P-Spot Beyond Pleasure!

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I don’t need to explain to the homosexual readers of this blog the pleasures that come from the prostates involvement in your sexual activities. This article is for the hetero-curious men and couples out there reading. It is about opening up to find pleasure and equality through the prostate.

From the beginning of our sexual explorations and curiosities we learn from what we see, and as the prostate is unseen it is rarely spoken about. Not to mention the “Taboo” associated with anal play. The stigma that men who participate in anal play must be gay.. is too long outdated and is in serious need of a new outlook. The act of a man participating in a prostate orgasm allows for a man to step outside of the societal gender roles and hand the power over to his female partner. Too rarely does a man ever get to experience the receptive part or sex, all too often they take the common role of “Pitching” and leave the “Catching” or receptive aspect of sex to their female partners. This ideology is what I believe to be a huge factor in why the notion of gender roles are as they are currently.

A mutual knowledge of the vulnerability/ the expected role of a woman starts from experiencing two sides of the same coin. In this particular topic, penetration is the coin. For a man who has never experienced penetration on himself, he might intellectually understand the need for the “warm-up” before penetration, however, nothing can demonstrate its importance as well as experiencing it first hand. There’s always a clearer perspective that comes from personal experience.

What Is A Prostate You Ask?

The prostate is a small gland made up of mostly muscle tissue that sits around the base of the bladder. Its main function is to secrete fluids that are mixed with the Semen from the Vas Deference during orgasm. This is the most important piece of information for this article. A man’s prostate is most active at the moment leading to orgasm when pressure is added to the already pulsing Prostate gland creates an even more powerful ejaculate which heightens the feeling of orgasm. This reason alone should be enough to intrigue any man!

Through prostate orgasm, a man is able to reach multiple orgasms… Yes, I said it! A man can have multiple orgasms too! It is not just for the ladies.

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Benefits Beyond Pleasure

When you engage the prostate with massage/added pressure, as I previously said allows for larger ejaculation orgasms. This helps to empty and refresh the prostate. It also encourages blood flow to the pelvic area, this helps to fight impotence. Yes playing with this little gland can help ensure you have healthy erections well into agedness. There is also a ton of research being done currently as to how having a regularly refreshed prostate lowers the potential risk of prostate cancer found so commonly in men.There are many other benefits of prostate massage.

How To Engage In Prostate Stimulation?

The prostate can be stimulated by adding pressure to the anatomy of the perineum (the space between the testicles and the anus. However direct contact from inside is always more intimate with greater effects. The prostate can be reached by inserting one finger into the anus approximately 1.5-2 inches tip of the finger pointing to the naval and rolling your finger in a come hither motion. You should feel a Squishy marble as you do this, that’s the prostate. Very easy to find. Keep in mind the skin around the anal opening is very sensitive and can tear very easily. EXTRA Lube is necessary. Start with a warm up; caress the outside of the anus (the anus has as many nerve ending as any other erogenous zone). Try stroking the penis, as the penis gets erect the blood flow around the prostate will also increase created a heightened pleasure sense.

Effects On The Relationship

For hetero-normative couples, it is understandable how “flipping” the roles could potentially have some uncharted territory. But that’s no reason to avoid or judge something. Especially something that has so much potential. Communication is key! You are in this together! Sex is more than just procreation. Sex is also about pleasure and as discussed has countless health benefits. What this will allow or aid in with couples in establishing compassion, empathy and understanding towards each other. It may not eliminate gender based unfairness or sexism, it does have the ability to open equal understanding and dialogue.

If you’re open enough to try a new world of pleasure, just remember to relax, have fun. It’s VERY NORMAL. Millions of men and women worldwide have already found the amazing pleasure to be had from this great pleasure zone. Everyone should want to be on the same page as their partner

About the author: KrizPatrick BA(Hon) Psychology Human Sexuality

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Check Out The Love Gloves!

Condoms to Prevent STI

The “Condom” or whatever you want to call it, it goes by many names. A Rubber, Naughty Bag, English Riding Coat, Love Glove, Private Johnston’s Rain Jacket, and Insurance Glove you get the idea. Whatever you may call it, the Condom has its fans and its hatters. And both sides bring equally valid arguments to the debate, everything from poor fit to sensation loss. Let’s take a closer look at some of these; like most things I talk about, the choice is yours to make. You must be responsible for your own body, know your facts and know yourself.

The following are some of the most common reasons people use in the Great Condom Debate!

They don’t fit!

This might be the most common excuse given when a guy refuses to use condoms. While this is a very valid argument with as many as 40% of men laying claim to this. The condom design we have today has not changed since 1903 when they began using rubber condoms instead of “skin” (made from Sheep intestine) condoms. It wasn’t until the 1920’s when Latex was invented that having a liquid that could be moulded to form and then mass produced eliminated many of the size issues.

Still, 10% of men still claim that condoms are too tight another, 17% claim they are too loose, while 60% claim the condom bunches up (This increases the chance of the whole condom sliding off during intercourse). Lastly, 15% of men claim to experience “Foreskin Drag” (When the condom gets pulled into the foreskin). These are all valid and true excuses, but to be honest…

This, my friends, this is just a lazy shopper! If you gave up that easy because you bought a few general condoms at the local shops, and either you didn’t know how to put the condom on or by chance the condom really didn’t fit, might just be saying what a careless lover you are?

There are over 15 size variations from different condom makers globally. From length to width, whatever the issue, there is a condom fit for you! (If you want more information about fitting condoms, let me know in the comments.)

They are no fun!

Saying condoms are no fun, is like saying variety is bland… It can’t be argued that some of the sensation is lost when using a condom specifically for the male and that the sensation of slippery skin to skin feeling might not be the same, these condoms are the only thing keeping your risk of infection at almost 0.

Condoms these days are more than just an attempt at contraceptive. Condoms can give your mind ease regarding STI’s and pregnancy, but they can also add so many levels of pleasure and fun to your intimate sessions. Condoms come textured for both his and her pleasure, ribbing on the inside and the outside! Condoms today come in countless flavours, and everyone has had those days where you just weren’t into your partners… let’s say natural flavour.

I just don’t see where the lack of fun is?

 

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It’s just an extra cost!

Excuse me? The last global census puts condoms in the lowest bracket of consumer goods. Globally condoms cost on average $1. $1! The average single dose of Gonorrhoea medication is $17. If you’re not familiar with the symptoms of Gonorrhoea, dig a little deeper because that $1 condom might not seem so bad. The average cost of having a baby is $9,700. Again another cost that can be avoided with an “extra” cost of $1.

To top this off condoms are given away at all clinics and health care facilities if you don’t see any just ask!

I’m on Contraceptive!

The benefits of hormonal contraceptive have been proven to help with more than preventing pregnancies, the one thing it still cannot do is fight off those nasty infections that are so easily passed through bodily fluids. A contraceptive is great for controlling and effecting hormone systems. No product on the market has the ability to prevent or fight against Sexually Transmitted Infections. The list of these possible infections is ever growing, new strains of previously known STI’s are adapting and even becoming medication resistant. If you experience any symptoms of an STI, find your local general practitioner through Health Engine and book in for a sexual health examination .

Only “Heteros” need them!

It is very clear that Heterosexual relationships can lead to pregnancy, while Homosexual relationships don’t, but as previously discussed pregnancy shouldn’t be your only concern. For anyone participating in anal sex, it is very important to remember that the inner lining of the anus or bowels is much more permeable. This means that its chance of infection is much much higher. The rectum doesn’t have any defence from introduced bacteria or infections. Wearing a condom during any anal intercourse is really the only line of defence.

In Conclusion

If you are experiencing “fit” issues, try try and try again. There are so many size variations available to you. Having sex with an ill-fitting condom is really defeating its whole purpose. When condoms are loose, fluids are able to escape which can lead to potential infection. Don’t hesitate to visit any of our store locations, a friendly staff member will be happy to answer any questions and perhaps give you some condom options that might work better for you.

 

About the author: KrizPatrick BA(Hon) Psychology Human Sexuality

 

 

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Introducing Patrick Kriz To Our Blogging Team!

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Patrick Kriz – Bachelor Degree Honours- Psychology Human Sexuality

Minor in English
The adultsmart blog is pleased to welcome Patrick Kriz as a regular author.  Patrick is a wonderful man that has a wealth of knowledge and is happy to share this with those around him.  He is articulate, educated and the provider or interesting and educational writings.  Having been a regular contributor to this blog for the past couple of months he has consented to add his profile to our ever expanding list of bloggers that provide us with the great content provided to you.   We thank all our contributors and authors and a special thanks to Patrick whom we deem to be an expert on all things relating to sexual wellness and adult lifestyle with quality writings.
Welcome Aboard Partick!

ABOUT PATRICK KRIZ

Canadian born and globally raised. I was very fortunate as a youngster to travel and experience many of the gifts this wide world has to offer. For a large majority of my adolescences, my family lived in a small Mountain town in western Canada, I was the “typical” awkward gay kid who didn’t fit in. I was always ok with not fitting in, I had way more fun that way. I was never tied to a clique, I wasn’t expected to hang with certain people or made to dislike anyone. Ever since I can remember I’ve always liked talking to new people and hearing their stories.
I spent a semester of my Junior year of high school in Japan, and what an eye opening experience that was! This was probably the turning point for me, It opened my view of the world, that perhaps the views and ideologies of my hometown didn’t have to work for me, that there was more out there.As a community leader for my hometown, I was able to volunteer with my local “Community Connections” or Planned Parenthood clinic.  Here is where my eyes opened to the importance of Sexual Health. After a while of simple reception duties, I was moved into peer counselling, where I would talk with those who wanted to talk to a peer or was recommended to talk to a peer by a Dr. Everything from family issues to the matter at hand, Sexual Health.  I took the role very seriously, the vulnerability people felt when coming to the clinic, it felt good to help in whatever little capacity I was helping with at the time.
Canadian Youth Ambassador
Canadian Youth Ambassador
Finishing high school could not have happened soon enough, I was off to Spain to participate as a Youth Ambassador, representing my country and hometown. During this time I was responsible for attending conferences throughout Europe, talking about youth involvement and positive action. It was a real joy and pleasure meeting dignitaries as well as world leaders. Again meeting these people hearing their stories and ideas would form how I would make all my future social assessments and relationships. ( I, of course, didn’t realise this until later.)
During my time in Europe is really where I found my Sexuality, there were no constraints for anything I saw or wanted to do. I remember seeing for the first time, two men Kiss, and I mean KISS! There was passion, there was romance! I had never seen anything like it, in my home town this would just never happen. But it spoke to me, it told me I could do the same and I wouldn’t be lesser of a person for it.
After my time Spain and Europe it was back to Canada for me, only I was a whole new person. No longer the community golden boy. I was self-confident, self-reliant and determined to be and do whatever I wanted.
I knew I wanted a complete education, but where to start? I loved to travel, so Tourism? That lasted a few months before realising I had more experience than the Teacher. (I had worked in a hotel for 5 years throughout high school, the teacher had completed the programme and had 2 years hotel expereince.) I just felt above it and was overly sure of myself. Looking back I know now that I wasn’t challenging myself.
I spent the next couple years finding my passion, too many jobs and professions to list. It was in Late 2007 that I figured I loved helping people, I love all things health related, I was already volunteering with the Men’s Health Initiative across Canada, So I applied to the Nursing program at Thompson Rivers University(TRU) in British Columbia. I got in! As you can probably guess I didn’t stay in that programme for too long. During my first semester, i had to choose an elective to round out my schedule. This proved to be a challenge because anything I wanted to study was either during a time slot I couldn’t attend or was listed as a 2nd or 3rd-year course with pre-requisite in earlier Psych courses I hadn’t completed. I had my eyes on Psychology 255 –Sexuality with Dr Cara Zaskow. I sent her an email much like this one with my life story, telling her why I wanted into her class, and why I thoughts I’d be an asset to her class. To my surprise, she said yes, even though I hadn’t completed the two earlier Psych courses.Day one in a class filled with 3rd and 4th-year students I was debating and referencing with the best of them. I didn’t realise that my entire adult life I had been reading health articles for fun, when in fact I was actually igniting a fire for sexual health inside me.

Editor For The American Psychological Association

By the end of the first semester, I had withdrawn from the Nursing program and had registered for a Humanities Degree… I was unsure to study Anthropology or Health Sciences, I knew I wanted to study Sex, Health and People. However, in 2007 there wasn’t a lot in terms of a “Sex” degree anywhere in Canada. Thankfully TRU allowed me to develop my own degree basing it off a combination of other degrees offered by partner universities. My degree ended up only working within the Psychology department at TRU, I had no arguments for this. The next three years were full of opportunities, including an internship with the Government corrections department as a behaviour specialist for inmates. This internship solidified my lack of judgment. What I mean is, I do not place judgement onto people for their lifestyles, pending they don’t do harm to others. This is something I apply to all interactions and relationships I have in life.
Psychology Writing
American Psychologists Association
After graduating from University, I was lucky enough to be invited to contribute as an editor for the American Psychology Association. Giving me the chance to read and criticize countless papers and theory’s by fellow students and graduates. At this time I also started back with the Men’s Health Initiative in Vancouver working with Sex workers. I worked as a volunteer with rape victims for post trauma care and counselling.
2012 The travel bug was calling, I had to get away, 4 years in one country was getting under my skin and I was itching to travel again. As Australia was one of the last continents for me to have yet visited, I knew this was my time.
Oh Zone Sydney
For the last 5 1/2 years, I have been living between Australia and Canada. Working as an Editor, Writer, Consultant and a Flight Attendant (random I know, but it feeds my travel bug). I have met an amazing Aussie bloke (yes they exist) and have been sharing a life together for over 5 years. I am currently waiting for my Permanent Residency to be approved. Fingers Crossed! I was ecstatic when I saw Oh Zone in my Sydney Neighbourhood was hiring, I knew this was where I needed to be! I have been with this amazing company for just 2 months now and I am so excited with what every day brings. The new and returning customers bring me to life when we can break down their nerves and apprehensions and talk SEX! We can do a lot more than selling you a sex toy.
Thank you for taking the time to get to know a little about me.
If you are reading this and live near one of the Sydney stores I’d love for you to come in and talk to me. No question is too out there. If you live further away and have any questions, Please comment or email us!  Ask me anything, I’d love to help in any way I can.
All the Best
Patrick Kriz

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You Are What You Underwear!

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Boxers/Granny Panties

If you’re the type of person who chose to put this atrocious piece of fabric over your most intimate bits, you my friend are asking for cuddles from your pillow. Your choice of undergarment is a clear indication of how you’ve given up on yourself as a sexual being. You don’t see yourself as sexy, nor do you want to be seen as sexy by anyone else. Please think of the paramedic or hospital staff that have to cut your pants away if you are (Heaven Forbid) in an accident of some kind. They deserve some eye candy on their 12- 14-hour shift. Forget the skinny jeans, no chance of squishing all that fabric into them. If you are wearing boxers or granny panties it is a good idea to read up on how body image and self esteem impacts mental health.

Briefs/Thong

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To be blunt, you’re a bad ass with clear intentions. You’ve put on this pair of underwear that so perfectly draws attention to your smooth curve line body. You want eyes on you as you undress. You’re not ready to meet someone’s parents, but you are ready to let someone get to know you, for a brief period! If this is your everyday underwear, you’re most likely the leader of your group, confident and sure, always ready for a good time.

(Men’s Thongs- DONT DO IT! It’s just wrong unless you’re modelling for a fitness competition.)

Boxer Briefs

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You are a true blue loyal kind of person. The one all your friends turn to for help or advice. You never let anyone down. You live a carefree yet very responsible life. Forget the little things, you’re in control. Forget dating games and the “Chase” you want meaning and depth. None of this 3 am booty call or the back room of some dive bar for you. Always a lover, not a fighter. But just because your choice of underwear is relaxed doesn’t mean the sex will be. Watch out, when this relaxed underwear comes off the wild tamed beast is unleashed!

Trunks/Bikini

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You sit between style and comfort. Most likely you work a solid 9-5 every day and want to be comfortable but ready for after work drinks that just might lead elsewhere. Your job is not your dream, you’re always dreaming of being elsewhere. It’s not that you’re a lazy person, it’s that you have bigger aspirations than the mundane life you are accustomed to. You’ll probably never quite your 9-5 job and move to that tropical dreamland, you’re just too comfortable. Change is unsettling, but you won’t stop dreaming or bigger and better things.

Tighty Whities/Boy Shorts

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​Taking it back to a simpler time, when very few people saw your undergarments. You’re still living in your childhood. You’ve never left that high school gym class. You’re afraid to step outside of your shell and be the person you want to be. You think because a very very small group of people think this underwear is sexy that it’s perfect for you. You think it says you’re above caring what others might think of you, but it just screams of a child trapped in an adults body to afraid to develop a sense of self.

Jockstrap/G-String

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​Wearing these it’s very clear you enjoy the company of men. They can also help to raise your body image and self-esteem.

You have moved past the wanting to look sexy for others. Everything in your life is hyper sexual and it’s empowering. You know how sexy you are and want to dress for you. You enjoy the sexy feeling in your skimpiest underwear. This is not just your “special occasion” underwear. You’re more than proud wearing this to the grocery store. You exude confidence and are the life of every event. You’ll try anything twice and never back down from a dare. Not because you have something to prove, but because why not?

Commando

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If you regularly go commando, you’re the person who thinks because you read in Cosmo or Maxim magazine in the 00’s that it’s healthy for your bits to get some air. You’ve thrown hygiene out the window. If we went into your house I’d bet the smell of last Friday night still lingers. Your fridge has a potentially out dated milk and a few condiment bottles. Your supplement and vitamin game are probably strong because you think that’s the key to a healthy life.

I can only hope you’re doing this because your house caught fire? Maybe going to or from the gym? Even then, no! Unless your intention is to show off that VPL (If you have a P)? If so please show away!

Whatever your underwear choice is, wear it with pride. You’ll never be judged for your choice with us.

Check out the amazing collections we carry at an Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres nearest to you or at a trusted online sex toy store. We have all your favourite brands in all styles, we might even have something you’ve never tried so give it a chance!

About the author: Patrick is a consultant at the Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

 

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I Got HUGE – Using My Extender!

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Within every study from social to psychological the results are the same, a man’s confidence is directly affected by the size of his member. This could stem from any number of factors like the animalistic drive for reproduction to the instinctual competitive nature of male primates and how he compares to the average penis size. Whatever the reason is people have seen the demand and there is no shortage of “fixes” or products out there that claim to give you a bigger penis. This article isn’t going to talk about the many many many pills on the market or the endless creams that all claim will change the physical anatomy of your penis. What I am going to discuss are the mechanical devices that you physically have to administer and use in a regulated and consistent manner.

What Is a Penis Extender?

A penis extender is also known as a stretcher or a penis traction device. These devices all work using a Physics principle of traction that is most traditionally used in bone and joint surgery. If you are not familiar with traction, it’s the complex process of moving from a steady point to another point. I find it easiest to think of it as a pulling force. Like when you jump and grab a branch to pull it to the ground, the force you apply when pulling the branch down is the traction.

How Does A Penis Extender Work?

How the extender devices work is pretty much the same across the board, the cells that make up our body tissues and more specifically the penis tissues multiply when a traction force is applied. This can also be looked at as when damage is done the body then works extra to compensate for the injury or damage. This has been seen in shins, arms, and spines. When cell multiplication takes place in any situation will result in the growth or extension of the particular tissue being affected. In theory, if you apply the traction principal to the penis enlargement “crisis” the Extender Device uses a controlled, measurement of traction force from the pubis base to the head tip. In theory this will encourage the cell regrowth along the penis. It is essentially being pulled through the middle of the shaft along the Corpora Cavernosa. This is a soft tissue that can be damaged quiet easy. Extenders work by using that traction or pulling force to elongate the penis shaft for long periods of time to break down some of that soft tissue and encourage the body to repair (multiply its own cells) thus elongating the penis.

 

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Penis Extender Studies

Over the last few years, a growing number of studies have been conducted surrounding the use of these extenders. According to results I have seen conducted in Spain, all the studies published positive results with noticeable changes in those who used the device. Digging deeper into the results, it is very clear that the most noticeable changes were in correcting curvatures of the penis rather than effecting the length of the study participants.

I think it is also important to note that in those studies all participants used the devices under the supervision of trained medical professionals. If you are not familiar with the limitations of the body these devices could cause permanent damage. And that is really the opposite of what users of these devices are after. I do employ that if you are looking into these devices, please don’t read information from any sites who are directly representing an Extender brand. Read the good and the bad, it’s all important. Just because the brand or imaging for the Extender includes “DR” or “Medical” does not make it safer to use.

Penis Extender Price Range

These devices are not cheap, and not something to be purchased on a whim. It is very important that if you are a potential buyer that you do your research, come in to an Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centre and don’t be afraid to ask questions. We carry a number of different options from $150-$400. From the outside these products will look the same. They all use the same general assembly and are attached to the penis in the same general manner. However the biggest difference you will notice is the maximum measurement of traction force that can be applied. Now of course you don’t start at the highest traction. But if it’s a device you intend to use to its fullest potential, the lower price point devices will only get you so far.

Other Methods To Increase Your Penis Size

If after reading this and hopefully many articles and reviews you have decided that these devices are outside of your comfort zone, perhaps you can try the method that inspired these devices. It’s called Jelqing! I know what? Jelqing is considered the original penis extension method that involves warm water and your hand. Seems simple but there’s more to it than just that. I won’t go into it now, but something for you to look into if you’re interested. There are also various other methods to increase your penis size.

 

About the author: Patrick Kriz  BA (Hon) Psychology Human Sexuality

 

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