P-Spot Beyond Pleasure!

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I don’t need to explain to the homosexual readers of this blog the pleasures that come from the prostates involvement in your sexual activities. This article is for the hetero-curious men and couples out there reading. It is about opening up to find pleasure and equality through the prostate.

From the beginning of our sexual explorations and curiosities we learn from what we see, and as the prostate is unseen it is rarely spoken about. Not to mention the “Taboo” associated with anal play. The stigma that men who participate in anal play must be gay.. is too long outdated and is in serious need of a new outlook. The act of a man participating in a prostate orgasm allows for a man to step outside of the societal gender roles and hand the power over to his female partner. Too rarely does a man ever get to experience the receptive part or sex, all too often they take the common role of “Pitching” and leave the “Catching” or receptive aspect of sex to their female partners. This ideology is what I believe to be a huge factor in why the notion of gender roles are as they are currently.

A mutual knowledge of the vulnerability/ the expected role of a woman starts from experiencing two sides of the same coin. In this particular topic, penetration is the coin. For a man who has never experienced penetration on himself, he might intellectually understand the need for the “warm-up” before penetration, however, nothing can demonstrate its importance as well as experiencing it first hand. There’s always a clearer perspective that comes from personal experience.

What Is A Prostate You Ask?

The prostate is a small gland made up of mostly muscle tissue that sits around the base of the bladder. Its main function is to secrete fluids that are mixed with the Semen from the Vas Deference during orgasm. This is the most important piece of information for this article. A man’s prostate is most active at the moment leading to orgasm when pressure is added to the already pulsing Prostate gland creates an even more powerful ejaculate which heightens the feeling of orgasm. This reason alone should be enough to intrigue any man!

Through prostate orgasm, a man is able to reach multiple orgasms… Yes, I said it! A man can have multiple orgasms too! It is not just for the ladies.

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Benefits Beyond Pleasure

When you engage the prostate with massage/added pressure, as I previously said allows for larger ejaculation orgasms. This helps to empty and refresh the prostate. It also encourages blood flow to the pelvic area, this helps to fight impotence. Yes playing with this little gland can help ensure you have healthy erections well into agedness. There is also a ton of research being done currently as to how having a regularly refreshed prostate lowers the potential risk of prostate cancer found so commonly in men.There are many other benefits of prostate massage.

How To Engage In Prostate Stimulation?

The prostate can be stimulated by adding pressure to the anatomy of the perineum (the space between the testicles and the anus. However direct contact from inside is always more intimate with greater effects. The prostate can be reached by inserting one finger into the anus approximately 1.5-2 inches tip of the finger pointing to the naval and rolling your finger in a come hither motion. You should feel a Squishy marble as you do this, that’s the prostate. Very easy to find. Keep in mind the skin around the anal opening is very sensitive and can tear very easily. EXTRA Lube is necessary. Start with a warm up; caress the outside of the anus (the anus has as many nerve ending as any other erogenous zone). Try stroking the penis, as the penis gets erect the blood flow around the prostate will also increase created a heightened pleasure sense.

Effects On The Relationship

For hetero-normative couples, it is understandable how “flipping” the roles could potentially have some uncharted territory. But that’s no reason to avoid or judge something. Especially something that has so much potential. Communication is key! You are in this together! Sex is more than just procreation. Sex is also about pleasure and as discussed has countless health benefits. What this will allow or aid in with couples in establishing compassion, empathy and understanding towards each other. It may not eliminate gender based unfairness or sexism, it does have the ability to open equal understanding and dialogue.

If you’re open enough to try a new world of pleasure, just remember to relax, have fun. It’s VERY NORMAL. Millions of men and women worldwide have already found the amazing pleasure to be had from this great pleasure zone. Everyone should want to be on the same page as their partner

About the author: KrizPatrick BA(Hon) Psychology Human Sexuality

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The 7 Best G-Spot Sex Positions!

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Sex Positions And Sexual Satisfaction

There are many people who are not able to satisfy their partners in the bed due to various reasons. In fact, the study shows that around 6 out of 10 couples are not satisfied with their sex life, which is actually a serious problem.

There is more than just a climax when it comes to reaching an immense sexual pleasure. Only trying out one sex positions can be really boring for the couple in the long run. In the first few months of marriage, there may not be a need of experimenting with sex positions, but in the long run, it becomes crucial to experiment with different sex positions.

If you are one of the men, who are struggling with various sexual problems or infertility issues, then you should search for the ways to increase fertility in men. At first, we will discuss briefly on what the G-Spot is.

The G-Spot is situated on the anterior wall of the vagina. Women feel immense sexual pleasure if their sexual partners stimulate the G-Spot. Try experimenting with G-Spot to give your partner, a new level of sexual pleasure, if it has never been tried out by you.

There are some specific G-Spot sex positions that can provide an immense pleasure to a female sex partner. We will discuss them in the next part of this article. Men can also add penis enlargement exercises in their fitness routine to enhance their sexual performance for providing enhanced pleasure to their women.

Some Awesome G-Spot Positions To Experiment With

There are many sex positions to experiment with. All of them are different, and all of them provide a separate kind of pleasure. The study shows that trying out various sexual positions is one of the key factors that determine the sexual satisfaction in a long-term relationship.

And, men with sexual disorders also cannot satisfy their women in the bed. The most common sexual disorder among men is an erectile dysfunction. According to the statistic, around 18 million American adults are diagnosed with erectile dysfunction.

Men with sexual disorders must seek out help with a doctor, and they can also adapt to a healthy lifestyle. There are exercises for erectile dysfunction and other sexual disorders. Furthermore, there are also many other natural treatment methods.

However, men with no sexual disorders also have problems satisfying their sexual partner.

Here are 7 of the best G-Spot sex positions that can help people to satisfy their women.

1. Doggy Style

Doggy style is one of the most common sex positions, and it is also one of the best sex positions for G-Spot stimulation. Both men and women can get immense sexual pleasure from using this sex position. A female partner can increase the pressure of a man’s penis against her G-Spot. Most of the women cite this sex position as a way to reach guaranteed orgasms.

There is also an unfortunate side of this position. It is true that most of the men like this sex position because of the depth they can reach. However, there is a chance that the entire sexual intercourse may end up sooner than usual due to the increased depth. This is a great sex position to try with the We-Vibe 4 Plus The Number 1 Couples Vibrator!

2. Cow Girl

The second sex position to experiment with is cow girl. This position puts a woman in a commanding position. She can move forth and back, according to her wish to get a maximum sexual pleasure without asking her partner to adjust the position. This allows her to apply desirable pressure on the G-Spot for satisfying stimulation.

In addition to a woman’s freedom of moving forth and back in this sex position, she can also adjust the pace, angle, depth, and tempo of the sexual intercourse. This is one of the fewer sex positions that give so much control to a woman.

This sex position can maximize the pleasure for a woman, as it is a very comfortable position to be in. For further experimentation, couples can also try out reverse cow girl position.

3. Legs Over Shoulder

This sex position requires a male sex partner to sit up while a female sex partner places her legs up, one at a time and rests her ankles on the man’s shoulder. This sex position assists in creating deep and powerful vaginal penetration for enhanced sexual satisfaction.

Along with a powerful vaginal penetration, it allows a male sex partner to hit the G-Spot for better stimulation and pleasure. There are many ways to experiment with this sex position. A female sex partner can either wrap her legs, all the way around the man’s shoulders or she can also keep one leg up and put the other one on the bed.

4. Woman On Top

It’s not a necessity for a man to always be on the top. In this sex position, a female partner is on the top of the male sex partner. Ask your partner to lean back at a 45-degree angle. Put some soft pillows on the back for enhanced comfort. When you are on top, lower down onto your partner.

A woman being on top gives more control over the stimulation. It also gives an opportunity for women to find the angle that creates the best stimulation on the G-Spot. In this position, the man’s penis is backward, which helps in rubbing up against the anterior wall of the vagina.

5. Modified Doggy Style

The modified doggy style position starts with a normal doggy style sex position. After being in a normal doggy style, both partners should lower themselves until a female is flat on her stomach.

The great thing about this position is that it allows a man to hit all the angles perfectly. A man can afterward rest on his forearm while a woman can spread her legs so they can become closer to each other.

6. X Marks

At first, you need to find the bed that is hip height of your partner. And, as the name suggests, a female partner should lay in the bed with her legs in the air in an X position where the man stands in between her legs. The X position creates a very tight fit for better pleasure. This is also a great position to stroke right against the female’s G-Spot.

 

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7. Spooning

This is a sex position, which requires both the partners to lie, facing the same direction. A female partner may need to raise her legs and change the angle of the body for better penetration.

In this position, the guy stands behind a female partner, which allows him to stimulate right up against her G-Spot. This is not an intense position, which allows both the partners to feel close and connected.

Conclusion

One of the best ways to satisfy a woman in bed is through G-spot stimulation. Experiment with these sex positions and experience the level of difference in sexual pleasure before and after the stimulation of G-spot.

However, do not try to experiment with every single position mentioned on the list above in a hurry. Try one at a time, as there is no hurry to experiment with everything. Maintaining some level of suspense with your partner on the bed can always be very useful in making your sex life interesting.

Along with experimenting with various sex positions, also try to maintain a healthy relationship with your partner to enhance your marital and sexual satisfaction.

 

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Check Out The Love Gloves!

Condoms to Prevent STI

The “Condom” or whatever you want to call it, it goes by many names. A Rubber, Naughty Bag, English Riding Coat, Love Glove, Private Johnston’s Rain Jacket, and Insurance Glove you get the idea. Whatever you may call it, the Condom has its fans and its hatters. And both sides bring equally valid arguments to the debate, everything from poor fit to sensation loss. Let’s take a closer look at some of these; like most things I talk about, the choice is yours to make. You must be responsible for your own body, know your facts and know yourself.

The following are some of the most common reasons people use in the Great Condom Debate!

They don’t fit!

This might be the most common excuse given when a guy refuses to use condoms. While this is a very valid argument with as many as 40% of men laying claim to this. The condom design we have today has not changed since 1903 when they began using rubber condoms instead of “skin” (made from Sheep intestine) condoms. It wasn’t until the 1920’s when Latex was invented that having a liquid that could be moulded to form and then mass produced eliminated many of the size issues.

Still, 10% of men still claim that condoms are too tight another, 17% claim they are too loose, while 60% claim the condom bunches up (This increases the chance of the whole condom sliding off during intercourse). Lastly, 15% of men claim to experience “Foreskin Drag” (When the condom gets pulled into the foreskin). These are all valid and true excuses, but to be honest…

This, my friends, this is just a lazy shopper! If you gave up that easy because you bought a few general condoms at the local shops, and either you didn’t know how to put the condom on or by chance the condom really didn’t fit, might just be saying what a careless lover you are?

There are over 15 size variations from different condom makers globally. From length to width, whatever the issue, there is a condom fit for you! (If you want more information about fitting condoms, let me know in the comments.)

They are no fun!

Saying condoms are no fun, is like saying variety is bland… It can’t be argued that some of the sensation is lost when using a condom specifically for the male and that the sensation of slippery skin to skin feeling might not be the same, these condoms are the only thing keeping your risk of infection at almost 0.

Condoms these days are more than just an attempt at contraceptive. Condoms can give your mind ease regarding STI’s and pregnancy, but they can also add so many levels of pleasure and fun to your intimate sessions. Condoms come textured for both his and her pleasure, ribbing on the inside and the outside! Condoms today come in countless flavours, and everyone has had those days where you just weren’t into your partners… let’s say natural flavour.

I just don’t see where the lack of fun is?

 

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It’s just an extra cost!

Excuse me? The last global census puts condoms in the lowest bracket of consumer goods. Globally condoms cost on average $1. $1! The average single dose of Gonorrhoea medication is $17. If you’re not familiar with the symptoms of Gonorrhoea, dig a little deeper because that $1 condom might not seem so bad. The average cost of having a baby is $9,700. Again another cost that can be avoided with an “extra” cost of $1.

To top this off condoms are given away at all clinics and health care facilities if you don’t see any just ask!

I’m on Contraceptive!

The benefits of hormonal contraceptive have been proven to help with more than preventing pregnancies, the one thing it still cannot do is fight off those nasty infections that are so easily passed through bodily fluids. A contraceptive is great for controlling and effecting hormone systems. No product on the market has the ability to prevent or fight against Sexually Transmitted Infections. The list of these possible infections is ever growing, new strains of previously known STI’s are adapting and even becoming medication resistant. If you experience any symptoms of an STI, find your local general practitioner through Health Engine and book in for a sexual health examination .

Only “Heteros” need them!

It is very clear that Heterosexual relationships can lead to pregnancy, while Homosexual relationships don’t, but as previously discussed pregnancy shouldn’t be your only concern. For anyone participating in anal sex, it is very important to remember that the inner lining of the anus or bowels is much more permeable. This means that its chance of infection is much much higher. The rectum doesn’t have any defence from introduced bacteria or infections. Wearing a condom during any anal intercourse is really the only line of defence.

In Conclusion

If you are experiencing “fit” issues, try try and try again. There are so many size variations available to you. Having sex with an ill-fitting condom is really defeating its whole purpose. When condoms are loose, fluids are able to escape which can lead to potential infection. Don’t hesitate to visit any of our store locations, a friendly staff member will be happy to answer any questions and perhaps give you some condom options that might work better for you.

 

About the author: KrizPatrick BA(Hon) Psychology Human Sexuality

 

 

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6 Sure Fire Tantra Methods!

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My 25 years on this earth have led me to many conclusions and realisations, the most relevant right now being that sex is one of the most exciting topics of conversation. I don’t know if it’s the people I seem to attract into my life or my own willingness to turn any conversation into one about sex but I end up talking about it all the time (Working in an Adult Store and studying Sexology, it’s expected with the territory too I guess!!).

I notice how so many men and women light up when given the space to discuss one of the most intimate areas of their lives. It fills me with so much joy when I have people come into an Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres shy and nervous initially and then leave talking explicitly about sex and not wanting to stop.

Sex and the overt representation of sexuality is everywhere in our lives, from advertising and social media to pornography and films. Despite this, there is a lack of frank conversation about sexuality meaning many people have a warped perception of what healthy sexuality looks and feels like. One of the concerns with society’s widespread unwillingness to discuss sexuality is that when it comes to developing healthy sexual relationships, many people are unsure of how to speak of sex with the people they’re actually having it with.

I know of many people who struggle to talk openly with their intimate partners about sex sometimes resulting in unhealthy consequences. The repercussions of leaving things unspoken with our intimate partners can result in unnecessary conflicts, physical and emotional trauma and general unfulfilling sex lives.

We miss out on accessing the potential of our capacity to feel exquisite pleasure because we struggle to ask for what we like and we remain silent when something doesn’t feel good.

I recall a time a couple of years ago when I was being intimate with a new lover and he asked what it was I wanted. I remember freezing in fear and had no idea how to put what felt good for my body in words. I think I ended up saying something along the lines of “what you’re doing” just because I was so mortified that I didn’t know how to ask for what I desired.

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Throwing myself in the deep end shortly after this experience, I discovered the world of Tantra and Conscious Sexuality which provided me with some tools I needed to communicate clearly with my intimate partners. I’ve including the following tips that if applied, have the potential to lead to greater levels of intimacy, connection and pleasure in your sexual relationships:

  • Speaking of any discomforts you may have around talking about sex is an excellent first step. Let your partner know that you would like to be more open discussing sex and acknowledge the fact that it may be a difficult conversation to begin for the both of you. Express the importance of opening this conversation and speak with honesty.
  • If the thought of even speaking words associated with sex makes you cringe, I recommend trying this exercise with your partner. Jump in the deep end and throw explicit words at one another. It may go something like this “Cock, pussy, lick, anal, orgasm, cum, wet, squirt.” Think of this as the ultimate “ice-breaker.” Come up with as many words as you can that you identify as sexual and get used to saying them to each other. In little to no time, it will be a breeze to say what you need without shame or embarrassment. Make it fun and playful because sex is supposed to be!
  • Stay away from blame and take ownership of how you feel. Instead of “You’re really bad in bed and you need to change” turn it into “I am feeling like there is so much more I want to experience sexually and I would love to try this with you next time.”
  • The palm exercise. Take in turns tickling each other’s palms with your fingers and make adjustments that will lead to a more pleasurable experience. “May I have a softer touch?” “Can you move your finger faster/slower?” “Can you give the top right hand corner more attention?” Becoming used to asking for what you need in a non-sexual activity will translate to greater comfort and ease asking for what we desire sexually.
  • Invest in sex toys for couples to make your lifestyle easier.
  • Last but certainly not least, get to know your own body and what feels pleasurable to you. I cannot express the importance of this enough!! If you don’t know what feels good to your body, how can you expect that you can communicate clearly to your partner? Sex can be a hit or miss and expecting your partner to know everything that turns you on is a lot of pressure.

When talking about sex with your partner/s becomes easeful, the possibilities to explore sexuality and sexual expression are endless. You can try different things, express fantasies and desires and get to know your partner more deeply…in more ways than one!! You can also talk about what is Tantra Sex and how to incorporate into your lifestyle.

 

About the author: Stephanie is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

 

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You Are What You Underwear!

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Boxers/Granny Panties

If you’re the type of person who chose to put this atrocious piece of fabric over your most intimate bits, you my friend are asking for cuddles from your pillow. Your choice of undergarment is a clear indication of how you’ve given up on yourself as a sexual being. You don’t see yourself as sexy, nor do you want to be seen as sexy by anyone else. Please think of the paramedic or hospital staff that have to cut your pants away if you are (Heaven Forbid) in an accident of some kind. They deserve some eye candy on their 12- 14-hour shift. Forget the skinny jeans, no chance of squishing all that fabric into them. If you are wearing boxers or granny panties it is a good idea to read up on how body image and self esteem impacts mental health.

Briefs/Thong

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To be blunt, you’re a bad ass with clear intentions. You’ve put on this pair of underwear that so perfectly draws attention to your smooth curve line body. You want eyes on you as you undress. You’re not ready to meet someone’s parents, but you are ready to let someone get to know you, for a brief period! If this is your everyday underwear, you’re most likely the leader of your group, confident and sure, always ready for a good time.

(Men’s Thongs- DONT DO IT! It’s just wrong unless you’re modelling for a fitness competition.)

Boxer Briefs

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You are a true blue loyal kind of person. The one all your friends turn to for help or advice. You never let anyone down. You live a carefree yet very responsible life. Forget the little things, you’re in control. Forget dating games and the “Chase” you want meaning and depth. None of this 3 am booty call or the back room of some dive bar for you. Always a lover, not a fighter. But just because your choice of underwear is relaxed doesn’t mean the sex will be. Watch out, when this relaxed underwear comes off the wild tamed beast is unleashed!

Trunks/Bikini

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You sit between style and comfort. Most likely you work a solid 9-5 every day and want to be comfortable but ready for after work drinks that just might lead elsewhere. Your job is not your dream, you’re always dreaming of being elsewhere. It’s not that you’re a lazy person, it’s that you have bigger aspirations than the mundane life you are accustomed to. You’ll probably never quite your 9-5 job and move to that tropical dreamland, you’re just too comfortable. Change is unsettling, but you won’t stop dreaming or bigger and better things.

Tighty Whities/Boy Shorts

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​Taking it back to a simpler time, when very few people saw your undergarments. You’re still living in your childhood. You’ve never left that high school gym class. You’re afraid to step outside of your shell and be the person you want to be. You think because a very very small group of people think this underwear is sexy that it’s perfect for you. You think it says you’re above caring what others might think of you, but it just screams of a child trapped in an adults body to afraid to develop a sense of self.

Jockstrap/G-String

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​Wearing these it’s very clear you enjoy the company of men. They can also help to raise your body image and self-esteem.

You have moved past the wanting to look sexy for others. Everything in your life is hyper sexual and it’s empowering. You know how sexy you are and want to dress for you. You enjoy the sexy feeling in your skimpiest underwear. This is not just your “special occasion” underwear. You’re more than proud wearing this to the grocery store. You exude confidence and are the life of every event. You’ll try anything twice and never back down from a dare. Not because you have something to prove, but because why not?

Commando

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If you regularly go commando, you’re the person who thinks because you read in Cosmo or Maxim magazine in the 00’s that it’s healthy for your bits to get some air. You’ve thrown hygiene out the window. If we went into your house I’d bet the smell of last Friday night still lingers. Your fridge has a potentially out dated milk and a few condiment bottles. Your supplement and vitamin game are probably strong because you think that’s the key to a healthy life.

I can only hope you’re doing this because your house caught fire? Maybe going to or from the gym? Even then, no! Unless your intention is to show off that VPL (If you have a P)? If so please show away!

Whatever your underwear choice is, wear it with pride. You’ll never be judged for your choice with us.

Check out the amazing collections we carry at an Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres nearest to you or at a trusted online sex toy store. We have all your favourite brands in all styles, we might even have something you’ve never tried so give it a chance!

About the author: Patrick is a consultant at the Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

 

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I Got HUGE – Using My Extender!

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Within every study from social to psychological the results are the same, a man’s confidence is directly affected by the size of his member. This could stem from any number of factors like the animalistic drive for reproduction to the instinctual competitive nature of male primates and how he compares to the average penis size. Whatever the reason is people have seen the demand and there is no shortage of “fixes” or products out there that claim to give you a bigger penis. This article isn’t going to talk about the many many many pills on the market or the endless creams that all claim will change the physical anatomy of your penis. What I am going to discuss are the mechanical devices that you physically have to administer and use in a regulated and consistent manner.

What Is a Penis Extender?

A penis extender is also known as a stretcher or a penis traction device. These devices all work using a Physics principle of traction that is most traditionally used in bone and joint surgery. If you are not familiar with traction, it’s the complex process of moving from a steady point to another point. I find it easiest to think of it as a pulling force. Like when you jump and grab a branch to pull it to the ground, the force you apply when pulling the branch down is the traction.

How Does A Penis Extender Work?

How the extender devices work is pretty much the same across the board, the cells that make up our body tissues and more specifically the penis tissues multiply when a traction force is applied. This can also be looked at as when damage is done the body then works extra to compensate for the injury or damage. This has been seen in shins, arms, and spines. When cell multiplication takes place in any situation will result in the growth or extension of the particular tissue being affected. In theory, if you apply the traction principal to the penis enlargement “crisis” the Extender Device uses a controlled, measurement of traction force from the pubis base to the head tip. In theory this will encourage the cell regrowth along the penis. It is essentially being pulled through the middle of the shaft along the Corpora Cavernosa. This is a soft tissue that can be damaged quiet easy. Extenders work by using that traction or pulling force to elongate the penis shaft for long periods of time to break down some of that soft tissue and encourage the body to repair (multiply its own cells) thus elongating the penis.

 

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Penis Extender Studies

Over the last few years, a growing number of studies have been conducted surrounding the use of these extenders. According to results I have seen conducted in Spain, all the studies published positive results with noticeable changes in those who used the device. Digging deeper into the results, it is very clear that the most noticeable changes were in correcting curvatures of the penis rather than effecting the length of the study participants.

I think it is also important to note that in those studies all participants used the devices under the supervision of trained medical professionals. If you are not familiar with the limitations of the body these devices could cause permanent damage. And that is really the opposite of what users of these devices are after. I do employ that if you are looking into these devices, please don’t read information from any sites who are directly representing an Extender brand. Read the good and the bad, it’s all important. Just because the brand or imaging for the Extender includes “DR” or “Medical” does not make it safer to use.

Penis Extender Price Range

These devices are not cheap, and not something to be purchased on a whim. It is very important that if you are a potential buyer that you do your research, come in to an Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centre and don’t be afraid to ask questions. We carry a number of different options from $150-$400. From the outside these products will look the same. They all use the same general assembly and are attached to the penis in the same general manner. However the biggest difference you will notice is the maximum measurement of traction force that can be applied. Now of course you don’t start at the highest traction. But if it’s a device you intend to use to its fullest potential, the lower price point devices will only get you so far.

Other Methods To Increase Your Penis Size

If after reading this and hopefully many articles and reviews you have decided that these devices are outside of your comfort zone, perhaps you can try the method that inspired these devices. It’s called Jelqing! I know what? Jelqing is considered the original penis extension method that involves warm water and your hand. Seems simple but there’s more to it than just that. I won’t go into it now, but something for you to look into if you’re interested. There are also various other methods to increase your penis size.

 

About the author: Patrick Kriz  BA (Hon) Psychology Human Sexuality

 

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To Douche Or Not To Douche?

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A topic maybe not frequently spoken about might be a little embarrassing for some, but it’s certainly searched through the inter webs a lot. Countless upon countless blogs and articles outlining the do’s and the dont’s when it comes to anal douching. With anal douching just like everything else there are risks both ways. If you don’t douche… well those risk are clearer. If you do decide to douche, how and with what are very important. The following is simply some facts about the biological effects that can occur from douching vs not for you to mull over, the decision is ultimately yours to make as you see fit. I am not a medical professional simply a Human Sexuality and Psychology Graduate.

What is Douching?

It might be best for me to start off by explaining for anyone who isn’t familiar, what douching is. Douching is a cleaning aid system that involves passing water through the anus into the rectum and lower bowels or colon. This part of the body is where our digestive waste collects before disposal. The process of douching can be done in several ways from bulbs to attachments for your everyday household taps and showers. You can find these at any of our Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centre or online at the Adultsmart store.

Anal Sex And Sexually Transmitted Infections

It is already common knowledge that with anal sex comes a higher risk of STI infection including a higher risk of HIV, and that this is due to the lining of the intestines/bowels to be so thin and therefore it is very fragile, this is why having safe sex is important. What might not be as commonly known is that sphincter or anus acts as a sort of warning barrier in terms of the cluster of nerves that it contains and the design of the muscles. The muscles face outwards to align with the peristalsis or digestive direction i.e. bowel movements. Just entering the anus goes against its physiology so care must be taken. The anus is also full of pain receptors like the skin only in more numbers, they are there specifically there to warn the body of any “aggressive intruder” if you will. These pain receptors have to be gently enticed to relax. Now one might think the solution would be to go slow and use lube? Only it’s not that simple, these specifically placed pain receptors are only located in the first 5cm of the asshole itself, meaning any bump, scratch or tear could go unnoticed causing serious damage and possible infection. But we’re not talking about anal sex, the process of douching can easily have damaging effects.

 

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Does Water Impact The Linings Of The Bowel?

One of the biggest concerns with douching is that by adding water to the bowels you can damage the fragile lining which of course is true. This fragile lining is designed to absorb water, but when it absorbs water in access it increases blood flow to the heart which carries many of its own dangerous risks. When the lining itself is damaged or waterlogged this leads to higher chance of infections.  Inserting the nozzle of the douching device brings a high risk of cutting or tearing the lining, which we have already stated brings high risk of infection. These are all true and bring high risks, which is why taking due care when douching is so important. A common topic that often gets brought up in the debate that is “Douching” is that overuse or frequent use will interfere with your natural workings, and that you could end up dependent on stool softeners and laxatives. There just haven’t been any long term studies actually looking at in depth the effects of frequent anal douching that can conclusively support this.

Why Do People Use Douches?

Now after discussing all the terrible things that can occur from damaging one of the most fragile parts of the body, you might be asking yourself why? Why put yourself at that kind of risk? It’s obvious to anyone reading this you already know the pleasures of anal play, or have been enticed enough to begin your research. You obviously want to experience the pleasures that come with anal interaction and want to be safe about it. So again ask to douche or not? Scat play or sex that involves poo is a fetish “Coprophilia”, is it right for you?

It is important to know that any interaction with fecal matter or poo brings a risk of bacterial infection. Unprotected penetration can cause severe UTI’s in men when fecal matter enters the urethra, Hepatitis A and E are also commonly found in feces, so oral or rimming an area containing feces is also very risky. There are also numerous GI (Gastrointestinal) diseases carried out of the body in this waste, such as Salmonella. The list and the symptoms are endless and none of them seem enjoyable and many can be fatal if not treated.

Conclusion

With all the above information and any other sources you find, it’s time for you to assess your comfort level with fecal matter or “poo” before deciding if douching is right for you. You might be one of those people who has regular bowel movement. When I say regular I mean regular on time and regular of a solid consistency that leaves you feeling completely evacuated. If you are, well la di da aren’t you special! Jokes, if you are you might be confident enough to know your schedule and be able to get away with a quick shower and a thorough cleaning between the cheeks and maybe a quick insert of the finger and you’re ready for insertion. There’s always the small small chance of something left behind. To quote the phrase “Shit happens” it’s true, when playing in this region it’s bound to happen. So how do you feel about that?

I have presented you with many but certainly not all of the biological risks involved with douching or not, the decision is yours!

 

About the author: KrizPatrick BA(Hon) Psychology Human Sexuality at Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

 

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3 Things People Fear About Anal Sex

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There’s a lot of fear when it comes to anal play and yet, there’s still much curiosity about it. I was reminded of this idea when a young straight lad came into one of the stores this evening and asked a few questions regarding anal – despite the fear there’s still an abundance of curiosity regarding this type of play. More so, as we slowly move beyond the idea that sex is purely for reproduction and instead focus on the more sex positive attitude that sex is for pleasure as well.  This article is about breaking down the fear of anal play and we will do that by first acknowledging those fears, stripping them back and then talking about the ways to engage in anal play in a safe and comfortable way.

Anal Sex’s Ick Factor

There’s the whole shit on the dick thing. We’ve all heard the story about that one time when so and so’s friend had that awful experience when it came to that one night. This fear is fairly common, and it stems from our upbringing. The studies have shown that when a small impressionable child starts curiously playing with their genitals, and they’re told that that’s a dirty thing to do – then obviously they associate that feeling with their genitals. Some people grow out of it, some do not, and as a result whether we acknowledge it or not, our relationship with sex, sexuality and our bodies stems largely from our upbringing and the way those around us deal with issues of sex.  Our relationship with anal is largely because many individuals associate it with part of the human waste system. It’s an out not an in, is a common phrase which reinforces this idea. Let’s debunk this. Unless the body is just about to pass waste, or has recently done so – then there is actually very little chance of the dreaded shit on the dick factor. The anal cavity actually has a very thorough self-cleaning system which works really well. Yes, there are some risks if you’re playing rough, or you’re dealing with long toys or dicks, but in general the risk is actually quite small. The more you know!

Anal Sex’s Gay Factor

Butt sex, ass play, has long been considered the domain of gay men. There are countless ‘help me’ articles in magazines from concerned girlfriends who are worried that they’re beautiful boy is suddenly about to turn into a drag queen because he likes a bit of finger action. I’m not too sure where this one started, but anal play is not the domain of gay men. What might even surprise you, is that there are a lot of gay men in the world that don’t enjoy anal sex.  In an article by the Journal of sexual health and medicine, a study involving 25,000 gay and bisexual identifying men, stated that over 75% of participants responded with that their most recent sexual encounter involved the receiving or giving of oral sex. Contrast that with 36% of participants responding with their most recent sexual encounter involving anal play. In fact, mutual masturbation, kissing, genital and genital contact is a far more frequent occurrence among gay men.This is actually an issue which is fading over time. As people are becoming more in tune with their bodies, more comfortable in their sexuality and their openness about sex and sexuality – the stigma about anal play is slowly being broken down. Considering that prostate play is some of the most intense orgasmic experiences that a male can feel and massaging the prostate has benefits – then there’s a lot of people missing out on great sex because they think it’s a bit gay. The thing is, that anal play is not synonymous with a sexuality.

Anal Sex’s Ouch Factor

Anal sex can hurt. In saying that, there’s usually a few very select reasons as to why it hurts. One of the main reasons as to why it hurts, is because you think it’s going to hurt.  Consider the first time that you had sex, the awkwardness of it, the way it hurt a little and the way that it might have been over in just a few minutes. Very few first times are awesome, and what happens is they might have a bad experience which tarnishes any future experiences towards anal play. What we generally find, especially with younger partners, is they might rush through anal play for the first time, and this in turn can cause discomfort. Anal sex is not like other variation of penetrative sex. It requires patience, lubricant, and a recognition that the body might take time to adjust. There’s a myriad of different factors that need to be considered, but the main one that’s often ignored – is the fear. The anxiety. Which in turn affects the body’s ability to relax and you’ll tense up and it will hurt.

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Tips for Anal Sex

Anal sex is not necessary. You’re not obligated to add it to your sexual to do list, and quite frankly, the best way to have anal sex is to want it. When you want it, when you’re curious, when you’re relaxed and able to enjoy it is the best time to have anal sex. And, if I’m being honest, when you’re horny as all hell.  This combination of things is going to make anal play so much easier.  Once you’re used to it, you’ll find it much easier to add to your routine.

Patience. Patience is necessary when it comes to anal play. The muscles are involuntary, therefore it will take time for them to adjust to having something there which is not normally so. Lubricate some, put more lubricant on, and breathe.

If you’re really worried about some mess, then you can use a douche to help prepare. But one following the instructions on a douche you will need to wait about an hour before having sex. Also, don’t use that one hour to travel to your playmates house as the water needs to dry up and could end up on your favourite underwear. Douche, wait half an hour, and then start moving.

Follow these tricks will help you in riding that pole like a pro.

About the author: Stephen is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

 

 

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Complete Guide on Personal Lubricant

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What is lubricant?

Lubricant is a liquid that is used during sexual acts such as intercourse or masturbation to reduce the friction between the penis, vagina, anus and other body parts. It also can be applied to sex toys to again reduce friction and for easier penetration.

Do I need lubricant?

Not everyone needs lubricant. People who may need lubricant are ladies who may suffer from vaginal dryness which can be caused by a number of things such as; medications, menopause and pregnancy just to name a few. Some ladies need lube to help them get started until body functions take place. It makes masturbation easier for both males and females with and without toys.

Can I buy just any lube?

When it comes to buying lube you really need to keep a few things in mind. The first thing you want to do when buying lube is to consider who is using it and if you are using toys etc. You’ll also want to keep an eye out for certain ingredients that may cause more harm than good.

What are those ingredients and what can they do to your body?

  • Glycerin: Glycerin is a sweet sugar substance. It has the potential to create yeast infections and Urinary Tract Infection (UTIs). If you are prone to yeast infections it is best to stay away from any lubes containing glycerin.
  • Nonoxynol-9: Nonoxynol-9 is commonly used in spermicial lubes. The chemical can cause abrasions in the vagina. It can also break down the protective rectal lining in the anus. Both of which can potentially increase the chances of getting AIDs, STDs and skin irritations leading to infections.
  • Petroleum: Petroleum coats skin in oils that block pores.
  • Menthol: Menthol is mainly used in tingling and cooling lubes. It can be drying and dry out the soft tissue in the genital area.
  • Parabens: Parabens are a preserving ingredient that includes methylparaben and propylparaben. Research suggests that parabens are absorbed by the skin and metabolize in the body, partially in the women’s breast and ovaries.
  • L-arginine: L-arginine is mainly used in arousal lubes. It can encourage an oncoming herpes outbreak. If you have herpes avoid lube with this in it.

Types of lubes, the pros and cons

Water-based Lube
  • Pros; easy to find, compatible with most condoms, use with toys, cheap, gentle and soothing, main ingredient is water, won’t stain and is easy to clean.
  • Cons; can be sticky, dries quickly so you’ll need more, not recommenced to use in the shower.
Silicone-based Lube
  • Pros; long lasting and never dries up, compatible with most condoms and non silicone toys,  water friendly, good for dry sensitive skin and can also be used as a body massage oil.
  • Cons; can be costly, hard to wash off and isn’t compatible with silicone toys.
Oil-based Lube
  • Pros; good for masturbation.
  • Cons; hard to wash off, not condom compatible and isn’t good for vaginal sex.
Hybrid Lube
  • Pros; mainly water, long lasting, natural feel like water based, thicker than silicone based lubes and if oil free is condom safe.
  • Cons; no real cons for this one it’s just not as good of a body oil as silicone…

Using lubes with condoms?

Most lubricants are compatible with condoms and dental dams. As long as it is oil free and is also free of petroleum. Using a drop of lube inside the condom can help with a better fit but not too much otherwise the condom will slip off.

Using lubes with toys?

I know I touched on this but I wanted to make  a clear indication of what lubes are safe to use with what toys, if you are unsure of what lubes you can use let this graph help you decide what lubes may be best for you;

 

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Using lubes while pregnant?

As long as your doctor has given you the okay that it’s safe to enjoy sex during pregnancy water based lube is the most safe and recommended. Oil based and warming lubes are also okay to use as long as they don’t irritate you.

About the author: Lauren is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

 

Complete Guide on Deep Throating

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Deep throat, it can make some people nervous and others rise to the challenge and reign victorious. Since the infamous film broke back in 1972, more and more people each year are warming their throats to the idea that they could do this themselves and even go as far to research tactics to tackle the dreaded gag reflex. For the lucky few who don’t have a gag reflex, gifted souls that you are it makes this act very easy but for those of us that gag and are more sensitive, I have compiled some tactics, tips and products that can assist and make the experience fun and pleasurable.

The pharyngeal reflex is a contraction of the throat, usually when an object is pressed or touched against the roof at the back of the throat or the end of the tongue near the tonsils. This reflex is to prevent choking and I find that many people that have hyper-sensitive reflex generally due to a conditioned response brought on by a traumatic experience previous or acute anxiety. For those on the other end of the spectrum, about 1 in 3 people are found to be lacking or not have the response reflex at all.

Historically not much has been mentioned about deep fellatio until the 70s, Deep Throat the film broke in 1972, an American pornographic film dubbed the ‘forefront of the Golden Age of Porn’. Starring Linda Lovelace and Harry Reems as the Doctor with a story line based on a woman born with an unusual birth defect giving her the ability to perform remarkable fellatio, which the Doctor solves with an unorthodox solution.

It was released at a time where the war was being waged by counterculture and sexual liberation was rising up against a belligerent establishment. This film now considered a cult porn classic, set the bar for other film production companies, directors, writers and of course the actors to up their game. Since 1972, we have seen some big names break specialising in the art of deep throat.

New age actors like Ice La Fox, Lacey Duvalle, Sasha  Grey, Belladonna, Sean Cody’s Curtis and the fiery Gianna Michaels (pictured in order below) who’ve gained notoriety and have even won awards for best oral scenes over the years.

 

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I have seen some of these actors in all their glory and have found they all use similar techniques, most will force an object (fingers, toy) to trigger the gag or pharyngeal reflex/spasm to relax the throat and make it easier before performing deep fellatio. This is quite extreme and not advised, but I will say that watching these performers just makes me realise why they have won countless awards throughout the years, their sexual abilities are out of this world! I remember watching Sasha Grey once in a gang bang with about ten men and she went deep one after the other, I was in absolute awe of her abilities… I was well, gobsmacked! Whether this scares you or slightly interests you, there is no denying those that achieve this and more have an outstanding ability.

There are products that we at Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres do stock to assist those with difficulty in performing deep throat/ fellatio but have that desire to go deep and explore. These product are compact and discreet sprays and creams for those that want to venture deeper into extreme sexual activity and oral foreplay. Sprays will generally have an anesthetic agent to numb the area topically to make it easier to go deep, creams work as lubrication or a coating agent in delightful flavours to accommodate those who may have resistance or allergies to anesthetics or alcohol which are used in sprays.

GoodHead Deep Throat Spray by Doc Johnson

59ml/ 2 fl.oz spray bottle, containing anesthetic to ease the throat. This product is available in four flavours – Mystical Mint, Sexy Cinnamon, Sweet Strawberry and Wild Cherry.

 

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SUCK IT Deep Throat Spray by Master Series

Suck It spray contains active ingredient Benzocaine anesthetic to ease the throat for deeper pleasure. Available in cooling mint flavour, instructions indicate to wait 5 minutes for this product to take full effect.

 

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Sensuva Deeply Love You Throat Relaxer

A more natural alternative, this product doesn’t indicate any anesthetics however it does contain alcohol to assist in relaxing the throat and making it easier to go that extra mile. Available in Cinnamon Roll, Butter Rum, Chocolate Coconut, Chocolate Mint and Salted Caramel.

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Sensuva Lic-olicious Throat Coating Oral Delight Cream

A lusciously thick oral cream containing natural oils and silicone to help it all go down. These creams don’t contain anesthetic however still very effective! This cream can be used all over the body, nipples, neck and genitals. Not advised as a vaginal lubricant though but still worth every penny! Available in delicious flavours – Cotton Candy, Watermelon, Cinnabun, Blueberry Muffin, Salted Caramel and Mocha Cappuccino.

 

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Practice always makes perfect when it comes to a difficult task, especially hardcore foreplay like deep throating. Remember to always take your time, relax and enjoy, learn from the professionals and grab yourself a little something to help it go down!

 

About the author: Bree is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

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