I Was Caught With My Pants Down At Party!

This is the story where one night I was caught with my pants down at a party. We all know it.  A graduation trip is an unforgettable moment, spent with friends you have been studying and living with for the past three years.

I and a group of others decided to spend this two weeks traveling across Europe.  Ending up in different party places to properly celebrate with a very limited sense of responsibility.

Among those destinations the one where things got the most out of control was surely Barcelona. A town where when the summer hits all of the evenings become drinking adventures.

Pants Down in Barcelona

It was in Barcelona where I had in fact one of the funniest and craziest nights of my trip.  We all went dancing in a club named Opium disco, situated just in front of the beach.

As you would expect from a bunch of guys on vacation, our main goal was to meet a fun group of girls to hang out with for the evening.  And if we were lucky, maybe even the night.

That night turned out to be perfect

We bumped into a small group of Australian girls exploring Europe.

I ended up getting closer to one of them, and we quickly started drinking and dancing like there was no tomorrow. Little did I know that while I wasn’t the only one, I would be the unfortunate one caught without my pants.

And for all the wrong reasons.

You see, one of the traditions of partying in front of the beach in Barcelona is that as the sun begins to rise and the club is about to close.  You’re supposed to strip down, leave your clothes on the beach, and take a dip in the sea.

This was exactly what happened

When the DJ announced that he was about to play only one last track I was already about to pull my pants down and run into the water with that gorgeous blonde Australian girl.

So, I chucked them down on the sandy shore and waded into the water, thinking the girl would come with me. Obviously, that didn’t happen.

After a few minutes, I looked back to see where she was, only to find her standing there, laughing with her friends, and clutching my pants.

I had no clue why this was going on, and the alcohol I had consumed wasn’t exactly helping my ability to think straight.

But then I watched them sprint off, still laughing and still holding onto my pants.

By the time I managed to get out of the water they were gone.  I no idea where they headed to, finding myself half naked at 6am in the morning on a beach in Barcelona.

Thankfully they did not take my wallet which was still on my bag.  And I had enough change left to buy something to cover up and go look for my friends with something more than just my white boxers.

Which had by now become transparent because of the water.

The walk home was a bit strange, with everyone staring and laughing at me.

But it turned out to be one of the funniest and weirdest nights of my life.

The only thing missing was my beige pants. Wearing a silk wrap made the air flow between my legs, and I felt like the prettiest woman around. I even tipped my hat to people passing by.

Looking back on that night years later, I can’t help but laugh at getting caught with my pants down.

You know what? I’d definitely do it again!  Skinny dipping alone was actually kind of fun, though I wish someone had joined me.  Maybe next time, I’ll ask and see what happens.

Sexual Desires: How to Wound Your Partner’s Pride

How To Ask For What You Want in Bed?

What does happiness include? We may list a wide range of factors, while sexual satisfaction is among the crucial aspects.

According to statistics, 87% of single people looking for the best dating sites understand the sexual compatibility of partners amid their top-priorities.

Stereotypes Related To Sexual Life

While talking about perfect romantic relationships, we frequently base our sexual desires and expectations on recently seen movies.

Two partners feel the highest level of passion.  They love each other and match in every detail. Such a paradise is expected to last forever.  What about real life?

Things may go another way towards sexual collapse and hidden complexes.

Can sexual desires help to avoid such problems?

Once the initial excitement of roses and candy fades away, it becomes increasingly apparent if there are any sexual mismatches between partners.

It’s also common for people’s preferences to change over time, and that’s completely normal.   But rather than learning how to manage and fulfill their sexual desires, most people simply accept the lack of satisfaction as the new normal.

What are the most widespread stereotypes related to your sexual life?

• Men think more frequently about sex and have more sexual desires.

Let’s clear things up.  Sex is a perfect way to bring yourself to the highest level of satisfaction. This is why men and women get the same satisfaction from the process.

• Sexual relationships must be bright, unforgettable, and full of desires.

This sounds logical. Why does the statement belong to “stereotypes”? At first, sex never contains the word “must.”  The process is unique and individual. When you both love it without experiments and enjoy your sexual relationship, change nothing.

On the other hand, sexual desires should be liberated.

• It should be like in porn movies.

This stereotype is frequently full of wrong desires and misunderstandings. Porn movies are all about the plot, while real life relies on feeling, emotions, and mutual satisfaction.  Never forget it!

• On the other hand, how to talk about sexual desires not being met?

The most important thing lies in the necessity not to wound your partner’s pride.  There are top-5 basic misconceptions regarding sexual relationships and differences between your desires.

Love Will Find A Way – Will It?

This widespread proverb includes the possibility to accept everything no matter what discomfort you face in relationships.  It is entirely wrong, leading to serious problems.

Ask yourself honestly whether it is possible to discuss sexual problems or not.  In case of some barriers, you need to break them.

What should you do to melt this ice effectively?

Let’s start this conversation by bringing up some special memories from the early days of your relationship. Then, transition to the topic of passion and how it may have changed over time.

In a relaxed manner, ask your partner about their sexual desires and fantasies. This will help foster understanding and mutual satisfaction between you both.

Catch My Desires If You Can

When it comes to issues with their sexual relationships, people often rely on their partner’s intuition. For example, a woman may fantasize about trying out new positions she’s seen in a movie or magazine.

She hopes that her partner will somehow sense this desire and suggest trying them out. Unfortunately, that approach is unlikely to be successful. Sex is a process where both participants are maximally involved.

Help your partner to reveal your sexuality and rise you to a peak of excitement. Don’t be too shy to remember the brightest moments and further desires among the routine.

Questions like “What if the next time we…” are a perfect opening act.

Don’t be Afraid to Teach 

Sometimes, you share your desires with your partner and hope that they will help make them a reality. But when things don’t go as planned, partners often withdraw and never return.

If you’re a woman seeking advice on how to ask your partner about their sexual desires, or if you already know their desires but are unsure how to fulfill them, keep reading.

Start a hot conversation, explaining to your partner everything you expect. Tell about sexual desires and ways you imagine them to be implemented.

Aside from the progress in relations, such a talk may lead to a perfect spontaneous hot “trip to bed.”

Have You The Right To Silence?

When it comes to sexual desires, sometimes partners may feel hesitant to openly discuss their ideas. In order to build a strong and fulfilling relationship, mutual trust and understanding are key.

Instead of keeping these questions to yourself, why not turn it into a fun game with your partner?

You can exchange small notes, messages, or even emails sharing your hot desires. Just think about how exciting and arousing these ideas can be! In relationships, there are times when silence is acceptable.

But when it comes to sexual desires, it’s better to communicate openly.

Fantasies Jump Your Relationships on a New Level

No matter how long you’ve been in a relationship, there’s always room to spice things up and try something different in the bedroom.

Are you feeling a little embarrassed or shy?

Remember, your partner wants to see you happy above all else. If that’s not the case, maybe it’s time to consider making some changes. When it comes to sexual desires, the only limit should be your own personal boundaries.

Everything else is fair game to explore and experience the ultimate thrill and satisfaction.

Sexual Desires Are the Engine Of Your Happiness

Happiness is made up of various elements.  And when it comes to sexual desires, it’s important to embrace and express your fantasies and thoughts.

When discussing your partner, think back to moments when you experienced the greatest satisfaction.  As this is the perfect time to share your sexual ideas, desires, and experiments.

Is your sex life exciting and enjoyable, or do you have secret desires waiting to be explored?

 Authors bio:

Rebecca Shinn is a freelance writer and dating and relationship expert with a psychology degree.  Her field of expertise is relationship, dating, and marriage. The important part of Rebecca’s practice is to help couples with communication skills, problem-solving skills, stress management, or financial skills. 

Rebecca started writing 2 years ago to inspire and help people to have a better dating life, healthy relationships, or find a way to keep a marriage strong for long years.

With all said above, Rebecca is proud to be a mother and a wife so she doesn’t only use her knowledge for helping others but keeping her family strong and happy.

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