My Daily Dose Of Electro Sex

Electro Sex Toy By Eymalis

Electro stimulation is not something you can just jump into with no research or experience. Something I personally would never have thought of before I decided to try electrosex or Estim toys but after some serious research into the Eymalis Le’Courtisan Vibrator I have discovered a whole new world and a whole new perspective on electro stimulation sex toys. There are some serious things to consider before you try it yourself.

The Many Ways To Use The Electro Stimulating Eymalis Le’Courtisan Vibrator

So what is electro stimulation and how do we use it? What do we use it for? And does it really feel good?

“Erotic electrostimulation (abbreviated e-stim and also known as electrosex) is a sexual practice involving the application of electrical stimulation to the nerves of the body, with particular emphasis on the genitals, using a power source (such as a TENS, EMS, Violet wand, or made-for-play units) for purposes of sexual stimulation. Electrostimulation has been associated with BDSM activities, and erotic electrostimulation is an evolution of that practice.” ~ Erotic Electrostimulation, Wikipedia

The use of electricity for entertainment and sexual arousal has been around for hundreds of years and at this rate has no signs of slowing down. People are intrigued and those who have experienced electro stimulation say they will never find pleasure like it with anything else. So how do we use it? There are endless ways to use electro stimulation as the sex industry has quickly adapted to world of electrosex and they can provide anything from electro stim vibrators, cock rings or even chastity belts. But if you are new and looking to find a way into this world of electrosex but you’re not quite ready to jump into the chastity belt, start small and start with the Electro Stimulating Eymalis Le’Courtisan Vibrator. Not only is it an electro stimulating vibrator but the versatility of this toy is remarkable.

Multi-purpose

  1. Use it as a vibrator. Yes although it is a Estim vibrator it can be used without the electrical side, it has been designed it be used as an internal vibrator for the anus and vagina
  2. Use as an electro stimulating dildo or switch on the vibration for a mix of both. It is important to note that when using the electro stimulation setting you insert the vibrator into the vagina/anus before you ignite the electro setting and turn off the setting before you remove the vibrator.
  3. Use to strengthen the pelvic floor muscles. As the Eymalis Le’Courtisan Vibrator is designed to deliver mild electrical waves that stimulate the muscles in the vagina or anus, what better way to use this vibrator to your advantage by kicking your pelvic floor muscles up a notch or two.

*Electro stimulation sessions are limited to 15 minutes per use so the muscles do not tire.

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Lubrication And Electro Stimulating Vibrators

When it comes to using a lubricant or Electro stimulating gel with the Eymalis Le’Courtisan Vibrator you must be aware of what you are using and how it will affect the toy. It is recommended that you use a gel soluble in water, sterile, greaseless, transparent and non-irritating lube; I would even go as far to suggest staying away from edible, flavoured or highly scented lubricants. It is not recommended to use Vaseline or any type of fat based.

*Be sure not to get lubricant in the battery compartment as this will cause damage.

Staying Safe When Using Electro Stimulating Vibrators

With electro stimulators of any sort a few more warnings and care instructions do ensure. For example:

  • Keep out of reach of children (especially when it comes to any kind of electrical current this is more important than ever if you have this vibrator at home).
  • It is not to come into contact with any piercings you or your partner might have.
  • It may not come into contact with an IUD a type of contraception placed inside a woman’s vagina.
  • Be extremely careful not to let the vibrator come into contact with water or soak in any liquids e.g. Lube.
  • Do not insert the massager in its entirety into the vagina.
  • When cleaning, ensure you remove the batteries before any cleaning or washing.
  • Remove batteries when not using the toy.
  • When disposing of the intimate love toy it is important that you do not just throw it away in household waste bins or set it alight, it must be recycled responsibly as any other electrical appliance.

Do Not Use If

  • If you are pregnant.
  • If you wear a pacemaker or any kind of medical equipment that uses electrical current.
  • If you have a bladder or vaginal infection.
  • When you are menstruating.
  • Or if you have any serious or treatable genital conditions or ongoing medical issues.

*It is so important that when you are using any kind of electro stimulating sex toys or other that you read the instructions and warnings carefully because if something was to go wrong it could be devastating.

Something To Consider

Although there are a lot of warnings and cautions to consider when using any kind of electro stimulation, the benefits are far worth it. Not only is estim a great way to explore something totally different but it can benefit your body and mind by letting you reach more intense stimulation and orgasm. The Eymalis Le’Courtisan Vibrator is a fantastic mix of a sleek comfortable vibrator and mild electrical waves that stimulate the nerve endings in the vagina or anus to increase arousal and sensation. It is easily controlled through four buttons located on the base of the toy, indicating vibration mode, electro mode and the increase and decrease buttons. Over all it has 9 settings of intensity through 2 modes allowing you to easily start slowly and increase as required. The sleek design makes for a beautiful piece of equipment with the electrodes plated with 24 carat gold ensuring a perfect conductivity and low risk of allergic reaction.

Overall the Eymalis Le’Courtisan Vibrator has proven to be a gentle stepping stone into the world of electrosex. Although there is a lot to think about before you decide to try electro stimulation including if you qualify under the health warnings, it is something completely out of the comfort zone and it could change your bedroom preferences or it might just be a one off trial but either way I encourage anyone to give it a go. It is shockingly delightful. For more information read our complete guide on electro-stimulation.

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Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!

Top 6 Nipple Clamp Styles

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Ouch! Might be the first thought you have when you hear the words, nipple and clamp in the same sentence but let me assure you that nipple clamps can bring a whole new level of fun to your sex life and a great addition to any BDSM activity especially if you understand how men and women really feel about nipple play.

Nipple clamps come in sooo many different styles and variations, magnetised clamps held together purely by magnetic force, some that electrify and some that vibrate, some styles joined by chains, attached to collars, some free standing some with decorations, weights, and even jingle bells. Some improvised household items like clothes pegs and chop sticks are popular DIY clamp options. So whether you’re new to clamps of a seasoned veteran there is an Ouch! clamp for you, so here are some styles of clamps from Ouch! A fantastic range of clamps, with lots of choices, they are available here at Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres and on our online store Adultsmart.

Adjustable – Alligator Style

These Ouch! Adjustable Clamps are the perfect place to start if you’ve never used clamps before, they are easy to use and adjust with the little screw on the side that you just twist and adjust to as tight or loose as you’d like, they are also quick release unlike some of the other adjustable clamps out there, they are just a pinch away from coming off.

This style is also great for beginners because they have that traditional nipple clamp look your partner should hopefully know what’s up just by looking at them, so they are less intimidating this way.

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Sex Toy: Ouch! Adjustable Nipple Clamps

Pincette – Tweezer Style

The tweezer style clamp Pincette is another easy to use style of clamp but a little fiddlier in my opinion than the alligator styles, the tweezer style is preferable if you enjoy how these look, they are long and slender and very nice to look at. To use this style of clamp you move the little rubber stopper up the tweezers to tighten their grip on the nipple. They are adjustable and include the rubber tips on the end for a less intense style of clamp.

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Sex Toy: Ouch! Pincette Nipple Clamps

Vice – Barrel Style

Barrel style clamps like the Vice clamps are easy to adjust, all you do is twist the barrel to release the pressure the clamps have on the nipple, these are great for the extra weight the barrel part adds to the clamp without technically being weighted clamps and they also look great!

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Sex Toy: Ouch! Vice Nipple Clamps

Helix – Mandible Style

The Ouch! Helix clamps look amazing and a little complex but don’t let their looks put you off, they are easy to adjust at their base with a twisting motion, these style of clamps are something to go for if you’d like something a little more advanced than the standard alligator style. They are deceptively intimidating to look at but not as harsh as they look (because they are still adjustable, unlike the very similar looking clover style nipple clamp, which is considered to be the harshest of them all).

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Sex Toy: Ouch! Helix Nipple Clamps

​Pinch – Clip Style

Now if you’re after something with some bite, something on the harsher end of the scale, try the Pinch clamps, they are not adjustable and therefore clamp super tight. Not for the faint of nipple.

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Sex Toy: Ouch! Pinch Nipple Clamps

Pincers – Non-Adjustable Alligator Style

Shaped just like the Adjustable alligator style clamps these are the extreme version, with no way to adjust them just like the Pinch clamp you’re feeling the full force of its clamping ability.

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All of the Ouch! clamps and chains are made of stainless steel and aluminum and are completely nickel-free for those with allergies.

Before you rush out and buy your very own Ouch! clamps please read these safety tips about using them:

If it’s your first time using clamps try using them in 5-10 minute intervals and no matter how many times you’ve used clamps please never leave them on for longer than 20 minutes this will cut off circulation and can cause permanent nerve damage to the nipple.

Remember the most painful part about using nipple clamps is when you take them off, so be aware of this and careful when using them on yourself or on a partner.

Read the complete guide on nipple stimulation on our blog for some fun tips and tricks.

About the author: Erin is a consultant at Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

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Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!

Learn How To Electrify Your Clitoris!

ElectraStim Halo Box With Image

Walking into work after a few days off is always exciting here at Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres, there’s bound to be something new on the shelves and I usually can’t wait to seek them out! I didn’t have to look far today, with a whole new wall of e-stim devices to have a look at, I went right over to start investigating everything electro play just happens to be one of my favourite activities so seeing all new dildos, probes and plugs I was super impressed there was also an e-stim paddle, nipple clamps, restraints, Kegel balls and even a masturbator so there really is something for everyone here.

What really caught my eye was the Halo, the Halo is an electro-sex clitoral probe, the sadist in me delighted at the thought of using this on a partner and the masochist part of me was super intrigued as to how this would feel on myself.

​First, Let Me Explain What E-stim Is!

Well, erotic electrostimulation or e-stim is a form of stimulation using electric shocks and pulses on different parts of the body including nipples, genitals and internally, vaginally or anally. Like many toys and devices used in the kink community, electro stimulation stems from medical practices dating back to the 1800’s and even further back to the 1700’s for entertainment purposes. Electro devices have been advertised as cures for impotence, devices for passive exercising and even hair growth. Medically e-stim devices are still used today such as using them as strengthening and training tools for athletes and as part of physiotherapy as a repair tool for injured muscles. Of course devices like violet wands and tens units were appropriated by the kink community for our own sadomasochist fantasies and from that, items like the ElectraStim Halo were born.

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Sex Toy: ElectraStim Halo

About Halo, The ElectraStim Clitoral Probe

Halo, the ElectraStim clitoral probe is made of marine grade aluminium and acrylic with is bonded with aircraft strength adhesive, it is a high quality smooth polished metal finish with 2 insulating finger grip rings made of body safe and phthalate free materials.

The shape is designed to make sure you can get both pin point stimulation from the tip of the tapered probe to evenly applied stimulation from its flatter cylindrical shape, the dimensions of the Halo are 4cm (1.6″) in diameter, 3.5cm (1.3″) in length making it a great size for both pin point and wide coverage use and a comfortable weight at 1.15kgs. You can use the Halo on its own by connecting the ElectraStim Electro stimulator (sold separately) or alongside another e-stim toy by connecting it to the ElectraStim Duo Stimulator (sold separately), the Duo Simulator allowing you to power 2 e-stim devices simultaneously such as the ElectraClamps or a dildo or probe from the ElectraStim range, for simultaneous internal and external stimulation.

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ElectraStim is a range of electro stimulation products from Cyrex, Cyrex was founded in 2001 their founder having a background in neuromuscular stimulation meaning they know their stuff! In 2014 they won the award for Best Specialist Products Distributor at the ETO Show awards and continue to strive for an industry best standard including attention to detail in the safety aspect of their products especially.

Who Should Be Using E-stim Products?

Anyone interested in opening themselves up to a unique erotic experience that can enhance your sex life and solo play like nothing else.

You Should Not Be Using E-stim Products If…

  • You are pregnant.
  • You are menstruating (internal electrodes only).
  • You have epilepsy.
  • You have any sort of heart condition.
  • You are in ill health.
  • You are suffering from any sort of penile or vaginal disorder.

If you would like to find out more information, read our complete guide to electro-stimulation play and safety. I literally cannot wait to buy my own Halo and with a 12-month warranty you’ve got nothing to lose so why not try something new, you may be ~shocked~ by how much you love it.

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Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!

Risk Aware Consensual Kink

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In the world of BDSM and kink there is a well-known phrase ‘Safe Sane Consensual’ or ‘SSC’. This term has been the most popular and well-known “rule” that all good kinksters follow. It has been “the” rule of thumb for a while but now there’s RACK. RACK is a newer acronym standing for Risk Aware Consensual Kink, and it also just happens to be a great pun. Now, why not both, why is one better than the other? Here I will compare RACK and SSC to give you a better idea of the difference.

SSC, Safe Sane and Consensual, sounds great right? Let’s break it down.

Safe

What is safe? Nothing we do as kinksters is truly safe really, there are huge risks to both our physical and psychological well-being involved in BDSM and other fetish and kink activities. We can obviously make attempts at safety but at the end of the day there is risk involved, yet safe implies no risk.

Sane

Kinksters, just like the rest of society, are holistic human beings and this includes mental illness, making the word sane here potentially offensive and exclusionary. Should someone with a mental illness not be allowed to make the executive decision to involve themselves in kink? Many kinksters I know use BDSM as a form of self-care and therapy, nothing soothes them more than being bound and tied or having a good session on a St Andrews cross to relax after a hard week of work. I assume this was meant to imply that everyone involved in the kinky activities was not doing it from a place of rage or an abusive mindset, unfortunately, abuse is still common in the world of kink as it is possible in any interpersonal relationship, but it is the wrong choice of word. Not everyone with a mental illness is abusive and not everyone who is abusive has a mental illness. In short, having sane as part of our community’s unofficial rule for kink is ableist.

Consensual

Consent: there’s no kink without it. It’s the main thing that separates the wonderful world of kink from abuse. We love consent in all its forms and it’s something that doesn’t happen just once, it’s constant and something to routinely check in on. Consent absolutely belongs in this acronym and is the only part of SSC I agree with wholeheartedly. Consent has to be freely given by a person of legally consenting age.

On a surface level, SSC sounds good, but let’s look at RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) and why it’s – in my opinion – better.

 

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Risk Aware

Risk aware more accurately describes what we do, and also ties into consent, everyone involved in a BDSM or a kinky activity should be well aware of what they’re getting themselves into. For example, rope bunnies and riggers alike should be aware of the risks in rigging and rope play, as you can permanently damage someone’s nerves with the wrong knot, dislocate something, or there’s the potential risk of being dropped.

The more risk aware you are, the more educated on the activity, and that is what BDSM and kink should be about. Being aware of the risk also includes the risk to your mental health – sub drop and Dom/me drop is a thing and should be taken seriously. Also, the risk that the person you are playing with is potentially an abusive person. Being risk aware means being vigilant about who you choose to engage in play with, it can mean asking around for references and learning to trust your gut.

Consensual Kink

Consensual kink replaces both the Sane and Consensual parts of SSC. Someone with mental illness doesn’t have to be “sane” (which is a loaded word anyway), to participate in what they want to. If anyone, mentally ill or otherwise, is lucid and can consent – meaning a sober and INFORMED* – then they have just as much right as anyone else to be involved.

Consent can be revoked at any time. This goes for kink, general romantic and sexual activities. Consent is something that should be checked before, during and after play. If someone feels their consent was violated it’s something that needs to be discussed. In the world of kink we have ‘safe words’ and having a safe word (and in some cases a hand signal, noise, or nonverbal cue) is a big important part of consensual kink.

Consent can be formal, like in some D/s (Dominant/submissive) relationships people will write up a contract of everything they are agreeing to, but it should never end there. Consent should be given before, during and after and this doesn’t have to be formal, it can be fun, sexy and part of the experience. A simple “harder?”, “softer?”, or “do you like that?” are examples of refreshing consent in the middle of an activity. Consent is never because you feel pressured or obligated, even in kink and D/s you don’t owe anyone anything.

* Someone cannot consent to something unless you have explicitly laid it out for them. Kink is all about truthful communication. Details are mandatory.

I hope now you can make an informed decision on which suits you, SSC vs RACK or even something else, it’s really up to you. At the end of the day all that matters is that you are informed and consenting/have consent but also that you are enjoying yourself and getting what you need and want from the experience. You will need to take note of the risks of BDSM Play and be aware of the steps needed to stay safe during couples sex.

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Sexpert is our resident full time sex blogger. Having successfully owned and managed a number of blogs relating to women’s lifestyle, she easily blended into her role as chief blogger of the Adultsmart Blog. She is in a long term relationship with her boyfriend. She also runs Good Girl Guide, a sexual lifestyle blog.

Control Your Sex Slave With A Leash

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XR Brands brings us this chain leash from their Tom of Finland series, XR Brands are the people who bring us some amazing lines that you may have heard of including; Master Series, CleanStream, STRICT, Strict Leather, Prostatic Play and of course Tom of Finland, all six of these lines being available here at Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres or on Adultsmart our online store.

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Image: Tom Of Finland Banner

About Tom Of Finland

Touko Valio Laaksonen, a Finnish artist known for his stylized highly masculinized homoerotic fetish art, and better known by his pseudonym Tom of Finland produced over 3500 illustrations in his 71 years of life, mostly all of them featuring men wearing tight clothing, fetish gear or little to no clothing at all with exaggerated sexual features.

Touko Valio Laaksonen Photo
Photo: Touko Valio Laaksonen

He has been called the “most influential creator of gay pornographic images” by cultural historian Joseph W. Slade and has had a big impact on gay culture throughout the 20th century and continues to, to this day with the Tom of Finland Foundation and his artwork still inspiring, turning on, reassuring and unifying its viewers.

“Tom of Finland is one of the five most influential artists of the twentieth century. As an artist he was superb, as an influence he was transcendent.”- Harvey S. Shipley Mille

Obviously the Tom of Finland series has a lot to live up to, luckily XR brands have created some wonderful and quality items in their Tom of Finland range including collars, leads, restraints, clamps, insertables and more.

Tom Of Finland Leash Packaging

The Tom of Finland Leash comes in wonderful packaging featuring Touko Valio Laaksonen’s artwork on the box that is metallic and reflective in places, it is so nice you may have the urge to preserve the packing itself like I considered doing but to my delight I discovered that inside as a bonus each product in the Tom of Finland range includes a collectable, exclusive art print with a portion of proceeds going to the Tom of Finland Foundation, dedicated to protecting, preserving, and promoting erotic art.

Tom Of Finland Leash Design

Now for what’s inside the box! The leash is a lovely gun metal grey colour of the chain is beautiful and different to other leashes I’ve seen out there that tend to just come in either black or silver metal, I adore this colour and it really set this leash apart looking incredibly stylish with the black neoprene hand strap that is soft yet sturdily made, there is a silver metal look plastic plate on the handle embossed with the Tom of Finland logo.

 

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Sex Toy: Tom of Finland Leash Material

Neoprene is a synthetic rubber that resists degradation more than natural or other synthetic rubbers and is easy to clean if the need arises just use a warm wet cloth to wipe down the surface of the leash and its handle with water only as neoprene is sensitive to household chemicals and urine, so if golden showers are your thing be careful to not be wearing any of the neoprene range when participating in those activities. Neoprene is also vegan-friendly making the entire Tom of Finland matching collar, leash, ankle and wrist cuff set the perfect choice for those who wish to avoid purchasing or using animal products or if you simply do not like leather or silicone it is a good alternative.

The Tom of Finland gun metal chain leash is 42 inches (106.68cm) in total length, the chain without handle being 30 inches (76.2cm) this is a good length in my opinion for a leash intended for human use, when using my leash I’ve never thought it was too long which can be a pain having excess chain in the way or too short which can cause unwanted tugging on the person who has it attached to their collar being led around.

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My Final Thoughts

This leash is an excellent addition to anyone into or considering collar and leash play, stylish, high quality and with a rich history behind it, you will feel confident and in charge with its bold dark metallic grey glinting as you show off your submissive or as you’re being shown off. Using the Tom Of Finland Leash is an incredible way to introduce dominance and submission into your sexual lifestyle.

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Jennifer works marketing at Adultsmart an online sex toy shop. She has a non-judgemental approach to sex, sex toys and sexuality. Her favorite saying is if it feels good and right and is not illegal then why not!
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