Review: Fun Factory Stronic Range

Fun Factory Stronic Range New Techology

Fun Factory is a German adult company who has made a range of sex toys that use stronic technology. The sex toys are bold, colourful with innovative stronic features. Fun Factory take risks with their products and it truly pays off with their rather impressive range of sex toys. There is literally something for everyone. They have rabbits like Miss Bi, Lady Bi and Tiger G5. They have ribbed sex toys like Patchy Paul. They have anal sex toys like Boosty and Booty. As well as Kegel balls! Buts what’s most impressive is their Fun Factory Stronic Range.

Unlike most “revolutionary” toys coming onto the market, it’s actually as amazing as it claims to be. There are currently four toys in the Stronic line – Bi Stronic Fusion, Stronic Zwei, Stronic Drei and Stonic Eins. For those of you who don’t know – the Stronic range pulsates instead of vibrating like standard toys. If you do know about the Stronic range, you either have one, or have one of your wishlist as a must try. The pulsing and thrusting works simply by the toy being hollow-bodied with a solid metal weight that moves back and forth inside it. But that’s not it, Fun Factory’s range is brilliant in general. They’re 100% body safe, 100% waterproof (including submersible), can be locked for travel, their buttons are user friendly (they’re raised, they light up and are distinguishable even when your hands are covered in lubricant), there is a quick stop button for those moments when you’re unexpectedly interrupted and all of their rechargeable toys have a really good battery life before needing to recharge.

Previous thrusting toys on the market, such as the Rockbox Finger have been extremely loud, or extremely large and impractical for most sessions like a sex machine. The Stronic range is the perfect size, shape and strength for any situation. The Stronic line with exceptions to the slightest noise from the Bi Stronic. The Fun Factory Stronic Range is the only range of toys that I can say honestly makes no noise. Even next to your ear the tiny shuffling noise of the magnets is barely audible.

 

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Sex Toy: Fun Factory Bi Stronic Fusion

 

The Fun Factory Stronic Range:

  • Fun Factory Bi Stronic Fusion: The Bi Stronic Fusion is the newest of the Stronic range and is also the only dual Stronic (by that I mean the only one with an exaggerated clitoral arm that also vibrates). As shown in the photo, the Bi Stronic has a rather large clitoral stimulator. This is designed so that the middle part of the clitoral arm offers pin pointed clitoral stimulation while the wings flutter against and stimulate the labia. The slight curve at the end of the shaft is desinged to rub your G Spot with every thrust while the thicker part in the central part of the shaft stimulates the vaginal opening – creating a sensation of “fullness”. Due to both motors being controlled independently there is an incredible 64 different ways to enjoy the pulsations and vibrations whether that be separately or in combination.
  • Fun Factory Stronic Zwei: Stronic Zwei is primarily designed for anal use, but can also be used vaginally. Zwei, however, is definitely not for beginners. The central part of the shaft is extremely girthy and has been reported difficult to tackle by some of the most experienced sex bloggers online. If you’re experienced in anal play/are a size king or queen, you could definitely look at the Zwei for a new challenge. When used analy, the beautiful shape of Zwei will stimulate the external anal area as well as the perineum. Whilst there are external arms on the Zwei, they’re not ideal for clitoral stimulation, unless you enjoy nudging movement’s against your clit. If you need dual stimulation, you might be better off with the Bi Stronic Fusion or pairing your own clitoral stimulator with the Stronic Eins.
  • Fun Factory Stronic Drei: Stronic Drei is a more textured version of Drei. If you love texture – this is your toy. Drei is also curved for G Spot stimulation. However, due to the thrusting nature of this toy it should be noted that the thrusting movement is somewhat dulled or muted by the extreme texture of the toy. This is something to think about before buying Drei. If you’re buying it for the shape, the texture and hey! Bonus, it thrusts then you will love the Drei. If you’re looking for the toy that thrusts the best without interruption, you might be better off with the Bi Stronic Fusion or the Stronic Eins.
  • Fun Factory Stronic Eins: The Stronic Eins offers the best “thrusting” and “pulsing” experience. With no texture or clitoral stimulator, this toy is definitely the best at getting smooth and continuous thrusting sensations. The thrusting motions of the Stronic line means they don’t even really have to have much of a curve for it to find your G Spot – it just hones in on it and thrusts away until you click that little Fun button. If you pair the Eins with a good clitoral stimulator, you should be ready to prepare yourself for intense blended/dual orgasms – because the Eins (and all of the Stronic range) will thrust away like little troopers without faultering, unlike yourself or a lover who gets cramps or sore arms.

Fun Factory Advantages and Disadvantages:

  • You can use all toys hands free. This leaves your hands to stimulate other parts of your own body or someone else.
  • The battery life lasts for ever. Some bloggers reporting they have used it up to 8-9 times before recharging (with exception of the Bi Stronic fusion – due to the extra power use of the clitoral stimulator).
  • The range has 4 different styles to choose from in the Stronic range
  • Easy click and charge technology
  • Handy raised buttons that is user friendly

Fun Factory Disadvantages:

  • Each toy on average takes 16 hours to fully charge. This isn’t an issue if you chuck it on at night and leave it for a few more hours in the morning but does mean if you forget to charge your toy, there’s no chance in using in any time soon.
  • The silicone does have a matte feel to it and need’s to be used in conjunction with lubricant with every use. I’ve found Fun Factory’s ‘toy fluid’ to work best with the material.

Overall, I think all toys from the Stronic Range are incredible. I would recommend them to anyone who is looking for something different, or someone who has previously used sex toys. The advantages easily out way the disadvantages which can easily be managed. We thank you Stronic range! The Stronic line is obviously an incredible range of toys. You now (hopefully) have more of an idea of which Stronic toy to choose from to best suit your needs.

 

By Chloe a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

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Review: Tenga Iroha Midori

Tenga Iroha Midori Personal Massager

The Iroha collection of female sex toys manufactured by adult company Tenga. Despite Tenga being a male sex toy specialised brand, it has demonstrated to address women in a very innovative way, coming up with a range of products that have a unique shape and texture. The Tenga Iroha Midori is not only a vibrator it is ultra soft, squishy, silky smooth, vibrating and cute. When you pinch it, it feels like if it was going to respond with a little noise as it is that cuddly soft. It is made for the ultimate aesthetics lover who adores modern simplicity, shape and style. The design of the Iroha collection has been well thought about in great detail.

The Tenga Iroha Midori is designed to stimulate the clitoris and labia areas, it measures 3 inches in total length from tip to tail and 2.5 inches in width from edge to edge. It has a 6.5 inch circumference imitating the shape of a pear. These small dimensions ensure easy handling as the Midori can be held in the palm of your hand. The most distinguishing aspect of this vibrator is its squishy texture, in a similar way to a stress ball or a firm marshmallow. This gives a very real-feel touch to the vibrator, just like if you were masturbating with a vibrating piece of flesh. However, I know that some women do prefer rigid/hard surfaces to rub against their clitoris and labia, because this way vibrations feel stronger.

The silicone skin that covers the sex toy is body safe and feels very silky to touch. The silicone surprisingly does not pick up any dust, cloth or lint so you don’t have to be worried as to whether you store it in your draws or under your bed. With some waterbased lubricant it will glide amazingly well. Iroha advertises that this skin is dust repellent and it really is, it always looks as clean as the first day.

 

Tenga Iroha Midori Personal Massager
Sex Toy: Tenga Iroha Midori

 

Tenga Iroha Midori has 4 vibration settings. The first 3 are continuous speeds at different intensities, and the last setting is a medium pulse. It is strong, but not the strongest in the market. While this can be more than enough for some women, it may be disappointing for those who love really powerful vibrations. However, I find the strongest level of vibration kind of rumbly, which can be appreciated by many. The control buttons could not be simpler, with two arrows two turn it on, turn it off or change speeds. It is a magnetic USB rechargeable toy, which fosters its simplicity and usability, and it takes 2 hours to run 90 minutes of pleasure.

The vibrations are quite strong in nature, so if you normally use a sex toy with a tight grip you should loosen it to combat the Tenga Iroha Midori power. If you are not used to the vibrations, it can make your hand go numb or sore. You can hold the egg in the palm of your hand and use the vibrations to travel through your fingers to entice different erogenous zones. The Tenga Iroha Midori vibrates run through the whole body of the egg massager which means the vibrations can reach a larger body area to. Although the vibrations flow through the whole body of the massager, the highest amount of vibration is situated in the tip.

Tenga Iroha Midori features a recharging station. The recharging station is actually where you can safely store and place on display your sex toy. It features a black recharging base that is quite stylish alongside the Tenga Iroha Midori which has a clear cover. The recharging station has just a little green light so if your planning to recharge it at night, it might be best to place it in a room where your not sleeping in. After recharging it after around 20 minutes you can make use of it straight away! But it is recommended that you recharge for as long as it needs, as you don’t need any interruptions in the heat of the moment.

The noise level of the Tenga Iroha Midori is very low compared to other small vibrator, probably because its squishy material cushions the vibrations. A downside is that it is not waterproof and caution must be taken when washing the toy is to avoid the control buttons. For a luxury sex toy, it seems like if it should have been developed as waterproof.

Overall, I would say that this is definitely a great option to consider for those who find We Vibe’s Tango a bit overwhelming and prefer a toy to cuddle their clitoris with. Something uniquely plush with moderately powerful vibrations.

 

The Erotic Arts House Singapore

Art House Singapore

In my junior year or college I made the decision to the total dismay of my family to drop out to pursue a career in acting. I had entered into an acting competition held in Clementi, Singapore and won first place. My prize was the promise of the lead role in an upcoming movie called “The First Embassy” as well as a hefty cash prize. The movie would take several months to film, so I used the majority of my cash to rent an apartment in the city where it would take place. I didn’t know much about the movie, because they were trying to keep everything secret until production. A few days after I had settled in, I heard a knock at my door and peeped through the keyhole. I was shocked to see an actress I recognized from a play I had seen back home.

“Hello, is anyone home?” She asked. “This is Natalie Lee, the actress.”

Could it be real? Natalie was one of the most beautiful women I had ever seen. She had a perfect hourglass figure and soft, glowing skin. I could see a lot of that perfect skin since the dress she was wearing was so short. I saw her through the peephole trying to pull it down, but by making it cover more of her legs, it uncovered more her ample cleavage. I opened the door.

“Hi, I’m Ian Bull. Please come in.”I responded. “Sit wherever you’d like.” I hurried to move a box so she could sit down on my couch.

“I won’t stay long. I just wanted to bring you a copy of your script…You’re a lot younger than imagined.” she told me as she took a seat. I could see her bright blue panties under her dress. I wanted to see what was underneath them, but I played coy.

“I’m actually twenty, but I hear that I look younger.” I explained.

“Are you a college student?” She asked me.

“I was, but not anymore.” I laughed. “My parents are less than thrilled, but I knew I couldn’t miss my big break.”

“My parents acted the same way when I told them I was going to be an actress. Sometimes I think they were right. What with getting my start at The Arts House ” She said with a sigh.

“You don’t mean that! I’ve seen you in that famous play about World War 2. You’re so successful!” I said. I remembered in the play she french kissed a soldier and how it made me fantasize about her for weeks.

“I was successful, but I honestly haven’t worked in almost a year. The play business is tricky and I only had one contact and I accidentally angered her and she fired me. I wasn’t able to score any more gigs til this month when I heard back that I had gotten the role as Vanessa in this movie. Between you and me, I don’t even think it’s going to happen.”

“What makes you say that?” I asked. Her words instantly vanquished the thoughts I was having of her licking my cock and filled my mind with suspense.

“The director in charge of our movie is sick, he’s been diagnosed with terminal cancer and none of the camera crew have been issued contracts or payments of any kind. It just feels like its not going to happen.” She said and I could see her fighting back tears behind her long eyelashes.

For days I tried calling my agent, who was obviously dodging me. After I left him close to fifty messages, he returned my message telling me that he couldn’t reach the producers and I should count on the movie never happening. Apparently Natalie’s agent told her the painful news about the same time mine finally got around to telling me because she showed up at my apartment crying. When I let her in she laid on my couch and began telling me how devastated she was. I wanted to comfort her in so many ways, but tried to at least appear to be respectable.

“Mr. Rajah died and they said the producer just lost focus of his vision. I’m completely out of money, my lease is up on my apartment, and I can’t afford to renew it. I refuse to go home to my family. I would rather do anything than have to tell them acting didn’t work out! They’ve always judged me. They’ve always told me that it wouldn’t happen. They said I’d have my five minutes of fame and then I’d be broke and jobless! I’d rather die than tell them they were right!” She said with angry tears.  But I heard of a role at The Arts House in Singapore.

“I don’t want to go home either. I literally just let go of a valuable scholarship to come here and be an actor. The good thing is my agent said I get to keep the money they advanced me for the movie. The bad news is that I used most of it up in getting this apartment. So I have a place to stay but no way to buy groceries…there’s got to be something we can do…” I told her.

We discussed a plan to get ourselves back on track. She would stay with me for the time being and we would both work on getting hired elsewhere. We figured our best shot would be to visit her estranged acting contact and she would ask for her forgiveness. The lady she had angered was hosting auditions for a play called “The Secret Lion Circus” and was looking for two lead stars as well as many supporting roles. We were both so focused on our plan, that I figured it wasn’t a good time to bring up my sexual desires for her and so I kept them to myself.

We went together to a place called Arts Play Den. We walked through the auditorium, passing other much more scantily and exotically dressed actors who were there to obviously audition as well. We located the staging assistant and Natalie explained she was a friend of Mrs. Nadia and desperately needed to speak with her. The assistant hesitated for a moment and smirked.  “Right this way.”She said and she led us down a long hallway to Mrs. Nadia’s room and knocked on the door. “Mrs. Nadia, a Natalie Lee and Ian Bull are here to see you.”

“Send them in!” She answered in a devilish voice.

“Oh, if you want controversy that may lead to notoriety, then sign right here. I have the paperwork all made out and I was going to hand it to someone today. This city needs a fresh face, and I’ll look over the half-assed talent of Ms. Natalie Lee if you’ll be my lead!” She announces eagerly.

“Okay, but only if Natalie is awarded a lead role as well.” I wouldn’t leave her out.

“Of course! Natalie, here’s a contract for you too!” She smiled and handed us both pens and the contracts.

 

The Secret Lion Circus Actors Dressed as Lions
Theatre: The Secret Lion Circus

 

It felt to good to be true and I was worried about the reputation Mrs Nadia had for pushing the boundaries, but we signed anyway.

“Welcome to the Secret Lion Circus!” Mrs. Nadia says enthusiastically.

Natalie would play Isabel, a girl who dressed up as a lion until she became so obsessed with her role in the circus she could no longer tell fantasy from reality and I was Benedict, the lion tamer.

We were relieved to see the story line was quite interesting. It was strange, but I had seen stranger. Isabel would walk around on four legs and pretend to be a lion surrounded by four other real lions portrayed of course, by actors. She would want to be the star of the circus, befriend me, obey me, and eventually attack and kill me-or Benedict anyway. We rehearsed our scenes daily at home and on stage as we had two weeks before opening night at The Arts House, Singapore. Then one day at an on-stage rehearsal, Natalie was a minute late to the set. She ran in and took her place on the platform with all the other actors and apologize.

“I’m sorry, I got stuck in traffic!” Natalie announced as she got down on all fours with her co-stars.

“We will proceed with minor changes in the script.” Mrs. Nadia announced. “Benedict, begin!”I stood in the center cracking my whip as they circled around me.

“Faster, you’ll have to pick up the pace if you want to impress the crowds. Come on, Isabel, you told me you were a real lion. Prove to me that you can be tamed!” I commanded.

“Here’s where we’ll be making a change… Benedict, rip the lion costume off of Isabel.” She directed me.

“But, I have nothing on underneath!” Isabel tells her.

“Do it or your fired. I’m the director. If I hear one more excuse from anyone today you will all be going home and I will recast better actors who can take orders.” She said matter-of-factly.

Isabel nods at me her silent permission and I do as instructed, ripping the lion costume off her and exposing her shoulders, then her breasts, her stomach, and her pussy and legs until she was completely naked. Everyone stared. I couldn’t blame them. Every inch of her body looked flawless.

“Say your line!” Mrs. Nadia yells in an irritated tone.

“Are you sure you are a wild beast? Take my orders!” I proclaim.

” Make her spread her legs!” Mrs. Nadia demands.

“Spread your legs.” I demand of Natalie. We are both in shock of what is happening, but don’t hesitate.

“Put your fingers inside her.” That was her next command.She whimpered as I put my index and middle finger inside her. She felt wet and warm.

“Put more!” She yelled. I slid my ring finger in for a few strokes then my pinky. She began moaning as I began moving all four of my fingers in and out of her. She started trembling and I felt her pussy pulsating around my fingers. I glanced over her shoulder to peak at the view of rosy vagina taking in half my hand and coating it with her wetness.

“Hahahahahaha! That’s all it takes make her come!” Mrs. Nadia laughed. “Fuck her like an animal.” Mrs. Nadia said with clenched teeth.” We both didn’t hesitate. We both wanted it. We didn’t care who saw us and out stunned co-actors watched on in silence. I unzipped my pants and pulled my hard cock out, I grabbed her from underneath , turned her over on all fours and shoved my dick into her pussy. As I rammed her on stage, I felt her getting wetter and wetter. My dick felt absolutely drenched with her juices. I watched her perfect round ass cheeks pound against my stomach. The inside of her felt even better than I could have ever imagined. She groaned like a wild animal and I couldn’t hold it in any longer. My come shot inside her pussy in front of everyone.

Everybody was dead silent, trying to process what had just occurred before our silence was broken by Mrs. Nadia commanding, “Okay, Isabel. Prove you’re a lion. Attack him and steal the show.”  She  directed.

Isabel performed her part as normal but naked, and the entire cast cheered and clapped enthusiastically. We were no longer embarrassed. We had made something original. We had made something that was pure and original art.  Mrs. Nadia also was smiling and said now we are ready for opening night.

As part of our contract we were paid the night before opening night with one months advance payment – being for the two weeks of rehearsals and the first two weeks of the show.   Both Natalie and I were more than happy and were excited to be a part of something so controversial – never before seen in Singapore.  We knew that if all the performers had stood and cheered at our performance it would a hit and began wondering how long the run of this show would last.

On opening night the theater was full.  Mrs. Nadia was already talking about booking a bigger venue as The Arts House only seated 150 people but it looked more than 300 in this intimate theater as people were standing all around.  We were both so happy and eager to perform before a real audience and the performance began. people were awed by our entire performance and one could not hear a sound except for us actors on stage.  The play went amazingly well as we approached the final scene where I rip Natalie’s clothes off.  There was a gasp from the crowd as my erect manhood entered her.

As I began to thrust inside of her the lights came on and the Singapore police marched in. Singapore Censorship Police closed us down and the show and ushered the crowd out whilst boos and mixed abuse from the patrons rang out.  We had blankets thrown over us and Mrs. Nadia was placed in handcuffs, taken away from our show and I heard they imprisoned Mrs. Nadia. I can’t say I miss her, but I miss what Natalie and I had on stage.

The police after a short interview and obtaining our identification told us to go home and told us that they would never would let us have a repeat performance or we would be arrested and incarcerated.  Despite numerous petitions the show never saw the light of day again. We were never given a reason or told what we could do to make the show able to be performed again, but our chemistry and our erotic story would live on for those who got to see the first and only showing of the Secret Lion Circus before the Singapore Censorship Police closed us down.

When my lease ran out I went back to school and Natalie was picked up for a daytime television show. For now I’m an accountant, but I dream of directing one day – and would love for it to be the Secret Lion Circus. I promised Natalie one day things would change and people with artistic talent would be able to express themselves freely in Singapore. I don’t know when that day will come, but when it does Natalie will be a true star once again.

Pure Aluminium Gets Me There

Pure Aluminium Black Sex Toy Image

The Pure Aluminium Range of straight vibrating sex toys has been made by adult company Pipedream. The Pipedream Pure Aluminium Range comes in 4 colours including pink, purple, silver, blue, black and gold. The colours look cool and shine brightly as they are metallic based. I personally really enjoy metal sex toys. I like how they feel against my skin. They start out being icy cool to the touch and as I use them, they begin to warm up to my body temperature and the motor of the sex toy. It’s quite an exciting experience to have a sex toy adapt to your sexual experience. Surprisngly, I also like the weight of the Pipedream Pure Aluminium Range. It feels solid and strong in my hand. Aluminum sex toys exhibit all of these qualities and more

Metal sex toys are also super hygienic so imagine my excitement when my favourite Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centre located in Kogarah sent me a toy to review for them!

Aluminium Sex Toys Exhibit All Of These Qualities & More!

The sex toy I was sent was the Pipedream Pure Aluminium in Blue. It arrived in super cute and classy packaging. The box itself is small, discreet and to the point so it looks like a high technology advanced product. There is no excess packaging like a lot of other products these days, so you are not buying into anything else but the sex toy itself. The back of the box talks about elegance, luxury and the smooth aluminum coating. When I read it, I felt a tingling with excitement. As the box states, the metal is great for temperature play. You can warm metal up by holding it in your hand, or you can dunk the tip into ice for a truly icy feeling. I even like to sometimes add a warming or cooling lubricant to the tip for that extra bit of stimulation and sensation.

Pure Aluminium Gold
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My Only Criticism

even before opening the box, is the fact that on the bottom I can see that it takes little lr44 batteries.Those things are a pain in the ass to replace, and I know these guys have brought out some larger ones which will take the bigger batteries so hopefully they’ll be better in this regard. I just feel that sometimes the LR44 batteries die pretty quickly, and it can be a nuisance to find them in the shops. Normally, if one of the batteries stops working, it’s hard to work out which one I need to replace. I kind of wish it used some good ole Duracell Batteries. Though, in the sex toys defence, bullets are made top be quick, to the point and discreet. You shouldn’t necessarily need to use a bullet for that long when it’s in direct contact with your clit.

Now, To Open The Packaging

And just wow. I opened the package, pulled out the toy and boy the weight on it, makes sure you know that it’s a solid piece. I was a little surprised at the metal ridges on the side, and i was wondering what they could be used for, though when i held it i discovered why. You could use those ridges against the clit, instead of directly putting the end of the bullet on it. What an interesting idea! What i love about this idea is that they’ve even made the base bigger to compensate for this – so you can easily and lightly hold onto the base of the bullet for easy use. It’s also got a slightly extended button that’s large as well, so even with my nails it was easy to turn it on without digging my nails into it.

The four little batteries it has, ensure that it has good power, so when i eagerly turned it on to use, i was content with the vibrations. They’re not buzzing like a We-Vibe Tango, but they’re still pretty good. I started off by teasing my thigh with the coolness of it, slowly working my way up as i let my skin warm the tip of the aluminum.The rest of this review is just way to naughty as I experienced my Pure Delight. But lets just say I enjoyed flicking my way up the three speeds to the highest setting and letting the now warm aluminium light me up. Be sure to read up on more information about vibrating sex toys for women.

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Society Pressures of Queer Men

Man Faces Society Pressure

Men have a lot of pressure on them in today’s society. There are certain expectations as they traverse through life. Being a male is not always the easiest of things – and yes, I say this with a feminist mind and understanding. We spend a lot of time discussing the needs of women, discussing the pressures of being female and this article is by no means a dismissal of that, nor of the work that we still need to achieve for equality. It serves to demonstrate the pressures that are also place on the male.

I also note that the focus here will be towards a Queer Man, but that many of the issues here can be easily placed on any male regardless of sexuality. Some of these pressures men face include body image, masculinity, dick size, controlling of emotions, being able to cope with whatever life throws at you. It doesn’t always work like that. Let’s consider the pressures of men in the bedroom and subsequently performance anxiety. Through the proliferation of porn men are expected to have a decent sized dick and it doesn’t matter how many studies that there are that state that the majority of females and men do not care about dick size, it’s still a major pressure on men. For those that disagree, take a look around at the variety of products for bigger dicks ranging from pills, creams and all sorts of things that will simply not work. Look at underwear models where the ideal being presented is a full sized package. In the queer world, a quick surfing of profiles will reveal statements such as hung, hungry bottom, looking for big cock. The stories my friends and I have shared over drinks, lunch, messages where one of us will send/receive a message and the first response is ‘Hung?’. When the reply with a smart alec comment, or simply ‘no, just average’ they get blocked – not realising the humour/offense that we approach the topic with. They have been reduced to a dick size with a complete and utter dismissal of their personality, looks, and them as a human being and a Queer Man.

Ditch The Label Men vs Women
Banner: Ditch The Label

It goes further; you’ll soon notice the abundance of statements such as no femmes, no queens, no rice, no blacks. Before you’ve even clicked a profile, you’re already being seemingly placed in a box and rejected based on your appearance, behaviour, and pretty much who you are. For those that argue that dating sites can’t be counted as you’re specifically looking for the perfect match I say this; the pressures on dating sites are a congregated and visible occurrence as to what happens in everyday life and this can happen almost without thinking. The objectification of black men with their ‘big black cocks’, the dismissal of Asian men as having a small cock, the dismissal of an average male that isn’t toned and muscled. This doesn’t only just occur on gay dating sites, but also on straight dating websites. OkCupid has done several data releases of the likelihood of someone responding to a message based on your races – the fact that this information exists also demonstrates the pressures that not only men, but also women face when it comes to dating websites.

A company called C.P. Direct spent around a million dollars on advertising several products ranging from ‘stature’ a dick pill promising to increase size by 26% to a full and firm product designed to enlarge a woman’s breasts. They didn’t have any scientific evidence to back up their claims but they still took in over 75 million dollars in revenue. Is it little wonder then that there are a multitude of pressures placed on people when it comes to sexual attractiveness?

Then, once you’ve traversed this minefield of potential rejection, dismissals, and find someone you’d like to bonk down with – you actually have to have sex. For males, it is generally considered that in order to have sex you need to have a hard dick. Emphasis being on the hard dick – sex has therefore been reduced to PiV or PiA sex. Is it little wonder then, with all the considerations above that some guys struggle to keep hard, or achieve an erection before sex. Being a male, unfortunately, has its societal privileges and that is something that will eventually be equalised. But what about the other pressures as well?

By Stephen Smith a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres and is a youth counselor.

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