Review: Fleshlight Flight

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I loved the Fleshlight Go but I rate the Fleshlight Flight even more! Let me tell you why! Fleshlight Flight is absolutely dwarfed by the original fleshlight this downsize in size and shape has also addresses many complaints from original owners that the Fleshlight Original is heavy and it can become tiresome during use the flight has combatted this issue by making about 2 inches off the length. ( I couldn’t find accurate lengths and weights online sorry). Flight also compliments the more average of sized users as the flight is more compact a larger area of the canal can be utilized unlike the original full sized fleshlights which are made to accommodate even the most gifted user. (fleshlights website can aid in helping you make a size choice as it has a widget which the user can measure how deep they will fit into a certain design.

There is a reason why the Fleshlight Range are the number one male sex toy in the world.  Fleshlight has ditched the flashlight look alike case and has been updated to a new trim, tighter asymmetrical casing. The Fleshlight Flight casing has golf ball like dimples for a better grip and can be purchased in white or black. These new cases are almost perfectly discreet and I could have easily mistaken the white flight for a posh air freshener except for the fleslight branding just before the cap. The thinner and lighter case makes the product more ergonomically sound and comfortable to wield than the Origninal.

The Fleshlight Flight internal texture is made from ‘SuperSkin’ designed to feel like the real thing the same as the original. You can warm it up to body temperature by placing it in some warm water or with the Fleshlight sleeve warmer which warms it to a sensual 40 degrees in less than five minutes! The super skin in the flight is clear/powder white. and can be cleaned as easily as the “pink” super skin with a spritz of the flesh wash and a rinse the whole toy needs to sit apart and air dry for a few hours before it can be returned to the case. Fleshlight’s FAQ section suggests that the flight does feel stickier than the pink fleshlights after being washed as it has no pigment and a small amount of the renewal powder is recommended it also won’t take from the aesthetic and combats the sticky/tackiness of the flight.

The white and black cases are markers of the internal stimulating nodules and ridge designs. The white case is known as the Flight Instructor.  As seen in the photo below the entrance to the instructor is full of nodules for 12cm and the remainder of the canal is smooth without ridges or nodules.

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The pilot is textural delight with nodules and spherical details all throughout the canal. The entry point is tight and opens up into a wider chamber before continuing into the part of the canal which is full of large nodules finally coming to the end area which has ridges. Instructor makes for a smoother and less intense session as opposed to the pilot. Online reviews suggest that the instructor is a smooth and pleasurable massage as opposed to the pilot which is more intense and gratification is quicker to reach due to its more detailed canal.

Previous fleshlight has several series including fleshlight original, fleshlight girls and fleshjack which have all anatomically correct openings geared at specific sexualities whereas the flight has an opening that loo somewhat like the turbine of a plane. I really like this feature as not all people are comfortable with anatomically correct openings or would prefer there preference not be discovered in the event their fleshlight has been found. The lack of biologically correct opening and size may make this as partner play friendly as it is for solo play.

Fleshlight Flight is compatible with fleshlight’s accessories such as the sleeve warmer, shower mount, iPad dock and the smartphone strap. Fleshlight as has their specialized range of antibacterial fleshwash, renewing fleshpowder and lubricants in three variants of fire, ice and water each with their own special way of adding extra stimulation to any session with the fleshlight flight.

Online reviews suggest that the instructor is a smooth and pleasurable massage as opposed to the pilot which is more intense and gratification is quicker to reach due to its more detailed canal. Previous fleshlight has several series including fleshlight original, fleshlight girls and fleshjack which have all anatomically correct openings geared at specific sexualities whereas the flight has an opening that loo somewhat like the turbine of a plane. I really like this feature as not all people are comfortable with anatomically correct openings or would prefer there preference not be discovered in the event their fleshlight has been found. The lack of biologically correct opening and size may make this as partner play friendly as it is for solo play.


Breast Sucking at Pasir Singapore

Pasir Inn Hotel Room

We had little time available to us. She had a session later that afternoon at the Universal Music Records, a ten-minute walk from Pansir Panjang Inn, while I had to go back to work. We only had a one hour lunch break, I had already spent ten minutes driving here. So immediately I parked my car, I hopped out, locked and hurried into the building. The blue writing, “PASIR PANJANG INN“, stared at me as I moved closer to the building. I stood momentarily at the entrance, trying to survey the room. There was some Drake music playing from overhead. The bartenders, moving around with their oscillating hips.I looked around, surveyed the room.She wasn’t there.. I took my phone out, she had texted, ‘Hurry honey, I’m horny already. The usual room. I stuffed the phone into my pocket. My zipper was already bulging.

At the first floor, the third room she was in. In her Bikini, we, She hugged me this erotic Singapore beauty. Tight, she wouldn’t let off me. Her large hard nipples pressing hard against my hairy chest. My tie hanging loosely from my neck. She pulled it, untied it as it fell to the wet floor. “I’ve been waiting for you. I missed your dick” she said as she ran her right hand down my crotch and her left one exploring my hips. Mine were resting on her smooth voluptuous hips in that bikini. I pressed her hard against myself. I had to take off my clothes, I was going back to work, this is lunch time sex!

after I had removed my shirt and my trouser, I pulled her. Stroked her hair, unstrapped her bra and tucked her left breast into my mouth. Her nipple was warm, it was always warm. Large like a plastic bottle top. Then I began sucking. She pressed it hard into my mouth, I bit it tenderly. Some salty liquid dripped from her breast, which I swallowed.

My wife never did this to me, she just lay there like a log. She wrapped her legs around my waist, her eyes closed as she moaned incoherently. Her long hair kept falling back and forth. She had some tears in her eyes, her imploring eyes. She always did when she felt at cloud nine. She was bringing the other breast, forcing it into my mouth and I knew I would not give her it all, I had to keep her a little wanting.


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Singapore Two Piece Lady


The bed behind her had a PVC  cover that would avert in liquid from infiltrating the bed. I unstrapped her thong, her pussy was soaking wet with lubrication, I lay her on the bed on her back. Descended on her pussy, my tongue out like that of a tired dog. I inserted my tongue. Licked her singaporean clitoris, held it between my lips and sucked it till it began pumping, like a heartbeat. She cummed. I licked. With her legs around my neck, she moaned. Begged for more as she pulled my her more close to her pussy. Her thighs smelled nice. I moved back. One thing though, I had not carried my condoms. I always did but on this day, i left them in my coat. Sonia never ever allowed me into her without protection. And today didn’t seem any different. I stepped on my pair of boxers to let my huge cock loose. then I descended on Sonia.

My tongue travelling from her neck to the ear, her hands firmly holding onto my hard cock, we were headed for the top. I pressed my pelvis into her thighs. I didn’t want her to notice that I had not worn any form of protection, though she was holding my thing strongly, stroking it up and down. I removed her hands. As I kissed her neck, I flapped my dick up and down her now burning pussy. Her clitoris was on fire. She screamed. She pushed my hand off my dick, took hold of it and pushed it into her pussy. I tried to pull back, she pushed, I pulled back, she pushed. She didn’t know that I had not worn anything like protection!

I began fucking her. I thrust my manhood back and forth, in slow motion. I was keen, not to cum quick. “Oh yeah…. Oh yeah…. Harder baby fuck that. Oooh….” she cried. The room was getting hot, we however made the whole situation hotter, Sonia and I. I was gradually increasing the tempo. And the pace with which she said “Oh yeah” increased as well. “Baby there, there, there” she would implore amid her moans. Soon, I’d be cumming and I didn’t want to. so I took my dick out and began licking her once more. “Fuck me Babji, fuck me!!”She screamed grabbing my thing. I gave in. Turned her from behind, bent her back that way, but her neck was turned behind. her legs made a perfect inverted V. I grabbed her thighs. The wet pussy was sweetly exposed towards me. I slid my thing into hers, then began fucking. “Oh yeah, there. there baby there….” she cried. I did it with vigour. She screamed. I’d see tears from her eyes. Her breasts swung like two loose paw paws on a windy day.

Her hips, she began oscillating them like a dancer. In fact, she was dancing on my crotch. As I pumped in and out of her, as she cried “Oh yeah”, she mover her buttocks in a seductive circular motion which was more erotic. It made it more lovely and within seconds, some sweet sensation caught my thing. I would feel it, I was cumming. The fucking became rapid. Her moans and cries turned to gasps. For a moment I thought she was going to suffocate, but I never stopped. Then as the sweetness reached it’s climax, she opened her mouth. Opened her eyes wide, let out a sound that suggested heavy reception of a load. As I poured the liquid into her, the wide eyes closed, and she swallowed a heavy lump of saliva. She was no longer spinning her buttocks, she lay there, still. Her breasts still hanging, the floor between her legs wet with white liquid. I fell on her. We both lay on the bed, our warm bodies not feeling like letting each other go. She held strongly my hand. Her eyes were still closed.

Then my phone alarm went off, it was 2 p.m, the time I was expected at the office. My pant, the one i had stepped on to remove, lay on the floor, wet with semen and Sonia’s vaginal fluid!  Now how was I to explain this at the office?


Effortless Tips For Great Sex

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If you think about your ex-partners you’ll fondly remember the good and the bad things that they did during sex. You’d remember which ones hit the spot, and which ones didn’t. Which ones you had to fake it with, and which ones you could barely stop the drool on your chin from anticipation of that moment because of the great sex. It’s pretty amazing really when you think about it because the ultimate end goal is the same with each one. But there are so many variables to sex that it seems pretty complex.

For research purposes I looked up what other people thought made great sex partners. The Women’s Magazines were pretty generic and included things such as not being judgmental, focusing on your partner’s needs, ability to laugh at yourself and stuff relating to your mental state as opposed to your physical state. In Essence, they were targeting the right areas but just not saying going that one crucial step further.

The Men’s magazine like Australian Men’s Health had such delightful comments such as; they love giving head, they are physically fit, and they have a good body shape. Yeah, um, no. Both of them focused on the idea that paying attention to your partner is important and that you need to forgo your own sexual desires at times to please them. This is probably the most accurate of the statements, but still it’s simplistic. It’s more than that, yet it’s not as complex as how redbookmag makes a hand job seem.

‘Men love to be stroked, fondled and handled with authority by expert female hands—and they love watching a woman take manual erotic control of them’.

I laughed for a long time when I read that sentence. Are they speaking plainly or are they sugar coating a hand job to make it sound seductive. What? It’s a hand job – not an atrociously bad Mills and Boone Novel with ‘Manual Erotic Control’. It’s almost akin to drving a car – Wheres the fun in that? Expert hands? (I’m taking the gender pronoun out of this – because I’m sick of the lack of sexual diversity in these ‘tips’). It’s bullshit. Not everyone likes hand jobs, not everyone likes giving/receiving oral pleasure and to reduce great sex to these tips. The tips are generally so heteronormative with stock photos of good looking couples, but they generally focus on the physical pleasure of the situation. The tips that focus on the mental pleasure are the way to go.

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See, the fact is we all do things differently, our movements, our rhythms, our bodies, our shapes and sizes, even the way we move our tongue. It’s about a connection. You’ve seen those couples, and you’re wondering why they are together. We’ve all done it, sitting there during lunch, brunch dinner, or having a drink at a bar and you make the offhand comment to your friend/partner/colleague and you giggle as you wonder why they’re together. None of these so called sex tips speak about ‘connection’. I’ve been working in the Sex Industry for almost a decade and I’ve seen all sorts of couples. I distinctly remember this one couple, loved up, cute and apparently having the best sex of their lives. They’d tell me about it, how they’d have a long afternoon session and it wasn’t even all about penetrative sex or tongues, or even body parts. For them, an afternoon of sex was about intimacy, about touching, feeling and laughing. You could hear it when they spoke about it, some strange mysterious connection that whenever they got together, they didn’t give a damn about the rest of the world – they created their own world, their own space and when it shattered they laughed about it and moved on. They were two bodies together, exploring, having fun, and absolutely being in the moment.

So you’re sitting there thinking well what is this guy on about – what makes great sex? The answer is as simple as it is complex – not giving a damn. Being in the moment, let it flow and just follow the grind. It’s about pleasuring the mind, which is most likely why that time you had sex in the change room despite it being an awkward quickie was probably mind-blowing sex. That ex who you’d fight with constantly, but the second their arms were around you you turned into a quivering and horny mess.

Great sex is about accepting who you are, accepting your flaws, having body confidence and accepting theirs. The ability to have a laugh when it doesn’t go to ‘plan’, the idea of not actually having a formulaic plan to please your lover.

Here’s the secret. There’s no one way to have great sex. You can read all the tips on the internet, know exactly how to move your tongue, and physically please your partner. But you can still not be the best in bed. People are reluctant to let go of the idea of having great sex. So hell bent they are on discovering the secret they are absolutely convinced that there must be something tangible that gives access to great sex. There’s not. You can be reductive and say that it’s about understanding your partner’s body and mind and you’re not going to be wrong. But how can you teach someone to understand their partner’s body? You can learn, but without that connection you’re not quite going to reach that final step. Most people insist that it is some physical way of moving (Because, like, they tried this move on three chicks last week and they all went nuts man. Or, I moved my tongue like this and two dudes last week came like that *Snaps fingers dramatically*). People sometimes feel that they must sacrifice a part of themselves to have great sex, or forgo their own likes and dislikes to achieve that mysterious mind blowing sex that your best friend seems to have. All. The. Freaking. Time. Leaving you sitting there, wondering am I bad in bed?

If you forgo your likes and dislikes you’ve already lost the battle. If you’re doing something you can’t stand, you’ll never achieve the pinnacle because you’ll be focused on the idea that you’re doing something you don’t like to please someone else. If you’re on your knees sucking dick or whatever it is your doing and you’re wondering if they’re liking it, you’ve lost the battle. Let go, seriously. Just let it go. Relax in the moment and just do it. It’s like your special pair of underwear, the pants that you put on when the world seems dark, that instantly boost your mood, your lucky pants. There’s absolutely no reason why they’re special, no foundation but for some reason they make you feel better. Grab that feeling, that blasé-ness, and ride it all the way to the top.

By Stephen Smith a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

Modern Age Homophobia

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I’ve lived a fairly lucky life. I grew up in Western Sydney, and despite the bad reputation the area sustained, I escaped relatively unscathed from acts of Homophobia. In hindsight, I realised I probably escaped a lot of situations thanks to the over zealous protectiveness of my parents, who despite denying any knowledge of it, had probably long assumed I was gay and that the world outside was not a place for a young, socially inept and naïve teen.

Sure, over the years I have experienced a few homophobic comments and acts ranging from thrown bottles (Alcohol, full, what a waste!), a few disparaging comments throwing shade in my direction, a push and a shove in Oxford and Kings Cross when I lived there, and being mugged on a date in Parramatta one time. Though the latter cannot be deemed homophobic, merely a crime of opportunity. So, relatively, in comparison to friends, friends of friends and the general community, I have escaped relatively unscathed. Though, it upsets me when the world around me is less accepting.

Take for example the plight of young Dylan Souster who was not only attacked by a group of people near his home, but was then attacked by the person who helped him back to his home. Who offered to contact his girlfriend upstairs to help him go upstairs, but upon realising Dylan had a boyfriend, subsequently punched him several times in the face. However, is it little wonder when we even experience homophobia from within our own community. Russel Tovey, actor from ‘Looking’ was widely condemned when he made disparaging comments about how he was glad he was  not overtly gay. He since apologised, but the damage has been done – the expected behaviour of a male. Australia, for the most part has been a safe place. It could be safer, and there could be greater legal support than what we currently have.

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However, when I read news of the outside world, I am saddened. I am saddened that Russia has recently tried to increase the level of their anti-Gay laws. Russia has been a state that had begun to overturn the homophobic laws but has recently transgressed. New laws make it difficult to protest, announce or even display any sexuality outside the norm. Violence against LGBTIQ people is poorly investigated and often swept under the carpet. The controversial laws against gay propaganda have become synonymous with violence towards LGBTIQ community in Russia, and it seemingly only gets worse. Granted, it’s hard to tell fact from fiction – the media is well known to be able to conjure up magic numbers and have their figures all in a twist – as well as the majority of papers, people reporting on these issues are generally more liberal than others. I say this because of a recent interview with a range of LGBTIQ people living in Russia. Whilst some said that they had a problem, and things were bad, there were an equal amount of people saying that their experiences, whilst not fantastic, were certainly not horrible. In that regard, it’s easy for me to sit here and say that things are good or bad, or to comment on the social justice issues of LGBTIQ individuals in Russia, however I am saddened that it is an issue. Because it shouldn’t be.

It is certainly clear that homophobic actions are often dismissed by the police both in Russia and across the world, it is also clear that there is a clear social impact on the views of homosexuality in varying regards in places across the world. However it is important to note that over the past few centuries, society has undergone massive social changes and we are increasing those social changes at a rapid rate. This is compounded by the fact of instant communication from virtually anywhere in the world, reduced travel times and the growing rate of regions and arguably, a growing trend towards separate cosmopolitanism states. It is important that we continue to have an open dialogue about homophobia, so that we are able to share information that will increase people’s awareness that it is still a problem.

The Author is a consultant at certified LGBT safe places Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

Review: Fun Factory Miss Bi & Lady Bi

Fun Factory Miss Bi Rabbit Vibrator
The excellence of Fun Factory and their products is spoken of almost every day in our stores. Hell, I barely let someone leave the store without holding at least one of their products! They’re body safe, made from medical grade silicone, have suuuper strong motors, some have DUAL motors (independently controlled!), have ridiculously easy to use control handles, incredible battery lives, they have a massive range of vibrators, plugs AND dildo’s… do I have to go on? The list is endless.
Fun Factory are easily my favourite manufacturer, and it’s obvious why. So it’s natural that the Fun Factory Miss Bi and Lady Bi are no exceptions. Both of them are easily two of my favourites out of the range, but for different reasons. So, when looking for a dual vibe, how do you choose which one you want out of the two? Both obviously come with Fun Factory’s standard qualities – they have the loop handle, the lit-up raised buttons, etc… The main decider when choosing from the two is preference.
Fun Factory Miss Bi
Miss Bi (pictured above), is a rather cute, small-in-size, big-in-power dual vibrator. Miss Bi stunned me when I first turned it on and held it in my hands. The power is ridiculous, and not easy to compare with any other vibrator on the market. It’s both deep and rumbly, and feels as though it is coming from the ‘heart’ of the toy – not just the surface. Deep and rumbly vibrations (usually preferred by most) result in deeper, more intense orgasms. This is because it stimulates the clitoris internally and actually penetrates deep into the nerves, as opposed to just stimulating the clitoral shaft. The clitoral arm of Miss Bi has a larger surface area than almost all other dual vibrators. I think this is the feature that needs to be thought through the most before deciding whether to buy MiSS or Lady Bi.
All over clitoral and labia stimulation is a COMPLETELY different sensation to pinpoint clitoral stimulation. If it is something you’re not used to experiencing, it can take a while to get used to. One thing I didn’t actually know (not sure if this is a blonde moment of mine or if just generally not a widely known thing), but the clitoris is actually shaped like a wishbone and has ‘leg’s, if you like. The clitoral crura (or singular ‘crus’, pictured above), are two erectile tissues which extend from the clitoris and together form a V shape. ‘Crus’ is a Latin word which literally translates to leg. During sexual arousal, the crura become engorged with blood, as does all the erectile tissue of the clitoris and when stimulated can be extremely pleasurable for some women. Miss Bi ‘s arm is perfectly designed to stimulate the clitoral crura. So, if this is something that you have previously experimented with and thoroughly enjoyed – you’ll love Miss Bi . If it’s something that you would be interested in trying out – get Miss Bi .
Miss Bi is rather short and stout, but perfect for G Spot stimulation. The shaft is shaped in an almost wave like motion. Instead of having to thrust with this toy, the vaginal opening is stimulated by a rather girthy hump. So small, shuffling movements cause a lot of stimulation to the vaginal opening. But that’s not it… The end of the shaft curves up for delicious G Spot stimulation. When holding Miss Bi, you can literally see the tip moving backwards and forwards super fast due to how strong it is, almost imitating a lovers fingertip. The female G Spot is only located 2-3 inches into the vagina, therefore making Miss Bi ideal for G Spot stimulation.
Fun Factory Lady Bi Rabbit Vibrator
Sex Toy: Fun Factory Lady Bi
Fun Factory Lady Bi
Lady Bi, the newest of the family, is actually my favourite of the two. Let’s start with the clitoral arm. Unlike Miss Bi , Lady Bi is designed to provide precise, pinpointed clitoral stimulation. Like Miss Bi , Lady Bi does have just as much power to stimulate the internal clitoris and internal nerves, YAY! If you have previously experimented with toys such as the We Vibe touch, you will know the difference between the two sensations. The Touch is a fantastic clitoral toy as it allows the user to have pin point clitoral stimulation, or instead use the underside of the toy to get broad stimulation. This, as afore mentioned, is the main difference between the two toys (aside from the length).
So one must decide what they prefer. If your answer is pinpointed stimulation – Lady Bi is your perfect match! The Lady Bi has a much longer shaft than MiSS Bi.  The shaft of Lady also has a girthy section to stimulate the vaginal opening, YAY. But unalike Miss Bi , the shaft length and size of the clitoral arm allows the user to thrust with the toy. This may be a big decider for some. If you need movement in order to orgasm, or even if you think you’ll just get a little bored from not much movement, you need Lady Bi.
The length of Lady Bi is also excellent for A Spot stimulation, which has been briefly mentioned before. The A Spot (otherwise known as the Anterior Fornix), is located in front of the cervix. The A-spot was discovered by a guy named Dr. Chua Chee Ann. He noticed that stimulating this particular spot on the deepest part of the front vaginal wall would cause fast lubrication and sexual arousal. His stimulation method was a “scooping” motion with his fingers, similar to the “come hither” motion that so many recommend for G-spot stimulation. It should be warned that it is terribly easy to nudge, bump or stab the cervix whilst experimenting with A Spot stimulation. Accidentally bumping the cervix can be uncomfortable at best, and excruciating at worst. That feeling during sex when you sort of go ouch that was FAR too deep – and you almost get a sharp stabbing sensation… Yeah. That’s most likely accidentally bumping your cervix.
Luckily, Lady Bi has a curved tip, and is designed to go straight for your A Spot. Unless you were turning the shaft around in spirals, it would be difficult to accidentally get your cervix. A Spot stimulation is difficult to achieve with ones fingers, as they usually aren’t long enough to stimulate yourself – but a penis or a long toy is fab for getting that mysterious spot! Both of these toys are also suitable to use anally if one wishes to do so! The qualities apply to anal/prostate play – do you prefer length? All over perineum/ball stimulation?
What to ask yourself when choosing between the Fun Factory Miss Bi & Lady Bi:
  • Do you enjoy pinpointed stimulation, or all over stimulation?
  • Do you enjoy length in toys or A spot stimulation?
  • Do you enjoy shorter, thicker toys and G Spot stimulation?
  • Which sex toy fit’s into your sexual lifestyle?
The Fun Factory Miss Bi & Lady Bi are fantastic quality, yet unique in their own way. It’s important to know the differences between the two so that you can ensure you go home with a toy that is compatible with your body and going to make you thank your Mama that you were born with a vagina (or bum!?)