Here’s a not-so-dirty little secret. A couples sex toy is good for you. Sex will lengthen your life, boost your heart health and immune system, reduce pain and stress and improve your sleep. This is according to a report co-authored by Beverly Whipple, professor emerita at Rutgers University and co-author of The Science of Orgasm and The G Spot: And Other Discoveries about Human Sexuality.
As for sex toys, there’s no evidence yet that they directly improve health, but they can definitely help you express yourself sexually.
“For people who are comfortable using them, they bring a lot of pleasure to self-stimulation or stimulation with a partner” says Whipple.
More and more women are using vibrators these days.
Especially those under 30. And while it’s a good thing that sex accessories are allowing women to take pleasure into their own hands, it’s often a win-win for both partners.
Although some women worry that their partner will find sex toys threatening, they can actually help couples enjoy a more fun and adventurous sex life.
“Research shows that women who are highly sexual are more likely to be using vibrators. Couples who have a more playful attitude towards sex have a more satisfying sexual relationship.” says Edward Herold, professor emeritus in the department of family relations and applied nutrition at the University of Guelph, and co-author of Human Sexuality in a World of Diversity.
Why Buy a Couples Sex Toy?
Not sure if your partner would find sex toys a turn-on or a turn-off?
With such a large number of sex toys available, it’s difficult to know which one she’ll like. She may not know until she’s had an opportunity to investigate. In our examination, we’ve found that most ladies favour clitoral incitement. But some appreciate vaginal incitement with their sex toys, as well.
Spend a night shopping online. Ask her which ones she loves or is interested about and either make the buy together.
Try introducing the topic in stages.
Sarah Forbes-Roberts, co-owner of Come As You Are in Toronto, likes an idea she read by New York sex educator and writer Ducky Doolittle.
“Pick up a book about sex, bring it home, and you can each circle the parts you like. Have that conversation before you come into the store together and buy something.” Ducky Doolittle, sex educator.
Once you’re ready to buy, check out female-friendly, Plus, you can still call the store for guidance, and rest assured that your delivery will arrive in discreet packaging.
Consider going to the retail outlets of these stores, too.
“It’s empowering to touch the products that you’re considering using and to speak to a person who understands what you’re working to achieve” says Andrea Dobbs of Womans’Ware in Vancouver.
Sex toys that are good for beginners
Include egg-shaped vibrators, vibrating penis rings and a new product called the We-Vibe, which can be worn during intercourse to the delight of both partners.
You want a toy that can be shared, agrees Dobbs. She likes their exclusive products such as the Liberty Bell and the Swinger’s Pad. Lots of couples also swear by the Hitachi Magic Wand.
“Lots of men enjoy vibration, too.” explains Forbes-Roberts.
“Plug-ins provide a lot more intensity plus, it just looks like a regular massager.” says Herold.
Buy Safe Materials
Whatever your choice, be sure to buy sex toys made with safe materials such as non-porous 100 percent silicone and phthalate-free rubber products. Which can reduce your exposure to harmful chemicals but are still soft. Unlike Pyrex or stainless steel models.
When in doubt, use a condom on the sex toy and definitely use one if you’re sharing it. Washing sex toys with soap and a sex toy cleaner after each use also prevents the spread of sexually transmitted infections. Ensuring that you’ll be having good, clean fun for a long time to come.
“Do your research if the product you’re considering isn’t silicone, stainless steel, lucite, elastomer or food-grade vinyl” adds Dobbs.
Small vibrators are perfect for couple’s sex play
They can be used to pleasure a lady’s clitoris amid intercourse. You, your sexual partner and the sex toy make an unbeatable combination. Use a sex toy vibrator doggie styles as there some more room for fun when she is on all fours.
She or you can hold a vibrating bullet to to her clitoris in almost any sexual position you are in. Different vibrators like the We-Vibe or Lelo Ida, are intended for use amid intercourse.
This means you can penetrate her whilst the vibrator is inside of her so you can both feel the sex toy working.
Get Your Pleasure Mate With The Tango Collection!
Sincerely, does the We-Vibe Tango require any presentation or hard-sell? It is, point of fact, the strongest, rumbliest, most sought after bullet I have ever come across.
For that matter, it is actually the highest ranked bullet within the adultsmart community which says a lot of the product! Especially since from what I’ve heard is a common consensus among all our experts and readers who personally have used it.
We-Vibe has taken the Tango and placed it into the Pleasure Mate Collection.
I really didn’t think you could make the We-Vibe Tango any better. But they updated the original Tango and it is even better than the original. Have a look at the We-Vibe Tango 2 review as well so you get the full lowdown.
So now I am here introducing you to the We-Vibe Pleasure Mate Collection. It contains attachments that you insert onto the Tango. These attachments send out the strong vibrations through their silicone attachments. So that you can play with the Tango in away you never were able to before.
Nothing Like the Tango in the Sex Toy Market
This product is not at all like the other sex toys that are out there on the market today. It appears that the connections were made for me! I was totally over the moon, an experience out of this world!
The packaging is decent. Simply a genuinely plain cardboard box with pictures of the items on the cover with pink watercolor style enumerating on the sides. Impeccably blessing commendable. Inside are the toys settled in a frothy supplement and beneath that you will discover a USB charging link, manual and a sleek white stockpiling pack. I effectively own the first (now stopped) variant of the Tango. So I was excited to figure out how the new one could enhance an officially magnificent toy.
New Tango is a little more than the first, and the inclined tip is some more characterized, yet that is essentially is appearance-wise.
Features of the We-Vibe Tango
I was enchanted to find that the new charger is a million times better than the old one. Not just is USB good, instead of mains-just like the old one, the magnet is really sufficiently solid to stay joined for a full charge!
That may not sound like much of an accomplishment yet genuinely, the old charger was so dreary with its consistent separating that I would have furnished a proportional payback a long time back in the event that it wasn’t so splendid separated from this.
So yes, the accusing issue is settled of this model and I’m SO satisfied. Likewise, when the battery is beginning to get low, a light at the base of the We-Vibe Tango begins blazing orange to caution you that it needs connecting to.
This can be a bit irritating amidst the night all things considered its an extremely valuable capacity as my old Tango was everlastingly biting the dust mid-utilization.
Fully Charged in 90 Mins
It takes around 90 minutes for it to completely charge which is genuinely standard for most rechargeable toys. The Tango has four settings of steady vibration and a couple of examples which I never utilization.
It, annoyingly, still has the “memory” capacity (it “recollects” the last setting you utilize and whenever you turn it on it will be on that setting). Which I think is futile as I generally need to develop to the higher speeds. As it is extremely serious (and really very excruciating) on the off chance that you put it straight on to the max.
Vibrations are practically the same power
As they are on my more established model. Possibly a little stronger as my old one is tired out now. Yet they are way quieter (I’d say in regards to as uproarious as my LELO Mia 2) which is dependably a change.
Using the Tango all alone, I can undoubtedly attain various climaxes in one session. I really dealt with three consecutively without expecting to utilize the fourth, most powerful consistent vibration setting.
On the off chance that you battle to get off with a general shot, hunger for profound thundering vibrations and pin point incitement over more extensive incitement from a wand, then the Tango is completely the vibe for you.
This is what makes the We Vibe Pleasure Mate Collection The Best Couples Sex Toy Kit.
I hear a resounding “Yes!” from all the people who love clitoral stimulation.
This High Roller Wins On Roulette!
Evolved, is a renowned vibrator manufacturer and has really outdone itself with their products. The blending of tremendous power and super silence mode on this product bring about great pleasure and satisfaction when utilized.
Here are the main reasons why I love my Evolved Roulette Vibrator.
- You don’t have to play the Roulette in working out whether or not it’s a decent vibrator. It is a”chances on top choice” to convey a tactile spinning dial, with its European engine, silicone and outline which incorporates an adaptable shaft and power.
- High Roller is produced using a latex, phthalate free European silicone which is unscented and delicate to ouch.
- Quiet engine produces exceptional vibrations with a wind dial strategically placed on the front of the vibrator to effectively turn up the speed.
- This vibe is even made in Europe and is waterproof!
- High Roller has a smooth decreased tip for simple inclusion and raised edges on the pole for additional incitement when floating in and out.
Size and Design
- Its size, design and shape for a vibrator is just the right tool for a sexual adventure because it is not intimidating in any way.
- It has a total length of 7’’ to 8’’ from top to bottom.
- Maximum penetration length is approximately 5’’ to 6’’ and with a width of 5.5’’.
- What I liked most was its ability to use it without feeling like I am stretching to the maximum
- Texture and Material were amazing.
- Part meant for penetration is built from silicone hence non-porous, hypo-allergenic and free from phthalates.
- Base is made from plastic that has a little plastic smell upon bringing close to the nose.
I also liked its firmness despite being really equally soft.
Its smooth texture and complicated wraps as well as twists make it pleasurable to touch. Vibrator is rubbery upon touch, though no sign of stickiness.
Controls, performance and functions are great. But first had to insert 2 AA batteries after unscrewing the battery cap as directed in the diagrams on the cap. The control dials designed in the control pad are at the plastic base of the vibrator.
An added bonus is the product is waterproof as I tried it in the shower. It adopted the watery situation for it felt all dry as it continues to vibrate. Battery compartment should be closed tightly. Cap provides a watertight seal hence no penetration of water to the batteries.
Vibrations
The vibration mode is a one directional pattern which is a series of graduated fairly strong constant vibrations. This toy is quiet to the extent that it produces a vibrant sound in its highest level similar to that of a vibrating phone placed on a table. It produces speedy vibrations that bring great pleasure.
Maintenance and care
Is easy as the vibrator requires a simple regular cleaning and maintenance schedule. Silicone portion can be dipped in warm water for more than 5 minutes then wash with an antibacterial soap.
Another option is use of toy cleaner to spray down a bleach solution and water lube liquids. This vibrator is then shaken off and dried up with a towel and left to dry in the air. I usually store it by being wrapped in a soft cloth as silicone easily attracts hair and dust particles.
Evolved Roulette Vibrator has specially designed transparent and clear containers for storage. Batteries are removed when storing in order to avoid any corrosion that can cause damage and prevent the functionality of the tool.
Packaging
When it arrived the vibrator came in an exclusively appealing designed hard plastic box with a lid. Plastic case impulsively unlocks from bottom and top hence worth keeping. Packaging may suitable as a pleasant gift. The vibrator was sold at a reasonable price considering their high quality and reliability.
For the above reasons as to why I loved My Roulette from Evolved really proved that the vibrator is worth my time. I am confident in claiming the product as an excellent pleasure toy.
Specs of the Evolved Roulette
The Evolved Roulette Edition Pink High Roller Vibrator specifications.
- Mark: Evolved Novelties.
- Material: 100-percent European silicone.
- Shading: Pink.
- Waterproof.
- Multi-speed Vibrator.
- Phthalate free.
- Greatest power with low sound levels.
- Consistent seamless body’s shape.
- Made in Europe.
- Pink with dark base.
Roulla was a contributor on the adultsmart blog in 2014. She has since returned to her homeland in Greece where she has taken up a career in hairdressing. We wish her well.
It’s also important to thoroughly clean your sex toys BEFORE use which is a step a lot of people forget and it’s vital as your toy can collect lint and dust etc so you want it to be as clean as possible before using it 🙂
Thank you for sharing your advice, Larua. We agree that it’s important to keep sex toys clean for optimal hygiene and safety. Regular cleaning helps maintain the longevity of the product and ensures a pleasurable experience. If you have any other questions or need further assistance, feel free to reach out to us.