrator doesn’t accidentally get sucked in. As your partner builds towards a climax, play a cat and mouse game, by slowing inserting the tip of the vibrator and withdrawing it.

Tease your girlfriend until she moans for more. She may begin to beg for insertion or naturally thrust herself into the vibrator. Watch her body and movement’s as she thrusts to learn what she enjoys, she will naturally put on a show for you which will be a big turn on.

Try Different Sex Positions

When she needs more, place her in a sex position with her on top and place the vibrator at the base of your penis. This will send waves of pleasure through your penis which will pleasure the both of you. You could place the vibrator on her clitoris whilst she is riding you.

Take her from behind in doggy style, reach around and tease her clitoris with the vibrator. Most women can achieve clitoral orgasms with ease. Women can find it hard to orgasm just through penetration alone. If you use your penis and the vibrator on the clitoris at the same time you can also achieve a blended orgasm.

When she begins to orgasm, pay close attention to what she needs. She may force your hand down further for more pressure, she may gentle hold your hand in place to make sure you don’t move.  She could ask you to stop altogether or she may gain control over the vibrator to can change the vibrations according to the orgasm she produces.

Women Can Experience Blended Orgasms

Some women enjoy stimulation throughout their orgasm and reducing the stimulation too early may impede their ability to totally achieve orgasm. When the orgasm is complete, be prepared to lay beside her or she may want to continue masturbating quietly.

Used properly, a vibrator can greatly improve your ability to provide her pleasure and can finally help you identify what it is that she enjoys.

If she has the capacity of multiple orgasms, find out what you will do among each orgasm and present her an opportunity to wind down among without burning off momentum. A lot of women understand how to attain multiple orgasms by using a vibrator. She may be amazed how favorably she responds to both your touch as well as the continuing excitement of the vibrator.

With time you will learn How To Use A Vibrator On Your Lover to enhance your sexual skills.

How to Use a Finger Vibrator

Congratulations on recently becoming the proud owner of, and learning how to use a finger vibrator! We’re sure you are eager to learn more on how to get the most out of this fantastic product. Finger vibrators are the perfect addition to any “romp”, be it with a partner or a solo session.

In a nutshell, finger vibrators are a miniature vibrating sex toy that you hook over your index finger for a sensual massage, as well as clitoral or even nipple stimulation. Sure, you can get the job done with your fingers well enough, but in most cases a finger vibrator will enhance the sensations significantly.

So without further ado, here are two tried-and-tested methods for getting the most out of your finger vibrator:

How To Use a Finger vibrator for beginners

If you’re using a finger vibrator for the first time (either on your own, having someone use it on you or yourself using it on them), we recommend starting out with this technique to “dip your toe in the water”, so to speak…

1. Rest your finger (equipped with vibrator) over the clitoral hood so that it’s positioned with the curved tip over the vaginal entry
2. Raise your hand and gently push the curved tip into the vagina
3. Remove the tip from the vagina and maintain pressure as you slowly slide it to the perineum
4. Press the finger vibrator into the perineum while inserting your thumb into the vaginal entry
5. Repeat this movement back and forth in a sort of “rocking motion”, at a slow and sensual pace

An alternative way to use finger vibrators

Here’s a different method for stimulating two zones at once (and not just any zones – the two most erogenous zones a woman has: clitoris and G-Spot). Essentially what you’re doing is squeezing the clitoris between thumb and the finger vibrator, for a combined feeling of pressure that does wonders for pleasure.

1. Wearing the finger vibrator, insert your finger into the vagina and line it up with the clitoris from the inside
2. Use your thumb to pinch the external clitoral hood against the internal toy
3. Tilting your arm downwards, you should now be able to rock your hand upwards to make contact with the G-Spot
4. Keep your thumb on top of the clit while massaging the G-Spot for half a minute or so
5. Rock your arm back to the original position and repeat at a steady rhythm

Ready to give these techniques a try?

We hope this beginner’s guide gets you off to a fun and exciting start with your new finger vibrator!

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How to Use a Clit Vibrator

The Clitoris is a female  body part with over 8,000 nerve endings, and is one of the most sensitive parts in a woman’s body so imagine the pleasure if you Use a Clit Vibrator. Being a woman, if you’re wondering why you aren’t able to achieve orgasm lately, it could very well be the reason that you’re not doing it right down there.

For that, you need to have the right clit vibrator with you and more importantly, you need to use it the right way. In this read, we will discuss everything you need to know about using a clit vibrator.

So let’s get started..

What is a Clit Vibrator

Also known as an ‘external vibrator’, a clit vibrator is specifically designed to stimulate the outer walls of your vagina and the clitoral area. When pressed against the clitoris, the vibrations that are created increase the blood flow to your clitoris that eventually gives you an intense sexual pleasure.

If you are someone who gets aroused more by external stimulation during foreplay or even sexual intercourse, you should try out one of the modern-day clit vibrators that will spice up your sex life. They come in different shapes, sizes, designs and colors.  Read this vibrator buying guide if you want to buy powerful clit vibrators.

How to Use It the Right Way

Getting the right sex toy is one thing, using it the right way is another. Here are some tips to get the most out of your clit vibrator:

Begin with Light Pressure

If you are someone new to sex toys, or specifically vibrators, it would be a good idea to not go too hard on yourself. Set the vibration speed at the minimum and if your vibrator comes with additional options of vibration patterns, select a pattern that seems smooth and not too crazy! 

Start pressing the vibrator gently against the surrounding areas of your clitoris, instead of directly touching it right away. This would also help you to get into the right mental state and the mood that you really need at that very moment. Slowly, start making contact with your clitoral area, by moving the vibrator in all directions and pressing it gently against your clitoris, nice and slow.

Lube Always Helps

Whether you’re using a toy or not, lubricant always makes things more sexually interesting down there. Same goes for clitoral stimulation, too.

Applying lube to your clitoral region will decrease friction between your clit vibrator and your clitoris, resulting in even more sensations and increased blood flow that will help you go off!

Mix It Up with Internal Stimulation

While clitoral stimulation can alone give you intense orgasms, adding internal stimulation can take things a step ahead. 

Using it with a G-spot vibrator or a rabbit vibrator will give you simultaneous internal and external vibrations. If you are not willing to spend on another sex toy, you can also use your fingers for internal penetration while stimulating your clitoris with the vibrator.

Partner Sex VS Masturbation

Clit vibrators can give you intense orgasms whether you’re using it solo or with your partner.

When you’re all alone with yourself, these vibrators alone can make you cum – without having to use any other type of stimulation. Just know what vibration speeds or patterns work the best for you, and once you familiarize yourself with your toy and find your perfect rhythm, you might not want to masturbate using anything else anymore.

A clit vibrator can spice up your sex life with your partner and add a lot more fun in different ways. For instance, these vibrators are perfect for penis stimulation, prostate massage or anal stimulation. If you get sexually aroused with nipple stimulation and if your partner is aware of this, you can expect some intense vibrations on your nipples with this vibrator.

Some women love to have their clitoris stimulated during sexual intercourse. Other types of vibrators or massagers might feel a bit too much if you try to use them while your partner is ‘inside you’. 

Clit Suction Sex Toys and Clitoral Pumps

While looking or reading about clit vibrators, you might have come across clit suction sex toys or clitoral pumps. These are not the same as vibrators, as they rely more on ‘suction’ or ‘vacuum’ rather than creating vibrations to your clitoral region.

Suction methodology in these toys replicates the licking and sucking sensation that you feel when your partner goes down on you. They create an airflow and pressure on your clitoral region, that increases the blood flow and results in intense sexual arousal.

Common Myths about Clitoral Stimulation

There is a well-known myth about vibrators in general (clit vibrations in specific as well) that it might desensitize your sensitive areas. As a matter of fact, the sensitive areas of both male and female bodies are made in a way that responds to stimulation. Whether your clitoris is stimulated from a penis, a finger, a tongue or a vibrator, the sensation will remain the same forever.

There is another myth about clitoral stimulation that it kills the fun that you get from other types of vibrators or sex toys. This is just another baseless claim that you, as a woman, do not need to worry about.

All sex toys are designed to provide different types of sexual pleasure and intensity. Using one doesn’t affect the effect of another.

Use a Clit Vibrator – The Final Word

According to research, 75% of women are not able to have an orgasm with penetration alone, while 83% need their clitoris to be stimulated for best orgasmic sex. So if you’re feeling that there’s something missing in your solo or partner sex, it could well be clitoral stimulation.

Once you have explored your body well and your sensitive areas, get a nice clit vibrator today and have an amazing orgasm!