If you have been dreaming of gay group sex with lots of pleasure, amusement and fun, then maybe it’s time to consider going to your first gay sex party or even hosting one!
Here’s some tips on how to be the host with the most
This is not something new. It has been around for years and has been existed for years. Lots of gay men enjoy participating in group sex but some feel the urge to watch men having sex.
It’s crazy how gay exchange programs can make any gay person feel at home no matter where they go. It’s like a dream come true for all the gay partners out there who want to travel and still feel like they belong.
If you are desire having an orgy, you realize that it can be a lot of hassle to hold a successful gay sex party.
Host Your First Gay Sex Party
Let’s start inviting the people who will make the party awesome and finalize the rest of the guest list.
While some parties happen out of the blue, others are planned with a guest list and some guidelines for everyone to follow.
If you’re planning on throwing a gay sex party, it’s best to get the word out early. Luckily, thanks to the internet, it’s easier than ever to get the ball rolling.
Use social media and post about it on any gay group page on Facebook. In just a few hours, you can get plenty of confirmations and start preparing for the big event.
Make it clear what you are looking for as if you need only men that are turned on in group sex.
You should post your ad on Craig lists, Google, Yahoo Classified, gay blogs and different websites you feel can make your party complete.
If you get various invites, you should insist on a photo with every confirmation.
Bring in the Right Crowd for Your First Gay Sex Party
if you’re hosting a gay sex party, it’s important to make sure you’re bringing in the right crowd. You don’t want any fake descriptions or people who aren’t there for the same reasons as everyone else.
Keep it real, folks.
And let’s be clear, this is not a business meeting. When choosing your guests, make sure they align with your desires and expectations for the party. If you can, try to mix it up with some racial and ethnic diversity. But only if it’s not going to be a logistical nightmare.
Keep the venue hush hush until you’ve vetted everyone. That way you can avoid any unwanted guests or homophobes. Let’s keep it safe and sexy, people.
Party Food for Your First Gay Sex Party
An important thing that makes a gay sex party successful is food.
With all of the sweating and various other fluid explosions, you lose a lot of important fluids over the course of an orgy. Food that is high in salt is necessary, and also deliciousness.
You shouldn’t worry too much about food though.
An inexperienced gay sex party enthusiast never decides to host a party. So if someone is bold enough to host, you can assume they have been around this process before and they know what they are doing.
Any self respecting guys that host these kind of parties will probably have all the essentials already on hand.
What is important for a first gay sex party food?
The question is “What should I bring with me?”
Gay sex parties aren’t like weddings. They are simple to cook for and when preparing for most events, you don’t have to consider everyone’s dietary needs.
You don’t need to keep in mind, the people who don’t eat meat, who only eat healthy foods, or who is allergic to fish. At an orgy everyone is swallowing whatever they can find into their body.
Blindly and happily swallowing things is what an orgy is all about.
You can’t go wrong with it, so relax and have a little fun. Some fun food name suggestions are below.
- Meat Testicles
- Crab Cakes
- Shrimp Cocktails
- Mc Gang Bang Sausages
- Cheese Sizzling Nach-hoes
- Double Penetrated Burgers
First Gay Sex Party Dress Code
Most of the time you will be naked.
Nudity is both the best and worst thing about a gay sex party. It’s great because everyone can see your balls. But it’s also bad because it tends to lead to a lot of confusion.
When you go to a standard party, you’ll meet a variety of people who you can distinguish by the way they dress. You get those same people standing naked in a room together.
Then it’s not quite as easy to tell them apart because, naked people, all basically look alike.
You Might Loose Track of Who You’ve Been With!
It’s too difficult to distinguish your genitals apart from some other guy’s genitals. Other gay sex party attendees might forget and lose track of who they have been with.
Some men may see your testicles or your penis and mistakenly conclude that he has already had sex with you. In fact, it was another guy and now you’ll never get your turn with him.
Make Sure You Get Your Turn at Your First Gay Sex Party
You going to need to wear something that separates you from the other men. Most gay parties these days are colour coded.
So you wear a particular colour and it already identifies you between the other boys. Each colour symbolizes your role and what you are into.
If you show up and the party has already started, do not feel the need to just jump right into it.
It’s really dependent on the atmosphere of the party and what everyone else is doing.
Start Out Simple with Your First Gay Sex Party
Especially if you’re shy. They don’t immediately throw you into the action, but they get you close to it.
Its a sex party, get to the point. If someone is interested, they’ll let you know. If they’re not interested they’ll let you know too.
Remember that just because you’re both there for sex, doesn’t mean that they will be interested in you.
Be polite, but remember that no, means no.
If you hit it off, ask for a number or a date.
Who knows, it could be the start of something refreshing, new and a long lasting relationship. Well, you still kind of met at a party, right?
Don’t Fall in Love
Falling in love at gay sex party is a wrong move. Not only have you barely met them but you need to take them on a date outside a sex party. Remember the difference between lust and love. Don’t have illusions.
Gay sex parties are the parties that gay people like you go to have fun and not to mess up emotionally with other people. They go there just to relax and have sex.
Follow my advice and only have fun when you go to a gay sex party.
Your First Gay Sex Party – You Deserve to Have Fun
After a long battle with your sexual orientation, now that you have come out of the closet, you deserve to have fun. There are a lot of homophobic beliefs in the world today. But a gay sex party is the safest place to be.
Relax, be yourself and have fun. Don’t ruin things by forcing things to happen the other way.
Get down, suck some cock and please some men. You won’t regret it.
Host A First Gay Sex Party!
Being gay comes with lots of responsiveness and a few challenges. What you plan has to be both fun and safe for everyone going.
The world is still close-minded about non-mainstream sexual orientation even speaking openly about it, but they are relaxing. Who cares in the end? We should just live our lives the way we want to without any worries.
There’s no need for long debates on things that bring joy, especially when it comes to sexual pleasure.
Everyone deserves to be happy.
So why not attend a gay sex party in your area and throw away any concerns you have in life? Gay parties are happening all over the world.
If you’re looking to plan one, here are some tips that can help you pull off a great one.
Invitations
To begin with, make invitations if it is possible or create a facebook group. Facebook is an easy way to quickly bring people together and you can change update your plans just as easily to.
The gay community is totally welcoming and therefore would be charged to attend your party. But you obviously may not want to throw a sex party for many people unless you have a stadium to accommodate everyone.
Go through the guide of possible guests and send them invites.
You should consider two important things here. What the guest will bring to the party and what you are offering. Your sexual satisfactions and desires versus your guests.
Make sure that there’s interests for all invited.
This is a very important challenge as you don’t really want to end up with guests who really don’t add value. Now, there’s no need to be selfish here but make sure you have a niche kind of market.
There’s no use having a predominantly ‘twink’ related party and then summoning a bunch of chubby chasers.
There are many gay exchange programs available today that can help you plan a gay sex party.
Talk to Gays Who Have Hosted Before
If you’re planning to throw a party but don’t know where to start, you can easily get some tips from people who have thrown one before. You can also do some research online to gather some ideas.
If you’re feeling adventurous, you can even check out sex parties in your area, which are open to people of all preferences. Just keep in mind that you may need to have some uncomfortable conversations with people you don’t know well, like your local sex shop worker or even a stranger.
And if you’re not comfortable with the idea of putting yourself out there, then a sex party may not be the right fit for you.
Plan A Date
With your guest list ready, you should plan a date that will suit everyone. It goes best if you plan it on weekends and holidays. You can have a full weekend of sexual play or an outdoor adventure or a beach party or something like that.
What About the Venue
Consider the venue. Is your house big enough to accommodate all the guests invited? Do you have to find an alternative like a hotel or something like that?
Depending on your neighborhood, you may really not want people screaming from your place as it can bother your neighbors.
If you have no ideas about potential hosting venues, find out from other folks especially on gay exchange programs around. There is possibility of finding a somewhere that you can enlist the help of within a day or two.
Booze, Food and Other Expenses
Finally, work on the other logistics like the drinks and other expenses. What is a sex party without booze and good food anyway?
If you’re thinking of having a DJ in your house, you can try doing it yourself but if you’re not confident enough, you might need to hire one.
Hosting a party at home?
Consider renting a cool rock system or if that’s not your thing, hire a DJ to play some awesome tunes.
If you’re having the party outside by the pool, don’t overdo it with clothes or stuff. Why not mix up different types and brands of alcohol to make your party even better?
Remember, being gay is a choice that anyone can make.
So start planning that gay sex party and enjoy life to the fullest. Just have fun with whatever you decide to do!
And remember as always – Play Safe!
Meet PJ Weir, former Gay Exchange stalwart and gay rights advocate. Now caring for his mother in Queensland, he reflects on a decade of LGBTQ+ activism.