You want to figure out how to make your sexual partner shout out in delight and beg for more then maybe strapon play is the thrust that you’re looking for!
I’m pretty damn embarrassed to admit to this but today is the day I finally do. So here it goes, my name is Elliana and I can’t hold in a share dildo for the life of me.
Yes I know I’m a shocking excuse for a lesbian and I need to purchase some kegel balls ASAP.
I’ve been sleeping with someone for the past few months. Lately she’s been asking me to bring out the Fun Factory Sharevibe I’ve had just sitting in my toy drawer for months.
She’s been wanting to feel more connected to me and noticed I’ve never even glanced at it when she’s asked me to surprise her with a new toy to use.
Let’s Be Honest About Strapon Play
Honestly, I just hate the way it feels when I’m the dom and being the one having to hold it in. Usually I have to wear my Fun Factory Harness with it because my body basically just rejects it every time I slip it in.
For a woman with good pelvic floor muscles, the vagina should feel like it’s giving the toy a hug. But see mine doesn’t want anything to do with it. It just pushes it as far away as possible.
So every time we’ve tried to have sex with it I’ve had to stop and push it back in about 10 times. It the most frustrating thing to happen when you’re in the moment.
Also super embarrassing! We end up giving up every time and I just swap it with a standard dildo. BORING!
What’s the Point of This Article Then?
So now to the point of my article today.
What other options do girls like me have when we can’t hold a share toy in but still want to have some sort of stimulation whilst using a standard strap on?
Strapon Play Sex Toys
We-Vibe Sync
The reason I’ve specified the newest We-Vibe couples toy is because of the adjustments they’ve added into the Sync. All of the older versions don’t have the option of being able to push both sides together and have it stay that way once you’ve inserted it,
Just like share toys you have to be able to hold the toy in yourself. So the Sync is perfect because it does that job for you no matter what position you get in.
Bonus of the We-Vibe Sync is obviously that you get both g-spot and clitoral stimulation. Your partner can be in control of the toy and also this depends on the position that you’re in.
Sometimes you can get the clitoral side of the toy to push up against the bottom of your dildo so that your partner can get a feel of the vibrations you’re experiencing.
L’amourose Rosa
Another fantastic toy that will stimulate both your g-spot and clitoris or could be used for anal stimulation is the L’amourose Rosa.
Because the toy is longer and curved at the top it is much easier to keep in. It’s curve pretty much holds it in for you. Because it has a flat surface it makes it really easy to move around once inserted.
So if you’re a woman who knows it takes a little more length and strong direct vibrations to make your g-spot really sing. Then I’d definitely recommend using this toy over the We-vibe.
B-Vibe – Strapon Play
More of a backdoor kind of gal? B-Vibe has a fantastic range of vibrating butt plugs to choose from whether you’re a beginner or a pro.
The reason I’ve chosen this brand is because you have a wireless remote just like you do with the We-vibe. So again your partner can be in control of what vibrations you’ll be feeling so you’ll still feel connected.
Ever had all 3 spots stimulated at the same time?
If you haven’t I definitely recommend giving it a go. You can make that happen by combining this toy with the We-Vibe then hand both remotes to your partner. Prepare for the fun to begin!
NU Sensuelle Pleasure Panties
Maybe you don’t like the share strap ons because you just don’t like insertable toys? Well that’s not a problem because we have something for everybody.
Nu Sensuelle pleasure panties are a fantastic and affordable strong and rechargeable bullet set with a remote (also rechargeable).
All you have to do is throw those undies on underneath your straps and place your bullet in the under pocket to get the fun started. If you are a person who enjoys butt play as well you could mix this product with the B-Vibe for double stimulation.
I own 3 out of the 4 products I’ve recommended today and enjoyed using all of them with my strap on
So I hope your experience is as great as mine was and you and your partner have some new shared fun.
Strapon Play Dildos – Together As One
Strap on dildos make it easier for couples to get heated up action in the bedroom!
Those who have experienced climaxing with this sex toy would be able to tell you that they have experienced some of the best sex of their lives.
Our world is demanding people be more romantic and sexy in the twenty first century. Because of the huge demand for couples to be satisfied with each other there are many products and recommendations on how to improve their sex lives.
So Much Choice
A lot of adult toys and erotic tools have been added to the world of sex because of the way everyone can now easily achieve pleasure and satisfaction with the accepted use of them.
Now, more than ever, it is easier to control the tempo of your sexuality and lifestyle choices.
In case you’re searching for an approach to switch things up in a room, look no more further than the harness and strap-on dildo from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centre in Sydney, Australia.
Pegging and Strapon Play
When you’re the one entering your man, rather than the a different way, you a sentiment power. You get the opportunity to give the delight. This is known as pegging.
Obviously, strap on sex is an incredible route for you to give prostate excitement or even for the many nerve ending in a woman butt. The prostate is a walnut-sized erogenous zone inside a man’s butt.
Despite the fact that you don’t have a prostate, you may have delighted in butt-centric sex. So envision how great it can feel for him with an extra sweet spot!
On the off chance that you need to give your man back-angling, toe-twisting, shouting climaxes then maybe pegging is the way to go.
Wearing a strap on can even make for an extraordinary picture.
When you look at your waist you’ll see a harness with a dildo swinging around. The event will make the room feel electric.
What’s more, on the off chance that you need to take an attractive photograph or two? A strap on is an awesome prop to add to the photograph shoot. There are additionally “strap-ons” with no straps.
A Strapon with No Straps
Formed like two-sided dildos are embedded into your vagina and bend around your pubic bone, so you can enter your lover.
If have particularly solid pelvic muscles you may be able to throw away your most loved harness and have sex with the strapless dildo.
Harnesses will always give a more secure fit but strapless is enjoyable too.
Make Sure You Choose Correctly
Pick a harness that fits your body and tastes. Size is essential with regards to your new sex toys selection.
A harness that is too substantial will get in the way and not permit you to peg your lover fully. An outfit that is too tight will cut off your circulation and make marks into your skin.
Most harnesses are measured by hip. Sometimes it is advisable to get one with a stretchy material. This will allow customization to the outfit to allow for a bigger reach in sizes.
Different brands might have different sizes.
Strapons Worn in Different Places
While most strap ons are worn around your groin, so you will be able to really thrust that dildo into your partner.
For instance, you can buy strap ons that you wear on your hand, head, thigh and even your lower leg!
Not everybody will be into these kind of strap ons. Different strokes for different folks. Imagine your lover grinding onto your thigh!
Clearly, the type of strap on will decide the dildo choices available to you.
Any dildo with a flared base ought to work with an O-ring. You’ll have a lot of choices from production companies, for example, Fun Factory or Tantus Stay with body-safe silicone, stainless steel or glass.
Harder materials will feel more extreme so you can be sure to have a choice that feels right for you.
Heavier dildos will tend to hang lower in an outfit. You may need to alter the snugness of straps as you’re figuring out how to adjust it perfectly to your situation.
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