A New Era of Penis Enlargement in Video Games!

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It contains graphical nudity from Funcom’s video game “Conan Exiles” of penises, testicles, taints and bums.

The tables are turning where the demographic of video gamers are made up of an equal split between men and women of different sexualities. The modern gaming audience and feminists have asked for equality of the sexualisation of genders within the gaming world. At this point in time, there is a large range of women in video games that are overtly sexualised including “Bayonetta” covering her body in long flowing hair in order to fight bad guys, “Quiet” from Metal Gear Solid 5 a barely there bikini wearing female assassin that can’t speak and “Catherine” a succubus who’s tempts committed men to sleep with her. In comparison, the sexualisation of men in videos games is often used for satire purposes which can be seen in Leisure Suit Larry where the man finds himself in comical situations through the world of dating.

Within the past couple of years in video games, we are seeing more women playing lead roles that are not overtly sexualised. They have fully developed personalities with challenging or heroic roles who do not fall under a stereotypical image. It appears that gaming developers are happy to make content that appeals to all genders and sexualities.

There is a new taboo topic at hand. Male nudity and the exposure of genitals in video games is still considered to be extremely offensive. Luckily, there is always a new game that breaks the boundaries. The newest release of Funcom’s open world survival game “Conan Exiles” will include an penis endowment sizing feature. After you choose an appropriate penis size, the genitals are enhanced by lifelike physics of the “Unreal 4 Engine” that allow it to flow with the wind and react to movements of the body. The settings include changing the level of nudity by wearing different amounts of clothing.

Just in case the gamer would like to have a closer look, Conan Exiles includes a vanity camera mode that allows you to view your character from all different types of angles leaving nothing to the imagination. The gaming community have taken the penis endowment sizer a step further by creating a modification that makes the penis larger, wider and change shape.

There has been no public backlash for the penis displayed so prominently in Conan Exiles. It is safe to assume that this is the case because the penis and the plot has not been sexualised. At the beginning of the game, you have been sentenced to death as a punishment for the crimes you have committed. You are crucified naked, in the middle of a dessert under the scorching sun. Clothes within the game are purely used for aesthetic purposes whilst armour is used to build the characters protection. The penis remains in a natural, placid state throughout the game without any real use at all.

The display of penises whether they are placid or erect are often banned from gaming consoles within Australia. For this reason, it appears that the Xbox One will turn off the character nudity customisation settings. Conan Exiles creative director Joel Bylos said:

“It’s just going to be off by default I think. I don’t know if partial nudity might be OK. We haven’t spoken to Xbox about breasts. They do allow breasts in some of their games, but the penises definitely won’t be there.”

At the moment, people are slightly obsessed with witnessing the free flowing and jiggly sausage fun this game has to offer. Listed below are GIFs of the Conan Exiles lifelike genital physics:



This brings me to ask three questions:

  • What do you think of nudity in the video game industry?
  • Do you feel the sexualisation of men and women in video games is on an even playing field?
  • There are high levels of violence within video games that is commonly accepted within society. Why is there more acceptance of violence in video games?

Please leave your answers in the comments below.

10 Ways To Easily Fall In Love Again

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Sometimes the passionate flame that you used to hold with your partner slowly begins to fade. You have grown so used of each other that everything has become a mundane pattern of coexistence. Although you both love each other, the time that you used to cherish together has now been taken for granted. Dr Terri Orbuch the author of “5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage from Good to Great” says:

“Passionate love is the love of arousal, excitement, newness and mystery, and [it] happens at the beginning of a relationship. On average, passionate love tends to decline after 18 months.”

Can you say that you are still passionately in love with them? Do they still make your knees weak like how they used to? Can they make your heart race when they look into your eyes? Do you feel a passionately charged connection when you spend time with each other? If your answers to these questions is a resounding “no” than you are in luck. Re-establishing the feelings of falling in love with your partner is easy because the foundation of love is already there for you to build upon. Choosing to reignite your flame with your long term partner can allow you to create loving moments together full of passion.


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Photo: 10 Ways To Easily Fall In Love Again – Couple Holding Hands


10 Ways To Easily Fall In Love Again:

  1. Remember to do the little things: Recall the warm, personable and sincere moments that made your partner feel loved at the beginning of the relationship. When you are spending time with them re-create these moments. You can try holding each others hands, eskimo kissing, snuggling whilst watching TV, listening to your love song together and letting them know you love them. Write “love you notes” and place them in areas your partner can randomly find them. Send a caring SMS when you are apart. You can even try being a classic romantic by placing rose petals on the bed, buying them a chocolate gift box, opening up a bottle of wine and organising a picnic.
  2. Attempt to flirt with them: This may sound strange but there is nothing better than seeing your partner attempt to flirt with you. Although the flirting may not work, you will be able to show them you are motivated which can mean a world of difference. Flirting can also help to make them feel aroused.
  3. Recreate your first date: Do you remember the time you first met? The first time you held hands? Or the time you first went to a restaurant together? Ask your partner out on a date and make it special. Let them know you will dress up for the occasion and ask them to do the same thing. Put on your best outfit, get a haircut and wear some perfume. Put in the same effort you would if it were your first date in order to impress them.
  4. Invest in couples sex toys: Make your relationship lifestyle easier and use couples sex toys. They can make your love life turn into an amazing experience that brings something new to the table.
  5. Re-examine your attitude: Openly communicate with each other and always take what your partner says into consideration. You will both need to spend time re-learning how to talk to each other in a more passionate way.
  6. Find out their interests: Find important information about them that you can use to enhance your relationship. An important question may be “What’s their favourite colour?” This question is useful if you are looking for a gift to buy them. Or you can ask “What are their favourite hobbies, movies and TV shows?” This question can help you learn what type of things they enjoy which is useful if you wish to plan events.
  7. Arrange time to spend together: Making time for your relationship is the one change that you will always need to rebuild your passionate relationship and sexual lifestyle.
  8. Make new plans: Make new plans that you can do together as a couple and organise activities that your partner will enjoy. Activities can help you get you away from the pressures of daily life.
  9. Find your own passion: You need to develop your own hobbies to build your own identity outside of your relationship. This will help you rediscover your self as well as giving your partner sometime to rebuild themselves to. They always did say distance makes the heart grow fonder.
  10. Work out: Unfortunately as much as we love eating food and relaxing, we all have a tendency to gain weight. Working out will make you feel better and show them you are trying to make a change!





Letting Go Of Ego Inspires Sexuality

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The one question that normally comes up when we sexually compare ourselves to other people is “Am I good enough?”. This question can impact all areas within someone’s life including their career, hobbies, personal contributions to the community, financial success and sexual performance. It is asked to form an opinion that impacts feelings of self-worth, self-image, self-confidence and ego. The question can impact us quite deeply, especially when we criticise other areas of our sexual lifestyle. Two of the most influential factors of how we feel about sex, is the way our body looks and how we sexually perform. Psychotherapist and Certified Sex Therapist Gila Shapiro says:

“Our bodies house our sexuality — it is through the body, essentially, that sexuality finds expression. So being aware of just how we feel about our bodies, is revealing. Of course, the way we see our body is highly influenced by magazines, billboards, TV and web ads that offer us idealized images of what our bodies ‘should’ look like, even though these images have little relationship to what most of us actually do look like.”

Other ways our sexual ego is impacted is the amount of affirmation we receive from other people. As well as, when we compare our personality to what society views as important. For example, men may feel they have to be masculine and confident to attract people. Women may feel they need to be sultry to feel sexually confident.

Although ego can be a burden that leads us to criticise ourselves, having an ego is important. It provides the motivational reason for people to aspire to be a better version of themselves. Letting go of a negative sexual ego can give you the confidence to discuss new ways to explore your sexuality,  try new sex positions and experiment with sex toys that can enhance your sexual lifestyle.

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Image: Letting Go Of Ego Inspires Sexuality – Cat Looking in Mirror


Easy Techniques to Help Manage Your Ego

It is a good idea to implement some of these easy techniques to help manage your ego. With time you will be able to manage your personal thoughts and how you choose to respond to circumstances in your life.

  • Don’t compare yourself to other people: Don’t compare yourself to other people as everyone is built differently. Something which may work for one person, may not work well for another. You will need to set personal goals that are realistic to find out what works best for you and your partner.
  • Focus on the journey: Your sexual experiences can be more enjoyable if you take your time to enjoy the moment and perform to the best of your ability rather than worrying about the outcome. If you do experience setbacks look at them as an inspirational challenge to be a better lover. Sometimes setbacks can help us define what our realistic expectations should be.
  • Find honest opinions: Ask for honest opinions about your sexual skills. You may need to ask your current partner, an ex-girlfriend or a former lover. Ensure the person you will ask you has had sexual experiences with you in the last 2 to 3 years as your skill set can drastically change between times. Question you may ask include; Were their sexual needs fulfilled? What did they enjoy the most? Or how could you improve your sexual skills?
  • Ask your partner what they need from you: When we get so involved with performing to the best of your ability. Take a step back and listen to your partner’s needs. Your partner may be asking you to spend more time creating a passionate connection. You may be busy trying to make her/him orgasm to your hearts content but is that what they actually want from you at that time? Compromise with what your partner needs in the bedroom.
  • Improve your self-esteem: Find ways to enhance your self-esteem. There are many other things within your life that make up who you are. Have a look at your personal traits and understand how they positively impact your life. Maybe you are emotionally connected with your feelings or you’re great at socialising. To build your self-esteem, you can take your time to pick two hobbies that you enjoy to build new skill sets.
  • Don’t blame yourself: Blame achieves nothing. You can always take steps to improve your sexual lifestyle.















Review: Fun Factory Big Boss Black Line

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The names of Fun Factory sex toys tend to be creative and beat around what they actually are in a fun and creative way. For example:

  • Fun Factory Duke is a male prostate vibrator.
  • Fun Factory Bi Stronic Fusion is a pulsator.
  • Fun Factory Semillino is a miniature vibrator.

The Fun Factory Big Boss Black Line vibrator, as the name suggests, is a BIG Fun Factory vibrator. There is no confusion there! In my opinion, it is one of the classiest phallic shaped vibrators in the adult lifestyle industry. I’m usually one to steer away from the realistic looking vibrators. I don’t know why, I think it might be something to do with detaching a vibrator from the real thing. Let’s face it, unless something is seriously wrong, a man’s penis does not vibrate.

The original Big Boss vibrator has a white handle that comes in three colours including pink, nude and black. The Fun Factory Black Line has been specifically created with a black handle, a matching shaft and has their signature red button. I found this sex toy instantly appealing due to it’s sleek and all black design. Fun Factory describe it in perfect detail:

“This gorgeous vibe crosses from realism into fantasy. We’ve reimagined this customer favorite in pure black, to match your deepest, darkest desires (and because black goes with everything).”

There are so many vibrantly colourful adult toys on the market that a dark, all black vibrator is highly welcome in my opinion.

The Fun Factory Big Boss measures 9 inches in total length, with the shaft measuring at 7 inches and a girth of almost 2 inches. I thought the size may have resulted in weaker vibrations in the end but let me assure you, this is most definitely not the case! The vibrations in the Big Boss are strong and powerful throughout. It features six vibration intensities and six vibration rhythms. With the twelve unique vibration patterns, you will be able to find one for every mood. Fun Factory describe the Big Boss’s vibrations:

“Armed with Big Boss, can make any woman lose her mind with ecstasy. Big Boss keeps his promises and ensures potent power plays under the sheets. Our customers love that the bass tone vibration lets you play longer without ever feeling numb or over-stimulated.”


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Photo: Fun Factory Big Boss Black Line – Black Line Collection


The shaft of the Big Boss has a slight G-Spot curve that is designed to look natural. It has a pronounced head for amazing g-spot stimulation and “veins” which add texture. The shaft is firm yet bendable made with patented FlexiFun Technology that is unique to the Fun Factory brand. When using the sex toy simply apply pressure or move your body into the sex toy, it will pleasurably move into the form of your body to reach all the right places.

It is made from non porous, body safe, medical grade silicone that feels velvety and soft which can be a bit grabby. It is recommended to use a few drops of a high quality water-based lubricant like Fun Factory ToyFluid to make your experience that much more pleasurable. Apart from lubricant being a necessity with The Fun Factory Big Boss, I have found no faults or issues with this sex toy (If needing to use lubricant is even an issue!). I feel that this is a small price to pay for a safe, non-porous and easy to clean vibrator.

One of the great features of the Big Boss is the ergonomic loop handle. I love the ease of adult toys with this feature. Instead of fiddling around trying to grab it with your hand, possibly slipping due to excess lubricant and making a mess of what should be a relaxing and pleasurable experience; The loop means you can stick a finger or thumb in, hold on and move it with ease. You can simply pull the sex toy up or push down to easily reposition it during masturbation.

It has been made with a seamless design that allows you to submerse it in water for some shower and bath time fun. Cleaning up is a breeze, simply use warm water with mild soap. It comes with a 2 year warranty, is equipped with a travel lock to avoid embarrassing airport trouble and is genuinely a top of the line, high quality vibrator. One of the remarkable features of the Fun Factory Big Boss vibrator is how it recharges the battery using an eco-friendly magnetic charger with a simple click ‘n’ charge system.

For someone looking for a bigger, realistic, classy and award winning vibrator, The Big Boss Black Line by Fun Factory is my top choice. Available at Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres and online at Adult Smart. These aren’t going to last long so get in quick before we sell out!!



About the Author: Stephanie is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

What Makes Up Your Sexual Personality?

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Have you ever wondered What Makes Up Your Sexual Personality and whether it is unique? In response to this question, erotic lifestyle coach Dr Nancy Sutton Pierce said:

“Sexual personalities are similar to fingerprints; we each have them, but they are all uniquely different. We don’t question our fingerprints or attempt to change them. We accept them without question.”

Your sexual personality is made up of your personality traits, sexual education, sexual orientation and fetish interests.

Personality Traits: Extroversion vs Introversion

A German psychologist named Hans Eysenck did a study on sex and personality. He had found that different personality types have differing levels of access to sexual opportunity which can effect views on sex.

  • Extroversion: Someone who is extroverted may be loud, optimistic and bubbly in character. They may be able to experience one night stands at a higher rate due to the increased opportunities of meeting larger amounts of people. They will also be more likely to explore different sex positions and fetishes.
  • Introversion: Someone who is introverted may meet lower amounts of people. Some introverts may choose to say more meaningful things when they speak so they can easily create sexual relationships based upon deeper intimate connections.

Sexual Education: Adult Movies, Schooling and Parenting

Sexual education can play a big part on how people interact with their sexual partners. People learn about sex from adult movies, their schooling system and parents.

  • Adult Movies: If someone had gained their sexual education through adult movies they may have developed unrealistic expectations of what sex is. Some of their expectations may include extra large penis sizes, a large amount of vocal responses to receiving sexual pleasure and they may expect sex to lack an emotional connection. They may be more prone to have sex for purely pleasurable reasons.
  • Schooling: Sex education can teach people methods to prevent pregnancy and the transmission of sexual infections. Education can help people look at sex from a logical approach where the preparation of sex is an important factor within their lifestyle.
  • Parenting: If a parent or guardian decide to talk about sex in a positive manner, it can help a person be more open to discuss sex.

Sexual Orientation

Sexual orientation is an important factor which can tell us the genders people are attracted to and their level of sexual desire. The Kinsey Scale was created in 1948 to help people understand their sexuality level based upon a rating scale of heterosexual to homosexual. It provides 7 different sexuality ratings including:

  • Exclusively heterosexual with no homosexual.
  • Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual.
  • Predominantly heterosexual but more than incidentally homosexual.
  • Equally heterosexual and homosexual.
  • Predominantly homosexual but more than incidentally heterosexual.
  • Predominantly homosexual and only incidentally heterosexual.
  • Exclusively homosexual with no heterosexual.


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Image: What makes up your sexual personality? – The Kinsey Scale


The newest rating scale was created by a man named Landon Parks which is called the Purple-Red scale which is used to accurately describe a person’s sexuality. It includes the sexual orientation as well as the level of attraction. Landon Parks said:

“Not only are there sexual and asexual people, there are different kinds of sexual people as well. I thought of adding a second dimension to Kinsey’s scale to represent different levels of attraction. The scale was designed to provide a quick and easy way of scoring a person’s view of relationships on forums and dating sites. Attraction type is every bit as important as orientation. We see it all the time: John wants sex, sex, sex, while Jane doesn’t have the feeling right away.”


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Image: What makes up your sexual personality? – Langdon Parks, Purple Red Scale of Attraction


Fetish Interests

Some people are more prone to have a sexual fetish than others. Looking into why you may have a fetish can help you understand how your sexual personality type was created.

  • Networks within the brain: Research from the V.S. Ramachandran, Ph.D., of the University of California, San Diego said that our brain networking paths can cross with other areas. For example, your genitals can overlap with emotions, impulses and the functioning of body parts. This means we can find ourselves attracted to different fetishes depending on how our brains have developed. You can also develop new networks and connections within your brain. This can happen if you perform a certain task repeatedly. For example, if you watch adult movies that feature your favourite adult star, you may develop fetishes based upon what they do. If the adult star in the movie were to wear boots all the time, you may subconsciously develop an arousal to boots.
  • Levels of sexual arousal  and disgust: When people are sexually aroused their level of disgust drops. This means that thing’s which had previously repulsed them may not affect them as much when they are having sex. For example, before a person may have not liked spit but when they engage in sex they may enjoy the use of a lot of spit.
  • Your sexual response to pain: Some people are able to feel pleasure from experiencing painful experiences. If they do, they may be more likely to enjoy BDSM activities.