HELP! My Boyfriend Hates My Sex Toys.

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Did your lover want to use a vibrator to experience the ultimate climax? Are you worried that she will end up spending too much time with it at your expense? Research has shown that sales of vibrators for women have skyrocketed with even some celebrities like Rihanna spending thousands of dollars on them. With such soaring sales, it seems that women are depending more on toys to satisfy their sexual desires. As a man, this makes me worried and I can understand why most men are intimidated by these devices.

If you are a man and feel that vibrators for women are a threat to you, it is time you embarked in a completely new direction. If you are using a sex toy on her, you can stimulate her clit with your other hand or mouth so that you are involved in the action. You can also make a point of investing in toys that are designed for use by couples and take control while having sex. Have you ever thought about using a Cock Ring? It will send both of you to the heavens. A Cock Ring is used to increase the blood flow in the penis which will make your erection feel stronger and help you to last longer.

Sex toys are an excellent gift to give your girl for special occasions such as on Valentine’s Day or on a Wedding Anniversary. But it can prove to be quite trickier than you anticipate getting the right sex toy that will please her. It is very easy to choose something that she won’t like and if you are not careful, you might even end up offending her or upsetting her and this is the last thing you want to. So before you order a sex toy for her from an adult store, you must have an idea of exactly what she wants and then shop for it.

In any relationship, communication is vital, it is the only way to know exactly what she likes. If you manage to identify a sex toy that she wants, this will instantly jump start your sex life. First, you will need to be very attentive when having sex with your girl. Take your time to understand what gives her fast and wild orgasms. She may like clitoral stimulation, g-spot stimulation or she may like you to stimulate her g-spot and clitoris at the same time. Once you have decoded her desires and needs, you will know which sex toys to give her.

LELO Luxury Vibrating Sex Toy
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Buying a cheaply made sex toy that is of poor quality will disappoint her and she will hate you for it. These toys not only fail to get the job done appropriately but they may easily break which means you will have to replace them. They can also cause allergic reactions while others might expose her body to toxic materials.

When giving your girl a gift, it is essential that you go for a high end or luxury sex toy that will surely impress her. A gift must be special and be a symbol that you really love her. These sex toys are made with higher quality features, functions and materials. Some of these sex toys may be whisper quiet, waterproof, having multiple vibrations modes and are often made with body safe materials that are phthalate free. They may be priced higher but you will never regret your purchase as you will definitely get the value for the money you spend.

I personally recommend buying a luxury sex toy made by the adult lifestyle brand LELO. My favourite vibrator from their range is the LELO Mona Wave which moves back and forth in a come hither motion. It is ergonomically designed to fit comfortably in the palm of your hand and is made using body safe materials. It has a travel locking feature so you are able to take it with you anywhere without the fear of accidently turning on. Within a few minutes of using the LELO Mona Wave, she will experience a mind blowing G-Spot orgasm.

Sex toys for adults have really transformed a lot over the past couple of years, you no longer have to buy products made from toxic materials. These days you are able to buy a powerful sex toy made with high quality materials and functions which will pleasure you. I recommend shopping at Adultsmart which is an online trusted sex toy shop which stocks a wide range of these wonderful products to ensure that your healthy sex life doesn’t start spiraling downhill. You will always find something that is perfect for the two of you. There are so many toys available that can make your sex life extremely pleasurable.

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Richard runs the marketing and social profiles of adultsmart and adultsmart blog. He has been in the industry just over 10 years and enjoys his role both in an administrative capacity as well keeping abreast of issues relating to sexual health and lifestyles.

Tenga Has Your Key To Powerful Erections

Whats Included With The Tenga Smart Vibe

Any females, males or couples out there looking for a versicle little vibration unit?  Well I have just that for you, introducing the amazing Tenga Smart Vibe, is a number 1 couples toy.  Believe it or not but this beautifully compact little unit allows the wearer (in most cases the male) to last longer whilst enjoying a different sensation of massaging motions on his shaft and testicles, greatly intensifying his orgasm. At the same time the powerful vibrator is designed to give maximum stimulation to the clitoris in a way the cant (do you hear me ladies).

This handy device is hands free get it? it is very silent but yet so powerful and what most women don’t know is we can get a two for one whilst the man of the house is not home we could simply satisfy ourselves using it just like a finger bullet but if you really wants to wait for him you can, I know I’m not

Do you think it’s time to see this bad boy?

What’s Included

It comes with a cute little travel/storage container for safe keeping along with an easy USB charger cord that you can plug in anywhere .

Meet the Tenga Smart Vibe Ring:

Tenga Vibrating Cock Ring On Hand
Sex Toy: Tenga Smart Vibe Ring Package In White

Which colour is for you??? Black, White and Dark Red

Don’t be fooled by the small ring, this baby will stretch over anyone’s dick.

How To Use The Tenga Smart Vibe Ring

Simply place ring over shaft of penis either the bullet facing up for pleasure for both women (on clitoris or man on shaft) or twist around for the great sensation on the testicles.

For the ladies out there not wanting to wait for their man simply hold Tenga on your fingers turn the vibration on and go for it girl 😉

But for those who do want to wait and don’t want him having all the fun wrap it around your fingers like so and hold it down there for extra stimulation.

Tenga Cock Ring For Clitoral Stimulation
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The Tenga Smart Vibe Ring has 5 speeds with 2 different patterns from an easy-peasy switch of a button from either of partner, these vibrations keeps thing interesting if you know what I mean.

It is made out of pure silicone, no latex in it what’s so every and the best thing about it, nit is 100% waterproof and submersible which means it can operate underwater which means BATH TIME everyone!

This product as seen amazing reviews from other users (see below)

“Wow! What can we say.. Our favourite couple’s toy. Revolutionary, compact, super quiet, sexy, orgasmic, heaven…. The list is endless. Not one complain, only love when it comes to this couples sex toy. Let’s give you some quotes from friends to highlight its amazingness.” ~ Sal & Jack

“I literally feel off the bed, holy sh!t amazing!”

“Ok this thing is incredible, I’m telling everyone even Mum.”

“I thought I was over sex food good. Not anymore.”

“So silent. Kids next door no dramas.”

“Perfect for holidays. How cute is the little box it comes in”

Company Information About Tenga

Tenga is a Japanese adult lifestyle company who make a large range of products including men’s masturbators, personal lubricants, women’s vibrators and multipurpose sex toys. They are well known for using high quality materials that are body safe and phthalate free which is one of the reasons why Tenga products are so popular.  They also take amazing pride in the design and functionality of their products. When you buy a Tenga product you know you are purchasing something which will delivery incredible amounts of pleasure. Tenga has won an incredible amount of awards from the Red Dot Award for Product Design to the Good Design Award from the Japanese Industrial Design Promotion Organisation.

Information About Cock Rings

For more information, read our buyers guide on cock rings. The guide will teach you about what cock rings are, how to choose a perfect cock ring for you, how to maintain a cock ring, about cock ring size and comfort and cock ring types that are available. Cock rings are especially useful for people who wish to maintain a longer and strong lasting erection and are used as a sex aid for people who have erectile dysfunction issues.

About the author: Demi  is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

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Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!

3 Ways That The Ǝlements Collection Will Astound You!

Elemental

From our good… no great friends at Pipedream Products, the Company who also bring us the Sir Richards Collections would like to introduce me, you, all of us, to the “Ǝlements Collection”. Creators of this line have taken a deep and intimate dive into the male body and its pleasure zones. The collection is comprised of three unique pieces designed to enhance the male sensory experience. Whether your play is solo or coupled, these toys are sure to add a new sense of stimulation to any session.

Using their industry experience the “Ǝlements” Collection creators have combined their intimate knowledge of male pleasure and innovative technology to make these toys stand beside the best of them. Each piece is designed with ease in mind. The setting and vibration controls are easy to find and understand making it user-friendly and easy. They have 5 speeds and 4 variable functions that tantalise the body oh so well! Strong powerful vibrations offer a very exciting time, and what’s even better is how whisper quiet they are. They are USB rechargeable and offer 1.5 hours of use on a full charge. If you can last 1.5 hours with the use of these vibrating beauties, I salute you!

Like I mentioned earlier these toys would be great for a fun time by yourself or with a partner, toys are always fun when you share! Just remember to be safe, especially with a partner you’re not fluid bonded with.

All three pieces in the “Ǝlements” collection are made from platinum grade silicone and are phthalate free. They are waterproof as well which means you can enjoy the Elements experience anywhere.

Element MS (Masturbator Sleeve)

Sir Richards Masturbation Sleeve in Blue
Sex Toy: Sir Richards Masturbation Sleeve

The first piece in this new collection is the Vibrating Masturbation Sleeve. Don’t let its size fool you. In fact, I appreciate this masturbators size, it’s discreet and easy to take anywhere. At just over 3 inches long this little guy’s punch will impress you, no doubt. The Creators have ingeniously put the motor along this device, specifically to maximise the sensory experience the user gets from the ribbing texture within the MS. The side is thin wing like pieces that allow the user a custom fit and pressure to enhance their personal pleasure. Everything about the Ǝlements MS is designed to stimulate the Frenulum, the male equivalent to a clitoris. The frenulum is the soft tissue under a man’s urethra opening and down the underside of the shaft. You might have thought you were over hand jobs after high school, but with this sleeve, it might be a favourite again.

Element CR (Cock Ring)

Sir Richards Cock Ring in Blue
Sex Toy: Sir Richards Cock Ring

If I’m being honest and I usually am when it comes to most things especially of a sexual nature, this is my least favourite in the collection. It is one small personal preference regarding all cock rings. If you’ve read any of my other reviews or articles about cock rings you will already know I just don’t appreciate a cock ring that is meant for only the shaft! I want that sensational feeling a cock ring provides, I want my whole cock to experience the feeling. When a cock ring is placed in front of the balls it excludes a huge portion of a man’s cock, there is an average of 3 more inches to a man’s shaft continuing inside. In my opinion cock rings that encompass the cock and the balls provide a more vigorous sensation and not to mention a much stronger orgasm. When the Ǝlement creators were designing this cock ring they were designing it for the female partner who could be joining in. It has an intentionally place node on top designed to stimulate your female partner’s clitoris. Not surprisingly this is also where they placed the impressive motor. It is only my opinion but I think this and many cock rings would do better to focus on a man’s perineum, it’s such a major source of erogenous pleasure for a man. However if I use this ring with the next piece in the collection, all my issues are solved.

Element PM (Prostate Massager)

Sir Richards Prostate Massager in Blue
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The final design in the Ǝlement collection is the Vibrating Prostate Massager. This little guy just like its collection mates is a powerhouse in a pint size casing. This massager focuses all of its attention to the wonderful pleasure zone this is the prostate and its exterior buddy the perineum. This toy makes sure this area is pleasure satisfied. The insert-able portion of this massager is just over 3 inches long, but what is so interesting is the double hump you’ll notice along the shaft. This design feature allows for the massager to cradle the prostate gland an encumbered vibration sensation. Very intimate and very intense. If that wasn’t enough the base of this Ǝlement PM is another node designed to send those powerful vibration settings along the perineum and to the prostate from the back side. I mean how lucky is that prostate? You really can get your p-spot beyond pleasure with this sex toy!

If you’re looking for some new toys to enhance the male experience during play time, look no further. Come into one of the Oh Zone stores near you and check out the Sir Richards Ǝlement Collection.

About the author: KrizPatrick BA(Hon) Psychology- Human SexualitySave

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Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!

VIP Interview With Jelle Plantenga The Founder Of Velv’Or

Jelle Plantenga Photo

Velv’Or is an adult lifestyle company who design their products specifically to benefit men. The company is named after the states a penis goes through during arousal.  ‘Velv’ which has been taken from the word ‘Velvet’ means soft whilst ‘Or’ which has been taken from the word ‘Vigor’ means hard.

Velv’Or was established in November 2006 by Jelle Plantenga. He had searched in shops for designer cock rings but there were none available. Jelle took to work with a Dutch silversmith to begin the creation of a cock ring that featured silver that bended ergonomically with the shape of the male body. Although it worked appropriately, he wanted people to experience additional comfort and stimulation of the perineum. He worked with an award winning master silversmith from the UK and designed the JCobra. The JCobra now has different versions due to their success including the King JCobra made from Solid Gold which is priced at 110000 EUR.

Due to the desires of people worldwide in Novermber 2011 an affordable version of the cock ring was created which is known as the JNaja. It is the world’s first 3D printed sex toy which is available for purchase through adult lifestyle centres and at online stores. They have used the same ergonomical structure of the JCobra and made it affordable. This means you can buy more of them and have a personalised collection!

Through a loyal customer base and increasing demands the Velv’Or company has grown to include additional product ranges including:

  • JNada: The JNada is from the original collection of Velv’Or and is just as well known as the original JNaja. This cock ring has been made for a superior feeling of comfort. It is so comfortable that you can use it throughout the day.
  • JBoa: A lasso cock ring that is size adjustable made from high quality silicone. There are two different style options, one is made with a stainless smooth steel cylinder and the other is made with ridges in the steel cylinder. Both are made to fit everyone and should be worn on just the penis.
  • BeauGosse: Thick tire style cock rings, which takes up more room on the penis. The BG 001 is made to ensure your erection is hard, if you would like a tighter feel or an even stronger erection try the BG 002. The BG 003 is known as a ball stretcher and is used for a secure pull on your testicles. It is only recommended to use the BG 001 for a maximum of 30 minutes. The longevity of the wear varies depending on the product and the person who uses it.

This is a personal interview with Jelle Plantenga the founder of Velv’Or.

Velv'Or Logo in White Branding Photo
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Tell me about yourself?

I am an athletic guy that hits the gym a minimal of 5 times a week to do my own fitness routines. I believes in the fact that the body should stay utlra fit so the mind can benefit from this. After each fitness session I hit the sauna to stretch and do yoga exercises. When the sauna is empty I normally also do a PWOD – penis workout of the day. I recommend all men to do these PWOD’s on a daily basis. I believe that most men on our globe forget to spend time to care for their penis. The penis is an important part of the body for all men and it should be given attention more often. The brand Velv’Or was created to make men more aware of their penis. Besides running Velv’Or I also own a brand called Grippsss (www.grippsss.com) which offers the world fitness gloves and I am a father of a family of two amazing kids, a lovely girlfriend and a puggle called buddy.

What was the first thing you did when you had the idea to create the JCobra?

Getting in contact with my silversmith friend to create a prototype.

How did you know you were going to use a 3d printer to create some of your product ranges?

Well I did not know from the beginning that I was going to use 3d printing. I was introduced to this in the early stages by a friend of mine who owned a company in this innovative business. The production benefits of using 3d printing is the fact that you don’t have to invest in moulds and that I do not have to keep a huge stock. The JNaja is industrially 3d printed using a nylon fibre powder this means it does feel totally different compared to silicone. The process of industrially 3d printing, dying and tumbling a JNaja takes about 3 days. The process I use for the JNaja can not be compared to the small 3d printing machines you often see on the web.

The ergonomic curves of your products are incredibly unique, how do the products feel when worn?

This of course varies per product but let’s take the JCobra or JNaja. These feel like they simply belong on the spot when you wear them. The shape follows the curves of the male body and gives pressure where it should due to its rigid characteristics. Some shops compare the JCobra and JNaja with kegel balls for women.

What are your favourite quote’s that inspire you?

“I won’t give in”

A quote written by my daughter just before her brother (my son) committed suicide.

What are your favourite memories working at Velv’Or?

Every second I make people happy with the products is a memory I won’t forget.

What do you love most about your brand compared to other companies?

That is a hard one to answer while I love most of the brands of my colleagues in the industry. Just let me say I love it because it is mine!!

Velv'Or BeauGosse Sex Toy Photo
Sex Toy: Velv’Or BeauGosse

Where are your products manufactured?

The King JCobra, JCobra, JPhyton and JConfessor are individually created in the UK by my master silversmith. The JBoa is produced in asia although the ridges are handset in Amsterdam by my edelsmid. The BeauGosses also are produced in Asia. The JNada, JNaja are 3d printed in the Netherlands and the aid collection also is made in the Netherlands as the vv 1 which is also created by my amsterdam edelsmid.

They all have their own benefits and the quality control is on a very high level.

Are there any health conditions that impact the penis that you have found the cock rings have helped?

Well while the King JCobra, JCobra and JNaja give pressure on the perineum which gives the prostate an external massage. This massage is as we all know beneficial for the male that wears the rings. Beside this all rings are created to increase the health of the penis and the erection of the penis.

What are your best selling products from Velv’Or?

The JNaja is the bestseller because people just instantly fall in love with it when they see it and men love it even more when they wear it. They simply want to own multiple in different colors and sizes!!

Velv'Or JNaja in Black Sex Toy Photo
Sex Toy: Velv’Or JNaja in Black

What are your favourite products from Velv’Or?

The JCobra is the one I adore most but I also wear the JBoa or the BG 001 daily during my showers just to boost the blood chambers of my penis.

Velv'Or JBoa Sex Toy Photo
Sex Toy: Velv’Or JBoa

Do you have any secret tips and trick to get the most out of Velv’Or products?

I would say start wearing them and feel the difference. I did not created them just because I wanted to make a living while selling them but I created them to make men happy and give them something that really works. So my secret tip is believe in me and my products and you will become enhanced in life.

What are the most memorable quotes that you have heard about your product range?

Luckily there are way to many quotes to mention!! I opened the minds of many men when they started to wear my products after they gotten out of their comfort zones!!

To find out more information be sure to read our guide on how cock rings work.

 

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Sexpert is our resident full time sex blogger. Having successfully owned and managed a number of blogs relating to women’s lifestyle, she easily blended into her role as chief blogger of the Adultsmart Blog. She is in a long term relationship with her boyfriend. She also runs Good Girl Guide, a sexual lifestyle blog.

4 Incredible Ways To Pivot Pleasure

We-Vibe Pivot Photo

Coming in to work after 4 days off, I was so thrilled to see so many new sex toys on the shelves, it felt like Christmas had come early!! There is one sex toy in particular I am bursting at the seams to tell you about!

Just when I thought they couldn’t get any better, We-Vibe did it again, creating an incredible product that I simply must get my hands on!!! The We-Vibe Pivot is an amazing vibrating cock ring with so many special features, I am so excited for this to be available in the Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres.

We-Vibe are best known for the original couples vibrator known as the We-Vibe, the Sync being the latest and greatest model in this line. They have since released numerous high quality sex toys, including the Tango, Touch and Rave. These toys appeal to women for the most part so I think it is so great they have created a toy for men and their partners.

The Pivot is made from high quality, body safe, midnight blue silicone that is extremely smooth to the touch and is free of harmful phthalates. Silicone is not an extremely stretchy material which could mean a tighter fit for men with a girthy penis. It is important that when using any cock ring, the fit is snug but not constricting or painful. This cock ring is only available in one size and like all products in the Oh Zone Lifestyle Centres, it is non-refundable for wrong size or change of mind. If you’re concerned that it may not fit, I recommend either measuring the circumference of your penis when erect to ascertain whether it will fit or try a simple silicone cock ring for size. Cock rings are great to maintain an erection so if this is a concern for you or your partner, this toy will be a welcome addition to your sex life.

The Pivot vibrations are strong and powerful which is so important if you’re seeking a cock ring that will be able to be felt by your partner. I have had experiences with partners wearing cheap options and it just doesn’t do the job! The vibrations are often too weak or too ticklish to be pleasurable. The deep and rumbly vibes of The Pivot are sure to please and are a great indicator of just how quality this toy is. The Pivot features 10 vibrating options so you’ll never get bored of a mundane buzz.

 

We-Vibe Pivot Photo
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The most amazing feature of The Pivot is the fact that it can be controlled via the We-Connect smart phone application. This feature is great for those in long distant relationships as you’re partner has the option to take control of the vibrations. Also, if you dare to spice up a date night, get your man to wear it out and take full control of when and where you turn it on…

The Pivot is a rechargeable toy, with the magnets on the outside connecting with the USB charger. This feature means it’s fully enclosed therefore 100% waterproof, a perfect toy for bath or shower play. It also means it’s very easy to keep clean, simply wash under water and wipe with a high quality toy cleaner such as We-Vibe Clean Spray. It also has a low power alert light which blinks when it needs charging. This means you don’t have to experience one of those excruciating mid-sex power failures.

This toy has multiple super fun and pleasurable functions including:

  1. Vaginal or anal sex: Placed over the penis down to the base, this toy is intended for greater pleasure during sex. With the vibrating part placed facing up, during penetrative sex with your female partner, the vibrations will be felt on her clitoris. It is a snug and comfortable fit which means you can mix up the positions and it’s not going to get in the way or be any inconvenience.
  2. Masturbating: The vibrations are very powerful so when placed over the penis during solo play, will provide incredible sensations sure to excite any man.
  3. Clitoral vibrator: Just because your man is not around, doesn’t mean this toy won’t come in handy. This vibrating cock ring is a great size to be used for solo pleasure on your clitoris.
  4. Place over a dildo for greater vibrations: Again, just because you may be a lone female, doesn’t mean The Pivot needs to go to waste. Simply place it over a dildo like you would with a man’s penis and thrust away.

Use with a high quality water based lubricant when placing over the penis to ensure comfort and greater ease.

The We-Vibe Pivot is a truly amazing cock ring with so many great features!! At Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres it is affordably price and it really is one of the best options on the market. Oh and just in case I haven’t convinced you of how great the We-Vibe Pivot Cock Ring is yet, it comes with a 2 year warranty. This means you have a toy that will stand the test of time!! So what are you waiting for? You should definitely check out all the different types of cock rings that are available.  It can also be used as an effortless way to last longer in the bedroom, it also can help people who have issues with erectile dysfunction.

About the author: Stephanie is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

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Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!
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